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STEPHEN WALTER PULLEY JR.

STEPHEN WALTER PULLEY JR. obituary, North Dinwiddie, VA

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STEPHEN PULLEY Obituary

Mr. Stephen Walter Pulley, Jr. "Bro," a man of few words, but had a heart of gold, was a loving and dedicated husband, an awesome father, a fun-loving grandfather, caring brother, calm uncle, loving brother-in-law, passionate coach, proud United States Army Veteran, and blessing to many. It was on Friday, March 30, 2018, Stephen received his wings. He joined Little Bethel Baptist Church, Stony Creek, VA, at an early age.

Coach Pulley loved life and coaching. He instilled in his players a sense of self-discipline, respect, hard work, and winning seasons. He coached with the Petersburg Department of Recreation, Dinwiddie Department of Recreation, and Dinwiddie County High School Girls and Boys Varsity Basketball Teams for many years.

He was preceded in death by his mother, Mary Eva Flowers-Pulley; father, Stephen Walter Pulley Sr.; mother-in-law, Marjorie Bell Lambert-Moss, and father-in-law, John Robert Moss, Sr.; and his pals, Paul and Silas Reed.

His legacy will be continued by his DREAM TEAM, his confidant, best friend, ride-or-die wife of forty-two years, Jacqueline F. Moss-Pulley; daughter, Dr. Shavon Comanika; sons, Stephen Ryan and De'Quincy "Dee"; daughter-in-law, Shakira; two grandsons, Branden Ryan and Camren Ryan and granddaughter, Raven; siblings, Mary Pulley-Crawley (Timothy), their children Bridget Betts (Roger) and son, Brian Crawley (Angie); Martha Kay Pulley-Jones (Milton) their children, Ashley Jones and Jason Jones (Natasha); John Kennedy Pulley and his children, Olivia and Kennedy Pulley; Monica Pulley-Stith and her daughter, Myiah Stith; Stanley L. Pulley (Cheryl) and his children, Justin Parker and Siara Hannah-Pulley; and his "baby sister," Monique Pulley-Gregory (Jason) and their children, Austin Parham-Gregory and Miles Gregory; aunts, Irene E. Burrow, Alma Doris Cooper (Rev. Clarence), Rose Ann Flowers, Wilma Malone (James), Agnes Thorne, Bernice Harrell, and Sue Allen; uncles, Rev. Alfred H. Flowers, Fred Pulley and Eddie Pulley (Pearl); sisters-in-law, Shelia Moss (Charles) and their daughter Asia Briggs and Debra Moss; brothers-in-law, Joseph Moss (Susie) and their children, Eric Moss (Diana) and Jenna Haugen (Gabriel), Malcolm Moss, Jeffrey Moss (Teresa), Marvin Moss, Sr. (Rika) and their children, Marvin Moss, Jr., Rueben Moss, and Shari Coleman (Sharif); devoted childhood friends, William "Billy" Bonner, Clarence Beasley, John Matthews and Ricardo Wiggins; devoted neighbor and friend, Richard "Rick" Dvorak; a host of great nephews, nieces, cousins, other relatives and friends.

Special thanks to the 4th-Floor Nursing Unit, ICU, Green Clinic, Spinal Cord Clinic and Palliative Care at Hunter-Holmes McGuire Veterans Hospital and Intrepid Home Healthcare.

Services will be held at 11:00 A.M., Monday, April 2, 2018, at Little Bethel Baptist Church, Stony Creek, VA, Pastor David L. Banks, officiating and Rev. William Roberts, Pastor of Mt. Carmel Baptist Church, Hopewell, eulogist.

The family will assemble at 9:00 A.M. the day of the services and will receive friends at 13413 Oxley Court, Chester, VA.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made in memory of Stephen W. Pulley, Jr., to the Multiple Sclerosis Society, 4200 Innslake Drive, Unit 301, Glen Allen, VA, 23060.

J.M. Wilkerson Funeral Establishment, Inc., 102 South Avenue, Petersburg, Va., (804) 732-8911, www.jmwilkersonsince1874.com.

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Published by The Progress-Index from Apr. 1 to Apr. 2, 2018.

Memories and Condolences
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Hazel Coleman

May 18, 2018

I just ran across this and I am so so sorry to hear that my classmate of 1973 had passed away. My condolences to Stephen's family and friends. May you rest in perfect peace my classmate. #1973

Class of 1974

April 9, 2018

Praying that you'll sense God's presence
In this time of grief
And feel God's love surrounding you
And know His inner peace
For God cares so much for you
And wipes each tear you cry,
You never need to feel alone,
For He'll never leave your side.

Robert (Mac) Porter

April 8, 2018

I am so very sorry for the families loss. May God give you strength during these tough times and Bless each and every one of you as you deal with your pain!

Robyn Jennings

April 5, 2018

Jackie and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. May God give you comfort at this time and always. My prayers are with you all.

April 5, 2018

I am so sorry for your family's loss. There are no words that can ease the pain of losing someone you loved. May you find comfort and peace in knowing that your loved one is in God's memory, because those who passed on are precious in his eyes. Psalm 147:3.


C.Jackson, BRONX, N.Y.

Jacqueline Rose Howell

April 4, 2018

My sincere condolences to the family. Stephen was a classmate who was always kind and had a sweet spirit. He will be missed.

John Hewlett

April 2, 2018

To the family of Stephen Pulley, I am sorry for your loss. Steve and I worked together at DGSC many years ago.
John Hewlett

James "Billy", Wilburt, & Hattie Bonner

April 2, 2018

To the Pulley family, Difficult times, like this, can be very painful. But we pray to god to give you strength and courage. A beautiful soul has passed, but the memories shall never fade. Bro, will be greatly missed as he was loved.

Linwood ''Skinner'' Jones,Jr.

April 2, 2018

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Jazmyne-JaNeal Nelson-Moss

April 2, 2018

To My Auntie Jacklyn & Family
My heart was saddened about Uncle Stephen passing,
I will always remember his soft spoken words and his smile
You are in my heart and prayers

Yvette Nelson-Walker

April 2, 2018

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2013



To Jacklyn, Nikka, Ryan, Dee
We Are Keeping You All In Prayer,

Jazmyne, Aries, Yvette

Dee Dee (Walker) White

April 2, 2018

I was looking forward to hopefully seeing Steven at our upcoming class reunion.Steven was a wonderful person, classmate and friend and will be missed. I pray comfort to his family and friends. What a great reunion we will have in heaven! God bless

Kisheena Taylor

April 2, 2018

Jackie my prayers and love are always with you & your family!

Gloria Staples

April 2, 2018

Jackie and Family, My deepest sympathy in the loss of Steve. My prayers are with you during this time.

Obediah Stith

April 2, 2018

We are so sorry for your loss. Our love and prayers are with you.

ERICA THORNE

April 2, 2018

I'M SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOST JACKIE.YOU AND YOUR ARE IN MY PARYERS.

Gwen Melvin B. Tucker

April 1, 2018

Martha and Family sorry to hear of Stephen passing. My prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

April 1, 2018

Sorry for your loss. With deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Verna White, Charlotte NC

April 1, 2018

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Rachel

April 1, 2018

Kay, my deepest sympathy to you and your family. May God strengthen you all and give you peace and comfort knowing that Stephen is in a better place.

Carolyn Crowder Perry

April 1, 2018

John and Stephen Jr im so sorry fir your family lost. May God wrap his arms around and strengthen you all.

Veronica Cooper

April 1, 2018

My deepest sympathy to the family of my classmate. Rest in peace my friend.

Percell WAlker

March 31, 2018

My name is percell walker iam a friend of the family I was very sadding to hear the news God give and God takes away be strong family and continue to trust in God and he will see you thure

Larry & Melva Lewis

March 31, 2018

Dear Jacqueline,
Our sincere condolences to you and your family. Stephen was my co-worker at DECA and one of our groomsmen at our 2002 wedding. We will always remember him for his kindness and support. May God Bless you and keep you during this difficult time.

Rodney Harris

March 31, 2018

Condolence to the family sorry for the loss of your father and my cousin.... My prayers are with you and the family.....

CINDI SHEPPARD THOMAS

March 31, 2018

My heart is saddened at the loss of another classmate .Steve pulley was indeed a very soft spoken person.So many memories shared with him in high school.Not wanting to miss a game because he was indeed a great basketball player. I will forever treasure the memories and hold Steve close to my heart. His memories I will cherish forever. His family and friends may God continue to bless you and all the wonderful memories you have a Steve bring you comfort and peace now and in the days to follow. Heaven definitely has another Jewel to add to his garden. Rest in peace my friend you were gone too soon but you will never be forgotten

Burden Sykes

March 31, 2018

So sorry to hear of the loss of your loved one.Our family will always have special memories of a great neighbor.You are all in our thoughts and prayers.Burden&Anita Sykes and family.

John Reed

March 30, 2018

My deepest condolences to Stephen Pully family.My prayers are with your family .John and Kathy Reed and family.

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