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Barbara Bardella

1938 - 2025

Barbara Bardella obituary, 1938-2025, Sebastopol, CA

BORN

1938

DIED

2025

FUNERAL HOME

Pleasant Hills Memorial Park & Mortuary - Sebastopol

1700 Pleasant Hill Road

Sebastopol, California

UPCOMING SERVICE

Funeral Mass

Nov. 8, 2025

10:00 a.m.

St. Sebastians Church

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Barbara Bardella Obituary

Barbara Margaret (Nelson) Bardella passed October 5th, 2025, at the age of 86. She will be remembered by her children: Elizabeth (Jeff), Matthew (Tara), and Vanessa, her grandchildren: Ashley (Joe), Brittany (Dustin), Andie (Vincent), Lexi (Tom), and Travis, her great grandchildren: Maysin, Lane, Nick, Presley and Cody. Born in 1938 in San Francisco, she met her husband Gianfranco on the city bus on the way to an event for immigrants to meet local kids their age. Gianfranco, who had just arrived from Italy, was attending the event and Barbara was a volunteer and they were inseparable from that day forward. They married in 1958 and started their tax preparation business that same year. In 1971 they decided to leave the city life behind and relocated both their home and business to Sebastopol where they resided ever since. Barbara was a highly intelligent, driven, hard working women and she poured that thoroughness into every aspect of her life. She was active in her local Bonsai clubs, hosting their meetings in the bonsai barn in her backyard. She was the president of the North Bay Enrolled Agents for many years, constantly educating herself on the ever-evolving tax laws. She was an avid reader and her local bookstores best customer. She thrived on keeping her mind sharp and worked in her tax office until her battle with cancer didn't allow her anymore. She is going to be greatly missed by her family, friends and her clients who became her friends. Funeral mass, followed by a celebration of life, will be held at St. Sebastian's Church on November 8th at 10:00 a.m. In lieu of flowers, donations are preferred to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital.

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Published by Press Democrat on Oct. 26, 2025.

Memorial Events
for Barbara Bardella

Nov

8

Funeral Mass

10:00 a.m.

St. Sebastians Church

CA

Funeral services provided by:

Pleasant Hills Memorial Park & Mortuary - Sebastopol

1700 Pleasant Hill Road, Sebastopol, CA 95472

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6 Entries

Rick Bidia

Yesterday

Sending my best to the entire family.

George Haas

October 27, 2025

My condolences to the Bardella family. I am sure Barbara joins her husband, Frank Bardella. They both were highly respected in the bonsai community.

Leslyn Dooley

October 27, 2025

Barbara did my taxes for many
years . Frank took care of my parents taxes for years . Both Barbara & Frank were outstanding people .
Barbara was so smart , kind , soft & elegant. She loved dogs & there was always one in her office . She was cool in chaos. I really liked her & I am sad she has passed . Rest in sweet peace Barbara .
Condolences & strength to her
family .

Joann (Russo) Sangiacomo

October 26, 2025

Barbara and I went to grammar school and high school together. We did a lot of things together. My condolences to her family. May she RIP.

Joann Russo Sangiacomo.

October 26, 2025

Sending my condolences to the Bardella family.

LYNN M GLEESON

October 26, 2025

A strong woman who loved her work, and did everything with heart. You will be missed in the neighborhood, but never forgotten.

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