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Thomas Horner Obituary

Thomas R. Horner

Pleasant Valley - On October 5, 1925, in Bethlehem, PA, I was born "at home" in a house that did not have indoor plumbing. I was delivered by a women doctor who drove an electric car. My parents were Maud Louise (Gruver) and Russell Conwell Horner. I had two older sisters, Janet (deceased) and Marion (deceased).

While growing up, I attended Bethlehem public schools and had many jobs-selling magazines (starting at age 8), delivering newspapers, singing in a boy's choir, setting up pins in a bowing alley, "jerking sodas" at a drug store, and 'stocking" and "checking-out" at Bethlehem's first "supermarket". In 1942, at 17, I enlisted in the Marine Corps. After a year and a half in the Pacific area, I was aboard ship, on my way back to the states from Guam to attend Officer's Candidate School (in preparation for invading Japan) when the nuclear bombs were dropped

on Hiroshima and Nagasaki. I arrived in San Francisco on VJ day (August 14, 1945). I was discharged on Sept. 26 (no longer a need for OCS). I attended Lehigh University (on GI Bill), and received a B.S. in Electrical Engineering in Feb 1950, and immediately went to work for IBM.

Starting as a Customer Engineer in Philadelphia, I progressed through development engineering, product testing (local and HQ), and was manager of the IBM UK Product Testing Laboratory at the time of the System 360 announcement in 1964 in Hursely, England, where the prototype was designed. After returning to the USA, I had various managerial/staff jobs in Product Test, Quality Assurance, and Product Standards. I retired from IBM in 1987.

Over the years, I've had many interests and hobbies—motorcycles, cars (hot rods and sports cars), guns, and airplanes. I started flying in 1971, at age 46, and quit at age 80. My good friend, Charlie Conklin, introduced me to aerobatics in 1977 (by announcing to my flying buddies "I'm going to make Tom sick"). I was "sold" and subsequently flew with some of the top aerobatic pilots/instructors in the country (Daniel and Montaine Heligoin, Clint McHenry and Bill Kershner).

In my first marriage (1946), I fathered four intelligent/capable children, Rebecca (Accord, NY), Jennifer (Athens, OH), Judson (Boston, MA), and Mitchell and partner Janie (Starksboro, VT). They have all been successful in the paths they have chosen to follow.

My second marriage (1971) to my lovely, devoted and pretty wife, Barbara, gave me three fine step-children, Kevin Gates and partner Charyl Slezak (Rhinebeck, NY), Michael Gates (Pleasant Valley, NY) and partner Sara Healy, Jill Karn and husband Jeffrey(Poughkeepsie, NY) , who have also been successful in the directions they have chosen.

Grandchildren Ryan Patrick McKenzie, Brody and Jenna Karn, Scott, Fletcher and Bethany Ellison.

My final hope is that every man experiences a life equal to mine. Cheers.

Calling Hours will be held Monday October 24, 2016 from 4pm to 7pm at the Timothy P. Doyle Funeral Home 371 Hooker Ave. Poughkeepsie, New York 12603. There will be a Memorial service starting at 6:30pm with Military Honors.

The family would like Memorial Donations to be made to The Wounded Warriors.

If you would like to leave an online condolence please visit www.doylefuneralhome.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Poughkeepsie Journal from Oct. 21 to Oct. 24, 2016.

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Stephanie

October 27, 2016

Reading the life story of Mr Horner made me reflect on the words recorded at Ecclesiastes 7:8 "Better is the end of a matter than its beginning."
May remembering his life bring a smile to your hearts.
May the promises recorded in the scriptures give you hope.

Craig Gates

October 25, 2016

"A life equal to yours, Tom"!? I'd settle for a fraction with a sense of accomplishment! Thank you for the Sunday flying lessons, chats and looking at the Hudson Valley from the best perspective one can have...and the dip of the wing over the farm to let Aunt Barbara know we were headed home. Thank you for the "Wednesday Italian Nights" in your home full of great conversation, laughs and amazing food with my cousins and wonderful Aunt! Memories never to be forgotten! Thank you, Craig

Lois McCue (Ehlers)

October 25, 2016

So sad to hear. I was Tom's 23 year old secretary at IBM Poughkeepsie for several years in the sixties and because of working for him I have been married for 49 years to Dan McCue, a man I was fortunate to meet as he exited from "Mr. Horner's"office. I was honored to have worked with Tom Horner and thought he was the very best in every sense. Since I've lived in MA for many years, there has never been a time passing the Pleasant Valley exit on the Taconic Pkwy that I haven't wondered about him. I wish I had had one more opportunity to see him. My sincerest sympathies.

Steve Warren

October 25, 2016

Rebecca,

I am so sorry to hear of your great loss. He sounded like a great man. Our prayers are with you. Wishing for God's strength and comfort to be dwelling inside of you during this difficult time.

October 24, 2016

Rebecca

We are sorry to hear about your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Steve and Christine Clausen

October 24, 2016

Rebecca,
Your father must have been a wonderful person.
Sorry for your loss.
Diana & Dale

karen spinozzi

October 24, 2016

rebecca, i'm so sorry for your loss. my thoughts and prayers are with you.

love,
karen

Cheryl Billings

October 23, 2016

Tom, you were one of the finest men I have ever known. Thanks for the pool lessons, and inspiration regarding life. It's been an honor to have known you and more importantly, to call you a friend.

Tracey Donaldson

October 23, 2016

I used to "work out" with Tom at Valley Fitness. We saw each other almost everyday. He was such a role model - always with his white towel around his neck, lifting weights and staying in shape. He spoke fondly of his family. I would cycle past his home and always think of him, even met his wife one day at the mail box. Rest in peace, Tom.

jim trunk

October 23, 2016

Kevin,Charyl,and family.Sorry for your loss.My thoughts are with you.
jim

October 22, 2016

Our condolences May we find comfort at Psalms chapter forty six verse one GOD is our refuge and strength a help that is readily found

James Moysey

October 21, 2016

Tom-As you well know I a man of few words but it is with heart felt feelings that my eyes are tearing. Farewell and cheers, Jim

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