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BEACON - Melissa Ann Nussbickel, a lifelong Beacon resident, died at home surrounded by her family on Saturday, April 5, 2014 following a two-year battle with cancer. She was 30 years old.
She was born in Poughkeepsie on May 21, 1983 and attended local schools, graduating from Beacon High School in 2001. She began her college curriculum at Dutchess Community College and later received her Bachelor's and Master's degrees from the John Jay College of Criminal Justice in Manhattan.
Throughout her studies, Melissa worked as a waitress for Brothers Trattoria in Beacon. In 2007, she began her career as a Case Worker for the Administration of Children's Services in the Bronx. She was a hard worker and dedicated her life to the well-being and care of children. She was also a parishioner of St. Joachim - St. John The Evangelist Parish in Beacon.
She is survived by her parents, Paul & Mary Ann (Montague) Nussbickel at home in Beacon; her sisters, Kristen Rutkowski & her husband Philip of Littleton, CO and Jenna Nussbickel of Beacon; her niece and goddaughter, Mikayla; her nephew, Connor; . Melissa is also survived by a host of aunts, uncles, cousins, and many other loving relatives & friends.
She was predeceased by her maternal Grandparents Marguerite and Joseph Montague, and her paternal grandfather, John Nussbickel.
Calling hours will be held from 4 to 8 p.m. on Tuesday, April 8 and Wednesday, April 9 at the McHoul Funeral Home of Fishkill, Inc., 1089 Main Street, Fishkill. A Mass of Christian Burial will be offered at 10 a.m. on Thursday, April 10 at St. John The Evangelist Church, 31 Willow Street, Beacon. Interment will follow at St. Joachim Cemetery in Beacon.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to St. Judes Children's Research Hospital, 501 St Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105, www.stjude.org.
For directions, online condolences, and memorial donations, please visit Melissa's Book of Memories at www.mchoulfuneralhome.com.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Melissa Nussbickel
Albert & Ann Letterio
April 1, 2021
As long as there is love and memory, there is no true loss.
Sheila A
May 2, 2014
Reading the comments made me smile, Continued blessing to the family, friends, co-workers and loved ones
M. A. G. F
April 27, 2014
Gracefully, You've completed your deed on this earth.
I only know this because I spoke to you twice, in passing...& in doing so you've left an impression in me that will carry me through the rest of my life. I, thank you! Imagine how many others you did the same for? :-)
Go on and Rest in peace.
Jessica Roa
April 22, 2014
Melissa my dear unit member, my friend. I will miss her laugh it was the type of laugh that can cure any sadness. Her hard work and determination made her the strongest person I have met. Not only was she strong but she had this energy that would draw people around her. She loved her job, loved protecting children, and fought for what was right. God Bless Her in Heaven!
For Melissa Family; My Condolences, and my prayers are with your family.
Frank Acevedo
April 16, 2014
My most sincerest condolences to the Nussbickel family. Melissa was funny, caring, hard working and most of all, a BRAVE, gutsy young women. I loved going to work because when she was there it was a good chance it was going to be a great day. She'll always be in my prayers and may GOD bless her forever. I will miss her.
April 15, 2014
Offering prayers that the family will find peace and comfort in the loving memories of this life shared with us, Think of Melissa often and smile or laugh with each recall. This has helped me during times such as this. Continued blessing
Shelanie B.
April 14, 2014
Sleep In Peace. My prayers to your family and friends...
Shanel Monroe
April 12, 2014
My thoughts and prayers go out to the Nussbickel family.Melissa and I ventured into the doors of Acs together, 7 years ago. I Will always remember her captivating smile, her witty laugh and sweet spirit, she will be missed. RIP Melissa!
Jasodra Doobay
April 11, 2014
So sorry to hear about your loss.My deepest sympathy & prayers to the Nussbickel.
Jennifer Lane
April 11, 2014
We are so very sorry for you great loss. May she shine like an angel down on your families. Peace be with you all.
(From N&S Supply in Kingston)
Lourdes Alicea
April 10, 2014
To Melissa:
You will be missed ... your feistiness always brought a smile to my face ... You are at peace and no longer in pain ... A true angel now ...
To Melissa's Family:
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sorrow ... Find peace in that she is looking down at you grateful for love and support you provided her ... Know that her 'at work family' share in your sorrow ... We were blessed to have known her ... Your daughter must have been a source of pride and joy. Her strength and determination are a testimony to what she must have gotten from all of you ...
Nadine Evans
April 10, 2014
Although I did not personally know her, I feel great sadness to know someone so young and beautiful with so much more to accomplish is gone too soon. My condolences go out to all her family and loved ones.
Shanel Monroe
April 9, 2014
My prayers and deepest condolences go out the the Nussbickel family, for the loss of Melissa. Although we did not know one another for long; I will miss your bright smile; captivating laugh and spirit. It was only 7 years ago that we met and ventured via the doors of Acs together; You will not be forgotten. RIP Melissa !
N. Espinet
April 9, 2014
May the Peace of God strengthen and guide the family and friends as you experience this most difficult situation. RIP Melissa.
Georgeann Rutkowski
April 9, 2014
Our sweet Melissa - miss you so. Smile down on us and let us hear your laughter.
virgen rosas
April 9, 2014
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
April 9, 2014
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Crystal Allen
April 9, 2014
I didn't know Melissa but my condolences and my prayers go out to her family.
Jacqueline Brown CPS
April 9, 2014
I had the pleasure of working with Melissa in the MPA Bronx Field office. I will remember her beautiful smile that would brighten the room and her tremendous STRENGTH and WILL to live and will forever cherish the times she asked me to pray for her as well as the conversations we shared. God saw her struggle and he decided it was time for her to come home. She has fought a good fight, now it time for her to rest then begin her heavenly duties, for God has certainly acquired another ANGEL. REST IN PEACE beautiful Angel.
To the Nussbickel Family... Matthew 5:4 says, "Blessed are they that mourn for they shall be comforted." Please take comfort in knowing that our dear Melissa's pain and sufferings are over. I pray that God strengthens you all for the journey ahead.
Greg Bentley
April 9, 2014
Please accept our sincere condolences. We have been and continue to pray for you and Melissa throughout her illness and passing. Your care and devotion are a wonderful demonstration of selfless parenting and family love. We pray for continued strength for your family. Greg Bentley and family.
Raquel Santiago
April 9, 2014
Although I din't know Melissa, Please accept my deepest condolences.
Marlene Adams
April 9, 2014
It breaks my heart to learn that someone so young, vibrant, and beautiful has gone home to be with the Lord so soon. My condolences to the family and friends. R.I.P. Melissa!
donna tomlins
April 9, 2014
There are no words to express how sorry I am for your loss. My Thoughts,Prayers are with you all. May Melissa Rest In Peace. Donna Tomlins
Kathy Bly
April 9, 2014
I did not know Melissa however she is part of a very special family, ACS. Her dedication speaks volumes as she continued to work despite her illness. My thoughts and prayers are with her family and those who know her. May she rest in peace.
Magret Onabanjo
April 9, 2014
I pray that God will comfort the Nussbickel family at a time like this.
April 9, 2014
My condolescencs,heart, thoughts ands prayers go out to you and your family. Although it is hard when we lose someone we lose, just take comfort in knowing that she will always be with you in your spirits.
Andree Oliver
ACS-Unit 346 1200 Waters Place
Mona Ford
April 9, 2014
Although I did not have the pleasure of knowing Melissa on a personal level, she was still my colleague and I wanted to take this time to send condolences to her family. May she sleep peacefully.
Lauren Chalese Assing
April 9, 2014
Praying comfort for Melissa's family and friends.
Vivianne Mitchell
April 9, 2014
I did not personally know Melissa but I am a CPS as well and would like to extend my condolences to the family. My God strenghten you in you time of loss.
Brian Fearon
April 9, 2014
My thoughts and prayers are with the Nussbickel family. Melissa was a wonderful co-worker and a great spirit-she will be missed greatly.
April 9, 2014
When the e-mails come around, I ususally look at them, shake my head and keep going. For some strange reason I looked her up. Didn't know her, but her family has my condolences. May her sprirt rest in peace with our creator.
A co-worker
Unit 357
April 8, 2014
To the family of Melissa N. - please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss… our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. Melissa was not only a co-worker; she was our friend, a part of our family. We will miss that upbeat spirit that she normally brings to the office; that spunk to any situation and that beautiful smile that lights up the room. May her soul rest in peace.
Nancy Sánchez-Summerford
April 8, 2014
Words fall short of expressing my sorrow for your loss. May God continue to give your strength during this time. Melissa , you will be missed and may you Rest in Peace. ????
Love always,
Nancy
ACS
MPA BRONX FIELD OFFICE
Kimberly Puletz
April 8, 2014
I am so sorry to hear of Melissa's passing. It's clear that she was very loved by everyone in our hometown area as I heard nothing but good things about her. I remember meeting Melissa briefly at Brother's Trattoria for my father's birthday and she was as sweet as could be. My prayers are with you all during this difficult time.
April 8, 2014
Rest in peace Melissa
your co-worker
Lawrence Sari
April 8, 2014
May her soul rest in perfect peace.
Doreen Russell
April 8, 2014
I did not know Melissa personally however hearing of her loss touched a special place in my heart. May her soul rest in peace and my deepest condolences go out to the family. God Bless.
Brandi Billings
April 8, 2014
Dear Nussbickel Family,
I am deeply sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you all.
April 8, 2014
May God be your strength and refuge doing this time.
M. Clark ACS Brooklyn
April 8, 2014
May God comfort your hearts and give you peace at this difficult times so sorry for your loss beautiful person.
Pamela Rumph
Mamie
April 8, 2014
May you rest in peace and may your spirit help to guide those families you have served.
Kathy Mays
April 8, 2014
I pray the peace of God rein, rule and abide in your heart in the lost of your love one. God bless you!
Aunetrius Raysor
April 8, 2014
May God comfort your family at this time. Please stand strong together at this time.
Robin Duncan
April 8, 2014
She was a beautiful person and will be greatly missed.
Miguelina Acevedo
April 8, 2014
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Chandra singh
April 8, 2014
I never met Melissa but I am sorry to hear the passing of a CPS especially someone so young. RIP
Elizabeth Akinyemi
April 8, 2014
Please accept my deepest sympathy. I pray for God to wipe away tears and replace it for a beautiful memories.
April 8, 2014
Although I didn't know her personally, I send my condolences to her family. May she rest in peace. C. Burns
April 8, 2014
My Condolences to the family and friends of Meissa, you are all in my parayers.
Jen Lofgren
April 8, 2014
Dear Nussbickel Family,
I am so deeply for your loss. Melissa was a beautiful sweet sweet girl. My prayers are with you all in this difficult time.
April 8, 2014
IT WAS SUCH A GREAT PLEASURE TO HAVE CROSS PATHS WITH AN INCREDIBILY WARM SPIRITED PERSON. SHE WILL TRULY BE MISSED BY ME. MY DEDICATION TO THE NUSSBICKEL FAMILY IS A SONG BY THE LATE MICHAEL JACKSON "GONE TO SOON". PLEASE PLAY THIS SONG AND CHERISH THE WORDS AS WE ALWAYS REMEMBER OUR DEAR MELISSA.
Arlene Palmer
April 8, 2014
To my dearest Melissa, may you rest in peace. As for the family, may your love and fond memories help you get through these hard times. Many Blessings.
April 8, 2014
My sincere sympathy to the family for the loss of your dear loved one. May you find peace and comfort in Psalms 65:2. Again my deepest sympathy.
Janet Robinson
April 8, 2014
my condolences to the family. May she R.I.P.
Kristan Webb
April 8, 2014
God bless your family and my sincerest condolences for your loss.
Alethea Francis
April 8, 2014
I had a pleasure of knowing Melissa. She had a warm spirit and although she was ill she kept that smile on her face every time I saw her. She will be missed.
Yvonne Mendez
April 8, 2014
So sorry for your loss. Met her once and she was so sweet. Rest in Peace.
eileen horan
April 8, 2014
Heart felt sorrow for the loss of your beautiful daughter. My prayers are for you Mary Ann, Paul and Melissa's siblings.
Sophia Gayle-Curtis
April 8, 2014
To the family, my deepest condolences to you. I knew Melissa as a colleague.She was a wonderful person on earth and now an angel in heaven.May she rest in peace.
Tammy Moore
April 8, 2014
" A great soul serves everyone all the time. A great soul never dies. It brings us togethr again and again". Maya Angelou
Sulany Madrid
April 8, 2014
Heaven has gained another angel! May you have eternal peace. You will always be remembered for your bravery and strong will to fight. What an inspiration to all!
Matt Ball
April 8, 2014
My heart aches knowing Melissa was called home. She was such a warm and kind-hearted person. My deepest condolences go out to Melissa's Family. I know she was a fighter and had such a beautiful outlook on life. She will be forever in my thoughts and prayers.
Steven Hernandez, ACS/DCP
April 8, 2014
To the Nussbickel family, your daughter was a beautiful person to be around. I always remember her smile and positive spirit. I am so very sorry for your loss and I offer my prayers so that your hearts may be comforted in this most difficult time.
April 8, 2014
You will be missed! Your smile always lit up the room! My prayers are with your loved ones!
Victoria
April 8, 2014
Rest in Peace Melissa
Vicky Brown
April 8, 2014
God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.You will be missed Melissa.
PASCUAL GOMEZ JR
April 8, 2014
MELISSA YOUR AN ANGEL OF THE CHILDREN IN HEAVEN. YOU WILL BE MISS BY YOUR CO-WORKERS AND FAMILY. GODBLESS YOU
April 8, 2014
YOU WORK TO PROTECT CHILDREN ON EARTH, NOW AS AN ANGEL YOU WILL WORK FROM HEAVEN TO PROTECT CHILDREN ON EARTH..
Carol
April 8, 2014
Melissa brought so many gifts to our life.I will never forget her
Rest in Peace
Denise
April 8, 2014
I worked with her. she was AWESOME!!! She will be missed..
God wanted one of his angels close to him.
Sandy White
April 7, 2014
Having had the privilege of being Melissa's fifth grade teacher, I can remember the impact of her warm smile and caring personality.
My heart breaks for all of you.
Robert Uszenski
April 7, 2014
To the Nussbickel Family, we are sending our deepest sympathies and may your beautiful Daughter Melissa's memories comfort you during this very difficult time. Bob and Mary Uszenski
Dawn Graham
April 7, 2014
"For I can do all things through Christ Who gives me the strength." (Philippians 4:13). As you go through this journey I want you to know your daughter was a dynamic, pleasant and beautiful angel. Her laughter was contagious. She will live forever in your memories as you cherish each other. Bronx ACS/MPA.
Kara Supple
April 7, 2014
Rest Peacefully Missy
Joy Pleasants-Cintron
April 7, 2014
My deepest condolences to the Nussbickel family. I'm so sorry for your loss. May Melissa be free from pain now & rest in peace.
Shaton Alexander
April 7, 2014
May God provide comfort to all those touched by such a beautiful and strong individual. Melissa will be missed
John Williams
April 7, 2014
My prayers go to Melissa's family. She fought like few have. I always looked foward seeing her at work, great spirit and a zest for life. I will miss her.
Sarah Hill --CPSS ACS
April 7, 2014
My deepest condolences to the family. Her star will always shine bright - just look for it.
April 7, 2014
My deepest condolences to the family. Melissa was such a fighter throughout this entire process. Melissa always had a smile on her face and made everyone laugh with her unique laughter. I will forever carry Melissa in my heart. Although Melissa may not be here now, she will forever be remembered.
~Lidia Leon
Ayo Adeniyi
April 7, 2014
The news of your passing is shocking and sad. I pray that God console comfort your family at this most difficult times. You had a beautiful heart and always willing to assist your colleagues. May God grant you eternal rest.
Sairis Diaz
April 7, 2014
You will always be missed! Your power laugh and warm smile. In our hearts always.
Carlotta Ofield
April 7, 2014
I would like to extend my deepest condolences to the family. Melissa was a colleague of mine and I am deeply saddened by her passing. I pray that God will give you strength during this time. My prayers are with you.
Carlotta Ofield.
April 7, 2014
Gone too soon. Will always remember you beautiful smiles/laughter. Such a lovable young lady. May God grant you eternal peaceful rest.
Gabriel Olukunle (former co-worker)
virgen Rosas
April 7, 2014
my condolence to the family
Rochelle Davis
April 7, 2014
To the Nussbickel Family,
I offer my condolences. May GOD bring comfort knowing Melissa is in a better place.
Gladys
April 7, 2014
We are so sorry for your loss, Melissa, will be missed, but forever in our hearts. Rest in Peace.
Maria Biondo
April 7, 2014
Dear Nussbickel Family,
My heartfelt condolences are with you. Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Ramon Silverio
April 7, 2014
I will always remember Melissa as a lively, hard working,and always smiling young lady even when she was in pain. It is so painful to see her gone so young with so much desire to to live and with so much to contribute. I will keep Melissa and her family in my prayers and may her soul rest in peace.
Lisa Bolling
April 7, 2014
To the Nussbickel Family: Please accept my deepest condolences for the loss of Melissa. She was very strong and had a wonderful spirit that touched every one at The Administration For Children's Services, Morris Park location. She left wonderful footprints that will be remembered by all. Please know our prayers are with your family during this time.
Danielle Crouch
April 7, 2014
Mel - a young woman of great strength, you will be truely missed. I will always remember you infectious laugh and dedication to everything you do. Gone too soon but remembered always. My love and sympathy go out to your family during this difficult time.
Albert & Ann Letterio
April 7, 2014
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Michael Rydlewski
April 7, 2014
Paul and the Nussbickle Family, In the depths of our Winters God's warmth smiles gently. In this time of loss...
you have my deepest sympathy
Kathy Wronka
April 7, 2014
Melissa, you've always been an angel even before you arrived in heaven.
Marcia Stein
April 7, 2014
Dear Nussbickel Family, I am very sorry for the loss of Melissa. She was a great student and now heaven has the best beautiful angel.
Lynne & Ray Hall
April 7, 2014
Our Lord has chosen another of his beautiful children to be an angel in heaven - love an condolences to you and all of your family at this difficult time
Debra DeBerardinis
April 7, 2014
Beautiful Melissa...you were an angel here on earth and now in heaven with God. I was blessed to have known you...May God bless your family and help them through this sorrowful time. I will always remember you. XOXOXO... Debra
Nicole Thorne
April 6, 2014
Kristen and Nussbickel Family, Words can't express how saddened I am to hear of Melissa's passing. May God bless you and your family at this most difficult time.
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