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Brian Cross Obituary
CROSS, BRIAN LaMONT, - was born January 16, 1964 to William and Mae Cross in Atlantic City. He was one of the "Triplet's"! He departed this life peacefully on Sunday, October 30, 2005, at home, surrounded by his family. Brian attended Atlantic City High School and graduated with the class of 1982. Brian worked at the Sands Hotel Casino for over 20 years in various positions. His last position held was in the Marketing Department. Also, Brian was a member of Victory First Presbyterian Deliverance Church where he served as a Deacon. Brian leaves to cherish his memories, his parents, William and Mae Cross; two sisters, Theresa M. Brown and Brenda L. Joshua (triplet); one brother, Bruce L. Cross (triplet); two brothers-in-law, Gerald Brown and David Joshua; one sister-in-law Lillian Cross; three nieces, Doneesha T. Cross, Leteya R. Kelly and Jezlyn M. Cross; three nephews Joshua M., Octavian L., and Jonathan L. Cross; one grandniece, Quantaya A. Cross; a special aunt, Lucille Coger; goddaughter, Breean L. Flax and a host of aunts, uncles, cousins, other godchildren and friends. Services will be held 11AM Thursday, November 3, 2005, in Shiloh Baptist Church and Community Life Center , 701 Atlantic Avenue, Atlantic City, where friends may call from 9AM. Burial in Atlantic City Cemetery, Pleasantville. Arrangements entrusted to Greendige Funeral Home, Atlantic City. ?? ?? ?? ??
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Memories and Condolences
for Brian Cross
Anjanette M Washington
March 10, 2024
Thinking of you. I miss our conversations at the Sands. Continue to rest easy Brian.
Denise D (Daughtry) Cooper
March 2, 2018
I worked with Brian at the Sands and I loved him like a brother. He helped me when I was in a bad situation. He was like my angel. His Beautiful laugh and smile made my day. After all these years I still think about him and his kind loving friendship. Thank you.
Stephen D. Caines
November 17, 2005
To The Cross family,
My wife Edith, daughter Kimberley and I had the privilege of meeting Brian in February 2004 where, Brian and I served as groomsmen at our mutual friend Kevin Richardson's wedding.
Although the time he and I spent together was brief, I can honestly say that my life was enriched by his 'gift' of friendship, his genuine love for people and his commitment to the Lord.
I am really thankful that during a recent visit to Philadelphia, (the weekend of October 8,) Kevin drove me to Atlantic City where I got to spend sometime with him although it was brief, it was very memorable.
Brian and I often talked about his dream of visiting Bermuda unfortunately, he never made it. However, his dream of seeing his Saviour has become a REALITY.
Brian, THANK YOU for the gift of your friendship. You are in heaven now enjoy the Lord .... "I can only imagine what it must be like"
Renee Gambrill McClary
November 14, 2005
To the Family, There aren't enough words to express how much he was loved and thought well of. I remember all three of them playing and running up and down the sidewalk by my grandmothers store. Like many things I pray that God will heal your broken hearts and know this, that you will see him again.Cont..to trust God knowing that he has it all under control. My prayers are with you all, that in time.. His time you will heal.
Linda Santanelli
November 10, 2005
Even though I didn't know Brian, I worked with Bruce at the Tropicana and if Brian was anything like him, I am sure he was a nice guy. My prayers are with the Cross family. May Brian rest in peace and the family be comforted by the fact that Brian is with God and has become a guardian angel for his family.
Love and prayers to you all,
Linda Santanelli
Monica Gordon (Korte)
November 10, 2005
To the Cross Family,
Although the triplets were a year behind me in school we spent a lot of time hanging out with Lisa Stuart and the gang. I can't remember ever turning that corner heading for Venice Park and not waving at someone in the family. Brian will be missed even though I don't come by much since Mom passed in January I will still think of him when I head that way.
May God bless the family at this time and always.
Kevin Richardson
November 10, 2005
To my beloved friend, although I shared these words during your homegoing services, I feel compelled to add them to your guest book.
I've watched you endure many trials and tribulations over the years. And rather than murmur or complain, you demonstrated nobility and courage that overcame the realities of your situation like a good soldier.
And like a good soldier, you didn't allow your heart to shudder at the thought of death. You knew you could depart this life in peace since your eyes have seen the salvation of the Lord. Although your passing has meant the snapping of our precious friendship, it also means an eternity in fellowship with the Lord and with the glorious citizens of His Heavenly Court. Surely this is why you were able to have peace in death as well as in your living.
Brain, you were the epitome of a friend. Proverbs 18:24 capture this best, "A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly: and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother." Our friendship is what led me to accept Christ as my Savior; and for this I'm eternally grateful.
Now that you have fallen asleep and awakened to a new day in Heaven, I shall remember the Words of the Lord from Psalm 73:23 - 26;
"Yet I am always with you;
You hold me by my right hand
You guide me with your counsel,
And afterward you will take me into glory.
Whom have I in Heaven but you?
And earth has nothing I desire besides you.
My flesh and my heart may fail,
But God is the strength of my heart
And my portion forever."
Lovingly submitted,
Terry Westry
November 7, 2005
To the Cross Family:
I was deeply saddened and shocked last night to hear of Brian's passing. As Martin Luther King once said, longevity has its place. While Brian's time on earth may have been short, find solace in knowing that your child and/or sibling was a faithful servant and a wonderful human being. His contributions to the community and the world at-large are many. Brian positively impacted the lives of everyone he touched.
Though your hearts are heavy, God's unchanging hand will comfort and sustain you. The wonderful memories of fond times spent with Brian, Theresa, Bruce and Brenda will never dissipate and serve as a constant reminder of a fantastic friend who left us to soon.
Love and God Bless,
TGW
Kimberly Watson
November 5, 2005
To the Cross Family,
I was shocked and deeply sadden to hear that Brian has left us. Brian, Bruce and Brenda were inseparable when we were younger children growing up on the westside. It took me years to believe that they were "triplets" because Brenda wasn't identical to her brothers.
I'll always remember the smille and the personaity Brian possessed, a true gentleman who is very caring. The times that I visited Victory Church it was always special seeing Brain there praising and worshiping the Lord. Brian loved the Lord and he was not afraid to let others know just how good God was to him. It was always good to talk to him even if the conversation was short.
The heavens are rejoycing to have an angel like Brian.
My prayers are with all who knew him, for to know Brian is a great gain, for those who have not known him is a great loss.
God Bless you
Pastor Francis and Pamela Barrigher
November 5, 2005
We will never forget Brian and his smile he always had. Our prayers are with you always. He was the greatest servant I know because he served with love and sincerity. May God strenghten and keep you.
Melvin Blackwell
November 4, 2005
My deepest sympathy to the Cross family in your time of need. Know that your loved one was and will always be loved by many and his legacy will live on. May God bless and keep you, you are truly in my prayers.
Davenport Family
November 3, 2005
We send our deepest sympathy to the family of Brian Cross.
Louis Peebles
November 3, 2005
Although I haven't seen you in many years, you were and always will be the type of person that leaves a positive impression for many. I feel blessed to have known you Brian, and may GOD bless your soul and may you rest in peace.
Karyn Karriem
November 3, 2005
My condolences to the Cross family. Brian was a beautiful person who will surely be missed.
Anna Guzman-Mata
November 3, 2005
Brian,
May people come and go in our life time, but only the special ones are the ones that stay in our hearts forever. You will always hold a special place in my heart. I will miss your smile and your beautiful words of wisdom you always had for me, Juan & Christiana. R.I.P Amigo querido!! Adios....
Audrey Berry-Gross
November 3, 2005
To The Cross Family:
God's Blessings upon all of you during your hour of sorrow. May the Grace of God be your Comforter day and night.
William Marsh
November 3, 2005
God bless the family of Brian Cross. Brian was a humble, and giving person. The Atlantic City community has truly lost a committed servant.
"speedy"
The Cash Family (Mrs. Alice & Julie)
November 3, 2005
It was sad news to hear about Brian. Memories of him will be pleasant and comforting. We send you our sincere condolences during this difficult time.
Lisa Givens(Clarke)
November 3, 2005
Praying for peace and comfort for the family of Brian. I will always remember his smile and the laughs we shared years ago in school and on the West Side. God bless and keep you the family. Brian will be missed.
Consuela Jackson
November 3, 2005
Brian, you were a very special person to me and you will always hold a place in my heart. I have a gift that you gave me of a black women holding her child. I will always remenber you with the memory of this special gift from you a wonderful friend. I'll love you always.
Consuela
AbdulHakeem Ruffin
November 2, 2005
To my dearest friends,Im deeply sad to hear the news of Brian passing. He was a dear friend to me as we grow up on Hummock ave. So remember all the good times we had,the games we played the fun we shared! I will truly miss a good friend!. Love y'all Abdul Hakeem Ruffin(Dardo)
Hollie I. Haskins-Henderson
November 2, 2005
I am not very good with words when it comes to a loss of a loved one. However, I am saddened to hear of Brian's passing. Fortunately, for all who knew him, we had the chance to know a man who was fun, loving, and a gentleman. Hence, I can only feel the benefit of having the chance to have known him. Now, he is in a better place where he does not have to suffer anymore and can be free from all the pains that this world has to offer. I send my prayers to all of his family and friends.
Kurk Elsey
November 2, 2005
May God comfort your family during this time of sadness. Brian was such a wonderful person! I will miss him and I know that he is in a better place and that his comforted by our Father.
Tony & Alisa Weiss
November 2, 2005
This is to all the people who knew and loved Brian. We have all lost a dear friend and I know myself, have taken a part of what Brian has taught me in the past and grew from it. My love and deepest sympathy to Brian's family. He is with the Lord and we will meet with him again.
BEATRICE KNOWLES
November 2, 2005
MAY ALMIGHTY LOVING GOD CONSOLE YOUR HEARTS AND MAY YOU TRUST AND LEAN ON HIM.....ANGEL
Abby Martinez
November 2, 2005
Dear Brian my heart is broken because you have left us,I know you are in a better place. I love you brian and will always cherish our friendship. My deepest sympathy to the Cross Family... Abby Martinez
Sonya Waters-Love
November 2, 2005
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. Brian was such a nice guy with a pleasant personality and he will be greatly missed. Our prayers are with you.
Robbin Haynes
November 2, 2005
To live is Christ but to die is gain – Philippians 1:21
The LORD’s ways are good and faithful and anyone that puts their hope in HIM will never be put to shame.
Brian’s sorrows were turned into dancing, his tears into joy. GOD saw fit to put in his heart a new song, and he was not afraid to do the LORD’s will.
When he was afraid GOD gave him peace and shelter. When he was weak HE gave him strength. He cried out for mercy again HE gave him peace.
My prayer is for peace and understanding, the kind that only GOD can give.
Unfortunately I won’t be able to make the home going services. But know my heart and love will be there.
Brian was special to me, we shared a lot of great times growing up as well as in our adult lives. Life has a way of changing things so the older we got the less time spent or saw each other. He will be missed greatly, but my heart holds a special place for all the special memories…
Peace and Blessings
Robbin Haynes and Family
Andrea & Derek Chen
November 2, 2005
Brian may you rest in peace. Our Prayers go out to your family. Love Andrea, Derek & Adam Chen.
Mercedes Cruz
November 2, 2005
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of loss and grief. It's hard to lose someone especially so young. Again, we are deeply saddened by your loss. Brian was a great friend and co worker. I had the honor of working with Brian at the Sands. I will never forget him. Brian, you are truely missed. Your friend Mercedes and family
Kim Mayo
November 2, 2005
Brian will always hold a special place in my heart.
Lisa Howard
November 2, 2005
I'm so Sorry for your loss.My prayers are with your family.May Brian rest in peace.
Janet Kinsell
November 2, 2005
I am so terribly sorry to hear of the passing of Brian. I worked with both Brian and Bruce at the Sands Hotel Casino and remember them as true gentlemen. Brian would always bring a smile to my face with his warm and charming humor. I am pleased to have known Brian and will remember his wonderful smile. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. Sincerely, Janet Kinsell
RODNEY Drinkard
November 2, 2005
With My Deepest Sympathy,Bruce,Brenda,Ricci,and family words can not express a lost of one of my Closes friends and brother,Just Know that with every
smile you smile Brian is always smiling back at you.
Rodney D Drinkard
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