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ALFRED GOODE Obituary
He was preceded in death by his son, Alfred A. Goode Jr.; grandson, Angel M. Balli; father, retired Lt. Col. Carl M. Goode Sr.; sister, Pearl A. Goode; and his mother-in-law, Evangelist Lucy M. Robinson.
Alfred leaves behind, his devoted wife, Beverly Goode; two daughters, Michelle Balli (Nicholas) and Melodie Goode; mother, Mildred A. Goode; brother, Carl Goode Jr. (Magdalene); sister, Sachiko S. Goode; grandsons, Nicholas Balli and Roman Balli; father-in-law, Sterling Woodard (Joyce); and a host of other family and friends.
Alfred was a special man who had a heart of gold and never met a person he didn't welcome into his home and heart. Alfred was a lifelong member of Mt. Olive Baptist Church in Richmond, Va., and was an ordained deacon of the church.
He and his siblings helped to integrate Petersburg Public School System by being one of the first black students to be enrolled. He graduated from Petersburg High School in 1974. He enlisted in the United States Army and was accepted to West Point Military Academy. He attended Virginia State College (VSU) where he was the second lieutenant ROTC Cadet Commander and his unit was recognized as the top ROTC in the country. He was the original organizer of the Blades and Swords Honor Guard and was in the Quartermaster Corps. In 1981, he was commissioned as a first lieutenant in the Army. After medically retiring, he went on to open several businesses under the umbrella of A.A. Goode Enterprises Inc. He was active in the community, participating in several private and civic organizations to include Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Petersburg Booster Club, The Wheelchair Foundation and others.
Alfred was known for his unmatched charity, lavish parties, sharp dress, grand laugh, unique surprises and most of all, his kind heart.
Services for retired Capt. Alfred A. Goode Sr. will be held 11 a.m. Saturday, July 12, 2014, at Good Shepherd Baptist Church, 2223 S. Crater Road, Petersburg, Va.; the Rev. Jeffrey L. Reaves Sr., pastor, Dr. James I. Johnson Jr., pastor of Crusade for Christ, Richmond, Va., eulogist, and the Rev. Terry O. Johnson officiating. Interment to follow at Maury Cemetery, Richmond, Va.
Wake services will be held from 6:30 to 9 p.m. Friday, July 11, 2014, at Mt. Olive Baptist Church, 2611 Bells Road, Richmond, Va.
Family members and friends are invited to pay final tribute to Mr. Goode at www.jmwilkersonsince1874.com.
Monetary donations in memory of retired Capt. Alfred A. Goode Sr. may be made at http://www.youcaring.com/memorial-fundraiser/alfred-a-goode-sr-memorial-fund/198452.
Funeral arrangements entrusted to the staff of J.M. Wilkerson Funeral Establishment Inc., 102 South Ave., Petersburg, Va., 804-732-8911, www.jmwilkersonsince1874.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for ALFRED GOODE
John MOOKEN
August 19, 2019
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
Rhea Kemplan
December 30, 2014
I am so sorry for your loss. I was just a friend and at the time of his loss I was going through two of my own. I didn't know he had gone until today. Again I am sorry.
Deacon Audrey Flowers
July 16, 2014
Mrs. Goode and family your dedication and love for Deacon Goode along with your love of God will be the thing that will get you through the difficult days ahead. He certainly fought a good fight. May the peace of God be with you, the love of God surround, the joy of the Holy Spirit engulf you and the grace of God's Mercy sustain you. His fellow Deacons are praying for you and your family.
Pat Boswell
July 16, 2014
I am so sorry to hear of Alfred's death. He was a prince and a dear friend in high school. I'm sorry I had not seen him since. My condolences to the family, and special love to Carl.
Zelda Barlow, Petersburg High - Class of 1974
July 14, 2014
Sorry to hear of your loss. Alfred will truly be missed. May GOD continue to bless each of you.
Maxine Covington
July 14, 2014
I am so sorry for your loss. I only knew Mr. Goode through my dealings with him at AAA. He was always ery professional, polite and smiling. He will be missed tremendously.
Antoinette Venable
July 13, 2014
I am sadden to here of your loss. GOD has one of the best on his side. Will always keep you in Prayer
Wade Watkins
July 11, 2014
God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble. On behalf of the Concerned Black Men of Petersburg I want to express how sorry we are for your loss. Remember God is still in control. May God Comfort you.
Brenda Spencer
July 11, 2014
I met Alfred many years ago as a result of knowing and cherishing his beloved father. The entire family exemplifies love. Rest in peace.
Janet Koren
July 11, 2014
Let me start by saying, that Mr. Goode will always hold special place in my heart. From the first day our lives crossed (and meeting his dedicated and loving wife) I knew he was a true soldier. No doubt, in the military sense, but more importantly for his beloved SAVIOUR. His smile was contagious. He had a kind and gentle spirit. We all should pull from his goodness and courage. I so admired his strength and endurance…all with that wonderful smile. He always thanked me for my care, but he gave me much more. He put my life in perspective, gently reminding me that life is short and love endures. Thank you my friend and I will see you again!!!
God Bless his wfie and family during this most difficult time.
Love,
Janet Koren RN at the VA Hospital
Erica Hamlin
July 11, 2014
Sending prayers to Mrs. Beverly, Mel and Michelle and Nick. I know is has been a tough few years but i know you are a strong family and will get through this. Pray God continues to comfort you all during this time. Mr. Goode has always been such a nice person. My span of knowing him streches at least 20 years from Al and I being in school together and my friendship with Mel and Michelle in adulthood. He will truly be missed and i feel blessed to have known him for so many years. I will especially miss our reoccuring run ins with him and Mrs. Beverly in our favorite store(Sams Club).
Tegra Branch
July 10, 2014
What a nice guy! Alfred graduated from Petersburg High School with my cousin Felicia Heath and was a favorite customer of mine during my employment at Staples in Colonial Heights, VA. He will be sadly missed and my prayers go out to his family.
Ollie & LeZena Flippen, Jr.
July 10, 2014
May the Lord be with you during this difficult time. Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.
Deepest Sympathy.
Annette Lee
July 10, 2014
God has called a special man to glory. Alfred was such a dear friend to me when I was in the Army. He was always happy and could make a person smile just being in his presence. I know he will be missed by friends and family. I pray the peace of god will sustain you as you celebrate his life.
Barbara Green
July 9, 2014
TO THE BELOVED GOODE FAMILY!
You are in our daily prayers. Alfred will be greatly missed by everyone. It is at this time our faith in Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ gives us the strength to know He is a faithful God!
With much love,
Walter, Barbara Manns Green and Natasha
Alfred Harris
July 9, 2014
Beverly,
I am very sorry to hear about Alfred---he was a very dear and loving man. I know my family sends all their love to you and if you need anything at all please let us know.
from the Harris Family
Alfred Jr.
Linda Redwine Bell
July 9, 2014
Condolences to the Goode Family. May you find comfort in the love and memories of such a wonderful person as Alfred was. He is resting with the Lord and you will see him again.
Anne Pegram
July 8, 2014
To the Goode Family,
As you cope with the loss of a beloved family member, please know that the PHS Class of 1974 has lost a dear classmate.
It is ironic that the last time I saw Alfred was at the homegoing service of another classmate back in November. He was so happy to receive hugs and handshakes from so many of us that afternoon - and he looked forward to being a part of our upcoming 40th reunion celebration. That image of his smiling face that day is one that many of us will carry in our hearts forever.
May you all be comforted with wonderful memories of Alfred.
Debbie Walker
July 8, 2014
My prayers are with your family right now.I always loved you when we were in school together in the class of 1974.may god bless you and your family and friends.We will greatly miss you always.
Sheila Joynes
July 8, 2014
Beverly,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. May God give you His peace which surpasses all understanding. God bless you and your family at this time.
Sincerely your college roommate.
Sheila Smith Joynes
Thomasine Bolling Hill
July 7, 2014
Words cannot express the sadness I feel at the loss of my classmate and friend. May God's love envelope you all as you mourn and still celebrate the life of my dear friend. The Petersburg High School Class of 1974 mourns with you. God bless you all.
Joseph "Jody" Wilkerson, II
July 6, 2014
Al lived such a positive life that even with his passing, we can remember his smile, his laugh, his helpful ways. He has left a legacy behind in the hearts of those who knew him, loved him and will never forget him.
Prayers and Blessings to his gentle and faithful wife, Beverly. May God's light and Favor shine forever on you all of your days.
Joseph "Jody" Wilkerson, II
West Point Class of 1979
Proud Classmate of Al Goode, Sr.
Matthew Gilliam
July 6, 2014
Gone way too soon! My condolences to the Goode family. Alfred was a great friend and classmate. He will be missed!
James (Eddie) Cpt (ret) USA Clark Jr
July 6, 2014
My deepest sympathy to the entire Goode family. I will miss you greatly my friend. I salute you my brother for your devotion to Christ, family, service and your community. Your smile and kindness will carry on. Farewell.
July 6, 2014
From the family of Ret(Col)Herbert White Sr, we offer prayers to the Goode Family. Alfred will be missed by many but will always live on in our hearts.
Mrs Rosa White and Herbie
Gloria Rudolph
July 6, 2014
Farewell Alfred, you'll never be forgotten. Within my heart, you left a smile.
Love you brother
Everard Auston Hughes
July 4, 2014
Condolences to the Goode family. Al opened his heart and his home. He also literally offered me the shirt off his back. Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Incorporated and your brothers thank Al for his service.
Michael Castelle, Sr.
July 3, 2014
I am heartbroken to hear about the passing of Alfred Goode and my deepest condolences goes out to his family and friends.
Cindy Sheaffer
July 3, 2014
Alfred was like a big brother to me. If I was sad he made me laugh and he always gave the best advise! Al put others first always. I will miss your big hugs and your exceptional smile, you were my best friend! God has a special place for you Alfred. Until we meet again...rest in peace my friend.
Dr Robert Mayfield
July 2, 2014
A great caring person. Thanks for serving your country. You will be truly missed. You are now blessed to be with the Lord.
Loyd Peters-Ince
July 2, 2014
You will be missed! You left us too soon! My prayers will be with your family.
Bernita Johnson-Edwards
July 2, 2014
Alfred was my family who I will greatly miss until we see each other in Heaven. Thank you for all your love, advice and laughter.
Wanda Donnell
July 1, 2014
Alfred,Alfred I told you I was going to see you today. Your Heavely Father wanted to see you first. I am Ok with that. My Mother and I so glad to have you and Beverly In our Life. RIP Weeping may endure for the night, but joy cometh in the morning. LOVE YOU ETERNITY!
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