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Paula M. Dinger

1931 - 2018

Paula M. Dinger obituary, 1931-2018, Sun City, CA

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1931

DIED

2018

Paula Dinger Obituary

September 3, 1931 - November 23, 2018Paula M. (Murray) DingerPaula Mary (Murray) Dinger, 87, passed away peacefully on November 23, 2018 at her home in Sun City, CA after a brief battle with Parkinson's Disease. She was born on September 3, 1931 in Manchester, England to Joseph and Rose Murray.Paula grew up in Manchester, England, where she met her husband Keith Dinger.Paula married Keith Dinger in 1953 in Manchester, England. They were happily married for 63 years. Paula enjoyed a variety of activities in the different places that they lived while Keith served in the USAF. She played softball and bowled while they lived overseas, was the Director of Merry Moppets Day Care Center in Bellevue, Nebraska and was involved with Toastmasters in California.Upon Keith's retirement from the military, she became a rural carrier for the United States Post Office. She was a clerk at the Homeland Post Office, Postmaster of the Winchester Post Office and finally Postmaster of the Wildomar Post Office.Paula loved entertaining and having her family and friends visit as often as possible. Both Paula and her friend Geraldine Butler would host a dinner every Christmas for the Priest and Nuns of St. James Catholic School & Church. Later she would host an annual Christmas dinner for her friends in Sun City.Upon retiring from the Post Office, she was involved in numerous clubs within Sun City, CA. These included the Photo Club, Swim Club, Travel Club, Players Club (Theatre), the Illinois Club and the local chapter of the Delta Theta Chi Sorority. Paula and Keith also enjoyed taking many cruises together prior to Keith's death.Paula was preceded in death by parents, Joseph and Rose Murray, brother Anthony Murray, twin brother Peter Murray, husband Keith Dinger and daughter Ruth Ann Dinger.Paula is survived by her two daughters, Cathy-Rose Rettig (Michael Rettig) of Pinehurst, NC; Margaret Helen Williams (Andrew Williams) of Panama City, FL; her son, Anthony John Dinger of San Diego, CA; her brother Williams Murray of San Jose, CA; her grandchildren Erin Rettig-McVay, Paul Rettig, Shanon Rettig, Nicole Gerads and Elizabeth Rettig-Fornea; her nine great-grandchildren and her nieces, nephews and other relatives.A Celebration of Her Life Gathering will be held at a date to be determined after the New Year.

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Published by The Press-Enterprise on Dec. 12, 2018.

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Nancy Lund

March 27, 2020

I met Paula when she hired me as a Rural Carrier at the Winchester Post Office in California. She inspired me to be a Postmaster, and helped me learn everything I could about my job. I became a clerk, then Postmaster later on, but from the moment we met we became friends, not just with her but with Ken (others may call him Keith)and her children and grandchildren. We talked for hours and laughed a lot. Paula had a story about everything. She loved her family and was proud of the job that she had with the Postal Service. I still remember after I first made clerk, and a customer had upset me, she came to the window and asked the customer to leave. She asked me was I ok, and then said, I realize he upset you, but has anyone else. I said no...everyone else was nice and then I used that memory anytime someone upset me. Most people are kind...and oh yes...she taught me to say..exactly the right word to people like that...and know for myself what it meant...but not get in trouble. Don't be "silly", you can get by not calling people "stupid" and even have a laugh over it later. I miss Paula, she was a good person, and a great friend, I learned a lot from her and had my the last years as a Postmaster at Winchester...just where we met.

Margaret Williams

December 18, 2018

Life is mostly froth and bubble,
Two things stand like stone.
Kindness in another's trouble,
Courage in your own.

Adam Lindsay Gordon

This was one thing mum wanted on her memorial.

Paula & Keith

Margaret Williams

December 12, 2018

Margaret Williams

December 12, 2018

Margaret Williams

December 12, 2018

Paula 1990

Margaret Williams

December 12, 2018

Margaret Williams

December 12, 2018

December 12, 2018

Family and friends of Paula please accept my deepest condolences, may God comfort all of your mourning hearts.

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