Menu
Search by Name
Search by Name
Deborah Pecikonis Obituary
PECIKONIS, DEBORAH ANN 53 - of Mays Landing, beloved wife of Francis Xavier passed away at home on Monday, February 11, 2008. Born in Philadelphia, PA on October 30th, 1954 to the late Catherine and Salvatore Bilotti, Deborah was one of eight children. She distinguished herself very early on as a young bride. Working side by side, with her husband, Francis, in their very popular Delicatessen/ Convenience Store which was located in Philadelphia, PA. She displayed her creative skills by helping expand the business into a successful catering service. As the family grew, pets included, she moved to the New Jersey Shore. Her talent, sewing and design, led to many Easter "first place ribbons" on the Atlantic City Boardwalk. She created many hand made gowns and wardrobe for various conants involved in The Miss America Pageant System. She was a devoted animal lover, and donated generously to the A.S.P.C.A. Deborah was a compassionate woman. She rescued and found home placement for many stray and unwanted animals. Anyone who was welcomed to her home at Christmas, was amazed, for none could make the season look more beautiful. With the four children grown, Deborah traveled extensively with her husband, Francis. It is unimaginable that one will exist without the other. The long dark hair, striking brown eyes, and the totally disarming smile, she had style and looks not easily forgotten. She is survived by daughter, Paula Paretti and husband Jeffrey; son, Francis X. Jr; daughter, Samantha; and son, Damian; grandchildren, Tevya, Anthony and Tiffany, and many loving brothers, sisters, nieces, nephews, and cousins. Funeral Services will be held on Thursday, February 14, 2008 at the Assumption Church in Pomona. Viewing will begin at 10:00 a.m. to 11:00 a.m. A Christian Mass will follow at 11:00 a.m. Donations in lieu of flowers can be made in Deborah's name to The Assumption Church in Pomona. Arrangements have been entrusted to the Wimberg Funeral Home of Egg Harbor City and Galloway Township, 609-965-0357. Directions and/or condolences, please visit: www.wimbergfuneralhome.com
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Deborah Pecikonis
Kenny Webb jr
April 22, 2022
Was just checking an old email account, and seen this.....Wish all my cousins and Uncle Francis the best...R.I.P Aunt Debbie
Elizabeth Rogers-Catana
February 9, 2022
To the Pecikonis family ..Dear Debbie, you are always in our thoughts, hearts and prayers. Everyone knows how well you took care of your family. Your brother-in-law Paul Pecikonis ,who passed on Feb 1st, just joined you......please look out for him . We know you are God's special angel. Love, always.
Elizabeth Rogers-Catana
February 8, 2021
Dear Debbie,
It is so hard to believe another year has gone by without you. What a year 2020 was, I am sure the angels have you very busy, helping out; since so many people here on this earth are just in bad shape. I see you often in your powder blue dress and your smile, I wish you could be with us again during the Italian Sunday "gravy" nights. We all could use the laughs and the fun!
God bless you Debbie, may you soar with the angels! Say some prayers for us down here xoxo
Joanne Bilotti
February 7, 2021
Miss you every day ❤❤❤❤
elizabeth catana
February 7, 2020
Debbie, We think and pray for you often. We remember all the good stuff, like how beautiful your family was for all the Easter Parades on the Atlantic City board walk. How much thought you put into giving gifts. You are so missed, but I know, God has you doing some special work, and, most importantly, your handsome son Francis is not alone, he has you. Love, Elizabeth, Robert, Liza, Fran, Roger, Natalie & Hunter xoxox
Elizabeth Rogers-Catana
March 11, 2008
Dear Debbie and Franny and Family,
All of us have not stopped thinking and praying for you here in Key West.
I think of the days when the whole gang visited us and we LAUGHED so hard. The stories of Damian on the bus. Debbie wearing her beautiful
powder blue outfit to my parent's 40th wedding anniversary party. Also, when Deb got mad at Francis and made him walk Duval Street in the boiling sun and his legs became chapped. You even helped me set up for Robert's 50th party with dice and Italian gangster hats.That's Amore!
For all of these precious moments , I thank you. For all of the hilarious moments in my kitchen with food and lots of coffee, I thank you.
For Debbie being Debbie, we all thank you, you taught us all so much.
I suppose Jesus just needed
someone to help Him decorate and set up for some big Angel party so He called on the best.
We will miss you----always
Love,
Elizabeth, Robert, Courtney & Liza
Fran Rogers
March 11, 2008
To The Pecikonis Family.....it has been very difficult for me to speak with all of you.....I still am in shock and disbelief. I will ALWAYS remember Debbie's kindness and many talents, especially when I look at the beautiful bracelet she bought me for my anniversary. I pray for her and all of you every day....love, cousins fran, roger & family
Frank Scarpato
February 17, 2008
Aunt Debbie,you will be missed very much and I will always miss as I always have the night's down the burke ave. house crabbing with damien and staying up all night playing zelda while everybody else was downstairs hanging around the house together.That i will never forget.I love you and will see you when i get there..Say hi to my dad fot me..
Patrick "Mac" Calvi
February 17, 2008
So sorry for your loss. As my family and I reminisced the other day, we shared stories of good times and funny times with all the Pecikonis family. May God Bless Debbie!
Nathan Tessitore
February 17, 2008
Dear Aunt Joanne,
I am sorry to hear about the loss of your sister. I will say a prayer for her in church.
Anthony & Bri
February 17, 2008
Dear Aunt Joanne,
We am sorry for your loss. Know that you are in our prayers.
Cheryl & Anthony Tessitore
February 17, 2008
Dear Joanne,
We are sorry to hear of the loss of your sister Debbie.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Charles Santora
February 17, 2008
The Pecikonis Family........ There are no words that could express the sadness i feel for all of you .It's also comforting to know that Debbie is in a more content and peaceful place ,which oneday we will all meet there.
Nancy Durkin
February 15, 2008
Dear Fran,Fran Jr, Paula, Samantha and Damien,
I'm so sorry to hear about yor loss. I just found out today or I would have attended the services.
Debbie was full of life and her spirit will always be a part of your everyday lives. She is at peace with the Lord our Father.
Joanne Retallick
February 15, 2008
Dear Debbie I miss you very much and i will always love you. You will always be in my heart. You will be Mommy and Daddy they will be glad to see you. Your loving sister Joanne
JOHN CONNORS
February 15, 2008
TO PECIKONIS FAMILY,
I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR OF MRS PECIKONIS PASSING AWAY.I HAVE MANY VERY FOND MEMORIES OF MRS PECIKONIS OF 30 YEARS,SHE WAS ONE OF THE MOST BEAUTIFUL KINDEST LADIES THAT I HAD THE PLEASURE OF KNOWING!!!!
ALL THE SPORTING EVENTS,BANQUETS,PARTIES NO MATTER WHERE SHE WAS OR HOW BUSY SHE WAS SHE ALWAYS HAD TIME FOR CONVERSATIONS.
SHE WAS A WONDERFUL PERSON A GREAT MOTHER,GRANDMOTHER AND WIFE AND I AM PROUD TO SAY MY FRIEND!!!!!!
"WITH ALL MY HEART AND SOUL, I WILL MISS YOU UNTIL THE DAY WE MEET IN HEAVEN"
MR.PECIKONIS,FRAN,DAMIAN,PAULA,
SAMANTHA
MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU!!!
Lizzette Leandry
February 14, 2008
Damien, I just wanted to let you know that I am truly sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers and if you ever need someone who has been there to listen please call me at anytime....
joanne retallick
February 14, 2008
DearDebbie I will miss you with all my heart hope you will see mommy and daddy. They will be happy to see you. I will alwqys love you. Your loving sister Joanne xoxo
Mary Lou
February 14, 2008
Frannie it is very hard to believe that Debbie is gone. She was and will always be a very special to me.
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time.
Mary Lou
frank pecikonis
February 14, 2008
I am sorry I could not attend. You were and always will be a special person and aunt.You will always be remembered in my heart. May God bless you and rest in peace.
Mary Rudd
February 13, 2008
Debbie you are loved very much and it saddens me that I wont get to see your beautiful smile again. You will be missed. My prayers go out to Franny and the family. All my love Aunt Mary & Family
Shawn Helmer
February 13, 2008
To my Godmother (Aunt) Debbie, I will miss you a lot, I will keep all those good memories of you in my heart.xoxo Love Your Godson Shawn
Michael & Ashley Dispas
February 13, 2008
Francis and Family,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. She will be missed. Please contact us if you need anything.
Chris (sister ) Diehl (Bilotti )
February 13, 2008
In My Pocket
I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.
My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.
They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.
Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.
But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.
Chris Diehl (Bilotti)
February 13, 2008
In My Pocket
I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.
My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.
They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.
Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.
But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.
Dawn Fugarino
February 13, 2008
My sympathy goes out to you, my cousins. I am sorry I am unable to attend to pay my respect in person. Know that I am thinking of you and love you all!
Sincerely, Dawn Fugarino & children, Shaina & Shannon
alan lazar
February 13, 2008
Dear Damien
I am very sorry to hear about your mother, My thoughts are with you.
Sincerely
Alan lazar
Rosey Wynn
February 13, 2008
She was a very special person - I still can't believe she is gone. She will be missed by everyone who knew her.
Leo Magee
February 13, 2008
Frankie, Sorry for your loss my dear friend. Debbie was one of the sweetest women I knew.To her children and family I understand the feeling of loss of a parent. If you need anything please let me know.
Lisa, Manny and Gianna Matos
February 13, 2008
Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Darlene Munizza
February 13, 2008
Frank, Francis, Damian, Sam and Paula:
I am so saddened by this news of Debbie's passing. My deepest heart felt condolences are with all of you at this time of your loss.
Christine Diehl
February 13, 2008
To my sister, Debbie we may not have spoke to one another for some time but my heart and thoughts were always with you there was not one day that went by without thinking of you and how you are doing, I am going to miss you so much, knowing that i will never see you again,I always think of all the fun times we had together,We were like two peas in a pod, and I wish I had one more chance to talk to you and tell you how much I love You, Sadly Missed,I LOVE YOU DEBBIE! Your Sister Chris
Cassie & Joe Calvi
February 13, 2008
Fran,Paula,Franny,Samantha and Damian,
We are so sorry to hear of Debbie's passing. She was a great person and neighbor. We shared lots of laughs with her. She will be missed.
Jim Di Falco
February 13, 2008
Fran & Family our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. We love you and God Bless you all
Jim & Terri,Jimmy jr, Michell Di Falco
Joseph&Cheryl Sykes
February 13, 2008
Fran-Very sorry to read about Debbie's passing. I know you will miss her alot. If I can do anything,please let me know.Take ease in knowing that she sits with her creator and her pain & suffering is over for eternity
kenny webb
February 13, 2008
I'm sorry to hear about your loss,i will keep you guys in my prayers.One thing that does stick out in my mind,is i always remember Debbies creativity with decorations,the house always looked great.R.I.P Deborah, love Kenny Webb jr
Kenneth Webb
February 13, 2008
Francis and Family,I am Sorry for your Loss,I just do not have the Words to say.
Cousin Kenny
Showing 1 - 37 of 37 results
Make a Donation
in Deborah Pecikonis's name
Memorial Events
for Deborah Pecikonis
How to support Deborah's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?
What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read moreResources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide
If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read more
The Five Stages of Grief
They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
Read moreWays to honor Deborah Pecikonis's life and legacy
Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more
