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Brian Shallenberger Obituary
METAMORA - Brian E. Shallenberger, 53, of Metamora passed away at 6:38 a.m. Friday, Jan. 17, 2014, at his home.
He was born Jan. 23, 1960, in Peoria to Donald and Lenora Joy (Parnham) Shallenberger. He married Trudy K. Burton in Peoria in 1995. She survives.
Also surviving are his mother of East Peoria; daughter, Emily; and his father and mother-in-law, George and Sue Burton of Groveland.
He was preceded in death by his father; son, Dylan; and brother, Steve.
Brian was a hard worker, working for the city of East Peoria Public Works Department for 35 years, starting the day after high school. He was a member of the Teamsters Local 627.
He enjoyed touring the country on his Harley and driving his GTO. Brian's main love was spending time with his family and friends, and he will be dearly missed by all who knew him.
Visitation will be from 5 to 8 p.m. Wednesday, Jan. 22, 2014, at Remmert Funeral Home in East Peoria. Celebration of life services will start at 5 p.m. Thursday at the East Peoria Boat Club. Cremation will be accorded, with burial of ashes in Hirstein Cemetery in Morton at a later date.
Memorials may be made to an education fund for Emily at the Morton Community Bank.
Online condolences may be made at www.remmertfuneralhome.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Brian Shallenberger
Brenda Hughes
February 12, 2014
See ya Brian at the Pearly Gates,
Love B.J. Hughes and Family?
Joel Foster
February 2, 2014
Dear Trudy and Joy I am so very sorry,Brian was a good guy!
Toni (Armbruster)Johnson
January 30, 2014
Dear Trudy,
I only learned of Brian's death last weekend, and it instantly took me back twenty years. It's such a long time to love someone, and I just pray that you take each day as it comes. Allow yourself time to cry, but don't be consumed with it. I am so sorry for your grief.
Toni (Armbruster) Johnson
Amy & Dylan Innis
January 28, 2014
Emily and Trudy,
Just wanted to let you know how sorry we were to hear of Brian's passing.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you both.
January 28, 2014
Dear Shallenberger Family,
Words may not express how sorry I was to see Brian's passing. He is now with our Heavenly Father in Heaven. Brian was a very good customer of mine and I will miss him and never forget him. He was a very nice man.
Sincerely Yours,
Eric J. Grimm
German-Bliss Eq.Co.
Jerry & Kim Traylor
January 24, 2014
Trudy and Emily,
Your both in our thoughts and prayers, we'll miss Brain a lot. We always enjoyed being in his company, he was such a happy person. He'll be greatly missed.
Kelly Mignogna (Shallenberger)
January 23, 2014
Aunt Joy, Trudy, Emily, I am so saddened by Brains passing. My favorite childhood memories include You Aunt Joy and Uncle Don and Brain and Steve. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Ginger Deissler
January 23, 2014
Ive been thinking about you alot Trudi. I am so sorryl about Brian, what a wonderful man he was. I hope you let all your wonderful friends help you through this terrible grief, and if you ever need to talk give me a call. Take care and ill pray for you and your family.
January 22, 2014
Trudy and Emily,
I think I speak for the whole Public Works gang when I say each day without Brian has been the worst! You don't realize how much someone brightens your day until they are not there. You two were his world-thank you for letting us all be part of it. Please lean on us for whatever you need. We love you - your PW family
Tricia Hosbrough
January 22, 2014
Trudy and Emily,
My heart truly aches for your loss. I will continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers. May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Ron Coombs
January 22, 2014
Trudy. You and Emily are in our thoughts as you go through this difficult time. Sue and I wish to express our sincere condolences. I was fortunate to work with Brian for a number of years and can attest to his being a good, honest and hard working man. He will indeed be missed by all who knew him. Ron & Sue Coombs
Allen Fort
January 22, 2014
Trudy and family, so sorry to hear of your loss, thinking of you all in this difficult time. Allen Fort and family
William Curtis
January 22, 2014
sending my Condolences to the Shallenberger & parnham Family new Brian and Steve well Sorry to hear of his passing He will be missed :GOD SPEED" BROTHER R I P!...............
Joy, Don, Brian
Cyndi Pettow
January 22, 2014
Don, Joy, Brian & Steve
Cyndi Pettow
January 22, 2014
Walter, Amy, Dexter, Olivia Carter
January 22, 2014
Brian was a wonderful person loved by all who knew him. Brian was a quiet, strong, caring, funloving person. He was my brother-in-law but I thought of him as my brother. Brian will be missed. Trudy, Emily, and Joy please let me know if there is anything I can do to ease your pain and know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.
January 22, 2014
Trudy & Emily, words cannot express our sadness and sorrow about Brian's passing. He was such a great man, always smiling and having a great time! You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Kirk & Carmen Wallace
Mark Moline
January 22, 2014
Trudy, my thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
January 22, 2014
The world has lost a very genuine ,loving & friend,dad,husband & son. Trudy,Emily & Joy so sorry for your pain. All of you have been in my thoughts & prayers. God Bless you all.
Donna Sheldon
January 21, 2014
In loving memory of a wonderful person. Brian will be missed.
Lynn Richmond
January 21, 2014
Trudy, so sorry for your loss. With deepest sympathy.
January 21, 2014
Trudy & Emily I am so very sad that my brother-in-law, my good buddy Brian is gone. He was respected and loved by many, and will be greatly missed the world will be a less brigther place without him. You & Emily are in our thoughts and prayers we will always be here for you.
Steve & Kris Gladson
Tony & Tricia Davis
January 21, 2014
Trudy & Emily,
You are in our thoughts and prayers. Brian will be truely missed he was a very special person to many.
Tony, Kim & Kyle McMurtry
January 21, 2014
There are no words to express how deeply saddened we are at Brian's passing. We have shared so many fun times together and will cherish the memories always. Please know that we are here if you need anything. We love you.
Karen Stuart
January 21, 2014
Trudy and Family, I am so sorry for your loss. Brian was a sweet man with a big heart. He always had a smile on his face. A true friend to everyone who knew him. He will be greatly missed. May your memories of him always bring you comfort.
January 21, 2014
Dear Joy,
My heart goes out to you during this difficult time. Brian and I were friends in high school. I remember Porker, as well. My brother, Butch, and Porker used to run together. I remember babysitting Porker's son and how much your family meant to us. I am so sorry for your lost. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers at this time.
Deanna Wyman (East Peoria)
Jeff&Tammy Moulton
January 21, 2014
Trudy our thoughts and prayers are with you, Brian will be missed by many.
January 21, 2014
Dear Joy , Our heartfelt condolences for the loss of your son Brian. Love, Karin & John Bumgarner
Tamara Dobbs
January 21, 2014
You were a big part of my story early on Brian I'm sorry you lost a child and a sibling plus your father before you made your crossing. Your with them now and at peace. I send prayers of peace mind and healing to your family. May the angels comfort your wife, mother and most importantly your young daughter.
Ed and Rikki Lorance
January 21, 2014
Rikki and I would like to express our heartfelt condolences to Trudy, Emily, and the rest of Brians family. Brian was a very unique guy, who always had a smile and handshake when saw you, or a friendly hug for the ladies. He was a great father, husband, and friend . He will be missed by many, many people whose lives he touched. Rest in peace my friend, and ride forever free !
Mike Brix
January 20, 2014
Trudy & Emily. , I am so sorry to hear about Brian. Oh my do i have so many good memories of working at the Blue Max and hanging out in the garage in East Peoria !!! Lots of prayers coming your way !! Mike Brix & Family
Richard Miller
January 20, 2014
I'm so sorry for your loss, I remember going to the motorcycle races with the shallenburgers...we're all going to miss flyin Brian 164
January 20, 2014
Trudy,Emily, & Joy
So very sorry and shocked at youens loss. Brian sure was a great guy and will be missed greatly. Youens are in our Prayers. Bob and Cheryl Kern
Julie Campbell
January 20, 2014
Trudy and Emily I am so sorry for your loss. Brian was a great friend and was a great person.My thoughts and prayers are with you
dave haskins
January 20, 2014
I am so sorry for your loss. I worked with him at the city years ago and he was a great guy.
Bob Woolsey
January 20, 2014
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
RANDY D
January 20, 2014
TO A GOOD FRIEND YOU WILL BE MISSED.
Tony,Dawn & Austin Ingles
January 20, 2014
Trudy and Emily, we are so sorry to hear about Brian's passing!!! You are in our thoughts and prayers...love you guys!!
Deborah. StarWalt
January 20, 2014
Trudy and Emily I m sorry for your loss . My cousin Brian was a special guy as I was growing up. We all vacationed together and he even picked me up in Alexis when he raced down here in Casey. I froze in the back of his can with the motor cycle but it was great. I'm really going to miss him.
Joy Lucas
January 20, 2014
I am so sorry for your loss Trudy, Emily, Joy, George & Sue and family, my thoughts and prayers go out to you. You could not ask for a better friend. He brought a smile to everyone! I will carry him in my heart with all the good memories as will everyone that knew him. God Bless and keep everyone strong. We lost one of the best guys you could ever know. Love you Brian <3
Alicia Baldwin
January 20, 2014
Trudy and family, I am so sorry for your loss.My prayers are with you during this very difficult time. Brian was a great guy with a BIG heart.Brian will be missed by so many...
Rusty Thompson
January 20, 2014
Brian….you will be sorely missed by all who knew you. Over 40 years of friendship between us…Growing up on "the hill" playing ball with brother Steve "Porker", riding dirt bikes, and more recent our Harley's. God seems to always take the good ones! Well this time he took a good one from us all! God Bless Trudy, Emily and Mom!!
Vicky Brinker
January 20, 2014
He was truly a gentle giant, your family are in my prayers
The Human Resources Team -Cope Plastics, Inc.
January 20, 2014
Trudy -
You are in our thoughts and prayers during this very hard time. You have our deepest sympathy.
Scott Schwab
January 20, 2014
I met Brian during the summer of '90 and spent many summers working with him and the guys in the water department. I was a cocky, bulletproof college kid; yet Brian was patient with me. He knew when to talk and when to listen. He took pride in being good at his job, but he also took pride in living life.
Douglas Dotson
January 20, 2014
Joy and family, our most sincere thoughts and prayers go out to you. Margaret and Doug Dotson...
Cecilia Workman
January 20, 2014
Thoughts and prayers for everyone
Jamie Hammons
January 20, 2014
Trudy, Emily, and family, so deeply sorry for your loss. Brian was such a wonderful man. He will be missed by everyone who had the pleasure of meeting him. Your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Lisa Brown
January 20, 2014
Aunt Joy,Trudy and Emily,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.Brian will be missed by many.Aunt Joy and Uncle Don's was a second home.So many wonderful childhood memories with Brian and Steve.With our deepest sympathy.
Roby and Lisa Brown
Banjo and Colleen Bailey
January 20, 2014
Trudy, Emily, and Brian's Mom,,
No words can express how shocked and saddened we were to learn of Brian's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. If there is anything we can do for you don't hesitate to let us know.
Jason Park and family
January 20, 2014
So sorry to hear about Brian, what a neat guy!
Randy & Kelly (Seidel) Melvin
January 20, 2014
Truly sorry for your loss, Brian will be missed by all and forever. Trudy & Emily, our thoughts and prayers are with you always. RIP Brian
Paula Smith
January 20, 2014
Trudy,Emily&Joy. My words are not enough. I am so sorry for your loss. Brian was an awesome friend. He will be missed by many. I love you ! R.I.P.Brian . And say hi to Timbo for me.....
tracy jones
January 20, 2014
Sorry for your loss he was a super nice guy will miss seeing him down town bike show and at the races
Lyle Cruse
January 20, 2014
So very sorry Trudy for the loss of Brian. He was a pretty good ol guy and will missed .Please yell if there's anything we can do..
HD Supply Waterworks
January 20, 2014
Our sincere condolences to the family. He will be missed.
Steve & Elaine Riexinger
January 20, 2014
Trudy,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss, you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Mike and Yvonne Park
January 20, 2014
Our deepest condolences to you and your family Trudy.
Ginny Shallenberger
January 20, 2014
Trudy, Emily, and Joy, I am so sorry for your loss. I have wonderful memories of when the kids were all young and we all hung out together watching Brian and Steve race their motorcycles. My girls and I often mentioned the fun we used to have with all the aunts and uncles and cousins. We have missed that over the years. Love to all and our deepest sympathy and prayers. Aunt Ginny
Mary (Muggs) (Shallenberger) Knupp
January 20, 2014
Trudy, Emily and Aunt Joy, I am so sorry and so sad of Brian's passing. I remember so many great times spent with all the family at the motorcycle races, vacations, and all the get togethers. he will always be loved and missed. My thoughts and prayers will always be with you
Gay Lynne Brinkley
January 20, 2014
Trudy, I am very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Bonnie Bennett
January 20, 2014
Dear Trudy I am so sorry to hear of Brians passing, Though I didnt know him well Ive known you since high school and can only wish this was not something you would have to go thur so early in life.. We girls love you very much and will be by your side from here on out... Love Bonnie Bennett
Audrey Allen
January 20, 2014
My deepest sympathy to all. Brian will surely be missed. I always enjoyed talking to him whenever I saw him. Will miss looking to see if he is one of the drivers in the city trucks. Love and prayers, Audrey
hall family
January 20, 2014
though dad is gone now to, i will say as a family who knew you for many years and worked with you...r.i.p. brian...i hope you and dad meet in heaven and talk about old times....jimmie hall's family..
Butch Williams
January 20, 2014
RIP my friend, you will be missed, prayers to Trudy and Emily.
January 20, 2014
Trudy and Emily, Words cannot express how sorry we are for you loss. Brian was a friend to many and will never be forgotten. Traci Traylor, Scottie Evans and Jerry Traylor
Amber Miller (Smith)
January 20, 2014
Trudy and Emily
I am so very sorry that you are going through this. It is a very hard time I know. Brian was a great man and will always be in our hearts. I love you both. Thoughts and prayers to you. ?
John Thrall
January 19, 2014
Our Deepest Condolences. Brian was always a light in a dark world, RIP my friend.
Lori Lynn
January 19, 2014
So very sorry for your loss to all of you
brice parnham
January 19, 2014
youll be missed dad says rip
Cindy (Wiley) Elton
January 19, 2014
Aunt Joy, Trudy and family, I am so sorry to hear about Brian. I remember baby sitting him and Steve when they were both very young. They were sweet boys and grew up to be wonderful men. Brian always had a smile on his face. I haven't seen him in years but I loved him the same. We shared lots of good times as cousins at family picnics and just regular get together's. He will be missed by all who knew him. Cindy (Wiley) Elton
Donna Myers
January 19, 2014
Joy, I'm very sorry for the loss of your son. You have my greatest sympathy. Donna Myers
Nancy and Eric Sopher
January 19, 2014
Words can not express how sorry we are for your loss. Brian was a great man who will be missed by all who knew him. I hope that the memories you shared will bring some comfort in the coming days. My heart and prayers are with you and your family and the extended family friends.
Mindy Parnham
January 19, 2014
I am so sorry to hear of Brian's passing. You have my deepest sympathy and i will continue to pray for you.. May your wonderful memories of him bring you comfort in your time of loss.
Melissa (McCarthy) Renski
January 19, 2014
Trudy, Emily, & family, I am so deeply sorry for the loss of Brian. He is truly an amazing man and touched so many with his love and kindness. I am truly blessed to have known him. My thoughts, prayers, hugs, and love to you all.
Rhonda McCord
January 19, 2014
So sorry for your loss. He was such a nice person. My prayers are with you.
Brenda (Eberle) Trout
January 19, 2014
With deepest sympathy. I remember Brian from school.
Brian & Cyndi Pettow(was Cyndi Brown)
January 19, 2014
Trudy, Emily, and Joy,
You are all in our hearts and prayers. We are so sorry to hear of Brian's passing. I have so many childhood memories growing up with us kids, Kim, Mary, Kelly, Brian and Steve. You have our deepest sympathy and will continue to be in our prayers. Our love to all of you.
melissa &don cottrell(masinelli)
January 19, 2014
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
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