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JOSEPH FENTON Obituary
FENTON, JOSEPH C. JR. 62 - of Petersburg passed away unexpectedly on Saturday, October 6, 2012 in Flanders. Beloved Husband, Father and Poppy. He was a very kind and gentle man. His life was his family. Born in Philadelphia, PA to Joseph, Sr. and Sara (nee Couch) he had lived in Brigantine for many years before moving to Petersburg 39 years ago. Mr. Fenton had served many years as a lifeguard for the Brigantine Beach Patrol and had rowed in many Lifeguard Champ-ionship Competitions including the South Jersey Championships. He had worked as an project manager and estimator for many area companies. Surviving are his wife of 41 years Linda (nee Ashton) of Petersburg, a son: Joseph C., III and his wife Kristie of Palermo, a daughter: Samantha Darnesto of Flanders, NJ, three grandchildren: Nicholl, Abigail, Lily and his mother-in-law: Joyce Ashton of Egg Harbor City. During the 1980's and 1990's Joseph was an early member of the Upper Township Soccer Association. He spent countless hours coaching and fundraising for the annual trip to Europe. He and his family also hosted teens from Europe for close to a decade. This summer he had the pleasure of seeing his own granddaughter experience this trip. A Service of Memory and Love will be offered Thursday at 12 O'clock noon from The Godfrey Funeral Home of Palermo, 644 South Shore Road, Palermo, NJ where friends may call from half past 10 O'clock until time of service. Burial will be private and at his family's convenience. Memorial contributions in his memory may be sent to the Upper Township Soccer Association, PO Box 236, Marmora, NJ 08223. To e-mail condolences visit www.godfreyfuneralhome.com
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Joe Fenton
March 12, 2021
Dad, I still miss you everyday.
Love, your son
Catherine Parrillo
October 11, 2012
Mrs Darnesto and Family
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We are so sorry for your loss.
Frank Catherine and. Alexandra
Janice Wanek
October 10, 2012
Linda, Joe Jr and the Fenton family. So sorry to hear of your loss. My Prayers and sympathies go out to all of you at this time. Take care
Mary Jane Lara
October 10, 2012
When Louise called me on Sunday with the sad news of our cousin's passing, we talked about our memories of Joey. He was a part of our childhood and we cherish those memories of our summers in Brigantine. We loved that time with our Aunt Sally, Uncle Joe, and of course, Joey. Always fun to be with. Linda, Samantha and Joe, our thoughts and prayers are with you. May his love and devotion to his family bring you comfort at this difficult time. Andy and I extend our deepest sympathy.
Margaret and Brian Teeney
October 10, 2012
Mrs. Fenton, Sam and Joe-
I am so sorry for your loss. Please know you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Bill & Dolores Miller
October 10, 2012
Life brings tears, smiles and memories. The tears dry, the smile fades, but the memories live on forever. Love you Uncle Joe. With deepest sympathy to your family.
Love Bill & Dolores Miller
Kim Ashton
October 10, 2012
46 years ago you were my sisters boyfriend, then as time went by you became my brother in law & friend. Then you were the father of my first Nephew & Niece. But as we grew older and wiser I realized you were not only my friend but had become my brother. I will miss our talks, laughs, the stories you told that I never knew if they were fact or fiction & my birthday buddy. Thank you for being such an important part of my life, and the gifts you brought to it.
Joanne Venice
October 9, 2012
Linda I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.
Jennifer Straubmuller
October 9, 2012
I am so sorry for your loss.
Amy Carcione (Heiser)
October 9, 2012
I am so sorry for the great loss that your family has endured. I know I have such wonderful memories of Mr. Fenton from growing up, I only hope that the memories you all are sharing over the next few days, weeks, and months, bring you comfort and peace.
From our cheerleading days, to our headband ann days, to our 90210 days, Mel supported us, he drove us(sometimes both ways), he cooked for us (cheesesteaks!), he laughed at us (Im sure we deserved it!), he loved us... and we loved him. I will always remember his big heart, his quick wit, his warm smile.
I wish there were some magic words to say that would ease your pain, give you a chance to say goodbye. I am truly so sorry for your loss. Know that Mel was loved by many and so are you all! XOXO
Sue Downam-Trasoras
October 9, 2012
Linda our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.
The Downam Family
Gary Wagenheim
October 9, 2012
I had the privilege of being Joe's rowing partner one summer, although with considerably less success than when he partnered with Bill. I went to grammar school with Linda and have fond memories of her too. Although I lost contact with both of them over the years I can still very much see them in my mind's eye, and hold them both in the highest regard. While Joe was a gifted and dedicated rower he was even a better person. I can still remember Joe picking me up early in the morning for practice with oars jutting out of his old white Plymouth Valiant. He would always be waiting for me with a smile and a friendly greeting. Rowing with Joe was a great way to spend summer mornings. It wasn't just about the physical workout but the many deep conversations we enjoyed together. I always thought of him as a gentle giant; incredibly strong yet with a most kind demeanor. I remember the first time we went for a “test” row together and I felt the strength of his pull. I don't think I ever heard as loud a sucking noise come out of the transom from the speed the boat generated with Joe in the bow seat.
I offer my heartfelt condolences to Linda and her family for their very sad loss.
Love
Gary Wagenheim
Bill & Kathy Bennett
October 9, 2012
Joe was my mascot, then my rowing partner on BCBP. His MOM & Dad {Aunt Sally & Uncle Joe treated me like one of their own kids. I have many fond memories of Joe & Linda as a young couple just getting started in life and as proud parents of two nice kids. Our deepest sympathy to Linda and the entire family.
Maggie McAdams
October 9, 2012
My heart is heavy with the weight of your loss, and the grief our whole family is feeling right now. Uncle Joe, you were always larger than life to me, your heart, your soul, your laugh, your love. You were a great man, a kind, funny, and loving man, and you were so loved by so many. As I explained to Ben today, when his huge heart began aching for my grief, we will CELEBRATE your life and be thankful that we had you for the time we did. We will cry AND laugh as we remember you to each other. I love you Uncle Joe, rest in peace. Maggie, Ben, and Jaime
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