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Gina
November 23, 2024
I miss doing Ancestry with you & looking at the Colledemacine records with you. I miss talking about adoption with you too.
Jane Beavers
March 16, 2023
One of my most favorite memories of Ned was when he signed his book for me he wrote love Ned and he said I never say that to anyone but you! What an honor! I learned so much from Ned on the many bird counts especially at Christmas that we had together. He was so very special and missed all the time! RIP my friend and hope the birds are singing for you!
Joelle Buffa
April 22, 2021
I never met Ned. Yet he nonetheless impacted my life. When my husband and I moved to the Eastern Shore of Virginia from the west coast, two books he edited (Virginia’s Birdlife and Shorebirds at Chincoteague) helped us tremendously in learning the birds in our new home. As an eBird reviewer, Nick had an unusual respectful and enlightening way of correcting suspected mistaken bird identifications. During the eight years we conducted weekly shorebird surveys at Chincoteague NWR we often sought his opinion on unusual sightings, which he generously shared. My most poignant memory of Nick however occurred after his untimely death. Last month I walked on the same Ecuadorian path where Nick took his last bird walk. The trail winds through a beautiful forest along a ridge with breathtaking views of endless mountain ranges and valleys in the distance. A pair of Golden-plumed Parakeets was surveying the scene from a perch near their nest hole. As we waited in a bird-blind for the Jocotoco Antpitta - a very special bird that Nick was seeking – the local guide painfully recounted some of the events of that day. He wanted Nick’s family and friends to know that he felt deeply the loss of this special person who had treated everyone at the Lodge with such kindness. To the very end Nick was profoundly influencing the people and places he touched. It’s a pity that I never met Ned in person. But I am grateful I experienced his essence. Photos of this area in Ecuador will shared with the family upon request.
Ted kozlowski
February 26, 2021
We just learned of Ned's passing and we are just shocked. We met him when he worked at the Cape Charles Hotel years ago and immediately befriended him. He was the first to welcome us last year when we purchased a house in the Cape and joined us with some wine and great conversation. I thought we would share more good times over the years. I hope you rest in a great place with all the things that made you happy. We will miss you friend.
Diana Tyrrell Suchla
February 24, 2021
Ned was an old friend and classmate. We grew up together and while we lost touch for some time, we reconnected years ago as friends on Facebook. He showed up unexpectedly at my mother's funeral and seeing a friendly face from the past was one of the most touching things I remember about that day. Ned was not just brilliant, he was thoughtful and he was dear. I feel his loss deeply, not just as his friend, but because I know how his kind actions touched others in so many ways. Sending my deepest condolences to Mary and to all who knew and loved him -
Mary Conrad
January 22, 2021
Saddened to read this! What an accomplished man with a great personality. While he truly loved, cared for and praised constant gratitude on his parents, later on in life, he searched for his birth parents. He put birding aside and dedicated time toward this goal, which he achieved. R.I.P. Ned. I was happy to know you and be part of that search. . ❤❤❤
liana fleming
January 8, 2021
ciao, Ned. The birds no longer sing.
Jack Russell
December 31, 2020
Ned’s story is written so well here. It captured the essence of Ned completely and perfectly. I smiled and I cried as I read it. It was always great to see Ned during our annual Cape Charles visits. We would pick right up with a conversation that we had the year before. Seamlessly. Ned never forgot anything - especially names. He always greeted our dogs by name. Ned was the most gentle of souls. Gentle will always be the word I remember him by. He said so much often without speaking a word. That’s the mark of a gentleman and he was. What a beautiful life. What a wonderful being. What a teacher Ned was.
Ginamarie dattilo
December 20, 2020
Ned - getting to know you and finding out we were cousins led us on an amazing journey thank you so much.
Terry Harrison
December 20, 2020
Ned happily filled a no-show space on our Ethiopia Field Guides tour last year. Although he wasn't officially a leader, he was a dedicated second-in-command with sharp ears and eyes. He was good company and we had lots of fun. He and I shared a preference for Ethiopian coffee during our pit stops and later could laugh about the green pigeon who left a memento on his head in Lallibella. My husband and I had hoped to be able to attend one of his future tours, and although we knew him for a very short time feel a great loss for us and Field Guides.
Joanne Laskowski
December 16, 2020
During our August shorebird surveys at Chincoteague National Wildlife Refuge in 2018, Ned accompanied us on every one. I could mention his birding acumen and the wonderful camaraderie we shared during those all day 29 mile drives. But I’d like to share one incident that stands out for me. I had just finished driving on the beach, my husband Hal had just left the truck to move plastic cones so I could exit the beach into the parking lot and Ned remarked that I was an excellent beach driver. I put the truck in gear and promptly ran over an orange cone! Boy, did we laugh!
His laughter was wonderful as was he. Will look for you along the beach, Thalassoica!
Tiziana Di Nizio
December 9, 2020
I was shocked to hear of Ned's passing. I never met him but shared the same love he had to find his heritage. Every time I pass by the town of Colledimacine (CH) in Italy I think about his family history. From now on Colledimacine will be Ned Brinkley.
Riposa in pace, Ned!
Gerard Phillips
December 8, 2020
I never met Ned, but felt I knew him through the seasons. He educated me, “in absentia”, about White-tailed Eagle identification. He liked two quite revealing posts on my FB account. One being a photo of a Eastern Cottontail stretching skyward to eat a tiny flower. The other, my hailing Beck’s album “Morning Phase” (mostly a dark album all told), just after it had won a Grammy. A trivial connection at the best of times, but it was during a time while he still seemed to be grieving,...a time when I undoubtedly still was. “Your heart is a drum, beating time with everyone.” Thank you and rest peacefully Ned!
Judy Vogan Boone
December 4, 2020
I was deeply saddened to read of Ned’s passing. The Brinkleys were my beautiful, kind next door neighbors on Mowbray Arch for the 12 years that I lived there. I remember Ned, from the time that he was a child, until he went on to UVA as a Jefferson Scholar. As a progressive, I remember being so impressed with his activism. Ned was a sweet, curious and precocious child. He adopted one of the puppies from my dog and named it Jespah. After his mom’s passing, I sent him an email message and received a lovely response. I was deeply impressed reading of his accomplishments, in his obituary. What a life!
Dear Mary, I am so sorry for your profound loss. I will be thinking of you in the coming days.
wes and susan brown
December 3, 2020
a heart-breaking loss
Anna Stunkel
December 1, 2020
Ned was one of the kindest, most inspiring people I have ever met. I will never forget the day when he took me wading out into a marsh to find a Sedge Wren, the wonderful migration flights shared from the Kiptopeke platform, and the many times when I ran into him by happy chance while birding around the Eastern Shore, among other beautiful memories. Ned's incredible knowledge, huge heart, endless curiosity, and great sense of humor will be so missed. Rest in peace, Ned.
Paige Fillion
December 1, 2020
Sending love to Ned’s wide web of family and friends. The universe doesn’t give us many people like Ned. Such a great loss. Again, much love to his people.❤
Loretta Petti & Family
December 1, 2020
Ned was one of the nicest men we have ever known. He was kind and caring, generous in all ways; and we were blessed to have had him in our lives. Ned will be truly missed.
Brooke Vandervelde
December 1, 2020
A light has gone out. Ned changed me forever, from the first weeks that I knew him.
H. Lee Halterman
December 1, 2020
I didn't know Ned but this memoriam speaks of a great spirit and of a man -- a human -- who knew that all of nature is connected and we must cherish, treasure and protect her bounty and her beauty. My thoughts to him and his family -- and to the avian community he served. Lee Halterman, Fredericksburg, VA
Barbara O'Hare
November 30, 2020
As a neighbor in Cape Charles and an amateur birder, I was lucky to get to know Ned somewhat. He was friendly, funny and always willing to share his knowledge. One distinct memory of Ned was during a whimbrel watch. There was a group of us, many with our 8x42 binoculars, waiting to see a flock overhead. "Here comes one" says Ned, and he had already counted the 100 plus whimbrels with his super-powered scope before I could see the smudge of the flock in the sky. Quite an amazing person!
John Rowlett
November 30, 2020
I lived on Rosser Lane in Charlottesville when Ned was teaching in the German department at UVa. One May 4th I ran into him on the Grounds, telling him that I'd been celebrating his birthday that morning with 25-30 singing Cape May Warblers along the very street where he'd lived when he was an undergraduate. He was staggered at the report of such a number of Cape Mays singing from the tulip poplars, lounging as they are wont to do in the large, nectar-rich flowers that almost engulf them. He couldn't free himself to come by that morning, but the following day he parked in front of the house and walked around the neighborhood. He called me later to tell me he was astonished to hear so many on a fifteen-minute walk around the block. From that day onward we celebrated his birthday by checking in with each other on the delightful longevity of Cape Mays! For us May Day was the festive May 4, the anniversary of his birth, of my daughter's marriage, and of that song-inflected plethora of migrating Cape Mays. He never let me forget it.
Brian Taber
November 30, 2020
I was sitting on the Kiptopeke Hawkwatch platform before sunrise when I read the email about Ned's passing. It's a special place where I've spent time with Ned and other birders watching the spectacular fall bird migration. I always listened carefully to Ned's observations and I learned so much from him, not just about birds, but life's many other issues as well. He was smart, caring and fun to be around. He was a valuable Advisor to the non-profit wildlife organization we were part of. Rest in Peace.
Patty Bailey
November 29, 2020
I worked at Bank of America in Cape Charles and remember Ned coming in. He would always have a smile on his face. When I was anxiously awaiting the birth of my first grandchild, He came into the bank and gave me a book to give to my granddaughter. It was the Reader's Digest Pathfinders Birds. I thought this was the sweetest thing and have treasured it ever since. He wrote an inscription inside to my granddaughter and he said, "For Kaylei, You're living in the prettiest place on God's green earth for watching the birds. Bless you." I am so sad to hear this but , Ned, I hope you are forever watching the birds. Bless you.
Norie Quintos
November 29, 2020
Ned, I knew you were something special back when I met you when we were 17 year olds at a Governor’s School program in Virginia where every person was smart, but you had additional wit, wisdom, and warmth. We lived in the same dorm at UVa and ran around in different groups but you let me rope you into taking a Swahili class with me when the professor said she couldn’t teach just one student. We didn’t have too much contact in the years after college, but when we did we’d fall right back to where we’d left off. I’m so glad Bob (Britt) and I came to visit you in 2013, and will never forget the rollicking tour you gave us, capped by a road trip into the marshes in Eric (Mazur)’s car to witness the whimbrel migration. And a month or two ago, I didn’t know when we spoke on the phone that it would be the last. As always with you, it was a great time. Here’s to a great human. I sure will miss you.
Nancy Packard
November 29, 2020
I'm sorry to hear of his passing. What a great guy.
Laura Gonzalez
November 29, 2020
He was a unique and remarkable human being. He always had a smile and kind words for every person he came in contact with. I will always remember him with nothing but good memories. I love you my friend.
Chip Watson
November 29, 2020
The first time I meet Ned he walked in my office and said we have something in common.I am a professor at UVA and I understand your three sons graduated from there. I need a place to live. At the time I had a small carriage house for lease that he said would be fine.I asked him to send me his resume which he did.The next day I received it and saw that he spoke seven languages. When he came in I said Ned sorry but you are over qualified. He leased the place and we had a long friendship. Several years later he came to me and said I need a office to write a book. I had a small office over looking the Chesapeake Bay which he said would be perfect. Over the years we had contacts in many fields. He would love to come in my Hardware Store and buy Cape Charles hats in many colors to take on his trips and give to friends. The most I saw of Ned were the years he spent at Hotel Cape Charles where he was a gracious host. Of the fifty years I spent in business in Cape Charles I can truly say that Ned brought more to the town than any one I know.
Teo Cusmina
November 29, 2020
You will be forever missed dear friend. Thank you for all the encouraging words and hugs when going through hard times. I will miss our talks about the different cultures and travels and aw... how much fun we used to have bartending together. You were special to me and you will be forever in my heart. Fly high dear friend...we will see you in every bird
Robert King
November 29, 2020
I did not know him, but how I wish I had. I think Ned and I would’ve shared the philosophy that life is an aesthetic event, live beautifully and die beautifully. What a tragedy though that he has passed. My heart felt sympathy goes out to those close Ned.
Emily Harkins Filer
November 29, 2020
Ned’s life was a model for all of us to appreciate each other, nature (especially birds), and education. I was a friend of Kate and Stan so I got to know Ned and Mary through them. He was a loving and appreciative son. I used to go to Canada in the summertime. One of the young men there used to come to the Eastern Shore every year to be on a tour with Ned. My deepest condolences and love to Mary and their family. He was the best, taken too soon. With love, adieu. Emily Harkins Filer
Jeremy Click
November 29, 2020
Ned was a great man, funny, sweet, kind, adventurous, and genuine, I am lucky to have known him.
Gary M. Williamson
November 29, 2020
I met Ned Brinkley through the Cape Henry Audubon Society in the late 1970’s when he was a teenager. We participated in many Audubon Christmas Bird Counts together during the 1980’s and 1990’s. One especially stands out in my memory from the late 1990’s. I was Chief Ranger at False Cape State Park in Virginia Beach and I gave Ned a ride in the park pick-up truck during the Back Bay Christmas Bird Count. We covered a lot of ground in short order and documented an impressive list of birds. I used to see him at the Kiptopeke Hawk Observatory during the Fall raptor migration. The last time I saw Ned was during the Eastern Shore Birding Festival while I was manning a table for the Nature Conservancy at the Cape Charles Fire Station. He will surely be missed by his many friends. I was glad to have him as a Facebook friend.
Joe Broderick
November 29, 2020
Ned was a wonderful man. Soar like an eagle
Nancy Kehrer
November 29, 2020
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
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