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Michael Nowakowski Obituary
Michael was born in Torrington, Connecticut to Peter and Virginia Nowakowski on October 22nd, 1952. He had four loving sisters, Ginny, Janet, Diane, and Lauren. After graduating from Torrington High School in 1970, Michael attended Ohio University. He graduated in 1974 with a Bachelor of Science in Communications. He then entered the Navy via Officer Candidate School in Newport, RI and was commissioned as an Ensign.
Michael met his beloved wife, Marsha, while at an Officer's Club in Virginia Beach, VA. They married in 1977 and would spend the next 45 years inseparable, despite numerous deployments and time at sea over Michael's extensive Naval career. Marsha was his best friend and partner in life. Together they had two children, Amy and Mike. Michael was undeniably proud of his family and his commitment to those he loved was unwavering.
Michael also had an extended family that was the U.S. Navy. There he successfully led and mentored thousands of Marines and Sailors, fostered lifelong friendships, and traveled the world. Michael had a remarkable Naval career as a Surface Warfare Officer. He left behind a tremendous legacy as a two-star Admiral with significant contributions to his country in his 33 years of service.
Michael earned his Master of Business Administration from Hofstra University as well as a Master's Degree in National Security Strategy from the National War College. After his retirement from the Navy in 2007, he held a position as Vice President, Defense Contracts at Colonna's Shipyard in Norfolk, VA. Michael also served as a senior mentor at the U.S. Naval War College.
We are proud to call Michael our husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle, cousin, shipmate, and friend. He has left an imprint on all our hearts, and we will miss him greatly.
Michael is survived by his wife, Marsha; his daughter and son-in-law Amy and Edwin Manley; son Michael Jr; grandchildren Julia and Grace Manley; sisters, aunt, multiple cousins, nieces and nephews.
Future burial at Arlington National Cemetery and Memorial service to be set at a later date.
In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to the Fisher House Foundation https://fisherhouse.org/ in honor of Michael.
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Tracy Richardson, CSCS(SW), USN, (Ret.)
August 28, 2022
It was my honor to serve on his Staff. He was a great leader and mentor. My sincerest condolences.
Richard Titi CAPT, USN (Ret.)
May 21, 2022
I served with Mike aboard the USS BIDDLE `78-`79. He was the ship´s Terrier Missile Officer, but he taught me how to be a good CDO. He seemed smart about investing and had a neat Jeep. We ran into each other as Captains and in retirement years. He was always good with humor and great at taking care of people. I am sure he is in God´s company, having served his faithful mission here. Deepest sympathies to Marsha, Amy, and Mike Jr.
Phil Nebiolo
May 15, 2022
Mike was a High School classmate of mine (THS '70). We were often in the same room together as our last names began with the same letter. Mike had a great sense of humor ! My sincere condolences to his family.
Barbara Sekulski
May 14, 2022
Mike was my classmate (THS '70) and I was happy to catch up with him at our 45th reunion. He was a great guy with a wonderful sense of the absurd; something we had in common. He will be missed. My sincere condolences to you.
James D Carpenter
May 10, 2022
My sincere condolences to the family. It was my honor to serve with him on USS Gunston Hall.
Thom & Peggy Crabtree
May 8, 2022
Marsha, please accept our most sincere sympathy on Mike´s passing. He was a dear friend and fine Naval Officer. You both taught what true Navy Family really meant. Don´t hesitate to call if you need anything. Thom & Peggy
Harry and Karen Murphy
May 8, 2022
Rest well our friend. I was a better officer and person for serving with you.
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