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David J. Decker

FUNERAL HOME

Allen Memorial Home - Endicott

511-513 East Main Street

Endicott, New York

David Decker Obituary

Decker, David J.

David J. Decker, 73, of Endicott, died Saturday, May 10, 2013, as a result of an automobile accident. He is survived by his wife, Judith; two sons, Scott and Joel; two sisters, Mary (Ken) Lowe and Betty Owens; four brothers, James (Betty), Daniel (Lois), Ben Decker and Tim Decker; and a number of nieces, nephews and cousins. He was a member of First Baptist Church, Endicott, a retired teacher with the Union-Endicott School District, where he was also the team statistician for the high school football and basketball teams. David was also a member of the NYS Retired Teachers Association and owner and operator of DJD Collectables. He also enjoyed history and sports. Funeral Services will be held Friday 1 p.m. from the Allen Memorial Home, 511-513 East Main Street, Endicott, with the Reverend James Rice, pastor of his church, officiating. Burial will be in Riverhurst Cemetery, Endicott. The family will receive friends at the Allen Memorial Home, Friday from 11:30 a.m. until service time at 1 p.m. In lieu of flowers, expressions of sympathy in his memory may be made to First Baptist Church, 1406 Monroe Street, Endicott, NY 13760.

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Published by Press & Sun-Bulletin from May 14 to May 16, 2014.

Memories and Condolences
for David Decker

28 Entries

Carol Demtrak-Moore

May 8, 2024

Dave- my gosh 11 years ago you left all of us who know you , in a tragic accident. Still , to this day , I think about you and Judy traveling to an antique fair as you had been doing for many, many years, when this happened. I missed our visits at the mall and you sharing your vast knowledge of ephemera and many other vintage items. I learned a great deal from you. I hope Judy and your sons are well and know you watch over them from heaven. Rest in Peace David.

November 11, 2014

Dear Decker Family-

I had just learned about Mr. Decker's passing. I had him in 5th grade about 46 years ago. I clearly remember what a fine teacher and person he was. He certainly helped me step up my game as a student. I am so sorry for your loss.

Gene George-- UEHS Class of '75

May 24, 2014

I'm truly sorry to hear of Mr Decker's passing. He was my 5th grade teacher and I, still to this day, speak of him as one of my favorite teachers! And, currently in the teaching profession, I realize what a remarkable person he really was! God's strength and comfort to your family.

May 19, 2014

Dave was a mentor to me for my first teaching job...5th grade at George H. Nichols. He helped me through many challenges and was professional and had a good sense of humor. He was a good teacher and role model. My sympathy to the family. Linda (Wheeler) Watson

Carol Demtrak-Moore

May 19, 2014

Judy, Joel, and Scott-I was saddened to read of Davids death. I will miss seeing him walking at the mall and gabbing with him. He was always a gentleman when he would stop into our center at the mall to drop his coat off before walking. He was a wealth of knowledge about antiques and ephemra which he had a vast collection of. He certainly contributed to the community in many ways. Please accept our sympathy.

Carol Demtrak-Moore and Antoinette Fitzpatrick

Cathy Phillips

May 16, 2014

My thoughts and prayers are with all the family.

Byrd Joy

May 16, 2014

I love you all and am praying for you. Sorry I couldn't be there.

Carol Demtrak-Moore

May 16, 2014

Judy, Joel and Scott. I was so saddened by the news of David's tragic accident. David walked each day at the mall and would stop in to leave his coat and hat at our business. We also talked many times about antiques and I would check out your booth at shows. Judy, I had the pleasure of meeting you with him. He spoke so often of you and his sons. He was a very nice guy and I hope that the memories you have will sustain you through this difficult time. Please accept my sympathy. Carol Demtrak-Moore

May 16, 2014

To the Decker Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time. Mr. Decker was my 5th grade teacher at George H. Nichols and he pushed me both in the classroom and on the playground. Later during my high school days he was the ultimate "stat man" and we managed to keep him busy! A class individual in every sense. God Bless.
Eddie Koban

James Bridge

May 16, 2014

I had Mr. Decker as a teacher and he was one of the best teachers I had. He was deeply committed to teaching and his students and after all these years, I can still remember his classes! My thoughts and prayers are with the family as he will be greatly missed.

Nancy Ward-Sarantapoulos

May 15, 2014

Dear Decker Family,

Please accept my sincerest condolences on the loss of your patriarch.

I believe I was in the first class he ever taught at Geo. H. Nichols I think it was 4th grade. He was a grand teacher! He made me memorize a poem and I still recite it to the kids every year at Christmas. He touched more kids than he will ever know. Yet he made us learn and made it fun.

May your fondest memories of Mr. Decker get you through this very sad time.

And may you find comfort as you all hear how much he was respected and loved by many kids (now adults).

God bless you all and Mr. Decker You live on in your children and grandchildren etc but in your students as well. RIP Mr. Decker.

Carla Paccio

May 15, 2014

Dear Decker Family,
I was very sad to hear of Mr. Decker passing away. Even though I never had him for 5th grade, he made a huge impression on me. He was always kind and very knowledgeable; now, 40 years later, as I reminisce it is evident how much he loved the kids. My heart and prayers go out to you all. In time, may your fond memories of him comfort you.

V.C.

May 15, 2014

My sincere sympathy to the family for the loss of your dear loved one. May you find peace and comfort in Psalms 65:2. Again my deepest sympathy.

Christi DeLap

May 15, 2014

My sincere sympathies to Judy, Joel & Scott. I haven't spoken with Dave in quite some time, but as Church Administrative Assistant at First Baptist for nearly 20 years, I have had many nice conversations with him. I even purchased an autographed Star Trek photo from him for my son one year. May God bless you all with wonderful memories.

Robert Dinaburg

May 15, 2014

The times I spent chatting with Dave were always enjoyable. He loved U-E, sports, historic stuff, and his family.

May 15, 2014

Dear Decker family, Our sincere sympathy for your loss. Dave was a perfect gentleman. We knew Dave through auctions and flea markets.
God Bless, Maureen and Bob McAlister

Nelson Papucci

May 14, 2014

Mr. Decker was the first "great" teacher I had. He'd give us monthly projects, in addition to our regular school work, which helped to greatly develop our sense of responsibility. I just learned of his passing, and am crying my eyes out right now.

Dave Petrozello

May 14, 2014

Very sorry to hear about Dave. I used to see him at Charlie Browns and the flea market, and he always had something for everyone and always had a large crowd around his table. He will be missed.

Tom Adams

May 14, 2014

Mrs. Decker,

Mr. Decker was loved by all his students. Even though I haven't seen him in 40 years I'll miss him. Great man!

Mary Anne Norris

May 14, 2014

The news of Dave's untimely death is so sad. He was such a "good guy". I have known Dave since 1982 as a staff member at George H. Nichols and after as a fellow retiree from the U-E District. It was always enjoyable to talk with Dave about an endless variety of topics. He had great knowledge of history, especially the military and the Civil War. My condolences to his family. They must know what an honorable, good person he was and surely have many fond, loving memories.

Heather Robinson-Watkins

May 14, 2014

To the Decker Family -
So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Sonny

May 14, 2014

Mr Decker was the first teacher that saw something in me. He didn't give up. He got me involved in softball, basketball, flag football, lunchtime kickball . He knew I had too much energy and back then no one was on medication we were just high strung high energy kids. He believed in me.. I will be eternally grateful and am saddened to learn of his passing. He was a great, honest , decent and kind man.. Someone we need down here but God must need him more up there... Travel safe..

Tracie Frederick

May 14, 2014

I did not know Mr. Decker, but I was traveling from NY back home to VA when we came upon the accident. I send my wishes of healing to his family and friends.

Olive Wilson

May 14, 2014

Mrs. Decker; my thoughts and prayers are with you. May Mr. Decker be your shining star.

George Wilson Sr

May 14, 2014

My prayers and well thought condolences go out to the family from my family and I here in Florida. May God bless you

Adrienne Kaminsky

May 14, 2014

I knew Mr Decker and his wife through the Indoor Flea Market. He was a kind man with a great wealth of knowledge that he was always willing to share. He will be greatly missed.

Becky (Spencer) Petrigala

May 14, 2014

So sad to hear of the passing of Mr. Decker. I had him in 5th grade at George H. Nichols and he was easily one of my favorite teachers. Condolences to his family.

Mayor John Bertoni

May 14, 2014

My condolences to the Family of Dave Decker. He was so well respected for not only his years as an Educator but his giving of his time and energy to help with the Sports Programs at Union Endicott. As so many saw him and appreciated his involvement so will they miss him and his contributions. May he rest in peace and we as a person we will miss him for sure.

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