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Jerome "Jody" Lapham Jr.

1938 - 2025

Jerome "Jody" Lapham Jr. obituary, 1938-2025, Bedford, NH

BORN

1938

DIED

2025

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Rivet Funeral Home & Crematorium Inc. - Merrimack

425 Daniel Webster Highway

Merrimack, New Hampshire

Jerome Lapham Obituary

Jerome "Jody" Lapham Jr.

May 25, 1938 - June 12, 2025

Jerome "Jody" Lapham Jr., 87, of Bedford, N.H., passed away on Thursday, June 12, 2025.

He is survived by his wife, Diane Lapham; his daughter, Kristen Lapham; and two sons, Scott and J. Lapham.

Per the family's request, services will not be held at this time. A celebration of life will be held at a later date and details will be posted on the funeral home website once arrangements have been made.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions in Jerome's memory can be made to The Michael J Fox Foundation at give.michaeljfox.org; the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation at www.cff.org; or the Lupus Foundation of New England at lupusne.org.

Condolences may be expressed at www.rivetfuneralhome.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Post-Star on Jun. 21, 2025.

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Willow H

June 24, 2025

Sending my heartfelt condolences to Diane and family. May you feel comforted by the love and support of family and by happy memories from when Jody was healthy and strong. He was one of a kind, and I am privileged to have had the chance to know him.

The Staff of George R. Rivet Funeral Home

June 21, 2025

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