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Sterling( Sgt. Wally) Hancock
September 15, 2025
GeneralAlfred J.Cade, I was your driver for the 5 years that you were a Corps Artillery Commander in both 7TH Corps and 5Th Corps Artillery. I learned so much from you , during our long drives to meetings or conferences. I not only think of often,b it your entire family.I loved you and your wonderful family! Your teachings follow me to this day! I miss you and this is to let you know how much your thought of still, as i reach my senior years.
Ella owens Williams
July 10, 2025
Ella Owen’s Williams, high school classmate Greenville co High School, Emporia, VA
Peter Betz
July 27, 2024
Rest in Peace General Cade
You were a true soldier and a true gentleman.
Thank you for your kindness when I was under your command in Darmstadt, Germany at Headquarters V Corps Artillery
Ella Owens (Williams)
April 24, 2024
Ella Owens Williams, graduated from Greensville County High School in Emporia, Virginia. Alfred "Ted" Cade was our friend and leader. He was a kind and special person for all of us in our high school '48 class.
Walter Hancock
September 14, 2023
General Cade, I miss our conversations and being your driver for 5 years , while stationed in Germany Thank You Sir, for all of your guidance of a young soldier. I felt like you always treated me like a me of your family! I will always keep your memory alive , as I think of you very often! Make you rest in peace. Sir!
PFC Mott
February 18, 2022
I was in the B Battery, 4th Missile Battalion, 1962, Edison New Jersey. Captain Cade was CO. I remember him as a good Commanding Officer. I was the company clerk, duty driver to pick him up on occasion etc.
Walter S. Hancock, (SSG WALLY)
February 2, 2022
I am sadden by the news of BG Cade´s passing!! I served under this GREAT LEADER and COMMANDER for 5 year´s of my young military career in Germany.
I was SELECTED as his driver , By CSM Fiffe while serving in the 7TH Army, 210th Field Artillery Group ,in the town of Herzogenach.
Then Full Bird Colonel Cade and I formed a wonderful working relationship. He helped me transform from a young man, into a SOLDIER! Col.Cade was my MENTOR! I served him with PRIDE and HONOR!!
He received his promotion to Brigadier General, while station here at Hertzo Base,Germany.
BG Cade was then transferred to 5th Army, Darmstadt as commander of the 5th Army Artillery. BG Cade, asked me if I would transfer duty stations and continue to serve him as his Driver! I jumped at the opportunity to follow BG Cade! By this time I was familiar with his wonderful family as well.
Mrs, Cade was such a LADY! I enjoyed all of the children as well.ANGIE was always special to me as she followed me around, like I was her Dad! We had a wonderful relationship,Angie n I!
Being promoted to a Bridadier General, afforded the General the opportunity to appoint an ENLISTED AID! Again , I jumped at the opportunity to become an ENLISTED AID! My duties included serving Mrs Cade at there home. I was so happy in this assignment and I learned a lot from Mrs Cade. Parties, serving of food and Cocktails at parties! Mrs, Cade was a GREAT MOTHER , so KIND and GENEROUS!
I served in that capacity for approximately 9 months ,at which time Congress voted to remove my position from BG Generals! I thankfully returned as the Generals Driver, a position and duty that I truly loved!
BG Cade again was again given a NEW ASSIGNMENT as Commander of the 5TH ARMY ARTILLERY! This would require him to again, to relocate to Wiesbaden, Germany. BG Cade was to transform the Airforce Airbase previously, to an ARMY POST! This took many meeting between Bg Cade and all of the German Politicians. Prior to actually moving to Wiesbaden, we made numerous trips to the city to reassure the Germans that creating an ARMY Base, would not turn there beautiful city into a city filled with tanks! The NEW ARMY BASE, would be an HEADQUARTERS ONLY!! NO TRACKED VEHICLES of any kind would ever enter the city!
I was once again asked if I would transfer with the General, of course I chose to follow my COMMANDER!!
On many occasions, I would drive to wherever a meeting was to be held and SCOUT out the arrangements ,such as Accommodations, food and Meeting places. I will always remember,I traveled to Berchtesgaden, Germany. The Generals meeting was a week long affair , that was being held at a Hotel in InnsBruck,Austria.
The meeting was to take place the entire week, so as a driver, I was not needed for the week. There were other Generals Drivers there as well , most of whom I knew.
BG General Cade asked " Sgt. Wally , as he always called me , Do you know how to Snow Ski"? NO SIR, I replied. BG General cade gave me a $100.00 Bill and "ORDERED ME , TO LEARN HOW TO SKI"!! As General Cade always said, "Be Safe , Enjoy yourself.Most of all remember that your a member of The United States Army and a SARGENT,Conduct yourself accordingly "!!
My Condolences to all of the family! BG ALFRED J. CADE was my MENTOR and MY HERO!!!! I LOVED him like a father !!
R.I.P SIR! "I THANK YOU FOR ALL OF THE WONDERFUL MEMORIES THAT WE SHARED"!!
Johnny W. Lott
August 3, 2021
My Commanding officer at the 1St. Bn. 92 Artillery in Vietnam was Ltd.Col. Alfred J. Cade , simply the most outstanding military officer that I had the pleasure of serving under. In combat he was an exemplary commander and as a 2nd and 1st. Lt. I am so grateful to have been under his command. General Cade was a warrior and fine person whose leadership skills impresses me to this day. RIP SIR!
Ron and Nancy Glenn
June 4, 2021
Both Al and Florence were wonderful people. Getting to know them in the beginning stages of Caesars Atlantic City, we were honored to be included in their company at numerous affairs at Caesars and many charitable events. They were true Americans who served our country well. They, and their family, remain in our thoughts and prayers. May God bless you all.
Arlington awaits.
Kim Spencer-Hudgins
June 2, 2021
My thoughts and prayers go out to Michael, Tia and the Cade Family. May God's peace and comfort surround you at this difficult time.
Rocco and Barbara Pepino
June 1, 2021
Our condolences to the Cade family.
Mr Cade was a pleasure to know and work with at Caesars.
John lopresti sr.
May 31, 2021
He was a great man and a great great general and a great friend,sorry for your loss
John Gallagher
May 31, 2021
I first met General Cade in 1981. The General was my mother's boss and dear friend. He is the type of person that radiated integrity, authority and quality. Interacting with General Cade made you want to strive to be a better person. Thank you for being a part of my mother's and our family's life. God bless you.
Gary Van Hettinga
May 31, 2021
I had the pleasure of working with Al at Caesars in Atlantic City. He was a terrific individual who had a life well lived. My condolences to his family.
Kass Cousins
May 31, 2021
I worked with Mr Cade starting in the year before Caesars opened for about 2 years. He was such a nice man and always would find time to chat with people regardless of their position. Always smiling with that twinkle in his eyes! Rest In Peace Mr Cade
Richard Morman
May 31, 2021
I met the General at Sonny's barber shop back in the 80's. I always enjoy our sports debate's on Georgetown basketball and other topics. He was always insightful and well grounded. I'm thankful for the wisdom that he imparted to us younger men at no charge. Thank you General for all you gave us at the barbershop. I hope God grant's you rest. You won the race ! My condolences to his family. May you day's be brighter soon !
Kathy Fink
May 31, 2021
I had the pleasure of working with Mr. Cade during my tenure at Caesars. We were usually the first two to arrive in the morning, and would solve all the world´s problems. When his valued assistant, June, was out of the office, I attempted to fill her shoes, which was a challenge - they were quite the team! I have thought of him often over the years and will treasure how he expanded my world through sharing his experiences. My favorite memory is how he got into the habit of referring to me as "Miss Vineland." My heartfelt sympathy to his family and friends for their loss.
Rosie Hewitt
May 31, 2021
Mr. Cade was one of my moms most loyal, honest, true friend and boss she ever had. My mom, June Ross loved him with all her heart and he loved her just the same. My mom passed away on March 3rd and I know for sure she greeted her dear friend with open arms. Our love to the entire Cade family.
Linda Nettles Barbour
May 31, 2021
Condolences to the family
May 19, 2021
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TURNER SPENCER
May 18, 2021
Al Cade was my home boy - (Emporia, VA) . He inspired me to attend Va. State and to become an Omega man. This was in the early 1950s. As a high school senior. I visited Al when he was President of VSC Student government. I joined Nu Psi in 1954. What a blessing to have had him as a role model. A great Man!
Lawrence Lipscomb
May 14, 2021
Al Cade was a leader on the campus of Va state . I don't think anyone was surprised at his great success in the military. May God comfort his family during this period of sadness,
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