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Elmer Graves Obituary

GRAVES, ELMER L., JR., was the heart and soul of Salks Hardware Store the wisdom and compassion of his family the courage and pride of our country before passing away Aug. 20, 2012. He spent more than 62 of those years with his wife, Greta A. (Erickson) Graves. Born in Cranston, the son of the late Elmer L. and Rosella S. (Veranica) Graves, Elmer lived in Warwick most of his life. He was honored as a decorated World War II Army veteran. Mr. Graves was the manager of Salks Hardware Store in Conimicut for 55 years. He was also actively involved in the Old Warwick Grange. Elmer was a 1950 graduate of Bryant College. Besides his wife, he is survived by two daughters, Christine Satterwhite and Deborah Graves-Stone, both of Pocatello, Idaho; a son, Leonard Graves of Charleston, S.C.; a sister, Junis Merchant of Modesto, Calif.; four grandchildren, Dana Graves, Nicole Graves, Taylor Graves, and Mackenzie Stone; and great-grandson Owen Atwood. He was the brother of the late Henry Graves and Shirley Peters. Relatives and friends are invited to attend a memorial service at 11 a.m. on Friday, Sept. 7, in Woodbury Union Church, Presbyterian, 58 Beach Ave., Warwick. Visiting hours are omitted. A private burial, with military honors, will be at the Rhode Island Veterans Cemetery, Exeter. In lieu of flowers, send contributions in his memory to the Memorial Fund of Woodbury Union Church.

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Published by The Providence Journal on Sep. 4, 2012.

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September 7, 2012

Hi Chris..so sorry to hear about your Dad. Barbara Brennan Napolitano posted it on Facebook. My thoughts are with you and your family. Jill Robinson Pilgrim High "67"

Bruce Merchant

September 6, 2012

My uncle always had a joke to tell and had a worderful laugh. We didn't get to see each other often, but the family ties were always strong. He will be missed.

Stephen Morgan

September 6, 2012

Elmer was a GREAT guy he was the reason we all went to Salks! Rip!

September 5, 2012

what a great sense of humor he had as I have come to know him in these last few years--and a genuinely nice person--prayers and thoughts with you all-Kathy Parker

Paul Enos

September 4, 2012

Elmer was a awsome guy I had broken my mom & dads window on the house when they was at work and Elmer save me and fix the window and let me pay a 1.00 a week till i payed it off.He will be miss. RIP ELMER.

Bobby Townsend

September 4, 2012

Elmer was what Salks Dept Store and Conimicut was all about and he should be honored for that. On many occasions, would ride his bike to work. All the goodwill he established over a long period of time was done with a smile and in such a quiet way. R.I.P. Elmer. Conimicut will never be the same

September 4, 2012

Elmer was a awsome guy he help me when i was 13 when i broke my mom & dad window.and he let me pay 1.00 a week tell it was paid off. he will be miss . paul Enos

Estelle Blais

September 4, 2012

Greta and the family, on behalf of our family, we'd like to express our condolences. Elmer was one hell of a guy and the dinners we spent at the senior centers along with Joe and Andy were some of the best times we've had. Estelle Blais&Ernie Pennine

Robert Kalunian

September 4, 2012

I went to Salks from the time I was in Conimicut School And couldn;t find anything if not for Elmer He was trully an Icon from the original days of the community hardware store
So sorry for your loss BOB KALINIAN

September 4, 2012

you will always be with me
love you Dad

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