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Michael Benge Obituary

BENGE, MICHAEL EDWARD (a.k.a. BUZZ) Age 24, of Riverside, CA., passed away on 12/09/2006, at Riverside Community Hospital. Michael was born 01/25/1982 in California. He was employed at Pacific Southwest Concrete Construction/Concrete in Rivesride, CA. He attended Lincoln High School. Michael, a.k.a. BUZZ, had recently started to make positive changes in his life. Despite his hard outer shell he could be found hanging out with his close friends and family. He enjoyed barbecuing and listening to oldies. Hosting these barbecues gave him an excuse to spend quality time with those that he cared about. His friends and family were a big part of his life. He loved to spend time outdoors camping, snowboarding and making trips to Las Vegas. However his life may have been, the love he showed for friends, family and life will be carried with us. He will be greatly missed. Buzz is the son of the late Larry R. Benge; stepson to Bruce Shanks; son of Sissy Shanks; brother to Edward Shanks; brother to the late Denaya Shanks; grandson of Russell and Vetta Benge, George and Cathy Satkamps. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests memorial contributions to Poly High School Band in honor of his sister, Denaya Shanks. Memorial service on 12/15, 11am at Pathway Christian Church, 6755 Victoria, Riverside, CA. Services entrusted to: INLAND MEMORIAL - (951) 248-2299

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Published by The Press-Enterprise on Dec. 13, 2006.

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Celeste

December 9, 2007

Michael,
Just wanted you to know you are missed but you already know that.You are always in our hearts.Took some flowers to you and Denaya today.Today was and is a sad day,but I know that you are watching over me and those you love from above.Everyday you come to my mind countless number of times.We all miss and love you much!

MOM

October 24, 2007

Mike, your uncle pat & I went camping this past weekend (one of your favs. to do. Saw shooting star as I was thinking of how much you love fishing, camping, sitting around camp fire drinkin those beers and b.s-ing.By the way pat caught 3 fish. Shared some memories of you. Your uncle misses you so much but that you already know cuz like your sister, you are always around.
Love & miss you very much

Mom

August 12, 2007

I am always thinking of you, love you, miss you so very much.

June 8, 2007

Well son today marks 6 months since you've been gone but not once forgotten!And in your honor there will be a candlelight vigile with family & friends.
We miss you so very much.
You will always be forever in our hearts.

May 17, 2007

MIKE"BUZZ", TODAY IS A NEW DAY, A DAY THAT YOU AND DENAYA CAN FINALLY START TO REST IN PEACE. I LOVE YOU AND MISS SO MUCH. SLEEP WITH THE ANGELS MY BABY!!! HOLD YOUR BEAUTIFUL SIS ON YOUR WINGS!!! KNOW YOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY HEART!!

DALRAE REVELEZ

May 14, 2007

MIKE"BUZZ", I MISS YOU MORE THEN YOU COULD POSSIBLY KNOW. I'VE GOTTEN ALOT CLOSER TO YOUR FAMILY AND LOVE THEM ALOT. YOU WERE AND ARE SUCH A BIG PART OF MY FAMILIES LIFE......I LOVE YOU SOOO MUCH!!!!!
YOU WILL REMAIN IN MY HEART FOREVER!!!
DALRAE XOXO

May 14, 2007

Mike;
Yesterday was Mothers Day & Dads Birthday. Had a few people over to celebrate the day. Had many laughs sharing memories of good times with you & denaya. Still missed getting that big hug and kiss from you. You are in my thoughts each and every minute of the day.

Love Mom

Terri O'Leary

April 13, 2007

Mike, my big cousin... my big brother... i have so many memories of you and so many things left unsaid... I hope you know how important you were to me.. and how much I valued you in my life. I think about you and Denaya everyday... and its still hard for me to cope... to be strong. I miss you like crazy and wish I could just hear you say Sup one more time but I know that will never happen. take care of your sister up there and continue to look out for us down here... We will see again someday.. until then you will forever be with me... <3 your little cuz, Terri

brenda garbett

April 8, 2007

good morning today is Easter and a gloomy one that is im making ham will set a place for u at our dinner table with your name on it i place some flowers and a Easter egg and choclate bunny for you we love u and miss you very much may you leave a good feeling around us

MOM

April 7, 2007

I LOVE YOU & MISS YOU EVERDAY

Shanny-honey

March 22, 2007

Hey Cuz,
I feel as though there was so much left unsaid. There was so much of life that we shared both good and bad. The memories of us will never fade and this pain will never heal. You were more than a cousin, you were a friend and nearly a brother. I don't know what to do without you and Denaya. I miss you Mike. I love you and think of you daily.

Pat

March 17, 2007

Hey Mike, Its ST. PATRICKS DAY and we ended up canceling the party this year because I ended up with the flu. I had a surprise ready for all who knew you, I was going to break out and pass around the bottle of CROWN ROYAL that you drank from and left here last year. I will save it for another speacial occasion and we will drink with you again. I love you and Denaya and I miss you both! LOVE UNCLE PAT

brandon

March 14, 2007

Mike,
its been about 3 months but yet you still are a constant in my mind.I remember all the times we worked and when we played.I hope you know how much you are loved and missed.I too will stand strong and proud in both you and your sisters memory..i will miss you in ways i cant explain but all the same i feel you around, know you are watching over all that were special to you. Although i feel an emptiness that for now will remain.I will carry your memory proudly and homie i will do what i can to ensure you REST IN PEACE!!!!
FOREVER YOUR HOMIE
Brandon
meet me at the golden gates so you can let me in!!!

Celeste

February 2, 2007

Dearest Mike (Buzz),
Not a day goes by that I don't think of you. I still shed tears for you daily.I know that's not what you would have wanted,I can hear voice in the back of my head telling me to stop crying, I'm sorry I can't.I just can't get past the pain.You meant so much to my family.We miss you so much.Sometimes I think it's not real it's just a bad dream and I will wake up soon,but reality sets in.So for now my friend until we meet again I will hold the memories close to my heart.Rest in peace my friend.

Cindy Lou Figle

January 30, 2007

Michael...My memories of you are of this this cutie pie sporting only underwear playing in a kiddie swimming pool with my two daughters and some of the neighborhood kids. Your mom would bring you over to play while she and I drank coffee and chatted up the family gossip. Like with your sister, I didn't get the chance to know you in your teen and young adult life due to the 2,500 miles between us. I have been living across the country for the past 14 years. I love your mom and I know that all three of you kids have been her life. You were truly loved and will be missed. God bless you sweet child...Your cousin, Cindy Lou

MAMA

January 25, 2007

On this 25th day of January I became a mom to a beautiful boy.
Now on this same day I still celebrate but only to the many memories of past. A candle for you today has been lit in your memory, and flowers to represent a sweet smell.
May your smile shine over all your loved ones, your arms protect those close at heart.
With everlasting love;

TWEEDLE DEE & TWEEDLE DUMB

January 20, 2007

NEED I SAY MORE???

January 20, 2007

lawyer&jailbird halloween 2006

January 20, 2007

Uncle Pat

December 28, 2006

Mike, I think about you and Denaya everyday. I feel an emptyness in my heart and pieses of my soul are missing. I love you guys. I'll see you on the otherside. Love Uncle Pat

Mama

December 25, 2006

Mike;
You are my sunshine. My reason for living, for dying,laughing & crying.I miss hearing your voice, your hugs, yes even those dang jokes that(made me crazy) you pulled on me all the time. I know that you are in much safer place and are still watching over all of your family and friends that you held so dear to your heart. There are so many of us who miss you that NO words can begin to express. My heart has been broken that time could never heal but I will stand high & proud in your HONOR.

BUBBA

December 25, 2006

Mike {AKA] Buzz.It feels like a bad nightmare! Wishing to wake up from this wicked dream. Only to know what happen is true. We'll miss you very much and every time we make Carne Asda. I know you be with us and bring back all the good mamories we had. The day will come when we will get togather again and "PARTY" !!! Your Bro Bubba

Brenda Flickinger

December 25, 2006

Dear Buzz, to say goodbye would mean forever so with my heart i cant' say goodbye but until we see each other again will have to work for me i miss you so much my heart aches life not the same without you ,may you be waitting for us at the gates to help us enter, may a canle be lit and burning forever until i see you again God bless you and your sister.

Raylene Evans

December 25, 2006

Buzz
I miss you so much. Everyday I try to deal with what has happened. Your parents and little brother are what helps me keep on. We have known eachother for 10 years and have had so many good times. You touched my life in many ways and I will never forget you. From high school to adulthood we shared a friendship that nobody can take. I love you Mike and everybody misses you. Until we meet again.

Myron,Tabby,Alicia,Edward,David,and the Homies send their love.

Rebecca Evans

December 25, 2006

Mike I remember when I would take you and Raylene to school. Then one day you needed a piece of paper so you ripped a page out of my dad's Thomas Guide map book. Then my dad went to look up a street and it just so happen to be on the page you ripped out. Also when Raylene, Adam and you would just kick it out in front of our house. I miss you very much and you will never be forgotten. Here is a poem for you.

If tears could build a stairway,
And memories were a lane.
I would walk right up to heaven,
To bring you home again.

No farewell words were spoken,
No time to say good-bye.
You were gone before I knew it,
And only God knows why.

My heart still aches in sadness,
And secret tears still flow.
What it meant to lose you,
No one will ever know

Desiree Wilde

December 22, 2006

Buzz and I hung out alot. Talked on the phone he seemed to always be there when I needed him. He always made sure my daughter and I were doing ok. I loved him alot as a friend and he will be missed! Buzz rest in peace

Rebecca Benge

December 18, 2006

My big brother meant so much to me and his two nieces. He could always make me smile just by the crazy things that he would say. I love him so very much. He will be in our hearts forever. I remember when we were little riding our bikes at grandma and grandpas house. And going camping with Dad.I will always cherish these memories. Sleep with Angels Brother.I love you forever.

Janye' Lewis

December 18, 2006

Mike and I use to hang out a lot in high school. As we got older, we seen less of each other. I seen him last when he moved back to Riverside. He congratulated me on my new baby, and that seems like only yesterday. Mike will be deeply missed and my deepest sympathy goes out to his family. May you rest in peace Buzz!

Penny Myers

December 18, 2006

Buzz (Michael) will always be in my heart for he was one of my sons bestfriends since high school and always around my house I will always cherish is smile, he was like a gentale bear.

Sandie

December 17, 2006

Buzz,
I remember so many talks that we had and it makes me smile. "Hey girl can I get a frojo?" makes me laugh too. We will miss you sooooo much. At least you got to go to a pretty good place. You will never be forgotten.
Love,
Sandie

Mama Ramos

December 16, 2006

Buzz you will be missed deeply by all of us it was a pleasure to have known you like one of the kids around our house for all the those years and all the BBQ you loved to have at times at our house.You will never be forgotten.

Nancy Clark

December 14, 2006

Mike was a quiet sort, at least in the office, but he will be missed, not only for the special things he did so willingly for us, but just his presence. Rest peacefully Buzz.

David White

December 14, 2006

I had only just begun to start knowing Mike a few weeks ago. He worked with us at Pacific Southwest Concrete. What I remember of Mike from our few brief moments together was that he had a very positive-thinking mindset and a can-do attitude. He was respectful and friendly and I had hoped to get to know him better.

Spaarkle Duncan

December 14, 2006

I am sorry that I did not get the chance to meet Mike in person, though I feel I have known him through his mother and the photos in her office. Rest peacefully Buzz in the love and care of the Lord.

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