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Robert Stuhlman Obituary

Bob Stuhlman passed away Wednesday, March 2, 2022, in Virginia Beach at the age of 73. Bob was born Feb 4th, 1949, to Doreen & Harold Stuhlman in Brooklyn, NY. He was a graduate of the US Naval Academy, class of 1971. He earned master's degrees from the Naval Postgraduate School, Naval War College, and Old Dominion University.

Bob was predeceased by his parents and his youngest sister, Kathy.

He is survived by his wife, Susan Stuhlman, of 45 years, two children Brett and his wife Michelle of Virginia Beach, Gregory and his wife Madeleine of Atlanta, his grandchildren Carter, Avery, and Hayes, and his sister Leslie and her husband Jerry.

Bob served in the Navy for twenty-three years. His time flying helicopters brought him great joy. His career in education began as an instructor at the Air Force Academy. Upon retiring, he taught in the Virginia Beach School Division for 23 years.

He enjoyed participating in the boys' lives by coaching every single sport they played. After retiring from his teaching career, he spent many years fishing with his friends in the Virginia Beach Anglers Club.

A memorial service will be planned for early summer. In lieu of flowers, please consider a contribution to one of his favorite charities: The Naval Academy Alumni Association, Toys for Tots, or the Virginia Beach ASPCA.

Condolences may be expressed to her family by visiting www.vacremationsociety.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Mar. 6, 2022.

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Morris Steen

June 16, 2022

I am deeply saddened by Bob's passing. We served together in HC-6 and HM-16. He was an outstanding officer and aviator, highly respected by all who knew him. My sincere condolences to Susan and family!

Danny Hilliard

March 8, 2022

Stuhlman Family-please know that your family is in our thoughts and prayers during this time as we are all very sad to hear of Mr. Stuhlman´s passing. I have such great memories of him and can´t thank him enough for all he did for KBBB and Chiefs football while working the chains with my Dad. He will be missed dearly. God bless all of you and stay strong as know our Lord and Savior is with you all.

Cathy and Rich Whittecar

March 8, 2022

Our sincere condolences to your family. So very sorry for your loss.

Max Kalafat

March 8, 2022

My deepest sympathy.
Bob was a great guy.....except during my plebe summer of 1969 when he was the upper class man in charge! .... I think he was just following orders since he was really a nice guy in disguise.

Seriously, he was a great friend and shipmate. It was my pleasure to have served with him in HC - 6 all those years ago.
To his lovely wife Susan and family, may God bless and comfort you in your loss.

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