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Lacey
May 31, 2024
Entering into year 10, the vast imprint left in your wake remains ever present in all the lives of those blessed to have experienced you. You moved throughout life a true individual; you had a commitment to upholding morality in a world seemingly littered with insensitivity, insecurity, doubts & and overwhelming collective conformity. You shined, You were brave and confident in your nature. A man that could be multifaceted. Able to love&nurture wholeheartedly; a man fiercely loyal to extend kindness, & offer unconditional acceptance to all amidst any pre conceived opinions. You stood outside the box; outside of society's stereotypical definition of masculinity confidently with pride; you unknowingly set an example of what it means to be multifaceted. You beamed in authenticity and had a genuineness that poured outwards unconsciously without any fears of judgment. You were lover, a nurturer, an attentive grandson, son, and brother. You were a gentle natured, sentimental manly man. You were A friend to all in need offering unbiased encouragement & support not only to the ones you loved but to all in need of someone to simply care. You listened intently to our woes, you sacrificed your time to help others achieve dreams, you celebrated our wins. You raised our spirits. You had a natural ability to uncover & bring out the best in people by simply being present. You showcased an example of unwavering resilience, positivity & strength amidst a silent unseen, unknown battle, the heartbreak you were forced to sit in following your father´s abrupt unfair exit. Your life will always remain a shining example of what it means to be kind. To be a perfectly imperfect human- for all that knew you, and for others who never got the chance.. Your essence; the entirety of your being embodied our golden rule, down to your core you treated others as you would want to be treated; always & no matter what. The way it felt to be loved by you was something fierce, never fading. I can feel it today & I can trust I'll feel it for all the days yet to come. You remain an exceptional being here nor there- a story extraordinary, a love that remains felt so strongly & so presently, always right by my side, familiar and warm.. comforting & shining over me every. single . day since you made your transition into the afterlife. It's my belief that he was truly too good for this world.. I'll continue to celebrate all that was Tom, forever and ever striving to be a living embodiment of the purity & kindness brought to life in the story of you. A man with love and a passion for life so powerful it quite literally defies all concepts of time and spaces.
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Nancy (Cicchinelli) Friess
September 3, 2014
Dear Marilyn,Mike, Stella and family I know all to well this profound pain. My Tommy has left me too and there isn't a day that will go by that your Tommy won't be with you. Even though he has left me in the flesh I have felt his presence many times.Keep God close and listen and look for the signs. Tommy is with you. I wish things were different, but I guess it is part of a bigger plan. We must keep our Faith and never give up the hope of being together again someday in love and peace. God Bless You All.
Kai & Amy Goto
September 3, 2014
We're so very sorry about Tom's passing. We only met him in June and he worked for us in Narragansett for the summer and he was wonderful- ready to help and do anything that was needed. He was warm, friendly and professional. We wish you all peace and we hope that the many happy memories you have of Tom will comfort you.
Wickert Family
September 2, 2014
We are so very sorry for your Loss. May he rest in peace, God Bless.
Katherine Mantia
September 1, 2014
My brother, best friend taken to be an ANGEL TOO SOON! Love you Tommy forever
September 1, 2014
so saddened for your loss, prayers for your family
Sandy & Joe Guerin
August 31, 2014
Marilyn, Mike, and family... Our sincerest condolences.
Tom Lawrence
August 30, 2014
Marilyn, I'm sorry to hear about Tommy.
Kelly, Leo, Leo, Emily & Jillian Daigneault
August 29, 2014
Marilyn, Mackenzie and family...so very sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved Tommy. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Tony Toscino
August 29, 2014
My Sincere Sympathy to the Nevitt Family. Taken too soon in life, from a Father in Cohoes.
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
But first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998
Tony Toscino
August 29, 2014
To the Family of Mark "Tommy" Nevitt, my most sincere condolences from a Father in Cohoes.
SAFELY HOME
I am home in Heaven, dear ones;
Oh so happy and so bright!
There is perfect joy and beauty
In this everlasting light.
All the pain and grief is over,
Every restless tossing passed;
I am now at peace forever,
Safely home in Heaven at last.
Did you wonder I so calmly
Trod the valley of the shade?
Oh, but Jesus' love illumined
Every dark and fearful glade.
And He came Himself to meet me
In that way so hard to tread;
And with Jesus' arm to lean on,
Could I have one doubt or dread?
Then you must not grieve so sorely,
For I love you dearly still,
Try to look beyond earth's shadows,
Pray to trust our Father's will.
There is work still waiting for you,
So you must not idly stand;
Do it now, while life remains,
You shall rest in Jesus' land.
When that work is all completed,
He will gently call you Home;
Oh, the rapture of that meeting,
Oh, the joy to see you come!
August 28, 2014
I enjoyed seeing Tom every Wednesday..truly going to miss him.
August 28, 2014
Shahnee, Marilyn, Stacy, and Mackenzie,
Our deepest sympathies go out to you at this difficult time, remember the beautiful memories you have of your son, and brother, they will help you in the days and weeks to come. Shahnee, please know that we are here for you whenever you need us.
You are all in our hearts and our prayers, Love Auntie Marjorie and Uncle Gary
Aprille (Cotrona) Overocker
August 28, 2014
Marylyn, Mike and family, I was so sorry to hear about the passing of Tommy. You are all in my thoughts and prayers at this time of great loss. Aprille
Cheryl Fleming
August 28, 2014
I still can't believe it. Tom was someone I looked forward to seeing every week. I knew his father. Both men were men of genuine quality. Kind hearted and always willing to help. I and my kids miss him dearly. rest in peace Tom. Til we meet again.
Joanne Evans/Minchak & Family
August 28, 2014
Dear Marilyn, Shahnee, Stacy and Nevitt Family,
We were so very sorry and saddened to hear about Tommy. He was such a sweet loving boy and will be deeply missed.
Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers.
With Deepest Sympathy and Love,
Joanne, Amy, Mark & Ryan Evans
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