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Jeffery Perachio Obituary

PERACHIO Jeffery Adam Perachio (April 24, 1978), a loving soul, passed away unexpectedly May 17, 2010 in his hometown of Monroe. Jeff is survived by his grandparents Raymond and Mary Perachio; his parents, John and Karen Perachio; his brothers, Matthew and James; his sister-in-laws, Crystal and Kayo; and his loving girlfriend, Klaudia. Jeff will be deeply missed by many, including his aunts and uncles, his cousins, and his extended Cape Cod family. Jeffery spent his days helping his family with everything they needed done. Nothing was more important to him than family. Jeff was an avid NY Yankees and NY Giants fan. His other passion was writing music and guitar playing. Jeff got his bachelors degree in 2003 from Massachusetts College of Liberal Arts in Social Work. He was an amazing asset to the healthcare field. Jeff's biggest mission was helping out the mentally disabled. He put his heart and soul into helping all those who needed a little extra help. Over the past few years, he spent his time working at two of Connecticut's homeless shelters. We will always remember you Jeffery, your handsome smile, your love for your family, your funny jokes, your spiritual side, your guitar playing and your deep conversations which moved everyone who listened. Please send donations in Jeffery's name to any organization of your choice which assists the mentally disabled, to help him continue his dream. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held Friday May 21st at 10 a.m. in St. Stephen Roman Catholic Church, 6948 Main Street, Trumbull. Interment will follow in St. John the Baptist Cemetery, 500 Moose Hill Road, Monroe. Friends may call today Thursday May 20th from 4 to 8 p.m. in the Spadaccino and Leo P. Gallagher & Son Community Funeral Home, 315 Monroe Turnpike, Monroe. For further information please visit www.spadaccinofuneralhome.com

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Published by Appleton Post-Crescent on May 20, 2010.

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Crystal Perachio

April 24, 2019

Happy Birthday Jeff. You are thought of every single day. Your nephew has many qualities of you in him. You would have been an amazing uncle to the twins. We miss you. Love you ~sis

December 25, 2016

Merry Christmas son. You are missed more than anyone could imagine.
mom & dad

mom

October 3, 2016

We miss you so much. The saying "Time Heals" is a lie. Time only makes it worse. You are now an Uncle four times! They would love you. We pray for God to give us strength. Your brothers miss you so badly. By the way, the NY Giants are 2-1!!

August 5, 2016

I miss you so much. You are unbeatable at loving. Think about you all the time, still. <3

May 11, 2016

It's been quite sometime, but you are thought of each day. We miss you very much.
love you
sis

April 24, 2015

Happy birthday Jeff. Not a day goes by that you are thought of and missed dearly. Love you -sis

December 31, 2014

Merry Christmas. You would love Hiroe. We miss you.

mom

October 30, 2014

My beautiful boy,
You are missed more and more as each day passes.

Sis

November 28, 2013

Happy thanksgiving bro. Thinking of you on this day and wishing you were here face to face. Love you. Xoxo

thiago ramos

August 24, 2013

I can't believe it's been 3 years Budddyyy(jeff voice). It seems like you were here just yesterday my friend skipping rocks on the beach telling me funny stories about College or Cape Cod.I pray we meet again one day; Gone But Never Forgotten!!! -T P.S. i saved your Lucky J Lo Poster LOL

Sis

May 17, 2013

Good Morning, I am lost for words today.Trying to celebrate your life here. We all miss you so much. Can't believe it's been 3 years since you were taken by Gods hands into the heavens gates with the Angels. Love you Bro God Bless You, keep doing the Immpossible, because I am trying my best to fulfill that here for you. Greater things are to come.. Uncle x's 2 xoxo

Sis

January 29, 2013

Thinking a lot about you these past fews days. I know Gram is safely by yours and granpas side. Love you

Sis

December 29, 2012

Merry Christmas and happy new year.... We all new you were with us in spirit on the holiday even more than each day. Love you miss you

T

December 28, 2012

Forever Missed, it was simply too soon. I find myself trying to place blame, silly huh? I know your watching down on Us. Merry Christmas my friend....

September 12, 2012

Jeff,
Words Can't Express How Much Your Missed. Till we meet again My Friend.

Crystal

April 5, 2012

You're on our mind every single day. You are missed tremendously bro.

April 3, 2012

miss u

February 24, 2012

love you...4ever

January 27, 2012

love u

December 4, 2011

Perfection

October 10, 2011

Thinking of you always. I know a piece of you is with each and everyone of those you love. xoxo
I love you
~sis~

sis

May 24, 2011

Missing you, although I talk to you everyday, and feel a respomce, it will never compare. I know you are here with all of use, selfish I am when its just not enough. I love you bro
~sis~

sis

March 13, 2011

I look now and see that a few entries haven't been listed that I have sent, Everyday you are thought of, remembered, seen when my eyes are shut, dreams I dream, voices heared, music heard, You are hear with us all. Love you, miss you, thinking of you always

March 11, 2011

I'm living a lifeless live without you.

Brother, I know I am a day late, Happy Valentines Day. I send you a rose and heart. Miss & love you.

Crystal

February 15, 2011

February 9, 2011

Jeffery
We miss you more each day. The pain doesn't go away. You are with the angels now looking down on us. I know you are taking care of us!!

January 26, 2011

Thinking of you.
love you
~sis~

December 10, 2010

Life without you hurts. I miss you.
I love you

Crystal

November 30, 2010

Thank you Jeff, no need to say more, I now know and feel you know for what and will come.
I love you ~Sis~

crystal

October 14, 2010

You are in my thoughts daily, all of ours. Although I visit you , I feel writing makes me feel closer. No words right now, Just that we miss you and love you. love your sis ~Crystal~

Crystal

September 15, 2010

Thinking of you daily Brotha. We all miss you tons. I now know you are watching over us. I love you

June 16, 2010

My Love
I miss you. I will always miss you. My heart was, is, and will be with you always.

Lauren Mauriello Burm

June 10, 2010

Karen, John, Matt and Jamie,

Words can't describe the shock and sadness I felt upon learning of Jeff's passing today.

I have so many great memories with him from Cape Cod, CT Diners, North Adams, Yankee Stadium, him playing the guitar -- the list could go on and on.

He was one in a million and could make anyone laugh at any moment.

I am blessed to have known him and to have had him in my life. I spoke with him not too long ago when he called to congratulate me on my wedding and he expressed how happy he was for me. A perfect example of his kindness.

Family was so important to him and I know that he is looking down from heaven watching over each and everyone one of you. I am also certain that he is playing music for all the angels in heaven and making everyone laugh.

Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers.

RIP Jeff

June 10, 2010

Perachio Family,

My deepest condolences and sympathy go out to you in this time of great sorrow.

Regards,

Coleen Friend Phillips

Lauren Mauriello Burm

June 9, 2010

Karen, John, Matt and Jamie,

Words can't describe the shock and sadness I felt upon learning of Jeff's passing today.

I have so many great memories with him from Cape Cod, CT Diners, North Adams and Yankee Stadium.

He was one in a million and could make anyone laugh at any moment.

Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers.

RIP Jeff

Brian Driscoll

June 9, 2010

Perachio Family,
No words can express my heartfelt sorrow for your loss. Many of us are just learning today about Jeff's passing. He was a great person and his memories will live on. I was fortunate to spend a few years with Jeff at North Adams and I must let you know it was a priveledge to call him a friend. God bless all of you during this difficult time.

Mike Gomperts

June 9, 2010

My condolences to the Perachio family. I'm very sorry to hear about Jeff. He was a great friend during my 4 years at MCLA. Unfortunately just found out the news today. I've spoken to quite a few of his college friends today and everyone is shocked and saddened to hear of his passing. Fortunately we have memories of him that will last forever.

Susan and Frank Mauriello

June 9, 2010

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Perachio,

My husband and I were so terribly saddened, when we learned today of Jeffery's passing. Our deepest sympathy and condolences to you and
your wonderful family. We were blessed to have known Jeffery and we were fortunate to share some very special times with him. He was truly a wonderful young man that will be greatly missed by all those lives he touched. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, now and always. May God give you the strength you need to get through this very difficult time.

"Yesterday is but a dream, and tomorrow is only a vision, but today well lived makes every yesterday a dream of happiness and every tomorrow a vision of hope."

With Heartfelt Sympathy,

(Lauren's Parents)

sarah marvel

June 9, 2010

Jeff was so unique in so many ways. A soft soul and a thoughtful tongue. I used to listen to him play his guitar for hours. After I met Jeff I couldn't imagine life without him. He is one of my top 5 favorite peope. And I will think about him every day now, just like I did when after we last parted.

June 5, 2010

I miss you Baby.

June 3, 2010

June 3, 2010

JEFFERY!!!! WE MISS YOU SO MUCH.

Melissa Cole

May 31, 2010

You will truly be missed but never forgotten!

May 28, 2010

My heart breaks for the family. My deepest condolences

Pete May

May 26, 2010

I was very sad to hear about Jeff's passing. It was sixth grade and I don't remember why but Jeff and I had a spat and ended up in the infamous room 104. Somehow during our suspension we started talking and probably clowning around too. For the rest of middle school and all throughout high school we remained friends. You will always be missed friend.

Lauren Rua

May 25, 2010

so very sorry for your loss. :( prayers and thoughts for your family as you make your way through this truly difficult time. may your friends and family help to strengthen and provide comfort. - The Rua Family

Nicole Boyko

May 24, 2010

I just now heard of Jeff's passing. I haven't seen Jeff since high school but remember him well. My thoughts and prayers are with the Perachio family during this truly difficult time.

Carmen McPherson

May 24, 2010

My sincere prayers and condolences go out to you at this time, gone too soon, may God strengthen you.

Good Times with a Good friend...

thiago ramos

May 23, 2010

May 23, 2010

Christmas Eve 2005

May 23, 2010

Lorraine Wojchik

May 22, 2010

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Lisa DiPietrantonio

May 22, 2010

I'm so sorry for your loss. May god help you through this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you and all your family at this time.

May 21, 2010

jeffrey my brother , my best friend, I have re- typed this a few times. Let me say this shortly for now. I will Never say goodbye, I feel you wIth in me soul. For today ,for all I could type I love you, I miss you, its so not real. I am going to do everthing I can for everyone..jeffrey, I love you xoxo

Tina Demers

May 21, 2010

Jeff I'm going to miss you so much, the way your eyes lit up with that smile, your funny way of telling stories, listening to the crackle in your voice when you sang while playing guitar and most of all your friendship. Thank you for comming into my life.You will always be in my prayers and my heart.

Jean Criscione

May 21, 2010

Dear John and family,

I am so sorry to hear about the sudden passing of your son Jeffrey. I pray that the Lord gives you the strength to endure these trying times.

Debbie Orifice

May 21, 2010

Sending you my deepest sympathies at the lost of your lovely son. May many friends and prayers help you through this most difficult time.

thiago ramos

May 21, 2010

Jeff I've known you for the past 3 years of my life, my room mate for 2. You were such a good person, and the best room mate. You were truly one of the kindest souls I ever knew.Good Bye till we meet again. Knowing you was such a pleasure. My prayers go out to your family....

Luciana Pursell

May 21, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time of great sorrow...I'm deeply sorry for your loss. Luciana Pursell

Michael Rose

May 21, 2010

Even after all the years that have gone been that I haven't been a part of your family, I still remember those days from middle and early high school where Jeff and I were best friends. He was a good man who will be sorely missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you always John, Karen, Matt and James during your time of grief.

May 21, 2010

John & Karen,
When we lose someone close to us they still live through us and give us strength. The times that you have spent with Jeffery makes him part of you. Our prayers are with you during this time and always.
Ralph & Martha W. Council
Trumbull, Connecticut

Marek and Heather Mroz

May 21, 2010

We knew Jeff through Klaudia. He was such a nice, loving, kind man. Our sincerest condolences are with your family and Klaudia.

May 21, 2010

Mr. Perachio and family, my deepest sympathy goes with all my heart to you and your family. May God bless you all and give you the strength needed at this time. From Edward Crespo and Family.

Chris and Mike DeAmbrose and Children

May 20, 2010

Karen, John, Matt, Jamie and Family,
Wishing you the peace, comfort and strength your whole family needs. We will always remember Jeff's warmth and friendliness...

Mary Ann Muthersbaugh

May 20, 2010

Mrs. Perachio,

There are no words to heal the pain of losing someone so dear. May God give you the strength to overcome the pain.

Michele Guglielmo

May 20, 2010

Karen, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God Bless.

Albert Semaan

May 20, 2010

John & Karen

You have my sincere condolences on the loss of Jeffrey. My prayers are with you and your family.

Christine (Schuler) Meinert & Family

May 20, 2010

I am so sorry to hear about Jeff. James, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Debbie Brackett

May 20, 2010

Karen & family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Please accept my deepest sympathy. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Rosa Makhzangi

May 20, 2010

You have my sincere condolences on the loss of your son. My prayers are with you.

Cassandra Edmonds

May 20, 2010

Mr.& Mrs Perachio

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your son. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Jordi & Reaghan

May 20, 2010

We're terribly sorry for your loss. Please accept our deepest sympathies.

Stephen Taylor and Family

May 20, 2010

Our prayers of comfort are with you and your family, Karen. God's grace and mercy will see you through.

Cheryl Crevier

May 20, 2010

Mrs. Perachio and family,
You are in my prayers during this difficult time.

Rosangeles Henry

May 20, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you all. May the Lord give you strength and comfort during this difficult time.

May 20, 2010

I am terribly sorry for your loss. May you feel God's presence during this difficult time for you and your family.

Mary Hodgetts,
Employee at Johnson Compounding and Wellness

Mithie & Marylyn Tharson

May 20, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Diana Mann

May 20, 2010

Karen and fami.y - know there can be no greater loss - let your wonderful memories and family help keep you and my thoughts and prayers are with you

Barbara Buffery

May 20, 2010

Karen,John and family
God Bless you all
Barbara

May 20, 2010

John and Karen ,
I am so sorry for your loss. I know he will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. May the Lord give you strength and comfort during this difficult time. Marilyn Deleon ( Bridgeport, Ct.)

Nancy Oquendo

May 20, 2010

Mr. & Mrs. Perachio,
Please accept my most heartfelt sympathy for your loss... My thoughts are with both of you and your family during this difficult time.

May 20, 2010

Words cannot express our heartfelt symphany. Our prayers are with you and your family.

Kathy and Tom Roche`

Therese Bouchard

May 20, 2010

To Mr.and Mrs. Perachio and family. I am very sorry for your loss. Just know that the GOOD LORD is watching over him and also over you. May he forever Rest in Peace. I will keep you all in my prayers.

John Bauby

May 20, 2010

John and Family, There is no greater loss. We are so sorry to hear the tragic news. You're in our hearts, thoughts and prayers.

Jess Iovino

May 20, 2010

Thoughts and Prayers to all of the Perchio family. Jeff will be forever missed but never forgotten.

Noelle Foito

May 20, 2010

Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.....

Jenna and Joe Manzali

May 20, 2010

As the days and weeks pass, may your memories bring you comfort. Love and support of family and friends always be with you. Our deepest condolences.

Antoinette Carpenter

May 20, 2010

John, Karen & fAMILY,

You have my deepest and sincere condolences on the recent passing of your son, Jeff. I will keep all of you in my prayers.

God Bless,
Antoinette Carpenter and Family

Maria Marcoccia

May 20, 2010

John & Karen,
Words can't express the heartfelt sorrow we are feeling for the loss of your son. May God give you and your family the strength and courage needed to get through this difficult time. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Maria & Andy Marcoccia

Felicia Bynum

May 20, 2010

Sorry about your lost, he will be greatly missed. Felicia and Kiana'

nanci ferris-zibell

May 20, 2010

Karen and John,
I am so sorry to hear about your tragic loss. Jeff is at peace now.

Ana Martins

May 20, 2010

May the Lord comfort all of you during this difficult time. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Jeff is now in his Heavenly home resting in the Lord's arms.

Heather Fernandes

May 20, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Perachio family. My heart is aching for all of you, please know we will be thinking of you all during such a sad time. Hold tight onto the wonderful memories that you have of Jeff.
With love,
Heather(Esposito) Fernandes & family

Kevin Buda

May 20, 2010

Very Sorry for your Loss

mario oquendo

May 20, 2010

We are the Post Office, offer our deepest condolences, to the Perachio Family.
Mario, Bob, Georgetta and the rest of us.

May 20, 2010

Your entire Bayview family's thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this perfectly wretched time. Our hearts break with yours. Be strong and know we love you. Pat et al

Michael Putnam

May 19, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Perachio family. With love - Mike, Lisa, Ryan & Megan Putnam

Katie Putnam

May 19, 2010

A smile, a laugh and a artist like no other....Jeff you will be deeply missed by every life you have touched. My deepest sympathy goes out to his family and friends. Be strong for one another.

The Staff of Spadaccino Funeral Home

May 19, 2010

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.

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