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Amy Thomas
May 21, 2006
Well I don't know if some have forgotten about this guest book...it was one year & one month ago that Brian passed away. I am sure we all still think of him & miss his passion for life! I hope his family and friends are coping okay & can take some comfort in great memories. Brian, thanks for the good times! I love you.
Jim Dillon
May 14, 2005
Well I didn't really know Brian all that much. But what I did know of him he seemed to be a great guy. Its sad to hear about such a bad thing happen to someone you know. I send my sympathy to his family and friends.
Christian Hansen
May 6, 2005
Like so many of you, I also shared a close friendship with Brian. How many of you can still picture him cruising through someones field or back yard in his Chevy or Jeep - Amstel in one hand and steering wheel in the other, laughing through the screen of smoke from the Marlboro in his mouth? And yet, that same carefree man that we all knew, would get home and take the hankerchief off his head only to throw his feet up and spend some quality time with his parents and his three kids (Ozzy, Angus, & Jax). Quality time usually meant Jesse James on the TV and some kind of light hearted conversation about nothing in particular. He loved his family and showed it - every day of his life.
The first one to help you and the last one to quit on you. Whether you were "hoppin' in" to go for a ride or "stoppin' by" for homemade wings and a couple of beers, You couldn't help but smile when Brian was in your presence.
Brian was the best man at my wedding, and stood by my side with love and support when I lost my father. I'm sure that each and every one of you has some kind of memory where Brian has helped you in one way or another - even if it was something as simple as a laugh when you needed one the most.
To all of Brians family and friends, I send my deepest sympathy. I can only hope that your memories of him will continue to light the dark corners of all the broken hearts, and that the memory of his smile will continue to invoke a smile of your own.
And to Brian, Thank you for being the true definition of a friend. I will always reserve a place in my heart for the light that you have given to my life. You will be deeply missed and forever remembered.
Michael Denniston
May 5, 2005
Brian was one of the most exsiting person I knew in High School.
He just had one of thoughs personality that draws you to him.
You just never knew what he was going to do next.
He was always cracking jokes whether it be in the first class or last class of the day.
He just had so much energy and life. I can still remember his smile, just ear to ear.
He has not left us completely his memory will be with us all.
My heart goes out to Brains Family
and many friends.
He will be missed by Many and Loved by all.
Miss you Brain,
Mike D.
Katie (Barnes) Bogart
May 5, 2005
Like so many of you, I remember Brian from high school. What a great guy, always laughing, always joking and always smiling. I know he will be sorely missed by all who knew him, even if only briefly. My prayers are with his family, may you find the strength in this tragedy to help you get through.
sarah thomas
May 5, 2005
Wherever Brian went, he would light up a room. He made others around him smile with his great sense of humor. He will be greatly missed....My thoughts and prayers go out to the Douglas family...
bryce hicks
May 4, 2005
I have know Brian since I was about 3 years old as our families were very close growing up. I will always consider Brian like a brother and will never forget the good times we had growing up together in a small town. Such times as playing backyard football at the Stoddards or catching up on times over a cold brew. My condolances go out to his family and friends. We will all miss you but never forget you.
Benjamin & Brooke Hover
May 4, 2005
There are many things in life that are not right and this is certainly one of them. I remember Brian as a friend to everyone. Brian would not let you see him without a smile on his face. Please watch over all of us Brian and know that you are greatly missed. My deepest sympathy to the entire Douglas family.
Leigh Wilson
May 4, 2005
I never smiled with anyone the way I smiled when ever I thought about or was around Brian. The time I spent with Brian was not enough but it was filled with laughter. I felt complet around Brian and could feel our lives belonged together. On my toes, that's how I always was when I was around Brian. Just like many others have said, you just did not know what was going to happen next when you were with him. He was crazy and exciting and I don't think even he knew what he was going to do next at times but he always had a plan, (Whether it was good or not). I never thought I would meet someone like Brian and now I question if I ever will again.
I know one thing...I have become close with an incredable family and have grow close to many great friends. Brian will forever be in my heart and I will never forget how I felt when I was with him.
Tom Best
May 3, 2005
Brian was a classmate and a friend. When I remember Brian I first remember the smile so many of us do (you really had no idea what he was up to when he grinned). Then I remember the countless hours of playing mario cart, playing with blackjack and ginger and listening to every Aerosmith album ever put out. Like Luke said, Brian was robbed from us all, but no one can take the memories. Brian touched everyone who knew him, and will be greatly missed…
Arron Powell
May 2, 2005
I didn't make it to your wake but I just wanted to say you were a friend. I hadn't seen you for years and I ended up having a drink with you one night in Lake George out of the blue. We joked as if we never left high school. Every time I look at that picture of all of us in prom tuxes I'll remember your friendship and that evening in Lake George. You are surely missed. The next drink is on me.
Luke
May 2, 2005
Well I've put this off as long as I could. I feel for everyone who knew Brian but I also feel for the people who never had the opportunity to meet him. The world was robbed the day he was taken from us.
To Gary, Pat and Becca,I love you guys. Words cannot express how much brian cared about his family Everything he did was for you guys. Brian you are my best friend and I miss you and I cant wait to see you again in the future.
JOYCE {HARRISON] GRAVES
May 1, 2005
I GRADUATED WITH BRIAN AND LIKE MANY WE WERE FRIENDS. HE HAD SUCH A GREAT PERSONALITY AND A WONDERFUL SENSE OF HUMOR. TO BRIANS PARENTS IAM SO VERY SORRY FOR THE HEARTACHE THAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH. I KNOW PERSONALLY THAT THEIR IS NO GREATER PAIN THAT YOU CAN FEEL IN YOUR HEART BUT THAT OF WHEN YOU LOOSE A CHILD NO MATTER HOW OLD THEY ARE WHEN IT HAPPENS. SOMETIMES YOU DONT KNOW IF YOULL BE ABLE TO TAKE EVEN ONE MORE SINGLE BREATH OF AIR WITH OUT THEM. IT IS VERY HARD AND THE BEST WAY I CAN TELL YOU HOW TO GET THROUGH IT IS SURROUND YOURSELF WITH PEOPLE THAT LIFT YOU UP AND DONT LET ANYONE TELL YOU HOW YOU SHOULD GRIEVE. WE ALL HAVE OUR OWN WAY OF HEALING. THEIR IS NO WRONG WAY. ITS WHAT EVER YOU FEEL IN YOUR HEART. IF YOU WANT TO TALK ABOUT BRIAN EVERY DAY ALL DAY THEN THATS WHAT YOU NEED TO DO TO HEAL. I DONT KNOW WHY THINGS HAPPEN BUT I BELIEVE THAT EACH THING THAT WE GO THROUGH MAKES US STRONGER BETTER PEOPLE IN THE END. IAM PRAYING FOR YOUR FAMILY AND MAY YOU TAKE COMFORT IN KNOWING THAT SO MANY PEOPLE CARE. YOUR SON WAS A GREAT PERSON AND WILL BE MISSED BY MANY.
STAY STRONG TOGETHER YOU ALL NEED EACH OTHER!
GOD BLESS ALL OF YOU
Krissy Coley
May 1, 2005
I knew Brian for many years, he was best freinds with my cuzin Vicky Roberts, he was a great person and he always made me laugh. I felt very close to him because he was so close to my cuzin. Im not sure how you guys are all dealing with this but i sure feel some of your pain. My best wishes go out to you and your family. Becca, i could only imagine what your going through right now to lose such a great brother, you both are good people, and if u ever need anything im here for you. I also could only imagine what you parents are going through to lose such a great son. When i first heard about it i thought it couldnt be true, someone so great and someone with so much more left to his life, this couldnt happen to him. But it has and we just have to remeber all the good times we have had with him and such a pleasure he was to have around. I will always remeber him. And again my wishes go out to you and the family.(Becca i hope to see u soon i love u)
Michelle Rahl
May 1, 2005
Brian was a wonderful son, sibling, boyfriend, and friend(dad to ozzy :) )He always treated me with respect he was a brother to me these last 8yrs I've had the pleasure of him being with my family. He loved everyone and never neglected anyone. He made this town shine. I will miss his warm smiles and "brotherly" nagging.My deepest sympathy to the family. Also, deep sympathy to my loving sister Jenn your loss is so great that it saddens me to see you grieving so much. I hope that your friends and loved-ones around you give you the strength to caring on. I love you "Jennabell", and Bri and Ozzy love you too.
Bonnie Cosey
April 30, 2005
Becca, Having lived through this myself I know right now there are no words to comfort you. I want you and your family to know my prayers and my love are with you all.I didn't know Brian, but reading through this book I can see he was a wonderful, warm happy man who made everyone around him happy. A lot like you.I've written a little somthing for you...I hope in some small way it helps.
An ocean of memories
A river of tears
The moments you've shared throughout the years
The fun times, the bad
The silly and the sad
The secrets you've shared as siblings do
Live forever now, Becca...inside of you
Right now the days are dark and numb
Nature's salve until the sun
Will shine and clear away the pain
And you will find that once again
You can remember with a tear and a smile
The incredible gift you were blessed with for awhile
The beautiful gift from God above
A brother sent to know and love.
Again my love to you , your family and all Brian's loved ones...Bonnie Cosey
Lynda Thomas
April 30, 2005
I knew Brian as one of Amy's close friends. I always looked forward to his coming up to the house to see Amy. He was just such a pleasant person that always made you feel good. He use to talk with me just like he would talk to his friends and that made me feel special.
The last time I saw Brian was several months ago in Price Chopper. He made a point of coming up and talking to me, with a gentle tap on the shoulder and that ear to ear smile of his. I am truly going to miss that young man who always had a smile and time for all.
My deepest prayers and thoughts go out to Brian's family. This is a very sad time for you all but hopefully you will find some comfort in the fact that your son/brother was a beautiful person with lots to offer his family and friends for the short time he was with us. Take care. Time is the gift we are given to help ease the sorrow and pain. Brian will be sorefully missed but never, never forgotten.
Brian with just a few of his many friends...
April 30, 2005
Cindy and Joe Roberts
April 29, 2005
We have looked at all the guest book entries, they are all so true. Everyone has so many special thoughts and memories of Brian. We will miss Brian just stopping in to visit getting something to eat and chatting for hours.We will never forget the look on Brians face the year he took Vickie to the prom he walked in so proud because he was driving Jenos car. He told Vic how beautiful she looked and then said "lets go so I can drive".
Pat,Gary,and Becca We cant imagine the pain you must feel I wish we could say or do something to take it away hopefully you will find some comfort in how people felt about Brian. You raised a wonderful young man be proud of that.
Our thoughts and prayers
Joe and Cindy
Kellie Petty
April 29, 2005
Times like this are so hard. I did not know Brian very well, but one thing I will always remember of him is a great smile! My heart goes out to all his family and friends. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Brian- you will be missed by all who knew you.
K
April 29, 2005
Words cannot express my sympathy and heart felt pain for the Douglas family. Brian was a truly magnificent person that made the world a better place just by simply being him. His smile was one that no one is capable of forgetting, and his personality was one of the kindest I’ve ever encountered. He meant so much to so many people and he will be deeply missed. Gary, Pat and Becca, he loved you all more than anything. You were all the world to him and he thought so much of you. It was refreshing to be around someone that thought so much of his family, so much respect and love. Leigh, I send you my deepest sympathy I’ve only just met you recently, and seen you and Brian together a few times, but it was obvious that the two of you complimented each other so well and Brian was so happy with you. I hope that you know how much you meant to him and how much fun he had with you. Be grateful that you were able to talk to him that evening and share in his life most recently along with his family and friends. He was so wonderful and he will be missed by all that loved him and knew him.
Keep him in your memories and close to your heart, he’ll always be looking over all of you and his very close friends…..
Jessica Partch
April 29, 2005
I got a call from my mother last night. She reminded me of a charming young boy who came to my 7th birthday party. I remember my mother and that boy standing in our kitchen. When she asked his name, he boldly and proudly gave it to her - "Hello. I'm Brian Michael Douglas." We all joked about it many years later at a chance meeting at AJ's. I've never been able to think of him without remembering that fearless little boy so many springs ago.
I am so deeply sad to learn of this ending. I will forever have a soft spot in my heart for Brian Michael Douglas. I am so sorry.
Angie Bernard
April 29, 2005
Super Smile…Super Friendly…It’s his face you’ll see in the yearbook. It spoke the truth in 1997 and stood true ever since. I know that after graduation our paths infrequently crossed however when they did it was the same great Brian that I remembered. Cherish the times you spent with him and remember for a brief moment in time he made his mark and touched so many lives.
Gretchen whiting
April 29, 2005
I will always remember Brian for his great sense of humor. He loved to make me laugh. What a fun person to be around. He was never afraid of adults as a teenager and easily fit right in. I loved seeing him at the Cosey's home whenever we went to visit.
Victoria Morris (Roberts)
April 28, 2005
What a smile! Brian was such a character. Someone that everyone loved...even his enemies. He was just that lovable. When I found out about this, I lost a part of my being. Brian was my first "real" crush in junior high. I remember seeing him for the first time in high school and I thought that he was the most beautiful thing that I had ever seen. We were best pals throughout high school. We went to proms and homecomings together and spent some time snowmobiling and sledding. Those were just a few of the memories that we spent together. I am so thankful that I was blessed enough to be in Brians life and that I had the honor of knowing him. Without spending the many many years being able to pal around with Brian my life would never be complete. I just hope that everyone remembers Brian as the crazy, lovable, wonderful person that he was.
Gary, Pat and Becca my heart goes out to you. Brian cherished each and every one of you. He loved you all so much. You were everything to him.
Nicole Bucknall
April 28, 2005
Brian was definitly one of a kind with a sense of humor that stays with you forever. I feel fortunate to have known someone as good spirited as he was, and that spirit will never be forgotten. To Brian's family and Jenn, my heart goes out to you and I am so sorry for your loss. Brian will be in our hearts forever.
Laura Chapman Barlow
April 28, 2005
Brians smile,that is something I will never forget!!He could light up a room and make you laugh!I saw Brian one friday night not to long ago we spoke briefly but he gave me that smile. I hadn't seen him in awhile and i'm so glad I did. Being a mother myself I can only imagine how his parents and Becca feel,my heart goes out to you! And for Jenn be strong remember the good times that is what Brian would want for you not to cry but smile! I am there for you always and care about you a ton!!As for Brian I will truely miss you and your smile!
Kaela Cosey
April 28, 2005
Brian was one of the most caring, giving people i ever met in my life. I was lucky enough to be going to school in albany while he was going to school there. We had so many good times together and i will never forget his ability to make me laugh no matter what was going on in my life. I will always miss brian and know that he is taking care of everyone else that has passed on. He was a great person and will be missed very very much!!!!
-H-
April 28, 2005
It's hard to know what to say in times such as this, words just don't come as easily as they would any other time. You sit back and relive all the wonderful moments we have all shared with Brian. These memories are what help us to deal with such a tragic loss. Embrace them. Let your mind wander, let your heart fill up again with those happy times, for these memories are what keep him alive.
To Brian's parents and sister: I myself have been through a loss such as this. Turn to one another for help, don't be afraid to talk about it with one another or anyone else for that matter, for fear of upsetting them, be assured that they themselves are hurting too and are most likely holding themselves back from coming to you for fear of upsetting you. Talking helps, not only does it allow you to share your son and brother with others but it is the best way to help yourselves.
After everything is said and done, everyone slowly goes back to their "normal" lives, leaving you to try and figure out how to get some normalcy back in your own life, only to know that your life will never be the same as it once was. If you need someone when you feel this way, don't hesitate to pick up the phone and call someone, they won't know when you need to talk, you have to make sure you let them know.
Always remember that Brian lives in each and everyone of you, and every day you allow us a glimps of him. I thank you for that.
You shall remain in my thoughts and prayers. *hugs*
Christopher Ellis
April 28, 2005
As a former high school principal, I had the opportunity to meet some wonderful people. Brian, whom attended and graduated from Granville was one of those people. He was charming, motivated, always had a smile on his face, and always had a positive demeanor. He would come to school everyday and was certainly a positive role model in our school. If I ever needed support I know I could always count on Brian. After graduation, Brian still kept in contact with us at school. He was sure to say "Hi" whenever he saw you on the street. His pleasant outgoing personality was enjoyed by everyone who came into contact with him. I am quite sure the teacher's, staff, and students felt the same way. I know he will be sorely missed by all! After getting to know his parents, I can understand why Brian was such a great man and human being. In closing, our family sends its condolences and prayers to the Douglas family and to Brian's friends. Sincerely, Chris
April French
April 28, 2005
Brian is such a great guy and was always a good friend. He had the biggest smile and could alway make me laugh. I haven't seen much of him recently, but whenever I did, we could always talk like we just saw each other yesterday. We will all miss him very much!
Amy Thomas
April 28, 2005
Brian Michael...what can I say...he was so full of life! Everything he did, he did with passion! He was so close with his family & he had tons of friends. I can just imagine how many people will end up signing this on-line guestbook. He made his way through welding school & I was so proud of him. He had a great job, unfortunately one that caused him to be traveling on the wrong road at the wrong time. This is so very hard to understand. It's difficult to believe it's true & he's really gone. It was Spring 2004 when I saw him last. I picked him up in Rutland late one night, so his mom wouldn't have to. He was getting in from being away on a job in Mass. We reminisced about old times. I was friends with him in highschool & even closer afterwards. I remember, he came out to Burlington, VT for my 21st birthday party. That was great! We have had so many good times together & I know he had even more with other people!
~I miss you Bri. I just want another hug. Sorry to your family & all your friends for your passing. I know your Dad was your best friend...but then again, so was your Mom & Becca, Adam & Luke. Sorry to Jenn, for whom this is particularly hard to accept. This is so hard for everyone. I had some drinks in your honor last weekend. It seemed like the thing to do, what you would have wanted. You will be greatly missed, as you have touched so many lives.~
Tess Nelson
April 27, 2005
Brian touched so many lives and will be deeply missed. He had the best sense of humor and could always make you smile! When something this tragic happens it shows us all just how fragile life really is..so take too many pictures, forgive freely, laugh too much and love like you have never been hurt! My heart goes out to this wonderful family and I will keep them in my prayers! God Bless!
STEPHEN YOUNG
April 27, 2005
Brian was a great guy. He always had a positive outlook and a smile on his face. I cant even think of him without picturing him smiling. My condolences go out to his family.
Sarah Mulhall
April 27, 2005
Brian made light of the darkest situation. I am saddened deeply for all who knew and loved him. They say the good die young.
Jenn Rahl
April 27, 2005
There are too many wonderful things to say about Bri. I know I loved him more than life it self and luckily I was fortunate to know he felt the same about me. No matter what situations we went through in time we always found a way back to each other. Bri was a wonderful guy with such a great sense of humor, colorful but humorous. I will never forget all of the laughter!
To Pat, Gary, and Becca: you know I love you lots and that I will always be here to support you. U guys are the best family I ever could have asked for!!!!
kylee minthorn
April 26, 2005
Brian and I had been friends since we were both young. His parents and my mother were friends. In our younger years, he spent much of his time picking on me and showing off doing back flips in my uncle's pool. As we grew up, we became really good friends throughout our high school days. I will always remember the fun we had, and his effective smile. After I moved out of the area, I saw him again, and we talked like we were back in high school. This is the worst thing that could happen to such a great person. There is truly no one like him and he will be missed very much by both his family and friends.
Shelley Campbell
April 26, 2005
Brian was one of the nicest people I have ever meet, no matter where you were when you would see Brian, he would make any situation fun!! My thoughts and prayers are with all who were lucky enough to know and love Brian!!
Jessica Sheldon and Scott Shaw
April 26, 2005
Our thoughts go out to Brian's family and all of his many friends. May everyone remember all of the great things about Brian! We will keep him and his family in our prayers. I'm sure he is looking over all of us!
crystal crossman
April 26, 2005
Brian will be very missed by many. He was a great person and always had a smile for everyone.
Heather Thomas
April 26, 2005
Brian always had a way to make you laugh, no matter how you were feeling. What a great smile, so full of energy and spirit. I saw Brian a week before his passing. He was getting a hair cut and joked that he was going to get it all cut off. I told him that he just wouldn't look like himself without his curls. When all was said and done, Brian stood up, curls still intact, put on that brown hat that he always wore, turned around and gave me a quick pose and huge smile. That is the Brian that I will always remember.
Forever in our hearts, you will never be forgotten.
JULIE TAYLOR
April 26, 2005
BRIAN WAS A GREAT GUY! THIS IS SUCH A GREAT LOSS TO THE FAMILY AND EVERYONE WHO EVER KNEW HIM. YOU ARE IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS!!!
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