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Thomas Downes Obituary

Thomas A. Downes, 85, of Scotrun, died peacefully on Saturday, Dec. 24, at home, surrounded by his loving family. He was the longtime companion of Mary Kay Carlin, at home.

He was born June 13, 1920, in Dublin, Ireland, the son of the late James P. and Margaret E. Egan Downes. He had been a resident of Monroe County for the past 16 years and prior to that of Blairstown, N.J. He moved to the United States in 1964 from Ireland.

Prior to his retirement in 1992 he was self-employed as a custom carpenter for his lifetime. Prior to moving to the United States, he was a carpenter building coach for his family business in Ireland.

In addition to his companion, he is survived by two sons, Sean A. Downes of Ireland and Kevin F. Downes of California; five daughters: Elaine M. Downes of Union, N.J.; Mary Pat Quinn of Stroudsburg; Beth Ward of Reeders; Peggy Gizara of Westampton, N.J.; and Leslie Drummond of Marlton, N.J.; 14 grandchildren: Liam, Akasha, Finn and Faye Downes; Joy and Zachary Migala; Jackie and Jimmy Gizara; Steven and Alex Peterson; and Heather, Mike, Jill and Danielle Drummond.

Funeral services will be held at 8 p.m., Tuesday, Dec. 27, at the Joseph J. Pula Funeral Home, 23 North Ninth St., Stroudsburg.

There will be viewings on Tuesday from 2 to 4 p.m. and from 6 p.m. until the time of the service at the funeral home. Cremation will follow.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the American Kidney Fund, 6110 Executive Blvd., Suite 1010, Rockville, MD 20852-9813.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Pocono Record from Dec. 25 to Dec. 26, 2005.

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Joanne and Bill Grimm

December 27, 2005

Mary Kay and Family.

You are in our thoughts and prayers. Tommy will always have a special place in our hearts. A better friend we could never ask for. Thinking of you fondly.

Mark Bensel

December 26, 2005

Tommy,

I can't begin to tell you how much wisdom and help you have given me and many others over the years. Especially the last few that you have been ill. I never saw you without a smile on your face, or without an interesting story to tell. You are loved by many and will be deeply missed by all.

Joseph Sturges

December 26, 2005

Mary Kay my prayers and thoughts are with you and family.Tommy lived the steps and I for one will always remember his story and his honesty.love Joe Grateful to have known Tommy D.

Merlyn & Bobbi Bush

December 25, 2005

Mary Kay,Sean,Kevin,Elaine, and extended family. Our hearts are with you in prayer and precious memory of Tommy, our own dear friend. May he rest in peace in the loving arms of God, and his Irish always smile down upon us as it did in his life.

Marge Fortunato

December 25, 2005

Mary Kay,

You and Tommy are so special to me. I will always remember Tommy's wonderful smile and sense of humor.

Peace and Love Marge

Nan & Gene Dalton

December 25, 2005

Dear Tommy,

It was time for you to make the Journey into peace, and meet your savior. I hope your family realize you are in a better place, they will miss you terribly, but we will all remember your Irish witt, and we are all so greatful you were part of our lifes. Rest in Peace Tommy

Love Nan, Gene and Family

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