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Tommie Buckelew Obituary

At her home, with her family at her side, Tommie Lou Buckelew passed away on October 9, 2020 in her 92nd year. Tommie was the beloved wife of the late Oscar Buckelew and the much-loved mother of Nell Armstrong (Bill), Mary Buckelew, Patricia Mayo (Al) and Janet Heath (Matt).

She was the devoted grandmother of John Donahoo, Jr., Eric and Elliott Armstrong, Zachary Mayo, Alison Scott, Jessica Yip and Alex Heath and the great-grandmother of Tanner, Josh and Jane Donahoo, Lila and Maren Scott, Lillian Armstrong and Ari Yip. Tommie leaves a legacy of caring, sharing and love for family and neighbors. These were values instilled by her parents, Thomas and Rosa Wakefield.

Tommie and her twelve siblings were raised on her family's farm located in the hills of Nauvoo, Alabama. It was on the farm where she developed a kind and sharing heart, her independent spirit, a strong work ethic and self-sufficient determination. Tommie is survived by three of her 12 siblings: DeeBart Wakefield, Christine Dodson and Connie Seales.

There will be a family burial at Forest Lawn Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Union Mission or the Norfolk SPCA. Condolences may be offered to the family at www.hollomon-brown.com.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Oct. 11, 2020.

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Christine Keough Floyd

October 12, 2020

On behalf of the entire Keough family, we wish to express our deepest condolences to you all. Our families have been neighbors for 47 years, and we all hold a special place in our hearts for your sweet mom. We all loved to see her smiling face, whether strolling or riding her bike around the neighborhood back in the day, or conversations and catching up across the fence. I so wish our children could experience having neighbors like we had growing up-so special and so rare these days. Mrs. Buckelew was loved and will be greatly missed!

Jill cox ( Mouser)

October 11, 2020

Dear family,
I Just wanted to tell you how sorry I am to learn the loss of your mom. We were neighbors at a time that neighbors really knew each other. We have home movies of sack races & egg races of your family & ours. Mrs. Buckelew was sweet & kind. I pray for you to find comfort.
Sincerely,
Jill Mouser Cox

Joanna Genry

October 11, 2020

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Barbara Cochrane

October 11, 2020

Mrs. Buckelew was such a sweet lady! My brother, Jimmy Cochrane, who was her neighbor for may years, and I send our deepest condolences. We will hold your family in our prayers. - Barbara Cochrane

Craig Wakefield

October 11, 2020

We will miss you so much Aunt Tommie. You will always bring a smile to me every time i think of you.

Linda Powers Linda

October 11, 2020

Nell, I m sorry to hear of your Mom's passing She was a very sweet person. You are in my prayers. Linda Lindquist Powers

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