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TOKARZ, ANTHONY P.
Tokarz, Anthony P., Colonel USMC (Ret) passed away on Saturday, July 11th after a short illness at Rhode Island Hospital in Providence, RI.
"Tony" was born in Fairmont, WV on August 27, 1942 son of Anthony T. Tokarz and Margaret Marflake Tokarz. He graduated from Fairmont State University, WV in 1964 whereupon he was commissioned an officer of the US Marine Corps and served two combat tours in Vietnam as an Infantry Company Commander. Following which, he received his Law Degree from William and Mary Law School in Williamsburg, VA in 1974. He then earned an advanced LLM in Criminal Law and Psychiatry from George Washington University and is a graduate of the Naval War College in Newport, RI. He continued serving as a Marine Corps Prosecutor, Judge and Staff Judge Advocate for the First Marine Brigade and Second Marine Division until his retirement in 1989 after 25 years of devoted service to his country. His career was distinguished by being awarded the Silver Star, Bronze Star, Purple Heart, Navy Commendation with Combat V and Legion of Merit. Following his military retirement he continued practicing law in Kentucky and West Virginia, specializing in Environmental and Patent Law, until his final retirement in 2008 thereafter settling with his wife in Bristol, RI. Tony embodied incredible curiosity, strength, integrity, honor and dignity which were the hallmark of all aspects of his remarkable life.
Col. Tokarz is survived by his beloved wife of 53 years Joan, his son Dr. Kyle Tokarz and daughter-in-law Dr. Valerie Tokarz, grandsons Ayden and Mason Tokarz of East Greenwich, RI and his sister Elaine Dorlan of Spartanburg, SC. He was preceded in death by his sister Arlene Tokarz of Spartanburg, SC.
Tony enjoyed reading, traveling Europe, Australia, New Zealand and African safaris, boating, March Madness and music but his greatest passion was his family. His true joy was being involved with the growth and development of his beloved grandsons, Ayden and Mason. He will be sadly missed.
In lieu of flowers, follow his example, for he prolifically donated to causes he was passionate about to leave behind a better world.
Family and friends are invited to visitation at the Connors Funeral Home, 55 West Main Road, Portsmouth, on Saturday, July 18, 2020 from 4:00-7:00pm. Please visit www.memorialfuneralhome.com for further instructions and information regarding the schedule and safety procedures for the wake. Burial will take place at Arlington National Cemetery at a later date.

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Published by The Providence Journal on Jul. 15, 2020.

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Michael R. McCarty

November 17, 2020

Dear Joan, I just learned of Tony’s passing. Serving as his Deputy at Lejeune was one of the high points of my career. He was the finest example of an officer of Marines: gallant, honorable, tough when he had to be but always in love with his Marines. Thank you for sharing him with so many of us. I know that i am a better person for having known him and served under him. You and the family are in my prayers. LtCol Mike McCarty, USMC (Retired)

Michael R. McCarty

November 17, 2020

Dear Joan, I just learned of Tony’s passing. Serving as his Deputy at Lejeune was one of the high points of my career. He was the finest example of an officer of Marines: gallant, honorable, tough when he had to be but always in love with his Marines. Thank you for sharing him with so many of us. I know that i am a better person for having known him and served under him. You and the family are in my prayers. LtCol Mike McCarty, USMC (Retired)

Gerry Miller

October 29, 2020

Joan, Please accept our deepest condolences for your loss. Tony was an exceptional lawyer and a great leader. There are many Marine Corps lawyers who are better today because of Tony's influence. We served two combat tours together in Vietnam. Tony was seriously wounded and recovered thanks to your care. Then it was off to law school. May he RIP.
Semper fi,
Gerry Miller
BGen USMC (Retired)

Jerry

July 17, 2020

God's speed my brother!

Cassandra Lemay

July 17, 2020

So sorry for the passing of Tony. I'm here if you need anything. Sending my love to Joan, Kyle, Valerie and my cousins.

Eugene P Whetzel

July 16, 2020

Joan,
Please accept my deepest condolences on Tony's passing. I continue to recall and appreciate your and his hospitality during my service at Camp Lejeune in the late "70s.
God Bless and keep you safe.
Gene Whetzel

Kip Naugle

July 15, 2020

I was fortunate to serve with then LtCol Tokarz at the 1st Marine Brigade at Marine Corps Air Station Kaneohe in the early 1980s. He had a great sense of humor and was an honorable man whose word could be trusted. LtCol Kip Naugle USMC Ret.

CAPT & Mrs Tom Watson

July 15, 2020

Tony was one of the truly good guys. We worked together in Washington and formed a close friendship. His passing comes as a great shock. He will definitely be missed by his family and friends. Joan, you will be in our prayers. Please accept our sincere condolences.

Carolyn (Tokarz) Huffman

July 15, 2020

He was my cousin and I last saw him at his sister's memorial. We will be praying for the family. He was loved I am sure.

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