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2019
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Alan Colodner Obituary
HOPEWELL JUNCTION - Alan Scot Colodner, 61, died on June 14, 2019 at Vassar Brothers Medical Center.
He was born in Suffern on August 25, 1957. Alan spent his career as a pension banker. An avid lifelong fan of the NY Jets and Yankees, Alan also enjoyed fishing. He spent many years as an Umpire for the East Fishkill Baseball Association and local schools.
On February 28, 1982 in Huntington, LI, Alan married Susan (Darwin) Colodner who survives at home. He is also survived by his children, Erica Rossin and her husband Alexander of Niskayuna, Alexander Colodner of San Francisco, CA, and Carrie Colodner and her fiancé Brian Melcher of Boston, MA; his granddaughter, Maya Rossin; his mother, Sandra (Green) Colodner; his brothers and their spouses, David and Sandra Colodner of Virginia and Michael and Linda Colodner of Pearl River; his mother-in-law, Eileen Darwin; his brothers-in-law, David and Jonathan Darwin; and many nieces and nephews. Alan was predeceased by his daughter, Jacqueline Colodner in 1985; his father, Jesse Colodner; and his father-in-law, Manuel Darwin.
A memorial service will be held on Monday at 11am at Vassar Temple, 140 Hooker Avenue, Poughkeepsie.
Donations may be made in Alan's memory to the Lunch Box, a community meal program of Dutchess Outreach.
Arrangements are under the direction of the McHoul Funeral Home, Inc. Please visit his Book of Memories at www.mchoulfuneralhome.com.
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George
June 10, 2025
Missing you On our 50th High School reunion dear friend.
Sheryl Weaver Stil
February 3, 2022
So many years have past since our years at school in Pearl River and it feels like such a short time ago. You are missed Alan.
Catherine Thompson
June 11, 2021
I think of you often and send prayers for your family. Funny how childhood friends live forever in our memory. You touched many lives and I am sure many people send love to your spirit.
- Catherine Thompson
George Miner
June 10, 2021
I miss you my dear friend.
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Jayna Stracci
July 17, 2020
We are very saddened and shocked to find out about Alans passing. We had know idea. I always ran into Alan at least once every few year since I moved from his neighborhood. I just realized I havent seen him which made me look on his FB, which he never posted on. All I can say is I am at a loss for words and so sorry I wasnt aware at the time of his passing. Alan was the best husband, dad and Im sure just as a devoted grandpa. Our condolences to Susan, Erica, Alex, Carrie and family. RIP Alan
Jayna, Brandi & Chelsea
Christopher Esse
July 10, 2019
When I was a little kid David was my best friend and Alan seemed so much older and bigger. I spent many days at the Colodner's. One time there was an old car in the yard and David and I were looking at the engine while Alan held up the hood. When he dropped the hood I forgot to move my fingers and they got slammed. I ran into the house holding my fingers, afraid to look because I was sure they were gone. Mom Sandy was so sweet and ensured me it was ok to look they were still there, just a bit dented and bloody. I adored the Colodners. So sorry for your loss.
Gerti and Gayle Rhodes (friends of the Simones)
July 5, 2019
Susan, Gayle and I just learned from Tony about Alan's death. We send our warmest and deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Michael Kelly
July 5, 2019
So sorry to see you go, old friend. You will be terribly missed. Mike Kelly
Catherine Thompson
June 28, 2019
Dear Susan,
I am very saddened and in shock to learn of Alan's passing. My deepest sympathy to you and your family. Too soon and too sad. I will always remember his smile, positivity, and warm personality, and of course memories growing up together in Pearl River. He was a good and honest friend. He was blessed to love life and have you and his family to enjoy it with. He loved you so much.
Sincerest condolences,
Catherine Thompson, Pasadena, CA
Louise Whitford
June 28, 2019
Alan used to come over to play when we were just 3 years old. He also had a pony and used to ride the neighborhood with his horse. Tons of memories. Heart broken.
June 26, 2019
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
susan serrao
June 19, 2019
I worked with Alan way back when and we had just talked last week about getting together. I send my condolences to the entire family.
He was a great guy who had a wonderful way with people and I always enjoyed being in his company.
He will be missed.
Susan Serrao
AXA Equitable
Richard DiLullo
June 18, 2019
Alan always had his hands in everything. Once you met him, he left an everlasting Impression. He loved helping kids. Alan was in charge of the hiring and training of umpires for East Fishkill Little league. Every year he would join us on a golfing trip to Hanah. He told me he sucked at golf, but enjoyed being part of a 20 plus year tradition. My last memory was teaming up with him to play golf. He also loved music. (Alman Brothers) We spent a night at the Falcon watching the Brother and Sisters band. We called each other the next day and raved about the good we had. I will miss him.
Judy Chin
June 17, 2019
I am truly sadden of the sudden passing of my friend and colleague Alan. For the past 20 years, I had the privilege to known him. Alan was funny, genuine, and vibrant. I remember all the good time like it was yesterday. Alan left a print where ever he went. There were times when we didn't speak for months, but when we did talk , whether it was just to say hi, or (me) asking for advice our conversations would pick up right where we left off the last time. I will forever miss you Alan. My condolence goes out to the Colodner Family.
Debbie Flower
June 17, 2019
I had the fortunate pleasure of working with Alan for the past four years at VMS. We worked together but from opposite coasts. He always had a way of lifting everyone's spirits with his jovial laugh and wonderful sports stories. He was kind and helpful and always checked in to see how everyone was doing. I will truly miss this wonderful man. My sincerest condolences to Susan and the extended Colodner family.
Emanuel Criscione
June 17, 2019
Sorry to hear of the passing of Alan! Susan and your family are in my prayers. May you Rest In Peace Alan
Barbara Hohmann-Iannucci
June 17, 2019
My heart goes out to you and your family Susan. I enjoyed reconnecting with Alan after all these years and it is unfortunate to all to lose him so young. Take your time to process everything and I hope you find solace in knowing he will always be with you. I wish the best for you and your family.
Ron Cash
June 17, 2019
My deepest sympathy to the family. I worked with Alan at Vertical Management Systems. He was always positive, happy, and a lot of fun to have a conversation with. Everyone enjoyed his visits. My family's thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends.
Harvey Heise
June 17, 2019
I am so sorry to hear about Alan. He was one of the nicest, funniest, best people I have ever met. He could make everyone around him laugh no matter the time or what was happening. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
George Miner
June 17, 2019
My sincerest condolences to Susan , Michael, David, Alan's mother and the children. Alan you will always be a dear friend, from Middle school through High School, and Geneseo State , many days of soccer , swimming in your pools, sleigh rides in Pearl River behind your horse, to sharing the joys of raising our children. You brought great joy to my life as well as so many others. Your prank phone calls at work pretending to be a NY Jet. Taking me to Vinnie Testeverde come back once again for a Jets victory followed by a Yankees victory against the Angels, the day after our High School Reunion. You will always be a friend and in my fondest memories. I pray the dear Lord will allow me into heaven someday, so we can enjoy a few laughs together once again.
Fran Schoenfeld
June 17, 2019
I have worked with Alan at multiple companies over the past 40 years and most recently at VMS/Retirement Revolution. He had an amazing way with people whether we were visiting a client/partner or he was interacting with my department and our internal staff. Sometimes he was a bear, a true Teddy-Bear. He cared at the highest level whether it was business or personal. He was a dear, dear friend and ready to listen with honesty, wit and of course laughter. I will miss him dearly. I send my heartfelt sympathy to Susan, his children and family.
Leo Caporale
June 17, 2019
To the Colodner Family,
Our deepest sympathy goes out Sandy and family.
Leo and Linda Caporale
Ben Acquario
June 17, 2019
Alan was a friend, a colleague, I am shocked to hear this news. He has done so much for me, and we have shared many fun moments. I will forever be grateful to have met him. I am truly saddened by this news.
June 17, 2019
Susan, our heartfelt condolences to you and the kids on this awful and much too soon loss. You and Al have been friends for many years and our memories are full of good times and fun together. Stay strong and be well.
Love,
Buzz and Helen
Kim Baker
June 17, 2019
I went through elem., middle and high school with Alan and am deeply saddened to hear of his passing. I remember him fondly as a friend with a good soul and kind heart.
My condolences to his family.
Kim Vennard Baker
Rosemary Thorn
June 17, 2019
My deepest sympathy to all of you Alan was a wonderful man.
Tony Fiore
June 16, 2019
Alan was the kind of person and friend you dont get to meet many times in your lifetime. I can fill this page with just great memories and laughs. On more than one occasion he would call me "an angry young man" during one of our many fun and spirited debates. Today I am not the angriest but the saddest. I will always cherish the time we had together.
My heart goes out to Susan,Erica,Alex, Carrie and all of the Colodner family. You will be greatly missed my friend.
Tony Fiore
Ran Gimeno
June 16, 2019
Sad to hear the loss of my friend and industry colleague of many years...
June 16, 2019
Alan always made our family feel welcome at Colodner family gatherings. He was so good at initiating conversation, listening, and making us laugh. We will remember him as an honorable family man. Our heartfelt condolences to Susan and the entire Colodner family.
Love,
Sharon and Jeff Parker
Gail & Tom Ellis
June 16, 2019
I am so saddened to read this! With a very heavy heart I extend my condolences to Susan, Erica, Alex & Carrie! My daughter , Caroline, spent many a day playing at the Colodner's, and so enjoyed Alan's funny sense of humor! Tom & I we're just talking about Alan the other day! We are deeply sorry for your loss, way too soon......Alan, a great man, husband & dad! Gail & Tom Ellis
Jim DEROSE
June 16, 2019
My heartfelt condolences to his family.
I had the pleasure of meeting Al about 5 years ago at Fishkill All Sport, part of our early morning crew. He was a member of our last Friday of the month breakfast group at 84 Diner.
I would see him often umpiring Beacon HS team baseball games at Dutchess Stadium on which my grandsons played.
Great individual and family man.
I will greatly miss him.
Jim DeRose
Mark & Debbie Albrecht
June 16, 2019
We are so saddened by the loss of Alan. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends.
Brian Spiro
June 16, 2019
I am completely shocked and saddened. I've known Alan and his wonderful family for nearly 40 years, and consider him one of my first and best adult friends. We had planned to see Alan and Susan here in Austin in just a couple of weeks. It is hard to even comprehend what has happened. Our love to Alan, Susan and the family...words can not express how we feel.
Timothy Fitzpatrick
June 16, 2019
My heartfelt condolences to the Colodner family. So very sad.....Sad and Alan doesn't go together. He had such sharp wit and incredible sense of humor. I am so happy to have known him. May God rest his soul.
John Brown
June 16, 2019
I'm devastated to hear this. He was my great friend for over 36yrs. Please call me at 914-844-1041 as I only had his number. Susan I'm so sorry and I know you're surrounded by family but I'm here if needed
John Brown
Vincent Mazzacone
June 16, 2019
My neighbor, my friend, our conversation that morning on your porch is burned into my memory....there is a big void here....I am grateful to have known you, you always found some humor in whatever was going on....
My deepest condolences to the family, sending loving thoughts, prayers and energy that you may find peace and balance as best as best as you can...
In peace and love.
Namaste'
Vincent Mazzacone
John Brown
June 15, 2019
I'm shocked and saddened as Alan was and will always be a great friend of mine. I'm devastated. Susan we are sending our deepest sympathies and love to you. My number is 914-844-1041. Someone please call me as I only had Alan's number
John Brown
Mike Little
June 15, 2019
I am so sorry for your loss. I will miss him a lot at all the Jets games. I am so glad I was able to go to Tennessee to the Jets away game with him. There will be an empty spot at our tailgate. He will be missed a lot. He will always be in my heart.
Joseph Bertolozzi
June 15, 2019
I am stunned and so sorry for the loss of Alan. Sending thoughts to the whole family...
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