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Nick Pflum Obituary

Nick C. Pflum

Nick Pflum, age 53, passed away at his home in Appleton on Memorial Day, May 27, 2013. Nick was born in Appleton on April 6, 1960, son of the late Dr. Edward Pflum and Mary Ann (Becker) Pflum who still resides in Appleton. Nick was a 1978 graduate of Xavier High School where he was a member of the State Championship baseball team, and earned his degree in Architecture and Urban Planning from the University of Wisconsin - Milwaukee in 1984. Over the years, he had been employed by Biggar Development, Omni Associates, and the Hoffman Corporation. In 2000, he set out on his own and founded Architectural Associates of Appleton. Although Nick pursued his career in architecture, it was his love for art and music that was his greatest pleasure. Not a birthday or special occasion passed by without a handmade card, drawing, or custom cake created by Nick. His passion for art and music lives on through each of his children in their own individual and special way.



Nick had a love for speed. He liked fast cars, motorcycles, and boats. Nick enjoyed skiing, both on the water and on the snow. If he was in need of equipment, he was always able to find what he needed on "craigslist".



Nick also coached Little League and Pop Warner football, and was proud to have been part of the Appleton East freshman football coaching staff. Nick's usually quiet demeanor was sometimes overshadowed by his passion for sports - his voice could be heard across the field and throughout the stands.



Nick's greatest joy and love was for his wife: Melissa (Littlefield) Pflum, whom he married on September 22, 1990. His greatest pride and affection was for his four children: Ross, 19; Isaac, 18; Simon, 15: and Thea, 14. He also is survived by his mother: Mary Ann Pflum; five brothers and sisters: Bonnie (Joe) Pankratz of Appleton; Cindy (Dave) Johnson of Appleton; E. Mark (Lisa) Pflum of Little Chute; Chris (Janet) Pflum of New London; and Tricia (Jeff) Promer of Menasha; his mother and father-in-law: Robert and Audrey Littlefield of Combined Locks; and his sister-in-law: Amy (Mike) Bynoe of Rogers, Arkansas. There are also many nieces, nephews, other relatives, and many friends. He was preceded in death by his father, Dr. Edward Pflum, in 2008.



A memorial service for Nick will be held at 6:00 PM on Friday, May 31, 2013 at GOOD SHEPHERD LUTHERAN CHURCH, 2220 E. College Avenue in Appleton, with Rev. Timothy Seabaugh officiating. Friends are welcome to gather at the church on Friday afternoon from 2:00 PM until the time of the memorial. Online condolences may be expressed at www.wichmannfargo.com.



The family would like to extend their sincere thank you to the medical staff and caregivers that made such a difference to Nick and his loved ones. The Radiology and Oncology Staff at St. Elizabeth Hospital and the Oncology and Hematology Staff at Appleton Medical Center were nothing short of amazing. We thank you for going above and beyond in your care of Nick.



You don't hear much about people having "moxy" anymore. Nick was a guy with moxy. Moxy is defined as: "Self-possessed confidence; an attitude of fearlessness in everyday circumstances; the capacity to stand alone in favor of an unpopular opinion or course of action, with a casual demeanor."



That was Nick - full of moxy.

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Published by Appleton Post-Crescent on May 29, 2013.

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Donna Eiles

May 27, 2025

I think of Nick often. Just a few weeks ago I met his nephew Nick when I broke my hand. I got so excited and thought he was maybe his son. Nick was my architect for the Reedsville Manor many years ago! He was a good friend! Hope his family is doing well. He spoke of all of you so often - he was so proud and loved you all so much! God bless him!??

Donna Eiles

May 25, 2023

I love being reminded of the anniversary of Nicks death. Makes me remember what an awesome man he was and how he talked so much about his family. He loved you all dearly. I hope each of you has been able to enjoy life as Nick would have wanted. He was a very good man. I enjoyed him being my architect for the Reedsville Manor.

Donna Eiles

May 24, 2022

Hello there
Every year finds each of you - his children getting older. He was always so proud of you. We would go to lunch once in awhile when he came to the Reedsville Manor. It was always a nice time. The chairperson of the board Mary Olson passed away last year - her and Nick always had a fun connection - so now I beleive that we have another angel in haeaven causing some trouble with Nick! God bless all of you! And God bless Nick and Mary Olson too!

Donna Eiles

May 24, 2021

I think of Nick so often. He surely got to be a good friend while helping me do the addition at the Reedsville Manor. Since then my chairperson, Mary Olson, who thought the world of Nick too, has now joined him in heaven. So God bless both of you!!! Miss you!
Donna

Thomas Eiles

May 29, 2019

Melissa and family- I think of Nick often-he was a very special man and was especially proud of all of you!!! He would catch me up on the family when we would get together on projects at the Reedsville Manor. He loved each of you very much!!!! I considered him a very special friend!! Keep his memory alive! I hope that all of you are doing well!

The Bettendorfs

June 3, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We are so sorry for your loss.

June 1, 2013

Dear Bonnie, Joe and Family,

Please except our deepest sympathy! I know it was a long battle for your brother and I am so very sorry! It is hard to come up with the right words. Thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Dori and Colin

June 1, 2013

I was deeply shaken when I saw this news. I remember sitting in an office space near a gentlemen (Nick) who shared the same sense of humor as I did. Worked hard and always shared stories that showed a love for his family. I reflected back over the last couple of days on a project I worked with Nick on and it brought a smile to my face. I send my deepest symphony and we will keep the Pflum family in our prayers.
John R. Gretzinger

Denny and Kathy Nodolf

May 31, 2013

We were shocked and saddened when we heard the news about Nick. We didn't know he was sick. I have many fond memories of Nick from the time we worked together at OMNNI Associates, and waterskiing at the bachelor party at Waupaca, and later on the Cloverleaf Lakes. He helped design our home in Appleton, and lined us up with the builder that worked on the Littlefield home. My daughter interviewed him for a class project. Nick was a good sport in helping her with that. He was a great guy who is going to be missed. Melissa, our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.

May 31, 2013

Dear Family of Nick,
Our deepest sympathies. We will keep your family and Nick in our prayers.

Gwen Tatera and Charlie Thomas
30 S. Meadows Dr.

May 31, 2013

A beautiful man and, sadly for those of us left behind, in a beautiful place. We will miss you heavily, Nick. I pray for peace and love for the Pflum family. Fred Barnes

Diane Richardson

May 31, 2013

I am so sad to hear of this great loss. I was only a year ahead of Nick in H.S. My brother John was in his classes. So I was close to Nick and hung out with him and friends. He was cheerful and so fun. Blessings to his entire family and relations. Great loss!

Carl,Gayle,Danielle,Tori,Morgan and Shauna Keel

May 31, 2013

Dr. Pflum, Mother MaryAnn and family~ So sorry to see the news of the loss of your brother/son/husband/father. We are sending our thoughts and prayers to you at this most difficult time. He is and always will be with you, so cherish the memories, smile and remember when he is mentioned. God Bless you all. The Keel Family

Patti Randerson-Peters

May 30, 2013

Cindy, my deepest sympathies to you and the whole Pflum family. I recall our conversations about our siblings when we were teaching together with Fr. Geenen in Menasha. You always used to smile when you spoke of your brother Nick. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Robert Frechette

May 30, 2013

My deepest sympathy to the Pflum family. I have many treasured memories of Nick from our younger days. He was a great guy, a special man.

Nina Payne

May 30, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Deepest Sympathy, Nina and Becky Payne

Ron VanderVelden

May 30, 2013

Long before career and family, Nick was a kid and I was fortunate enough to have had Nick in class a many years ago. He was a neat kid then and it sounds like he grew up to be a fine man. My sympathies.

May 30, 2013

To the Pflum family - our thoughts and prayers are with you. We have fond memories of Nick - great guy!
Don and Nancy Heinritz

Joan Woldt

May 30, 2013

Melissa,
You are so strong! I admire the courage and strength of you and your children throughout this battle! I am so sorry for your loss and I wish you and your family peace and blessings.

Kathy Hurley

May 30, 2013

Missy,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We are so sorry for all that you have gone through and for your huge loss. May God hold you in his arms and give you and your family comfort.

Donna Eiles

May 30, 2013

You each have my very deepest sympathy. Nick was our architect for the Reedsville Manor for many years. I thoroughly enjoyed working with him. We loved his sense of humor and we just plain loved working with him. So we know he had to be the best husband and father that there could be. He spoke of all of you quite often. We were so happy that we got to work with him this Spring again along with Dan Meissner. He will be greatly missed. God bless each of you and always remember that he will be in your heart always!

Marcia Fourenss

May 30, 2013

God bless the Pflum family with healing and may those joyful memories of Nick bring comfort and peace and gratitude to all who knew him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Fourness Family

May 30, 2013

Melissa, so sorry to hear about Nick. Our thoughts are with you & the kids. Mary & Peanut Johnson

Kenneth Geller

May 30, 2013

Melissa and family: Very sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts.

John Finger

May 30, 2013

I'm so sorry for your loss. I work for the Department of Housing and Urban Development and I knew Nick many years ago when he was an Architect for Omni. He was a great guy! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Holly Keenan

May 29, 2013

My Thoughts and prayers to you and the entire family. Nick will remain in our thoughts as his children continue to grow and become a part of our community. He is at peace now.

Heidi Birkner

May 29, 2013

Thoughts and prayers for your family. Was sorry to hear of your loss.
Heidi Birkner and TJ Kozlowicz

John Hart

May 29, 2013

Ross sorry to hear about this. Having lost my own father I understand, somewhat, what you are feeling. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Amber Gyrion

May 29, 2013

Mellisa, You and your children are in my prayers during this hard time.

May 29, 2013

My thoughts and prayers Melissa and family at the loss of your loved one. Keep the memories closs. May God be with you at this most difficult time. Roxanne Neumann

May 29, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Pflum family at this difficult time. God Bless You! The Rossi Family

May 29, 2013

I remember a party that Nick threw on the glass bottom boat in Waupaca, WI. I think it was a celebration party for the engagement of Nick and Melissa. We all had such a great time! Nick was always where the "fun" was. We will miss him.

Melissa and family, and entire Pflaum families, my thoughts and prayers are with you.

God Bless. Love you all,
Sarah Dorn

May 29, 2013

Pokorny

May 29, 2013

Dr Pflum and family,
We are truly sorry for the loss of your brother, obviously by his beautiful write-up he was a good man and great dad. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this very sad time.

The whole Pokorny Family

May 29, 2013

Melissa, my heart hurts for you. I am so sorry for your loss. Jeanne

May 29, 2013

Melissa, I have admired you thru this whole tragedy. Your family had a outstanding man to be your covering. May Nicks memories keep you on the same path you both were steering. You're children are blessed to have such outstanding parents. Your co-workers are here for you, don't be afraid to ask, we want to help you. Bonnie Johnson

Tina Helbach-Bradle

May 29, 2013

My thoughts and prayers for you (Melissa) and your family.

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