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Valentyn, Robert P.



Bob Valentyn, 84, Kimberly, passed peacefully into the arms of the Lord early on Sunday, July 3, 2011, at St. Paul Nursing Home. Bob was born in Kimberly, on June 22, 1927, son of the late Peter and Anne (Smits) Valentyn. He attended Kimberly High School and was elected class president all four years. Upon graduation in 1945, Bob proudly reported to the Army Air Corps where he served a tour of duty in the Azores, working mostly as a cryptographer.

Following the war, he began his career at the Kimberly mill of Kimberly Clark Corporation. At the time of his retirement after 42 years he was a Packaging Specialist at KC-West in Neenah. Bob married Althea Vanden Boom on August 6, 1949, at Holy Name of Jesus Catholic Church. He became a valued and respected leader at the parish, serving as Parish Trustee. He was on the Parish Council and Building and Grounds Committee and acted as a CCD instructor. Bob created the position of and served as the Business Administrator for the parish. He was a member of the Knights of Columbus and held the honor of Grand Knight. He also served as president of the Holy Name Society. His dedication to the Green Bay Diocese Cursillo movement was marked by his work on the Cursillo Secretariat and as rector on many Cursillo weekends. He also sat on the Diocesan Parish Council.

Bob's ability to lead was embraced and admired in the community as well. He served on the Kimberly Area School District School Board and participated in the Kimberly Papermaker Booster Club. He was a member of the William Verhagen Post #60 of the American Legion. In his leisure time, Bob enjoyed golfing at Countryside Golf Course and playing cribbage with the "cribbage gang." He was a great lover of a broad variety of music and an avid fan of sports of all kinds, especially the Milwaukee Braves and Brewers, the Packers and the Badgers. Close to 40 years of cottage rentals in Summit Lake, Wis., provided many family memories. Preserving those memories and others and keeping family connected was important to Bob. For 22 years, he wrote The Valentyn Chronicles, a weekly letter detailing family happenings, and sent them to each of his children. Bob served as the chairman of the St. Paul Nursing Home Development Council, helping raise monies necessary to build the current St. Paul Complex. It is fitting that the wonderful people at St. Paul were able to care for him during the last years of his life.



He leaves behind his beloved wife, Althea Valentyn, Kimberly; as well as six children and their families,



Mike (Pat) Valentyn, Kaukauna, and their children, Sara (Brian) Hooyman and their children, Nicholas and Makayla; Katherine (John Jones) Valentyn and their daughter, Martha; and Lee Valentyn;



Tim (Nancy) Valentyn, Verona, and their children, Kenzi, Brett and Connor Valentyn.



Dan (Deb) Valentyn, Little Chute, and their children, Eric (Tasha) Valentyn and Ross, Scott and Robb Valentyn;



Tom (Cathy) Valentyn, Brookfield, and their children, Jack, Maria, Dom, Joe and Elena Valentyn;



Mary (Mark) Pribbenow, Kimberly, and their children, Leah and her fiance, Nicholas Dobrinska, and Luke and Ben Pribbenow;



Anne (Peter) Appleton, Kimberly, and their children, Rachael and her fiance, Christopher Peterson, and Sam, Paul and Clare Appleton.



Bob is further survived by his brother, Pete (Audrey) Valentyne, Kimberly; a sister, Anne Valentyne, Ann Arbor, Mich.; two sisters-in-law, Pat Vanden Boom, Kimberly; and Delphine Diermeier, Kaukauna; as well as many nieces, nephews, other relatives, and friends.

Bob was preceded in death by his parents; brothers, Harry (Sis) Valentyne and Peter, Jr. (Shellie) Valentyne; sisters, Harriet (Nick) Thurner, Marie (Herman) DeLeeuw and Elaine (Fabian) Hietpas; by Althea's siblings, infant brother, Martin Vanden Boom, Rosemary (Joe) Van Sambeek, Jim (Gert) Vanden Boom and Carl Vanden Boom; by a brother-in-law, Joe Diermeier; and by a grandson, Anthony Valentyn.

The funeral liturgy for Bob will be held at 12 Noon on Wednesday, July 6, 2011, at Holy Spirit Parish, 600 E. Kimberly Avenue in Kimberly, with Fr. David Pleier officiating. Interment will take place in the parish cemetery. Friends may call at the church on Tuesday after 4 p.m. and again on Wednesday morning from 10 a.m. until the time of the liturgy. Visiting hours Tuesday evening will be concluded with a parish prayer service at 7 pm.

In lieu of flowers, a memorial fund is being established in Bob's memory. Donations can be made to the Holy Spirit Parish Endowment Fund or to St. Paul Elder Services.

The family thanks Dr. Monk Elmer, the staff at ThedaCare Physicians, Kimberly, and the wonderful caregivers at St. Paul Elder Services, Kaukauna, for their compassionate care. The faithful prayers and support of the Holy Spirit Parish Family will never be forgotten.

Bob's faith was the foundation for his life. Obediently using the gifts he was given, Bob helped to build God's Kingdom on earth. He was a kind, gentle, humble man whose greatest joy was his family. He was a devoted husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather and a friend to many. Bob was deeply loved by those blessed to know him and will be greatly missed. His legacy will live on in those who choose to love and serve as Bob did.

"This is what the Lord asks of you, only this: to act justly, to love tenderly, and to walk humbly with your God." Micah 6:8

Jansen Fargo

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204 E. Kimberly Avenue

Kimberly 788-6202

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Published by Appleton Post-Crescent from Jul. 4 to Jul. 5, 2011.

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July 9, 2011

Dear Mrs. Valentyne,
I am sending you my deepest condolences and prayers for you and all of the family. I am thankful that I had a chance to visit with you and to say goodbye to Bob. Betsy Hermes (Little Chute)

Patricia Patricia Jakus

July 8, 2011

Please accept my sympathy and prayers on Bob's death.
Patricia {Patsy} Jakus

July 7, 2011

Dear Althea & family:
Very sorry to hear about Bob. He was a very remarkable person. If you remember me, I lived next door to you for a couple of years on Jefferson Place- in fact, it was my 1st house that I bought (over 20 years ago). I remember how kind you both were to me helping me out with "new home" questions and lending a hand when needed. Your kindness meant a lot to me and I'm grateful that I had really nice 1st neighbors.

God bless,
Scott and Sue Barden & family (Williams), Menasha, WI

July 6, 2011

Althea and Family,
Our deepest condolences to all of you. Bob truly was an inspiration to all and we should strive to be more like him. I will always remember our time at Holy Name and looking to both Bob and Althea as role models for our faith.
God's blessings and peace be with you at this difficult time.
George and Brenda Baus and family

Elly Pape

July 5, 2011

Valentyn Family- Your Dad is one of the greatest memories I have of growing up on Jefferson Place. May all of the love he shared find its way into the voids you are feeling in your hearts.
Peace and Love
Elly Mongin Pape

Marilyn TREICHEL

July 5, 2011

God's Blessing to all of you. What wonderful person he must have been. He will always be with you.

July 5, 2011

Dear Althea and family, What a privilege it was to know Bob! He used all the gifts God gave him to make this a much better world. Until his illness he seemed untiring when there was a need - family, church, school, village, diocese. It was always a treat to see Bob and you, Althea, even in these years when you were at St. Paul. I am unable to get to the funeral but you are remembered in prayer. Bob is enjoying his great reward, being with Jesus! In sympathy, Sister Paulette Hupfauf

ROGER NEUBERT

July 5, 2011

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Jennifer McDermot

July 5, 2011

Someone said that we never lose the people we love, even to death. They continue to participate in every act, thought and decision we make. Their love leaves an indelible imprint in our memories. We find comfort in knowing that our lives have been enriched by having shared their love. Please accept my most heartfelt sympathies for your loss my thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Kay (Bevers) Lamers

July 5, 2011

Dear Valentyn Family,
Although I didn't know Bob well, I can assume that he was quite an amazing man because of the wonderful children he raised. He will live on in your hearts!
You're in my thoughts and prayers.

Jim Polakowski

July 5, 2011

To the Valentyn family,
The children that Bob helped raise are a wonderful testament to the type of person that he was. I have many fond memories of time spent with all of you. Your home was always a welcoming, warm and fun place to visit. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

David Edquist

July 5, 2011

To Tom and the Valentyn family, please accept our heartfelt wishes. Your father sounds like he was an accomplished and multi-faceted individual, one who kept the church a priority throughout his life. His presence will undoubtedly be felt by many, for many years. May his memory be eternal.

Steve De Bruin

July 5, 2011

To the Valentyn Family,
The word class is often overused in today's society. I will say without doubt, class doesn't even begin to describe your husband and father. What a great man. Strength and respect can be gained by attitude and actions. Bob was well respected by anyone who had the pleasure of being around him. Your family is a true testament to the wonderful man he was.

Amy & Vern Frahm

July 5, 2011

"But when the kindness and love of God our Saviour appeared, he saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy. He saved us through the washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit, whom he poured out on us generously through Jesus Christ our Saviour, so that, having been justified by his grace, we might become heirs having the hope of eternal life." Titus 3:4 - 7

Valentyn family,
May you find comfort in knowing that Bob has now inherited eternal life with God our Father. Praise the Lord, Bob gets to be with Jesus and has been given a new body and a new name. May the peace that surpasses all understanding be with you as you begin life on this earth without your beloved earthly father. I pray that it only causes you to grow closer to your Heavenly Father as you lean on Him during this difficult time.

Love to you all.

Janel Hauser

July 5, 2011

My deepest condolences to the members of the Valentyn family in your time of lose.

Brenda & Dan Bradley

July 5, 2011

Dan,Deb & Family:
Though we had only met your Dad on a few occasions, he was a very special person. Your obituary was a wonderful tribute to him. May you find comfort in knowing that he is in a "better place". We will be here for you always ! Love you all !!

Darcy Willis

July 5, 2011

Valentyn Family - I had the pleasure of working with Bob when I first joined KC in 1985. I remember how kind & helpful he was. A joy to work with. He was also so proud of his family. May the great memories comfort all of you.

July 5, 2011

Mike:

He was a remarkable and wonderful father. I'm sure he was very proud of the goodness of his children.

Ted DuFour

Dennis Hooyman

July 5, 2011

Kimberly and everyone that ever got to know Bob and Althea has been blessed. There whole family is a insperation for everyone in the communities they live in. Bob will surly be missed by everyone but his legacy will live on in our community and G/B diocese foreved.
Althea and family thank you for sharing his life amd his love with all of us
Dennis & Jane Hooyman

July 5, 2011

Anne and Peter:
My deepest sympathy for the loss of your dad.
Ginny Janssen

Tom Keller

July 5, 2011

In 1967 I made the Cursillo Bob retored at St Margaret mary in Neenah. The experience has remained with me for more than 40 years. Bob's good humor and quiet leadership style added a great deal to the overall experience. My thoughts are with you all.

July 5, 2011

To the Valentine Family,

What a beautiful tribute here for your Dad! Just wanting you to know today, your Dad was a pillar in this community, walking by our house on Kimberly Ave. daily and church on Sunday, it was always a great hello and wave, just a giant man of love, I always thought!! How proud you all must be of him!! Thinking of you all today and wishing you comfort from Winnipeg, Canada!!

Jackie Levknecht Vigier!

July 5, 2011

Althea and family, You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Bob was a wonderful husband, father and friend. Don always told him he wanted to be like him when he got old. He will be missed by many.

Don and Barb Romenesko

Todd Bethe

July 5, 2011

Dan and Mike,

So sorry to learn about the loss of your father. I remember him being a fixture in the stands watching the Freedom basketball program for so many years. I remember him being such a kind man. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones.

Bruce and Darlene Kilsdonk

July 5, 2011

Althea and Family
Darlene and I are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. I will remember the good times of meeting most of your family last summer at Summit Lake. Always cherish those memories and keep your family times going in Bob's memory.

Becky Holl

July 5, 2011

Althea and family--I am so sad to hear of Bob's passing. The two of you touched my life so much during my days as Parish Secretary at Holy Name. You were always a bright light every morning, coming into count money. Bob's wonderful sense of humor, always put a smile on my face. I will have a Monday morning donut in memory of you.
God bless you Bob for being such an important part of my life.
Love you all

Mark and Pat Preissner

July 5, 2011

Your life has touched us. we extend our sympathy to all the family.Mark and Pat Preissner

Sara Hooyman

July 4, 2011

Grandpa,

You've been the light of my life and such an inspiration to me, with how strong and determined a person you were. I am very honored to be called your granddaughter and will never forget you. You were an incredible husband and father as well. Evidence of that shows through my dad. Both just incredible people!!

Bob Schulze

July 4, 2011

To the Valentyn family:

The final paragraph in Bob's obituary is so fitting for your family. What a wonderful man! His sincerity and compassion, which were passed on to his entire family, leaves no question why the Valentyn family is so admired. God Bless all of you!

Dave Van Lieshout

July 4, 2011

My condolences to the Valentyn family on the loss of Bob. He and my mom(Betty) were the youngsters in the class of '45. I'm glad that he was able to watch his grandson play for the Badgers. Your family is in my prayers.

Ron and Joyce Steers

July 4, 2011

Althea and Family--We were saddened to learn of Bob's death. May you be comforted in knowing that he is resting in the arms of Jesus now. He was a great guy and a wonderful example for all of us.
Our love to all of you,
Ron and Joyce Steers, Pickerel

Mellissa Hansen

July 4, 2011

Althea and Family~
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in your time of need. I am so honored that I was able to know the both of you and to share in some great memories! Bob will surely be missed. Thinking of you always.

Lari and Meri Debruin

July 4, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Charlotte Reynebeau

July 4, 2011

Althea and Family - My thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad time. Gather your happy memories of Bob and hold them close to your heart. They will comfort you and bring you peace.

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