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BORN
1987
DIED
2020
Mark Brown Obituary
Mark attended Dover Schools and completed his High School Education through American School. He worked for Pawling Corporation as an Extrusion Operator II for four years. He was a reliable industrious worker and well-liked by everyone at his place of employment. He enjoyed the satisfaction of working hard and earning a paycheck. At 22 years of age he developed Schizoaffective disorder and became disabled.
Mark loved playing guitar and was an extremely gifted musician. He enjoyed playing and performing music with his band "Blue Away". They played venues like Jaeger Haus in Tivoli and Elks Lodge in Beacon. He generously wanted to share, always giving of himself, wanting others to have a good guitar to play. Many times, he either fixed up a guitar to give to someone or bought them a new one. He taught some of his sweet cousins like Mia and Maddie to play guitar. His patience made him a pleasure to learn guitar from. He had fun with his Brother laughing, listening to good music (his favorite band was Built to Spill), eating great food, and planning his next nature travel adventure with him - most recently the Grand Canyon. He had fierce ongoing Ping Pong, bowling and miniature golf tournaments with his Father, Uncles and Friends.
Mark enjoyed deep spiritual discussions with his Uncle Phil and had Faith in the Bible Truth that the dead are asleep awaiting a resurrection to a paradise earth that is "Just Around the Corner". They also shared their love of the Yankees together.
His favorite game was board scrabble and would often play with his Mom. It was their special time together and it was not uncommon for him to use all of his letters twice in one game. His second favorite game was Boggle which he played with his Brother. Pictionary was another favorite.
Mark loved bright colors, his favorite being orange. He was often seen in a bright orange shirt.
He was an active volunteer for Meals on Wheels in Hyde Park, NY for the past several years on Fridays. He enjoyed the "good feeling" being able to help others gave him.
Mark was an avid Xbox gamer and Halo enthusiast. He was known for being #1 in the world for rumble pit experience points. He was known as "Chimp" to his online friends. He played for fun, never trash talked or got angry. His gamerscore reached over 231,000. He will be truly missed by many.
Mark enjoyed walking and his two favorite spots were Vanderbilt Mansion and Locust Grove both in Poughkeepsie, NY.
Mark is survived by his loving parents, Robert D. Brown Jr. & Jo Ann Nancy Brown and older brother, Robert D. Brown III (Robbie); his Grandparents, Dorothy & William Odierno and Bonnie & Doug Brown. He is also survived by many Uncles, Aunts, Cousins and Friends who cared deeply about him.
He also leaves behind his Cat, Monswa Sir Budley Brooklyn Brown otherwise known as Budley and his Fish, Harold The Greater - who "just keeps swimming". Mark was so proud of how long his fish has lived.
Mark struggled with his Mental Health. He fought a brave long battle that ended when he took his own life. A HEARTFELT THANKS to all who supported him, especially whoever was a part of his Treatment Team at any point during his long journey. A special Thanks to NAMI Mid-Hudson (National Alliance on Mental Illness) for the education, support and resources they provide to those living with a mental health condition and their families.
We move forward with a hole in our hearts and fond memories. Our bonfires will never be the same without him there strumming his pleasant sounding music or leading a singalong. We will miss you for now our Sweet Boy.
A Memorial for Mark will be held on Saturday, March 7, 2020 at 2:00 PM at Locust Grove Estates 2683 South Road (Route 9) Poughkeepsie NY 12601. At his memorial, feel free as some are planning on doing, to reflect his love of orange in some way.
In lieu of flowers, the family asks that you consider a donation to NAMI Mid-Hudson P.O. Box 787 Poughkeepsie NY 12602.
Memories and Condolences
for Mark Brown
155 Entries
Avenleigh Autumn Odierno
January 4, 2023
Avenleigh Autumn Odierno
January 4, 2023
Avenleigh Autumn Odierno
January 4, 2023
Mark was the best cousin to me and very sweet. I will always have him in my heart. I have a picture of Cousin Mark on my writing journal in school and its like he is with me. We both had a lot in common. Cousin Mark inspired me to play guitar.When I listen to the song he wrote about me called "Avenleigh" (it was his first song he wrote) it makes me want to cry with joy. When I was born and my Dad sent him a picture on his phone he wrote his first song about me - called Avenleigh. I Love and Miss him. Love your Cousin Avenleigh P.S. In the paradise when I see him again I will be so happy and will hug him so tight!
Jo Ann N Brown
June 19, 2021
Mark at 19 years of age in his first apartment.
Jo Ann N Brown
June 17, 2021
Making Pizza at Uncle Tommy's Pizza place.
Jo Ann Brown Jr.
June 17, 2021
My Sisters gave me a beautiful necklace in Marks Memory. Orange of course.
Jo Ann N Brown
June 17, 2021
May 2021 Mary, Hannah and Tommy came with us to leave flowers.
Jo Ann N Brown
June 17, 2021
We continue to miss Mark and look forward to when all things are new. Thank you Janet for the beautiful bracelet to remember the poem by E. E Cummings "I Carry your Heart with Me". Vilma how special my orange leather "M" bracelet is. I treasure my friends.
Jo Ann N Brown
June 17, 2021
2/21/21 Thanks to all who made this day easier!
Jo Ann N Brown
June 17, 2021
February 21, 2021 One year today and we went to the Raymond Hill Cemetery to leave orange flowers. You are missed and not forgotten!
Jo Ann Brown Jr.
June 17, 2021
Our Beautiful Happy Memory Rock outside the kitchen window in the winter. This was February 21, 2021 (one year)
Jo Ann N Brown
June 17, 2021
2/21/21 Its one year today.
In Loving Memory of Mark William Robert Brown
Dec. 21, 1987 - Feb. 21, 2020
Jo Ann N Brown
June 17, 2021
2/20/21 Dr. Ann Mandel and Dr. Rob Laitman are two of the most caring Doctors I have ever met. So grateful you were both a part of "Team Mark".
Jo Ann N Brown
June 17, 2021
2/20/21 Nice Memories.
Jo Ann N Brown
June 17, 2021
2/9/21 This was last year, Fevruary 8th 2020. I love this memory and will cherish it always. It was our last social outing with Mark. Cold, fun night. Dinner and a play with lots of laughter. Such loyal friends who always stood by his side cheering him on.
Jo Ann N Brown
June 17, 2021
1/2/21 I know Mark would post this picture of his cat: to cute not to. Monswa Sir Budley Brooklyn Brown otherwise known as "Budley"
Jo Ann Brown
June 17, 2021
12/21/20 Mark William Robert Brown
He would of been 33 years old today.
Jo Ann Brown
June 17, 2021
8/24/20 Our Sweet Boy! Miss you so much. Raymond Hill Cemetery Carmel NY "Garden of Memories" Columbarium.
Hannah B
April 23, 2021
I know I’ve only seen Mark a couple times, and I know I never knew him too well. But what I do know is that he was always very kind. He was a good guy and was very talented with his music, drawings, and was the absolute king of scrabble. I remember he helped inspire me with drawing back when I used to draw on traditional art. I used to love looking at his drawings when I was younger cause I always thought they were cool.
He taught me an important life lesson, that was to never judge a book by its cover. When I was younger, I used to think he was just normally tired since he acted sleepy all the time. But when I found out what was really wrong with him. I was really shocked and felt horrible for assuming.
He taught me that there’s more than what meets the eye. To never assume you know everything about someone purely based on appearance. To always try and keep an open mind and to try and understand the people around you and be there for them the best you can.
Rest in peace Mark, you will be missed. We’ll all see you soon.
CreativeManx123
October 6, 2020
Hey Mark. I talked a few times with you, sorry you had to go so soon. I wish you the best wherever you are now.
Jennifer Orton
September 4, 2020
Dear Bob and Jo Ann,
We recently heard about your tragic loss of Mark a number of months back. We are SO SORRY! We hope you guys have been holding up ok.
How comforting it is to know that Jehovah knew ALL Mark was dealing with and he knew the real Mark and his true heart. How wonderful it will be to one day see Mark again when he is perfectly healthy! What relief he will feel!
I often think of Mark with a chuckle when I’m trying to put together my presentation. It was January 2000 and we had an Awake! article entitled “A Close Shave.” Mark and I went to the door together and his opening presentation was “have you ever wanted to get a close shave?” It just made me laugh but the householder was really interested in that topic!
You have all been in our prayers. We pray for you to receive the comfort you need. We trust that Jehovah knows the unique angst of a mother and father who have lost a child. And a Brother! We think of Robby too! Please, please give our love to Robby and let him know we think of him and also include him in our prayers. Robby if you are reading this, we are so deeply sorry for your loss. You may not remember us but we remember you and your brother from our days in Pawling with fond memories.
We love you all,
Chris, Jennifer, Olivia and Sophia Orton
McKayla Brown
August 14, 2020
Mark will always have a special place in my heart. Growing up with him as my older cousin was such a blessing, and I wouldn’t trade our time together for anything. Mark introduced me to so much great music, and even taught me a bit of guitar. He was always so patient when I strummed the wrong chord or otherwise messed up the song. One of my fondest memories of Mark is sitting at Aunt Jo Ann & Uncle Bob’s kitchen table, singing and playing guitar together. It was also my honor to care for Harold the Greater for a few weeks.
Mark is so very special to me, and to many, many others who long for the day to welcome him back with wide arms. I love you Mark, I’ll see you soon!
STEPHEN CLAIR
July 14, 2020
Jo Ann,
Everyone at Beacon Music Factory will miss Mark. Marks sweet nature as well as his musical talent was appreciated and admired by so many of us, instructors as well as his peers, here.
He is deeply missed.
Sending our love to you, your family, and our heartfelt thanks that we got to spend some time with Mark making music, clearly a great passion of his.
Stephen
Conscious of our spiritual need
Jo Ann Brown
May 25, 2020
Ping Pong Face - Game ON!
Jo Ann Brown
May 25, 2020
Family of Four
Jo Ann Brown
May 25, 2020
Memorial Service at Locust Grove pic 2
Jo Ann Brown
May 25, 2020
Bob speaking at Memorial Service
Jo Ann Brown
May 25, 2020
Jo Ann speaking at Memorial Service
Jo Ann Brown
May 25, 2020
Memorial Service at Locust Grove pic 1
Jo Ann Brown
May 25, 2020
Marks Orange Guitar
May 18, 2020
Marks Red Electric Guitar
May 18, 2020
Marks Black Guitar
Jo Ann Brown
May 18, 2020
Scabble Nights with Mom
Jo Ann Brown
May 18, 2020
Orange ChimpHomage Controllor
Jo Ann Brown
May 18, 2020
Routine before bed.
Jo Ann Brown
May 17, 2020
Loved his cheek on mine!
Jo Ann Brown
May 17, 2020
Special Guitar girft from Sheila McVicker
Jo Ann Brown
May 17, 2020
Clove Creek Dinner Theater Walk in The Park Feb 8th 2020
Jo Ann Brown
May 17, 2020
Dad's Buddy - Matching Uniforms
Jo Ann Brown
May 17, 2020
Original "Harold the Great"
Jo Ann Brown
May 17, 2020
Mark riding bike
Jo Ann Brown
May 16, 2020
Proud of Catch- makes it Screensaver
Jo Ann Brown
May 16, 2020
Original Harold
Jo Ann Brown
May 16, 2020
Fishing Trip with Dad and Uncle Phil
Jo Ann Brown
May 16, 2020
Mark's Good Friend, RIANNA.
Jo Ann Brown
May 16, 2020
Mercy and Mark. He loved her!
Jo Ann Brown
May 16, 2020
That Hat brought lots of Comments!
Jo Ann Brown
May 16, 2020
Cousin Lena and Mark
Jo Ann Brown
May 16, 2020
Budley's Stare was Constant
Jo Ann Brown
May 16, 2020
One of Rob's favorite pictures of them together
Jo Ann Brown
May 15, 2020
Mark and Monswa Sir Budley Brooklyn Brown (Bud)
Jo Ann Brown
May 15, 2020
Rob and Mark
Jo Ann Brown
May 15, 2020
Leonsaby Cornwallis Jackson Brown (Leo)
Jo Ann Brown
May 15, 2020
Harold the Greater
Jo Ann Brown
May 15, 2020
Contented Happy Baby
Jo Ann Brown
May 15, 2020
Cousins
Jo Ann Brown
May 15, 2020
Uncle Phil (Philly)
May 15, 2020
Uncle Billy
May 15, 2020
Grandma and Grandpa Odierno at Marks Memorial Service
Dorothy Odierno
May 11, 2020
I miss Marks words, "Hi Grandma - Hi Grandpa
He was always so respectful and polite
Best Grandson
He will always be close to our hearts.
Love and miss him Grandma and Grandpa Odierno
Madison Brown
May 6, 2020
Its taken me a while to come up with the words to express how sad I am about losing my cousin Mark. I will miss him very very much. I loved sitting around the campfire toasting marshmallows while he strummed his guitar.
It is going to be very different now without hearing him play guitar. He taught me to play some things on guitar and now everytime I play I am reminded of him. I can't wait to see him soon so we can play guitar together again.
April 20, 2020
I was very sad to hear about Mark, although I am just the medical secretary for Dr. Parajon, where Mark would come, he was such a nice person. Every time he came to the office he had that smile on his face. I am truly sorry for your loss and I will miss him terribly.
Andrea
Helen Avakian
April 17, 2020
JoAnn and Bob,
I was shocked and saddened to hear of your loss of Dear Mark.
I so enjoyed meeting Mark and working with him as his guitar teacher at Dutchess Community College. He was a lovely young man, always kind and thoughtful to me, studious and hard working, dedicated to his guitar and music, and always an asset to any group class that I had the pleasure of having him in.
I am so sorry about his mental illness situation. I more heard about than really witnessed or experienced his struggles. He seemed to find much joy and purpose with his music which is where I was meeting him. It brings me a bittersweet pleasure to see how so many bring up his guitar playing and singing in these memories here. As a teacher I am very proud of Mark and all he accomplished with his music. As a mentor and friend, I am heartbroken to hear of his passing.
I noticed his cousin Mia mentioned he gave her a guitar. I remember him telling me about that with great pleasure, such a lovely way to share music with his family. I also remember when another cousin of Mark's was born he wrote a song about her and was so excited to meet her in Florida.
I didn't get to see Mark very much once I moved to the midwest, but it was always great to see him at a show and you as well, Jo Ann.
Sending deepest sympathy and Love to you and your family.
Love you and miss you Mark!
Dottie Odierno
March 30, 2020
When Mark was born it was a snow storm. As you know after a storm ends the next day the sun shines, the sky is blue and you feel renewed HOPE. The first time I looked at Mark I noticed he had a big head. I was hopeful that his body would grow to accommodate that big head. In no time - it did and he was so cute and all proportioned. As I held him he would look with wonder as he was curious of anyone who held him and he would look into their eyes, snuggle and smile. We would drive to work at the laundromat in Pawling and we would sing together in the car.....we would sing:
"You are my sunshine, my only sunshine
You make me happy when skies are gray
You'll never know dear, how much I love you
Please don't take my sunshine away".
Mark was hard working and very happy. He was also wise...one day he told me "Grandma do not worry about what things you cannot control". This always stuck with me and helps me. At work we would talk about Bible truths, how much we loved creation and how we looked forward to a world without sickness and death. He had a great sense of humor....one day he looked at my wedding picture and asked, "Grandma who is that?" I said, "Thats me and Grandpa and he said, "What happened?"
We all will hold Mark in our hearts and have
Our hope of the resurrection right here on a paradise earth. I look forward to seeing my sweet Grandson again healthy and I am proud to say ,"He was my Grandson."
I was proud to say "MARK IS MY GRANDSON"
Grandmother Dottie Odierno
March 30, 2020
March 29, 2020
I am one of Mark's friends over Xbox LIVE, and I am deeply saddened to learn of his passing.
Though I did not know Mark at a personal level, I played countless Halo 3 games with him and shared laughs. The game nights with Mark are one of my favourite memories which I will always cherish.
I will forever miss you, Mark 'ChimpHomage'. My deepest condolences to your family Mark. Thanks for the many laughs and memories, buddy.
May you Rest In Peace.
~Hey Im Swat
Melissa & Ken
March 26, 2020
Words cannot express the deep sadness we all feel over losing Mark. He was a sweet, kind and gentle human being. We loved listening to mark play the guitar at family dinners and campfires. I always loved to challenge him to a game of scrabble. I loved that he shared his love of guitar with Maddie and taught her how to play a little. Our heart breaks for you, Bob & Jo Ann, you were amazing parents who sacrificed so much to help him with his struggles. We look forward to the day to be reunited with him in a peaceful paradise where death will truly be no more. We love Mark dearly and forever. See you when you wake up Mark!
McKenzie Brown
March 20, 2020
Im so happy I got to get to know Mark while growing up. Creating many fun memories with him during family trips, like the times we went to Outer Banks. He will so missed at the bonfires and family dinners, where we would eat Pepes pizza and listen to Mark strum away on his guitar while he sang. I loved seeing the pictures Mark would show me of Sir Budley and Harold the Greater and hearing how they were. I will miss hearing his laugh while he would always beat us at scrabble and ping pong. Im really looking to make more memories and laughing with you in Paradise, Mark! See you very soon.
John Conto
March 17, 2020
Jo Ann, once again I am really sorry for your loss. In reading his obituary I saw some similarities in my son Justin. Especially in his joy of playing his guitar and his cat Mittens. We often got together in my garage and jammed together. I miss him as I am sure that you miss Mark. Once again I am sorry and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Jen and Mike
March 11, 2020
You could not see Mike and I on Saturday. But we saw you and Bob. We saw two of the strongest people I have ever met. You provided Mark with a life full of love. The same love that you spread out in the community and even managed to convey as you spoke on Saturday. I had never had the privilege of hearing Mark perform until Saturday. He was truly gifted
Im sorry we didnt do the receiving line. There was a room so full of love Im sure you didnt miss us. I spoke to Shelia afterwards. I couldnt even find her in the crowd
Please know we are here for you both. Dont hesitate to ask for anything. You both remain in my prayers. And as you know and said you will see Mark again in Paradise
Christine Giannelli
March 11, 2020
Hi Jo Ann,
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your son!
My heart breaks for you & your family!
You were very instrumental in helping to guide me & offer hope during my time of crisis w/my teenage son last year for which I am truly grateful!
We spoke several times for extended periods on the phone.
I am truly sorry to learn of your tremendous loss!
Stay strong & know that as a parent you did all that you could humanly do!
Wishing you find peace & sending prayers,
Christine(Tina) Giannelli
Mia Newman
March 11, 2020
I feel so honored to have been Mark's cousin while he was still here with me. I got to learn guitar because of him! I'll never forget when he came to visit Florida with a new guitar and I said that's a cool guitar Mark, and he said it's yours... such a generous loving heart. He always made me laugh, I loved getting competitive with him at board games, and he was so easy to talk to about literally anything. I'm so happy that his suffering is over, but what is so painful is having to wait until the end of this wicked world to see him again. He stayed alive as long as he could for all of us, including me, and that inspires me to have courage and keep fighting through my mental illness. I love you so much buddy, see you in paradise
March 10, 2020
So sorry to hear about the loss of your son, Mark. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this extremely difficult time and hope the memories and love help ease the pain.
Elaine DellaPia
Karen Tremaine
March 10, 2020
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. As a student of one of your classes I am aware of how much you loved and supported Mark. Please hang on to all the happy memories of his life and thank you for all you have done for other families because of his presence in your family.
Crissy Groenewegen
March 9, 2020
I am so sorry for your loss. I could not be present but you were all in my thoughts. I hope you find peace in your memories.
Rebecca Caramanica
March 7, 2020
We are sorry we cant be there to support yall today, but we are sending our deepest love from Texas. You are heavy in our thoughts and prayers ❤ Love, from the Caramanicas
Reeya Banerjee
March 6, 2020
I was in a music class with Mark a few years back. He was a kind and supportive presence in the class, and his talent as a guitar player truly was exceptional. I am honored to have been in the room the first time he ever sang Ring of Fire in front of a group. I am so sorry to hear of his loss. I'm grateful that he was able to preservere long enough to share his musical gifts with so many people, including myself. His family and loved ones are in my thoughts.
Dan Anderson
March 6, 2020
I was so glad when Mark agreed to be a part of the band. His talent was only exceeded by his humility and generosity. He could really get the room dancing. His solos soared and when he sang Ring Of Fire he just made us want to rock it. He was a musical force.
Jeff Werner
March 6, 2020
There's a special bond among band mates; music-making, a special privilege. I'm glad that I had the opportunity to make music with Mark. His song is missed.
Debra Piro
March 5, 2020
He is with G'd now in peace and one day you will be with him again. G'D BLESS YOU MARK!
Harold Bonacquist
March 5, 2020
My band mate. Best lead guitarist I ever worked with. Great guy with a great sense of humor, always easy to get along with and fun to be around.
Richard Wyman
March 5, 2020
Mark and I communicated best through music .He and I playing guitar together became a highlight of my week and has left me missing him dearly.I will never forget the gigs we played and your wonderful friends and family there to cheer us on..I will miss your smile and your kind soul.Bye Mark.Peace and love to all.Richard
Lydia Edelhaus
March 5, 2020
Jo Ann,
Please accept my sincerest condolences and sympathy on your and your family's great loss. My heart is with you.
Lydia
October 11th, 2008. The first time we met, on Halo 3. I had the rare Recon armor and you were so excited to finally play against someone with it. I never remembered the story but you always told me how we met. You always said I was mad about this T-Bag an
Jon Lock
March 5, 2020
October 11th, 2008. The first time we met, on Halo 3. I had the rare Recon armor and you were so excited to finally play against someone with it. I never remembered the story but you always told me how we met. You always said I was mad about this T-Bag and how I said "This is why I don't like wearing this armor." You countinued to tell me how you felt really bad, and how you even sent me an apology message too. It's insane to think back how all these cards aligned in my life and how we would go on to be best friends for nearly 11.5 years all over this one moment. Thank you for the bag that day, who knew what the future would bring of it. I'm really glad you did. There are not enough words to describe you and literally the countless memories we share, endless phone calls, laughs, gaming too late and always joking and having fun together. I will miss you every day for the rest of my life brother aka Chimp. Thank you Lord for bringing us together.
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