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Jerome Hiler Obituary

Jerome R. Hiler

Jerry Hiler, age 67, passed away peacefully at the Appleton Medical Center on Tuesday, December 2, 2014, following a lingering illness. Jerry was born in Appleton on March 25, 1947, son of the late Jerome and Beatrice (Endter) Hiler. He was a 1965 graduate of Appleton High School, and on May 25, 1969 married the former Barbara Steger at St. Joseph Church in Appleton. For thirty-three years Jerry worked at Menasha Utilities, retiring in 2000 as a Distribution Technician. From 1992 until 2005, Jerry also served as an alderman for the City of Appleton. Plain and simple, Jerry loved fishing. He chased muskies all over most of northern Wisconsin and Canada, but especially loved time spent with family and friends at the family cottage in Vilas County. He also loved hunting and playing cribbage with the gang. For the past seven years, he and Barbara spent their winters in Florida, where they also hosted family and friends.

Survivors include his wife of forty-five years: Barbara Hiler of Appleton; a daughter: Amy (Dean) Voights of Appleton; his "miracle" granddaughter, Miranda, who was the light of his life; a sister-in-law: Debbie Hiler of Appleton; and Barbara's brothers and sisters: Bill (Kathie) Steger of Hillsdale, Michigan; Ann Carr of Cedar Bluff, Alabama; Kris (Bud) Muntner of Seymour; John (Mary) Steger of Hilbert; Paul Steger of Madison; and Laura Steger of Appleton. There are also several nieces, nephews, other relatives, and many friends. Jerry was preceded in death by his parents, his brother: Richard, a brother-in-law: Bob Carr, and by Barbara's parents: Robert and Barbara (Schreiter) Steger.

Friends and family are invited to gather on Sunday afternoon, December 7, 2014 from 1:00 PM until 3:00 PM at the Wichmann Funeral Home, Tri County Chapel, located at 1592 Oneida Street in Menasha. The afternoon will conclude with a prayer service at 3:00 PM. Online condolences and memories may be shared by visiting www.wichmannfargo.com.

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Published by Appleton Post-Crescent from Dec. 3 to Dec. 7, 2014.

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Mike Gerrity

November 27, 2019

I miss playing cribbage with you buddy.
Muskie Mike

December 9, 2014

Will cherish the fond memories I have of Jerry.Barb you will be in my prayers. Sherry Baehman

Anita, RN

December 8, 2014

Such a pleasant man to be around. Our thoughts are with you.

December 8, 2014

So sorry to hear of your loss. I knew Jerry through our "Muskie Mike's" fishing trips. Wayne Stingle

December 7, 2014

I served with Jerry on the City Council. I always enjoyed our discussions. He always had his opinion and he was always honest with it. I will long remember his dedication in not only serving the citizens of his ward and of Appleton, but also the employees of the city government. I could always count on his support. Definitely a gem. Bill Siebers

Elaine Kuehnl

December 5, 2014

Barb, I was so sorry to hear of Jerry's passing. We have nothing but happy memories or the two of you. Hugs and Gods Blessings. Jim and Elaine Kuehnl, Presque Isle

Joan from Dimension's salon

December 5, 2014

Barb, so sad to hear of Jerry's passing. Prayers and hugs to you and your family.

Doreen Brustman

December 5, 2014

I knew Jerry from jr high through Karen. I was a "Herman". May God be with your family through this very difficult time. Blessings

Mary Foegen

December 5, 2014

Dear Barbara here I sit in Naples Florida reading the sad news about Jerry. My heartfelt condolences to you and wish you God's blessings in Abundance to help you & your daughter through your grief. If I was with you I would give you a big big hug and and hopefully pass some peace of heart to you. Be assured prayers are on their way to you from here. Fondly, Mary Foegen

Lee and Marge Dankmeyer

December 5, 2014

So sorry for your loss. God be with you and your family.

Kevin Milbach

December 4, 2014

May you be judged a "Keeper" Jerry!
God Bless

December 4, 2014

Barb! So sorry to hear of Jerry's passing! Will miss seeing him at his patio chair sitting in the sun! Hope you are doing okay! Love, Ken & Sharon (208)

Jerry & Colleen Schmitt

December 4, 2014

Our deepest sympathy Barb, our Florida group keeps getting smaller. We'll all miss Jerry and will keep both you and him in our prayers and thoughts.

Gina Plath

December 4, 2014

Barb and family I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
"But they that hope in The Lord shall renew their strength, they shall take wings as eagles.

December 4, 2014

Barb, I'm still in shock. I had no idea. Old friends are the BEST. We'd pick up right where we left off. It could be a couple of years. A true friend who will be missed. Stay strong Barb! Many many happy memories over 50 plus years. Greg Otis

Janette Laabs

December 4, 2014

Amy & Dean,
So sorry for your loss of your father. Losing a parent is extremely hard and we are sending our prayers to you and your entire family. Will not be able to make it on Sunday but you will be in our thoughts.

Jon and Kathie Marsh

December 4, 2014

It's a sad day for all of us to learn of Hap's passing. Our deepest sympathy goes out to Jerry's family and huge circle of friends. Jerry was a true man of the people. Missing from his obit is all the work he did for his union brothers and sisters. Guys like Jerry helped make Wisconsin prosperous with collective-bargaining agreements that built a world class public employee work force. Too bad, but they don't make them like him anymore. RIP, Jerry. YOU ARE OUR HERO.

Mary Kinnart

December 4, 2014

Barb and Amy, I am sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. God bless

Kris Otis-Czaplicki

December 4, 2014

Barb and family,
Sorry for your loss. Jerry was friends with my brother Greg Otis. He spent a lot of time at our house. Years later Jerry would still have a smile and conversation for "Otis'" kid sister, RIP Jerry

Scott Caldie

December 3, 2014

Another very good man to be remembered in the AHS class of 1965. Always a smile and always something nice to say. He will be missed. My condolences to Jerry's family.

Bud Bellis

December 3, 2014

Barb,my sincerest sympathy to you and your family We haven't seen each other for a long time but I have fond memories of you both God bless

Deanna (Larsen) Johnston

December 3, 2014

I am so sorry to Jerry's family. Jerry and I went to high school together, and he was always a fun guy. Prayers for safe passage my friend.

Richard & Sharon Keddell

December 3, 2014

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Mike Gerrity

December 3, 2014

We'll miss you Jerry and the many good times with you and Barb at the cottage and in Florida.

Mike and Eileen Gerrity

Kathy Cooney

December 3, 2014

A very special person, a person to like, always will think of the family.

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