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Will Vermilya
November 23, 2023
I worked with Lenny for many years at BOCES and miss his presence.
Mike Hannon
November 23, 2023
RIP Lenny.
Mike Hannon
November 23, 2021
Rest In Peace friend, the wave comes to the shore and returns to the sea, nothing is lost.
Sharon Frost
November 23, 2021
My memories of you will never end you were an awesome husband and father and I´m so happy to Be a part of the family.
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Mike Hannon
November 23, 2020
Funny I was just thinking about Lenny and the time we came to visit, it was cold and snow was everywhere. Lenny fixed dinner on the grill, he marinated some venison for three days as I recall and served it with a baked potato and a salad. I still remember how delicious that dinner was. We miss you Lenny but we know you are free now.
Sharon Frost
November 23, 2020
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
Connie Criscitello
January 26, 2014
I didn't know Lenny very well, but he seemed like a gentle man. My heart goes out to you Debbie, and all who loved him.
Sue Phipps Sadlon
December 6, 2013
to the Verrastro family,
I was so saddened to hear about Lenny. It brought back many memories from BOCES. He was a wonderful caring father...I remember many "chats" we would have to keep you on the right track, and he worked so hard to impart his strong work ethic to you boys.
I also have fond memories of Lenny as he worked with his students both in the classroom and at VICA. No teacher worked more tirelessly to help his students achieve success. He was a master teacher in every sense.
And, of course, I can never think of Lenny without thinking of those garlic greens he brought to school.
He was a generous, caring, sincere man...and I am so sorry for your loss.

December 5, 2013
Dear Deb, Cali, Evan and Rome and family:
We are all so shocked and deeply saddened about Lenny's passing. God called him home way too soon. We have to stick together and hold each other close now because that is what Lenny would want. We are all going to miss him terribly. He was a caring and loving husband, the greatest and best dad, and a true genuine friend that we could ever have. His kindness, smiling face and heart of gold will be carried with all of us in our hearts....Until that glorious day when we meet again. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. We love you always.
Rosemary and Mick
Brian Leonard
December 5, 2013
Debbie,Jason,Rome,Evan,Cali, I am so sorry for your loss, words can never express how we truly feel. You and the kids are in my prayers, we have some great memories from camping up at the river and I will cherish them forever. Lenny will be sadly missed by all that had the privilege of knowing him. May the Lord bless and comfort you.
Kim & Rich Guarini
December 4, 2013
Deb, Rome, Evan, Cali & family, we are so deeply sorry. We are so glad that the kids were here to visit and had a happy few hours with you all. We pray that time will ease your pain until you are all together again.
Willis Vermilya
December 3, 2013
Debbie and Family,
I worked with Lenny at BOCES for many years, I respected him for the man he was and the love he had for his family and his students. He will be missed but not forgotten by all who knew him and cared for him.
My deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Cheryl Hujar
December 3, 2013
Dear Debbie and family, My heart goes out to you in this heartbreaking time.I know of nothing I can say that will make it seem better. Just know that there are so many people who obviously loved Lenny and will be there for you all. He will be with you always.
Cheryl Hujar
Julie Michalak
December 3, 2013
Deb,
We all share in the loss of such a good man and friend. Lenny was a kind, caring, hardworking person that was like family to many of us and will truly be missed. No words can take away the pain of losing your soul mate. Just hold on to your memories and to one another and know that you are loved. Len may be gone from your reach but he will always be with you. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Rick Miller
December 2, 2013
Debbie, I'm sorry for you and your familiy's loss. I remember Lenny as always being a fun, friendly and all around great guy. Just heard of this yesterday and I'm shocked as well as saddened. May you and your family find peace.
Ilene Konyack
December 2, 2013
Deb and family,
There are no words that I can say. Just know you will be in my prayers and always in my heart. A great person returned to the Lord.
underwood family
December 2, 2013
My deepest sympathy to you and your family. I never got to meet him but he a 2 of my children in his class,and they both spoke highley of him.
Mike (Vinnie) Vinsevich
December 2, 2013
Debbie and family - I am deeply saddened to hear of the loss of Lenny. I first met Lenny when we played Little League baseball together(Franks Body shop).He was truly one of the nicest guys that I have ever met. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
December 2, 2013
So sorry for your loss Debbie and family. Lenny was a good guy and I'm glad to have known him. My thoughts are with you...Much love....Paula Burrell
December 1, 2013
So sorry to hear the sad news of Lenny's passing. I have known him since school days. He was a good man. God took him way too soon. May you find comfort from your wonderful memories.
With my deepest sympathy. Fondly, Gloria Rowlands~Cook
December 1, 2013
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time. Lenny will always hold a special spot in the hearts of the CTE fellow educators. Ginny Amato
Debra Perkins
December 1, 2013
Your in our prayers and love to all, Lenny was like a Big Brother to me and was there always when I was growing up, I am so sorry...I may not of been able to be there to see you all, but your are here with me in my prayers. Love to all...Debbie/Degregorio/Perkins
December 1, 2013
Debbie, Rome, Evan and Cali... We were so shocked to hear and deeply saddened to hear of Lenny's Passing. Your family has our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
Jim and Sandy Forker
Reidsville, North Carolina
Patricia Blair
December 1, 2013
So very sorry to hear of Lenny's passing. I did not know him on a personal level but work at BOCES and I never saw him without a smile on his face. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends at this very difficult time.
December 1, 2013
Lenny was a true friend and will be missed. God Bless you Debby and your family.
Love You Ronnie & Clarissa
jim & Janelle harris
December 1, 2013
Debbie and family; we are deeply saddened to hear of Lenny's passing! He was a good friend and a great man full of caring and knowledge!! He will be truly missed!
Monika (Rogowski) Michielini
December 1, 2013
Deb and Fran, I'm very sorry for your loss. You and your families are in my thoughts and prayers.
Norma (Kolb) Barber
December 1, 2013
Debbie and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of Lenny's passing.
May the tears you shed
Fall into the hole
In your heart…
Filling it up with
Precious Memories.
Always and Forever.
AMEN
He touched so many lives. Just knowing him put a smile on our faces.
kat bolden
December 1, 2013
Debbie, Rome, Evan and Cali... I am so very deeply sorry to hear of Lennys Passing. Your family has my thoughts and prayers and love at this difficult time.
Mike and Linda Van Der Heide
December 1, 2013
We are very sorry for your loss,Lenny was a great guy who was loved by all who knew him,he will be missed.
melody herman
December 1, 2013
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Gober/family
December 1, 2013
Rest in peace friend, you were one of a kind and we were glad we had the opportunity to have known you.
John Tokos
December 1, 2013
Thoughts and prayers to all. I knew Lenny all my life, so many great memories...
dena amey
December 1, 2013
my thoughts and prayers and with you Debbie and the family. May God hold you all in his grace and love.
Mona
December 1, 2013
Deb and Family our hearts are heavy with sadness. May you find comfort in this beautiful poem. Our heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you today and always Love you,
John and holly Taugher
December 1, 2013
Debbie and family. So sorry for your loss.lenny was a good man.
Tom Robins
December 1, 2013
Dear Debbie, Cali & Son's, Our deepest sympathy for Lenny's passing. In just the couple of years we have known you and Lenny we realize the joys and laughter we all shared with you and this great man. He will truly be missed and will forever be in our hearts. RIP my good friend.
Love Tom and Audrey
Mona & Tony Thompson
December 1, 2013
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998
Rick/Karen Swartwood
December 1, 2013
Debbie and all of Lenny's family - we are deeply saddened to hear of the loss of Lenny. I have fond memories of Lenny going all the way back to being teammates in Little League baseball. Lenny always wore a smile and never had a bad word to say about anyone. He was truly one of the nicest guys that we have ever met. RIP my friend.
December 1, 2013
John Sosenko
Cortland,NY
Joe and Patti{Genneralli} Zwierzynski
December 1, 2013
Deb and all of Lenny's Family. Just saw you guys at the reunion, always fun to talk to. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time.
Patti edwards
December 1, 2013
Debbie and family, so sad to hear about Lenny.Shocked when Jimbo called to tell me. Thinking of you during this hard time in your life..
Susan Button-DiRienzo
December 1, 2013
There are no words to express the sadness and grief in my heart for the loss of an incredible husband, father, brother and teacher. I cherish the memories of better times and will forever hold them dear in my heart. My love to you Deb,Cali,Rome and Evan.
Kathi & Keith Snyder
December 1, 2013
So very sorry for your loss. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Ralph wheeland
December 1, 2013
Aunt debbie, Rome, Evan & Cali
I'm so sorry for your loss. This absolutely breaks my heart, i wish so bad i could be home and help you all through these tough times. I love you all very much. Uncle Len was a great man and he will be missed very much.
vince Maxian
December 1, 2013
oh debbie i am soo sorry, this is a terrible pain thats hard on us all i just feel so bad for you and the kids ..i wish i could be there for you...
December 1, 2013
Lenny you were always so kind and good to me, you welcome me into your family when iam married chad, my heart is so broken that i iwll never get to dance again with you. you will always be in my thoughts. and to debbie and the kids, what do i say, i love you all with all my heart. so sorry we could not be there. but i promise we will be with you at christmas.I will always be here for you all. WE LOVE YOU, SEE YOU SOON.
Joanne Peterson
December 1, 2013
Debbie & family,
Like many others, I am shocked and so very sorry for the loss of your Lenny. Although a lot of years have passed, I remember that smile of his that was always present, and what a good friend and person he was.
You're in my thoughts and prayers.
Joanne P.
November 30, 2013
Debbie I am so Sorry for your Loss.Our Good Lord Help You and Your Family threw this Difficult Time.Keeping You All In My Thoughts and prayers!James and Colleen O'Brien
Gary Katcher
November 30, 2013
Debbie,
My deepest sympathy for you and your family. Lenny was such a great guy. I have many memories with him growing up on the Southside. I am shocked by his premature departure. Stay strong.
Love always,
Faye Edwards
November 30, 2013
My deepest sympathy to the family. You are in my heart and prayers. God Bless Lenny. Sincerely Faye
Pat (Watson) Ruppert
November 30, 2013
Lenny was such a wonderful person! Thoughts and prayers go out to Lenny's entire family! RIP Lenny!
Jan Hennessey
November 30, 2013
Debbie & Family,
I am so heartbroken to hear of your tremendous loss. I will always remember Lenny's perpetual smile and laughter and hope that all your wonderful memories will help to heal your broken hearts. He'll be missed by so many.
Diane Czekala
November 30, 2013
Debbie, Debbie!!! I love you and long to hug you like you hugged me when I lost my sweet April. It meant so much to me to see you and receive your hug. Michele is going to hug you for me. I'm so sorry and embrace your family at this time. God will give you His peace. God Bless you! You and your family are in my prayers! I love you! Diane and Mike Czekala
sherry morris
November 30, 2013
debbie and family, my heart goes out to you at this very sad time. hang on to your memories. love, sherry morris
Patti Ruland
November 30, 2013
Please know that our prayers and thoughts are with the Verrastro family at this time of heartbreak and sadness.
Mike Elston
November 30, 2013
Debbie, I'm so very sad to learn of Lenny's passing. Please know that you & your family are in my thoughts & prayers during this very difficult time of sorrow. Mike Elston
Jacqueline Franke
November 30, 2013
Dear Verrastro family,
I worked with Lenny at BOCES for several years, and while I didn't know him well I worked very closely with many of his students. I want you to know how deeply he touched the lives of the alternative education students he taught. Many of those kids only came to school so that they could do the meaningful work Lenny asked them to do. He had high expectations of them and they always felt challenged and proud of themselves after spending time with him. I know that he will be remembered as someone who took his students seriously and helped them to find their identities. I am sorry for your loss.
November 30, 2013
Our deepest sympathy to the entire Verrastro family!! May you find peace and warmth in your wonderful memories of Lenny!!! Thoughts and prayers are with you!!!
Gail Stedge-Petticrew
November 30, 2013
Debbie & Family, Thinking of you during this difficult time.
THOMAS NEWMAN
November 30, 2013
A Letter to an Old Friend:
well lenny owe me a dollar cause i won the most fish caught this year.Conio won the biggest and Terry caught the biggest Boot..Older brothers..know all...HA..time to eat oh Damn uncle herb is burning the steak as usual Ralph drinking away..at least your dad and mine have a grill going..we are saved something that tastes good.
your Ma wont tell me what is in that salad dressing but 3 servings and getting yelled at by my ma to let somebody else have some..But your Ma saves the day and i get another plate..Gee there is more food enough to feed all State Park so what is the big deal..Adults nothing better to do do but yell at ya.Time to go fishing again..Conio and Terry went to the south of the lake we can go to the POINT..always a good place..never got skunked there yet!Already been here 5 hours.WHERE DOES THE TIME GO? well we got a couple more hours till second round of eats so we can hit most of the north side..maybe even go down to the Locks..never fish much but always have a ball..Damn 5:30 time for chow..gotta get there or we wont hear the end of it. oh geeze your brother got a nice trout and terry got the other boot..now he has the pair!! 6:15 we have an hour till we pack up so lets go to LILLY LAKE and see how the bullheads are biting?? you got a good size bull i got a stupid turtle goofed up my line..oh well can hear the distant familiar holler lenny..tommy..LETS GO!! a whole summer gone already so watcha gonna do this fall? Yea i know School the new JC high not that bad though just wish the time flew like it does when we are here.I heard the Folks talking about GreenWood park next year but i do not know..Sort of a happy good place right here so why go screw it up? since they do not fish they can drink and play cards at TWEEN LAKES like this year..Have to put a bug in their ear,you do the same,always we have a good time here really do not want to go elsewhere..
Finally top of the hill aww we missed helping them pack up. I am sure to hear this one all week long..but dont care this has been a great year and the best Labor Day yet!! Well see you in school.at least 3 days before that bore.If I do not talk to you before SEE YOU THEN.... later gater.
Len..thought of those days and times very very often..WHERE DID 45 YEARS GO?? EVEN THOUGH I HAD NOT SEEN YOU IN MANY MANY YEARS..THE MEMORIES OF THOSE LONG SUMMERS FISHING NOT A CARE IN THE WORLD ALWAYS MAKE ME SMILE.NOW ONE MORE VACANCY IN MY HEART AND AM SO SORRY WE DID NOT STAY IN TOUCH!i KNOW YOU ARE NOW AT PEACE WITH YOUR MOM AND DAD AND ALL THOSE AT THE LAKE ON THOSE LONG PAST SUMMER DAYS!
GODSPEED LENNY,HOPE I WILL GET THE CHANCE TO SEE YOU AGAIN ON A LONG HOT SUMMER DAY,LONG LONG AGO!
\TO THE REST OF THE VERASTROS... CONIO: I AM SORRY FOR YOU LOSS OF YOUR BROTHER AND I NEVER HAD THE PLEASURE OF SEEING OR MEETING THE REST OF THE FAMILY..PRAYING FOR ALL
TOMMY NEWMAN
Colleen Warner
November 30, 2013
I think that anything I could possibly say is so inadequate as to the depth of your pain and sorrow you and your family must be feeling at this moment. Please believe that Lenny will always be with you. You'll see him in the first Robin that you see in the spring time, or in the last leaf that has fallen from the tree. You know that when you feel the warmth of the sun on your face, and that the gentle kiss you felt on your cheek was really him. Telling you that he's never left your side, but has actually carried you through this, with all the love he's had for you all this time. Please accept my deepest sympathy for you and your families loss. He will be greatly missed by all that knew him.
Chris & Cindy Hillis
November 30, 2013
Debbie, Rome, Evan & Cali, so sorry to hear about Lenny. Our thoughts & prayers are with you during this difficult time.
November 30, 2013
Debbie & Family, Thinking of you in this difficult time. Gail Stedge-Petticrew.
November 30, 2013
Debbie and Family....I am so sorry to hear about Lenny. My thoughts and prayers are with you....Sue Croteau
November 30, 2013
Debby's I am sure you probably don't remember me . I was in Lenny's class in 88 and 89 . My son Anthony is now there in his class. I just wanted to tell you what an inspiration he was in my life and becoming in my sons. I am deeply sorry for your loss... Frank Benacquisto and family
Mike and Gail Arcangeli
November 30, 2013
Debbie and Family, we are so sorry to hear of Lenny's passing. He was a great guy, and you both made a fabulous couple. Keep the faith and we pray you have strength during this tough time.
Bob and Cheryl Kuzel
November 30, 2013
Debbie and family, We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We will miss Lenny and the good times we were able to share with you.
Terri Donovan
November 30, 2013
Lenny, you were the light in our lives! May you light shine on forever! I will cherish the memories forever. God, grant peace to your family and help them through this.
Gary and Terri Donovan
Dennis & Joy Warner
November 30, 2013
Words can not express how sorry we are for your loss, our prayers are with you...
November 30, 2013
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
November 30, 2013
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Bob Preston
November 30, 2013
Knew Lenny in high school. Sadly too young for this. My prayers to his family for strength and peace in this time.

November 30, 2013
Lenny was like a big brother to me ever since I was a boy in the ole Lusk St. neighborhood and on into adulthood. He had a way of making ya feel good when he was around ya...my heart aches for Deb and the kids...his passing creates a big hole in a lot of hearts. Phil 4:7
Kevin Johnson
November 30, 2013
lenny's family sry for your lost! As a student in masonry at boces lenny taught me alot he was a great person he will be missed!
Cindy (Hillegas) Byington
November 30, 2013
Dear Debby's,
Thinking of you and your family in this time of sorrow. May your memories comfort all of you.
Katie and David Thompson
November 29, 2013
Our hearts goes out to the Verrastro family!! Hugs and kisses to all! Uncle Lenny grew the best garlic, just like my dad that was from Greece!! They knew how to do it!!
Deb Pinkowski - Grey
November 29, 2013
Deb
May you and your family find comfort in the memories that have been created over the years with Lenny . The love from friends will carry you through this sad time.
Nick (Ozzy) Monico
November 29, 2013
Debbie,Iam very sorry to hear about Lenny.Alway's enjoyed seeing you guys at The Union Hotel!!My Prayers are with you and your Family.
Gene & Deanna Laskoski
November 29, 2013
Debbie & Family, It is so sad to hear of Lennys passing. Always that great smile. May God be with you and the kids at this very difficult time.
Sharon Frost
November 29, 2013
The Lord has put his arms around you lifted you to your heavenly family. I light this candle to keep my memories shinning bright for the AWSOME family man an friend I've had in my life.
Bill Lamphere
November 29, 2013
My sincere condolences to the family.
Kandie Shaw
November 29, 2013
Debbie and kids...we are saddened to hear about Lenny's passing. Although I haven't seen him since I was little, I remember that he always had a smile on his face. He was always happy, and was very pleasant to be around. To this day, when I smell pachouli, I think of the both of you. Debbie, you and Lenny were both great friends to my parents. they love you both to pieces! My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. May God help guide you through this!
RAY ADAMS
November 29, 2013
Debbie so sorry about your lost I was shocked to here the news my prayers are with you and family.
Julie Putano
November 29, 2013
Debbie, so very sorry for the Loss. everyone loved Lenny, and you for your caring, loving ways. It took me by total surprise. I am so sorry. condolances...My prayers are with You and your family.
Penny Barker
November 29, 2013
Debbie and Family, so Sorry. The Memory of Lenny will carry on in all of Us. He has been a Big part of so many Life's. He was an AMAZING PERSON.
Lenny will be Greatly Missed. Love Little Penny
Beverly Greenburg-Sondej
November 29, 2013
Debbie, and all the family, my thoughts are with you in your time of loss. I haven't seen you in many years, but will always remember living across from your family on Upper Stella Ireland Road. Lenny was a great guy and will always be remembered by his many friends and family.
Penny Harvey
November 29, 2013
Lenny you be deeply missed at work and the central hotel won't be the same with you stopping every now and then
You were a good mentor for my son.my prayers go out to the family .
November 29, 2013
Debbie and family,
I am sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.
Bill Rouse
November 29, 2013
Hi Deb , I would like to send my prayers to you and family, I remember the first time I met lenny , wow ! long time ago . stand up class man and great guy ! <3
Pat Antal
November 29, 2013
Deb, I am so sorry for your loss. Len was a great person. I am out of town on sun, but my heart will be with you and your friends will be here for you in this difficult time .
Lorraine & Randy (Bushofsky) Ward
November 29, 2013
Debbie, So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Jackie Bouck
November 29, 2013
Rome,family and Jesse,
We are so sorry for your loss! Your dad was a great man! My son knew Hun also for the great teacher he was! I know it's hard but he is watching over all of you and if you need anything we are here for you!
Love, Travis and Jackie Bouck
Bob Demick
November 29, 2013
Debbie and the entire Verrastro family,
My thoughts and prayers go out to you in your time of sorrow.
Betsy Hayes
November 29, 2013
May God shine this light upon your family and give you strength at this time of sorry.
.
Dan & Gloria Osburn
November 29, 2013
Debby, Sending our deepest sympathy. Our prayers are with you and your family.
Dan & Gloria Psburn
November 29, 2013
Sending our deepest sympathy.
Craig & Brenda Matias
November 29, 2013
Deb, Rome, Evan, Cali and family We can't find the words to express the sadness we feel with the loss of our friend Lenny. We will never forget him.Peace,Love, Courage
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