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Gian Stagnaro Obituary
Pine Plains, NY - Gian P. Stagnaro, 17, passed away due to an automobile accident on Thursday, August 29, 2013.
He was born in New York, NY on May 23, 1996 the son of Valerie Hammarth and stepfather Peter Lewin of Salisbury, CT and Gian B. Stagnaro and stepmother Christine Mac Neil of Pine Plains, NY.
A Life Too Short
My son, Gian Paolo, lived a very short life, but he was an amazing young man. He had such a way with little kids, whether it was entertaining them with his funny voices, or teaching them how to show cows for FFA, or consoling them when they were hurt or scared. Maybe it wasn't always apparent with his little sisters, but he was a devoted brother, always protecting them behind the scenes. He loved to act, having appeared in several school plays, and doing an admirable job of pulling off a Scottish accent in Brigadoon. He was a great goalie when he played soccer. He always had a very keen sense of fair play and what it meant to be a team. All of this led to his latest passion of Civil War re-enactment. He loved to learn about history and he was an avid reader. He will be greatly missed.
Our beautiful son Gian has gone on to the next place. We were blessed to have him in our lives for 17 years. Our hearts are breaking today as we realize the depth of our loss.
Our Gianni was bigger than life. Smart, bold, opinionated, controversial and with a wicked sense of humor and a huge appetite for life. The entire world was Gianni's stage. Class clown, gifted musician and actor. We will miss him for his irreverence, his biting humor, love of satire and all of his many vocal impersonations that kept us in stitches.
Gian had a special love for all of us-family, friends, teachers and mentors. He had a special love for his pets and was a kind and gentle young man.
Our lives have a huge, empty spot now, that no one and nothing can fill. We know our boy is in a better place now. He is safe in the loving arms of his family members who have gone before him.
Gian was entering his senior year of high school this fall at Stissing Mountain High School in Pine Plains.
In addition to his loving parents and stepparents, survivors include his paternal grandmother Josephine Caruana of Peekskill, NY; two sisters, Olivia Stagnaro of Salisbury, CT; Frances Snyder of Pine Plains, NY; two brothers, Allan Snyder Jr. of Pennsylvania and Anthony Snyder of Pine Plains, NY.
He was predeceased by his maternal grandparents Gloria and George Hammarth and paternal grandfather Domenic Caruana.
Calling hours are 2 to 7 PM on Sunday, September 1, at Peck & Peck Funeral Home, 7749 South Main St. Pine Plains, NY 12567.
Funeral services are 11 AM on Monday, September 2, 2013, from the funeral home with Dr. Rev. Eric Titus officiating.
Interment will be at the convenience of the family.
In lieu of flowers memorial contributions are requested to the Gian Stagnaro FFA Scholarship fund c/o District Treasurer, Pine Plains Central School, 2829 Church Street, Pine Plains, NY 12567
A reception will follow the service on Monday at the Pine Plains Lion's Club.
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Memories and Condolences
for Gian Stagnaro
Mike ONeil
August 25, 2023
I can't believe it has been 10 years. What a tragedy, and although I've had several students pass away in my career, Gian's has stood out the most. My continued sympathy for all of his family and friends.
Mike O'Neil
Bill, Karen, Sara, Megan O'Brien
September 7, 2013
Dear Gian,Valerie,Olivia & Family
We were shocked and deeply saddened to hear of this tragic news of Gian's passing. I have fond memories of him when he played soccer with Megan here in Amenia. He was always very respectful, wore a smile on his face & looked out for his younger sister. I can't imagine your pain but please know your all in our thoughts & prayers at this difficult time.
Pauline Thompson
September 5, 2013
Sending you love, hugs, and prayers, Val. Keep your loving support network around you and don't let go.
Lasher
September 3, 2013
RIP Gian..so sorry for your loss..
Rebecca Garrard
September 3, 2013
Val, Gian, Olivia, and family - You remain in our thoughts and prayers every day. all our love, Rebecca and Rosanne
Michelle O'Connor
September 3, 2013
I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. It has been several years since Gian was in our home, but I remember him well. I can't begin to imagine your pain and I only hope you find comfort in each other and with Gian's memory.
Kathleen
September 3, 2013
Valerie - My sisters, Colleen and Michelle, relayed to me this saddest of news. I cannot imagine your loss. Lean on those who knew and know your joy in having this beautiful son. Prayers your way. - Kathleen
September 3, 2013
Upon reading of the loss of your precious loved one I am sending my heartfelt condolences to you all. I lost two of my younger brothers in car accidents as well and can feel your pain. I found much help in coping with my loss from a brochure When Someone You Love Dies. I would like to send it to you as a gift with the hope you can receive some comfort and support as well. For now Gian will live on in your hearts through pictures and fond memories. You are all in my prayers. You can call me anytime when you are ready.(845)292-0421 Sincerely, Marylin Tomkowich
Donna Lucas
September 3, 2013
Gian,
I know that we have not spoken in years, but please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. I wish I had words to comfort you and knew just the right thing to say... Just know that my heart goes out to you. May God be with you and yours now and always.
Gary Boyce
September 2, 2013
We recently lost our daughter and feel your pain. God bless you
Colleen Quinn Steineke
September 2, 2013
Valerie; I have felt so shaken since learning of your boy's passing. With your mothering I can only imagine the fun he possessed. Though we have not been in touch, please know that you and your family are in my kindest thoughts and sincerest prayers. Safe journey home Gian.
September 1, 2013
With our sincere condolences. May Gian's memory be a blessing to you always.
Dr. Abe Nussbaum and Gail Nussbaum
Nancy Zebra to
September 1, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this sad and devastating time. Gian was a wonderful young man, who brought joy to many in his short life. It was through his zest for life, he touched many a heart, mine included. He is an angel now, and will someday, make you smile and laugh someday as you remember him. God Bless and keep you all in his arms, with Gian. With
((( gentle hugs))), Nancy and Paul Zerbato
Tara Sherman
September 1, 2013
Gian was kind, compassionate, intelligent and hilarious. The void at our school will be impossible to fill. Our thoughts, prayers and love to you all.
September 1, 2013
so very sorry for your loss - such a tragedy
Peg Bonneville
September 1, 2013
Gian was such a great person! We will miss him so much. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
September 1, 2013
Gian, Valerie and Olivia, your tragedy has affected us all. I remember Gian as such a unique young man and from what I've read here an in the paper, his personality and impact on others proved this on a daily basis. I trust the support and prayers from family and friends will help you work through the next few weeks and months.....
Mike O'Neil (Gian's former Elementary Principal)
Debbie Strehl
August 31, 2013
Dear family of Gian,
I'm so very sorry for the loss of your son, Gian. Thinking of your families & wishing you peace & comfort during this very sad time. with sympathy
Janice McSpiritt
August 31, 2013
Val, Gian and Olivia,
My prayers and thoughts are with all of you as you try to cope with this tragic loss. Gian was such a lovely boy, so sweet, sincere and such a wonderful thinker. I can only imagine the depth of your sorrow and the emptiness you feel.
Hugs to all,
Janice
August 31, 2013
My sincere condolences . I remember Gian well and wish you love and strength today and always.
Katy Gorman McEnroe
Mike and Becky Snyder
August 31, 2013
Our prayers are with you at this tragic time. May you all find peace in the memories of the wonderful joys Gian brought to you in his short time here on earth.
Nicholas Mamatos
August 31, 2013
Hello Gian,Valerie and family.
I'm stunned and deeply saddened at the loss of Gian. I remember how we were best friends, seeing each other all the time here in Bay Shore and Isilp in Long Island. It's a shame we didn't stay in contact but I will always remember the good times and memories. I'm very sorry for the loss of a fantastic young man. Our deepest thoughts, prayers, and condolences are with you all. Regards.
Sabrina Peloquin
August 31, 2013
:'( Still crying. Gian. You were Gods gift from heaven. <3
Donna Beckingham
August 31, 2013
Gian, Christine and family, I am so very sorry to hear of your sad, heartbreaking loss of Gian. As he left the dental office just last week, I thought, 'What a nice, pleasant, cute looking young man!' I can't imagine the pain and sorrow you are going through. I'm out of town for a few days and am so sorry that I will not be there to pay my respects to you and your dear son Gian, but please know that my heart goes out to you. With sympathy and prayers. Donna
Robin Cuevas
August 31, 2013
Gian you are now in heaven looking down over us all I didn't know you personally but god took you way to soon. May you rest in peace my heart goes out to your family at this time of loss and sorrow.
DG
August 31, 2013
As a mother of a 17 year old (goalie too), my heart breaks for you. He sounded like such a wonderful kid. May you find comfort in your memories and may God give you the strength to carry on. Although I don't know you, please know you are in my family's prayers.
Peggy Coons
August 31, 2013
Even though I never met you or your loving son I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family. May god bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Jennifer King
August 31, 2013
I am so very sorry for your loss.My deepest sympathy .
wyant
August 31, 2013
May Gian's light truly never fade.....
Kay Ciaccio
August 31, 2013
To the family of Gian. I don't know your family or Gian, I just wanted to let you know how very sorry I am about your son. Please accept my deepest sympathy.
Barbara Conforti
August 31, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers to you at this very difficult time.
The Conforti Family
Gina Hedges
August 31, 2013
May you find peace and comfort in looking back on John's life and remembering what a wonderful child he was. The entire school and community and especially the senior class are grieving with you for another senseless loss of life. He will be missed.
Sabrina Peloquin
August 31, 2013
I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you.
Melissa Haras
August 31, 2013
Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
Lorraine Strine
August 31, 2013
A beautiful boy, Valerie. I am so sorry.
Joanne Platt
August 31, 2013
Dearest Valerie,
I possess no adequate words to comfort you as you travel down the lonely road of grief. The loss of your beautiful and talented Gianni is so devastating, such an inconceivable nightmare. I pray that you find some small comfort in the love of those around you, and some measure of peace in your memories of your beloved Gian. I love you, and I pray for your strength in the dark days ahead.
Melissa Mudge
August 31, 2013
So very sorry for your loss. Thinking of your family.
Mary Cary
August 31, 2013
My prayers are with you all. May your hearts be filled with wonderful memories of your son as you celebrate the love he shared.
August 30, 2013
Oh my goodness, I think I forgot to sign my entry....much love, Michelle Smith
August 30, 2013
I am speechless. An unimaginable tragedy. My prayers and thoughts and love are with all of you at this painful time and always. I have a picture somewhere of Gian and Max serving at the teacher's luncheon so very long ago. I will always remember Gian's upbeat personality, his funny way of always making people smile :)
Kimberly Sullivan
August 30, 2013
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
August 30, 2013
RIP
August 30, 2013
My heart goes out to you and your family. I am praying for you.
Nancy Richio Buetti
August 30, 2013
My heart is breaking for you and your family. Thinking of you and praying for you.
Nancy Richio Buetti
Sheila Myers
August 30, 2013
My dear friend Gian, my heart is breaking for you as I know your pain. God gives me the strength to live each day as he will for you. You probably are not feeling it yet, but in time you will. Continue to treasure all the wonderful memories and speak of Gian often. His spirit is with you. Just be quiet and you will feel him. i strongly believe in receiving signs from my loved ones, so be open to receiving them. I extend my sympathy to you and all your famiy. Friend in Christ
August 30, 2013
I will always remember the polite boy I met. All of your family will remain in our prayers. God be with you all.
Denise Myers Hurn
Robyn Schneider
August 30, 2013
Val, My heart goes out to you and your family. Thoughts and prayers are with you. Love you!!
August 30, 2013
I don't know you, nor your precious son, Gian, but came upon this heartbreaking news while reading the Freeman. Please know that there are many like me whose hearts are breaking as we read of this terrible tragedy. May the lord watch over all of you, wrap his arms around you and give you the strength you will need to get through the days ahead. May you find peace in knowing that many are remembering you in their prayers. God Bless.. Jan D'Ambra,
Tucson, Az
Liz Campisteguy
August 30, 2013
Val, Sending our love & prayers from Seattle to you, your family & friends. Lizzie
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