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EDDY, JOHN L., 42, of Los Angeles, CA, died unexpectedly on June 26th. He formerly resided in Coventry and Narragansett.

He was born in Warwick on February 7, 1964 and was the loving son of Elizabeth (Carlson) Vollucci of West Greenwich and David Eddy of West Warwick.

John also leaves his devoted sister Elizabeth Eddy of Warwick, his stepfather Frank Vollucci, his stepmother Kathleen Eddy and many loving aunts, uncles, and cousins. John graduated from UC Santa Barbara in 1989 and was employed with Amadeus Waterways as a travel consultant.

Funeral arrangements are private. Donations may be made in his name to the RI Community Food Bank, 200 Niantic Avenue, Providence, RI 02909. To sign an online guestbook please visit www.THE BUTTERFIELDHOME.com

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Published by The Providence Journal on Jul. 1, 2006.

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Patrick Dennison

June 25, 2024

I still receive Legacy emails as reminders, but I still think of you often out of the blue. Sometimes I hear a loud laugh and have to turn my head because it reminded me of you.

Jean -Marc chazy

July 3, 2007

John John, a year later Some days I think of you and I want to smile
remembering all the good times we had and what a special person you were , other days.. well.. I really rmiss you.

Beth Vollucci

July 3, 2007

One year ago today was the saddest day of my life. It was the day I buried my son. It was also the culmination of the worst week of my life. This past week has been a week of daily reflection and reliving each day of last year.

Tomorrow marks the begining of a new year. A year full of the promise of lessening grief and sadness. They say that time heals all wounds, but some wounds remain with us forever. Although the intense pain has
lessened, my heart remains full of sadness, and of missing you.

I will go on from here and begin to enjoy my life again. I now am
remembering the fun times, and think of you often. I can still hear
your voice and your laughter, both of which will remain in my heart
forever.

I love you and miss you. We will be reunited in the next life. Until
then you are in my heart forever.

Love, Mom

Patrick Dennison

June 29, 2007

Sometimes in this busy world it's hard to find the time to just sit and reflect. That's why I rely on the many automatic reminders my computer allows me access to, such as the ones at this site. John, if you were here, I could tell you how many times out of a clear blue sky, a thought of you pops into my mind and brings a smile to my face. Time seems to fly sometimes. I miss you, my friend.

Beth Vollucci

June 26, 2007

Today marks the first anniversary of your passing from this life to he next. My heart is full of hurt, sadness and of missing you. But my heart will always be filled with love for you now and forever.

This has been a very difficult year, and the world is a much different place without you. My only peace comes from knowing deep in my heart that you are no longer suffering, and are in a better life, a peaceful life.

Today I, along with Bethie, your aunts, uncles and cousins, will visit your earthly resting place. After that we are going to celebrate your life with stories and remembrances of you, hopefully with a little laughter. After all, your laughter will always remain in our hearts.

John, I love you, and will always love you. We will be together again when it is time for me to take that journey to the next life.

I love you and miss you, Mom

Will D'Amato

February 12, 2007

My sister Joanne and I drove home from FL this weekend and shared some great John John memories.
I miss him so much and would wish him a happy birthday if he were here.

jean marc chazy

February 10, 2007

your birthday was 3 days ago, I am thinking of you ! I m looking at old photos now , I m lucky of all the great times we shared . all my love .

jean marc chazy

February 9, 2007

there is not a single day when i don t think of john john. I miss him very much , for some reason some days are harder than others and recently it s been tougher but thats how grieving is , it takes time.

Patrick Dennison

February 9, 2007

Dear John-John,
So many of us have birthdays around this time of year, myself 1/31, Vince 2/3, yours on the 7th...and at least 3 or 4 friends of mine you never got a chance to meet. You are so missed and will always be loved by all your friends...Happy Birthday JJ.

Beth Vollucci

February 7, 2007

Today would have been your 43rd birthday, if you had chosen to stay here with us.

Although you have gone beyond, you are in my heart and in my thoughts every minute of the day. I can still hear your laughter, and I listen for it every day. I love you and I miss you.

Today I will celebrate your life by remembering the fun times we had together, and by praying that you are in a better place now.

You will be with me in my heart forever.

Love, Mom

Diane Von Heyneman

January 30, 2007

Dear John-John's mom,

On behalf of all of John-John's friends on the West Coast I thank you for having this guest book.

For me personally it has been a good place to come visit from time to time and sift through my feelings.

It's been a hard journey for us, but I think we are all healing nicely.

Forever my love to John-John, his family, and friends.
Diane

Your Sister, Beth Eddy

January 29, 2007

John,
I logged onto your guest book
to print a final copy for myself; but now I want to say something.
I've been sad,angry, depressed and confused. I've been sad and angy for Mom and Dad; But now I mostly just miss you. I prayed to God twice daily that he would take care of you and now I have turned you over. I can smile alot when I think of you because you were the best brother when you were here with me. I cry alot less now because I know you're where you are supposed to be and I feel you're watching over us like some kind of angel. I'll carry your memory around inside my heart forever.
I Love You John,
Beth

Mom

December 27, 2006

Hi John

I have just spent my first Christmas without you, and it was very difficult. I miss you so much and the pain in my heart never goes away. It was strange and lonely not having the phone ring, and hearing your cheerful voice on the phone.

I visited your grave on Christmas Day. Auntie Linn came with me because Beth was working, and Auntie Linn did not want me to go alone. Walter Berger and his family had placed a holly branch with berries at your grave, as well as at Grndma and Grandpa's.

I find it hard to believe that you are gone from this earth, but hope you have found peace and contentment in the next life. I know I will be with you and be able to hold you again sometime in the future.

I love you and miss you, Mom

Bridget 'the Hern' DiMambro

August 7, 2006

We had a swim party over at Helen's Parents' house(& my parents as well). Peter, Quasi and Scott were there at the party, and I could not stop thinking of John-John. He will always be in my memory. I miss him so much.

Kerri Dugan

July 16, 2006

My dear friend jon jon,

Even though it seems like we knew each other a brief time, my memories of our great moments will last a lifetime. I'll miss calling you late nites from the pub and letting everyone get to chat with you.I'll miss our long talks,goofing on everything under the sun.But most of all Ill miss that infectious laugh!!! I hope you know how much i valued our friendship.Until we see each other again...save me a seat.Love you and miss you.

Patrick Dennison

July 11, 2006

Though it was many years since I last saw John John, I thought of him often. I had the pleasure and privilege of living at Vince's Ocean & Howard house with Vince, John John & many others. You will be missed more than you could know - your smile, the way we shared a private joke with a little nudge of our shoulders - a little of you will hopefully shine in all of our hearts and maybe bring us all a little closer. Wait for us JJ and save us a spot on the front steps.

Beth Constant

July 7, 2006

I have known John since I was fourteen. It scares me to think of the person I might have been if he wasn't in my life. He made me laugh and think out of the box! He gave me great fun wild memories. We could go years without seeing one another but pick right up where we left off. I love and miss him very much! John gave his best to everyone, he was unselfish,giving and loving and oh let us not forget his witt!! Thank You John for giving me wonderful memories and making me a better person!! Hope to see you again!

John & Deb Iannucci

July 6, 2006

Beth and Frank,



We always enjoyed John when we all visited. Our thoughts and prayers are with you always.

Jean-Marc Chazy

July 6, 2006

I took me a while to be able to read all this and write something on here for u John John but ...I am so glad I came down here for ur memorial John John to be with all ur dearest friends that love you. John John, you are such a special person for me, all these things we shared , all these laughs and love and trips together since 1987... i will miss u greatly , U know how much I love LA but right now it is tainted.. I miss u already and miss hearing u telling me : ''A toute a l heure ...'' but yes John John see u soon, ''A toute a l'heure ''.

David LeBarron

July 6, 2006

I will miss his smile and joy but will try to keep them with me and honor my memory of Johnjohn. Peace and prayers.

keith holland

July 6, 2006

john-john held a special place in my heart and my love goes out to everyone-our paths will cross again one day

Patrick Cavana

July 5, 2006

John-John was always nonstop. As messy roommates in San Francisco, traipsing around Europe smoking to our hearts' content(!), doing the Mardi Gras in Sydney, or just slumming around LA, it was GO GO GO! Take a nap? "What are you, an old man? Get up!"

We will all miss you terribly during this time we're apart, John-John. I'm glad you're OK now. Tell Norma we miss her too.

tracy soriano

July 5, 2006

Smile-infectious laugh-perfect wit

There is noone like John-john.

john barry

July 5, 2006

the los angeles ceremony for john-john was filled with wonderful people sharing sweet and funny memories. he touched a lot of people with his infectious laugh, his absurd fashion sense and bright creativity. we shall all miss him.

Don Brown

July 4, 2006

Beth and Family: My prayers are with you.

Louis Peter Re

July 4, 2006

As soon as I met John-John, we became close friends. We shared so much, including our north-eastern roots. He taught me so much, and We shared so many beautiful times in Laurel Canyon, In the East Village, in Silverlake.

I will think of you often and miss you always.

Joyce Bellows

July 4, 2006

Your big "bear hugs", your sunny smile,your hearty laugh, you getting down on the floor to play with my grandkids, your witty stories about your world travels----these are a few of the memories I hold close to my heart. Embrace and enjoy your new life with The Lord! With much love, Auntie Joyce

scott tal

July 3, 2006

john-jon,

i miss you!

you took me under your wing and introduced to me to some of the most special people in my life, yourself included. your memory and the bright glow of your humour continue to shine with us. momma T and baby skiddles!

i love you and wish you peace and hapiness on your journey.



skids

Rhett Davis

July 3, 2006

John has had a profound effect on my life. For more than 20 years, I've admired his courage, wit, creativity and compassion. When we were at UCSB, or later when we were traveling, I witnessed how John's laughter and personality would naturally draw others to him. My life is richer because I've known him and I will always honor and cherish his friendship.

Dany Crusius

July 3, 2006

Hi John-John,

I didn't know you very well, but I liked you very much and we had fun everytime we met. I will miss you. I hope I see you again -

somewhere else...

Big Hug, D.

neko b.

July 3, 2006

john john was one of the kindest, most

generous people i've ever met. my life is infinitely richer having known him.

peace

Jeanne Nelson

July 2, 2006

To Beth, Your Mom and Dad, and Family.

My thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of sorrow.Please accept my deepest sympathy.

Lance Garcia

July 2, 2006

To John's family: My thoughts and prayers are with you...and, like many others, I too enjoyed being caught up in the pure joy that swept the room whenever John-John laughed. That is what I carry with me always when I think of him, pure joy! Thank you very much my friend~

Dotty Knott

July 2, 2006

Please except my deepest sympathy for your loss. It was an honor to know John, and a pleasure to work with him.

I am sorry you had to leave us so soon.Your whit and laughter will always be echoing in our hearts. Rest well John. You will truly be missed

Karen Marble

July 2, 2006

Beth & Family,



Please accept our deepest sympathy at your loss. I'll always remember John when he was little. He was my first nephew until I became an aunt for real.



Karen & Hugh

robbie hochderffer

July 2, 2006

beth, john filled my house with a lot of laughs

while he was here. i will miss him and his smile.

if i can do anything for you let me know....



robbie hochderffer

Joanne

July 2, 2006

I am so sorry for your loss.John was a great guy and a wonderful person to be around.I meet John from work we spent many nights laughing and talking about his life experiences.He was a true and honest person.He will be missed.

Bridget (the Hern) DiMambro

July 2, 2006

Dearest John-John,

We will all miss you terribly. I wish you could of met my boys before you left. I hope you are at that big party in the heavens. Say Hi to Norma for us. XOXOXO

Margaret Lambert

July 2, 2006

Sweet John-John:



The world isn't the same without your light. We love you and support you on your journey.



Much love,

Laraine Moone

July 2, 2006

To Beth, and her Mom and Dad, and Family,



My deepest sympathy, and my thoughts and prayers are sent to you and your family.



Sincerely, Laraine Moone

Jon Leslie

July 1, 2006

"John-John" was much loved. He had alot of positive energy that he shared with everyone he met. He will be missed & remembered.

John Quasi O'Shea

July 1, 2006

For over 25 years John kept me laughing, thinking and questioning everything. That laugh bouncing across the room!...you bouncing across the room!!!!!...It's hard to believe I'll only have you in my memory. AND I WILL... for all my days. I miss you and love you and share my happiness of knowing you with all your family and friends.Good bye John.



May we all find peace in this world and the next. Love, John

Ken Volok

July 1, 2006

I met John-John in 1986. he took me in as a friend and became for a time like big bro and always a good friend- the kind that is both brutally honest and supportive. I'll be thankful for the time spent in each other's universes always.

Janet FUKUMOTO

July 1, 2006

John had a wonderful wit and infectious laugh. My deepest sympathy to his family during this most difficult time.

Diane Paillette - Von Heyneman

July 1, 2006

I am very sorry that you have lost John-John. I'm really going to miss him and his absolutely wonderful infectious laugh. I recently spent time with John-John and for that I am thankful. I hadn't seen him in awhile and I was so happy to have some one on one time with him. I want you to know he put a lot of smiles on my face and made me laugh so hard it hurt. He was a great guy to be around.

Barbara D'Amato

July 1, 2006

Beth,

Please accept my deepest sympathy. John always made me laugh. Will miss his occasional phone calls. He & Willie were such good friends for so many years.

helen O'Neill

July 1, 2006

We love you John-John.

Good luck on your new journey.

love, helen

Will D'Amato

July 1, 2006

Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss. John will be missed. He was one of the most unique and bright individuals I have had the good fortune to know.

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