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Margaret Xenakis Obituary

Margaret Z. Xenakis, beloved wife, mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother, passed away August 5, 2020. She was predeceased by her loving husband Sabbas Nicholas Xenakis and her beautiful son, Christopher V. Xenakis.

Margaret was a loving wife and consummate mother to all her children, and "Mema," as she was affectionately known, to her grandchildren and great-grandchildren. She is survived by her children, Nicholas (Linda), Anthony (Lorie), Anna Maria, Barbara (Bryan), Vincent (Jeannie), and John; grandchildren and great-grandchildren: Michelle, Diane, Laura, Jeremiah, Jessica, Joshua, Gina, Nicholas, John, and Christopher, and their families; her brother, Anthony S. Zummo, Jr. (Lucille); and her sister-in-law Alice Zummo. She was Aunt Margie to numerous nieces and nephews, whom she loved very much. She came from a large family that put a high premium on loving relationships, and she passed that legacy on to her own family.

Margaret was a devoted Catholic and very active in her church. She had many friends, with whom she enjoyed numerous good times, and her love of cooking kept a constant flow of people wanting to partake in those meals. She was a gracious host and generous soul to all who knew her.

Margaret will be sorely missed by her family and friends.

The family would like to thank the staff at Lake Prince Woods Memory Care and Medi Hospice for their constant care.

A Mass of the Resurrection will be celebrated 12:00 noon Wednesday, August 12, at Church of the Resurrection, 3501 Cedar Ln., Portsmouth. Social distancing guidelines will be followed; please bring a mask to wear. Burial will be private. Condolences may be registered at BWFosterFuneralHome.com.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Aug. 9, 2020.

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Sheila Golden

August 13, 2020

John my condolences on your families loss. May remember all of the fun and wonderful times and memories that were made by the family!!!!

Denise Stublen Shindle

August 12, 2020

Sending hugs and prayers to your family. Your Mom was a true blessing!

Linda Porter

August 11, 2020

So sorry to hear this news. Sincere condolences, hugs and prayers to the family. RIP Margaret!

Michael HARRIS

August 11, 2020

To my Aunt/Godmother. You are inspiration to me you are always in my heart and soul. Never forgotten in my book. R.I.P to me. Always love you xoxo. I think about the good time the zummo had over the years. Especially when you use pile in station wagon and stay with Harris's. . Rest in Peace.

Doug Jones

August 11, 2020

My sincere condolences to the entire family. May God’s mercy shine upon you.

Faye Daniels

August 11, 2020

My thoughts are with you and your family at this time; may your memories bring you comfort.

“Perhaps they are not stars, but rather openings in heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy.” ~~ Eskimo Proverb

Ed Patrick

August 10, 2020

My deepest condolences to you and your family..

Stephanie Price Meade

August 10, 2020

I am so sorry for your loss. I had a good visit with Anna in July and she spoke so highly of your mom and all the wonderful things about her. It’s hard to lose a parent but she’s in Gods hands and no pain and healthy and watching down on all of you. Blessings

Stephen Gabriele

August 10, 2020

While you have gone ahead, many find memories remain. Celebrate your reunion with Sabbas and Chris. We will celebrate with you some day.

David Bovio

August 9, 2020

Although I never met her, I heard many nice things about her from Tony & Lorie. My sincere condolences to the family.

Catherine Ward

August 9, 2020

So sorry for your loss. Although I haven't seen her in years, I remember how sweet she was. Keeping your family in my thoughts and prayers.

Tom Beasley

August 7, 2020

Throughout high school and college there was never a dull moment at the Xenakis family house, I am humbled and blessed to have shared many great memories with the entire family. Moma Xenakis would cook some of best food and always had kind words for all of friends and family who entered the house. May God rest her soul, be with ALL of the family....bless them and comfort them throughout these days. Heaven is getting a Great one.....! Tom & Donna Beasley

Diane Gayle-Bowman

August 7, 2020

Barbara and Family, My heart breaks knowing the sorrow that each of are you facing during this difficult times. I am so sorry to have learned of your Mother's passing. I was honored to have met her several times. She was such a beautiful woman and so very sweet. I will hold each of you in my thoughts and prayers. Cherish each beautiful memory, for these will help mend your heart. May God grant you peace and understanding in the days to come.

Paul Harris

August 7, 2020

God Bless you Aunt Margie and your entire Xenakis family ... We all love you ....your kindness and goodness !

Aunt Margies90th

August 6, 2020

My Dearest Godmother: May you Rest In Peace in the Presence of The Lord and your blessed Family that went before you. To all of your large, beautiful family, I hope you all find comfort in knowing how loved and missed Aunt Margie will be. She was absolutely one of the sweetest , kindest and most loving woman I have ever known. She always had a kind word for everyone. Her smile will never be forgotten. My family sends their deepest sympathy to all of you. With all of our love Liz and Tom. Nicky Tommy and LouElin

John Harris

August 6, 2020

Aunt Margie had the warmest heart you ever could encounter. To this day my fondest childhood memories were provided to me by her and Uncle Nick allowing me to spend multiple summers living in her home . Taking us to the pool and church and cooking the greatest meatballs I ever had . I love my Aunt Margie and the Harris family want to honor her . Love John Harri

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