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Thomas Cahir Obituary

CAHIR, THOMAS A. JR., 'PORKY', 73, of Eagle Run, Warwick, formerly of Providence, died Sunday at Philip Hulitar Hospice Center, Providence. He was the husband of Lucy D. (Noble) Cahir. They had been married 47 years.

Born in Providence, a son of the late Thomas A. and Margaret V. (Egan) Cahir, he had been raised in the Old North End, and later lived in the Elmhurst section of the city for many years before moving to Warwick in 2000. For 40 years Mr. Cahir had been employed by the City of Providence, starting in the Highway Dept. as a steamroller operator before moving to the Providence Redevelopment Agency, where he retired after more than 25 years. During that time he had also been a member of Laborers International Union, Local 1033.

A lifelong sports enthusiast, after giving up playing softball for Ace hardware and hanging up his hockey skates, he turned to officiating the sports he loved. In 1973 when Providence College built Schneider Arena for its hockey team, it was on the recommendation of friends that Mr. Cahir was chosen to man one of the goal judge booths. He remained at PC for over a quarter century, even when the Providence Bruins moved into the Civic Center and tried to lure him away. He had also umpired softball games for the American Softball Association for over 20 years and worked Little League games for several years. When not working on the baseball or softball diamonds or behind the glass at PC, he had worked as a funeral home assistant for many years. First at the Russell J. Boyle & Son Funeral Home in Providence and later at the Maceroni & Son Funeral Home in North Providence.

Growing up in a political family, his father had been a city councilman, Mr. Cahir worked behind the scenes on many campaigns, had been called upon by many candidates for endorsements, and had served on the Rhode Island Senatorial District 1 Committee for Senator Mary Ellen Goodwin. Mr. Cahir was a communicant of St. Mary Church in Crompton, and a former communicant of St. Pius V Church, and the Old Immaculate Conception Church, both in Providence. At St. Pius he had been treasurer of the Holy Name Society, a member of Club Dominicana, collected for the Catholic Charity Fund Appeal, an usher, and had played in its bowling league. As a young man he had been president of the Immaculate Conception Holy Name Society, and on two occasions acted as treasurer of its Reunion Committee.

He was an Army veteran of the Korean War, serving in Germany. He was also a member of the Mount Pleasant Senior Citizens. A lifelong Red Sox fan, he had been thrilled to see his team win the World Series in 2004, and was a fan of the Bruins, Celtics, Patriots, PC Hockey Friars and Notre Dame Fighting Irish football.

Besides his wife, he leaves two sons and daughters-in-law, Thomas A. Cahir III and Ann Cahir of Cranston, and Timothy N. and Wendy Cahir of Crystal Lake, IL, two daughters and a son-in-law, Marylou Cahir and Phil Kumpis of Hermosa Beach, CA, and Dianne Cahir of Duarte, CA; a brother, Robert J. Cahir of Warwick; six grandchildren, Ian, Dylan, Katie and Michael Cahir, and Kelly and Ryan Kumpis; and two nieces and a nephew.

The funeral will be held Friday at 8:15 a.m. from the Russell J. Boyle & Son Funeral Home, 142 Centerville Road, Warwick. Mass of Christian Burial at 9:30 a.m. in St. Gregory the Great Church, 360 Cowesett Rd. Burial, with military honors, will follow in R.I. Veterans Cemetery, Exeter. Visitation Thursday 4-8 p.m. In lieu of flowers, please make donations to the Michael J. Gonsalves Scholarship Fund at Rhode Island College, 600 Mt. Pleasant Ave., Prov., RI 02908 or St. Mary Church, 66 Church St., West Warwick, RI 02893, in his memory, will be appreciated.

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Published by The Providence Journal from May 24 to May 25, 2006.

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mary (rao) Tudino

June 11, 2006

Tom, I'm so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.

Lisa Iannucci-Devine

June 3, 2006

I am so sorry for the loss of your father, and I am sorry that I was unable to attend the services. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Patty Buchanan

June 1, 2006

Mrs Cahir & Timmy,



I am sorry for your loss. As a kid, spending time at my grandparents, my brother & I were either at their house or yours. I always remember Mr. Cahir putting up with all of us!



You are in my prayers....

Barbara Ann Finizia

May 25, 2006

Lucy, Tim and all the Cahir Family

My deepest sympathies to you all.

My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

God Bless.

With deepest sympathy,



Barbara Newman Finizia

A Cahir descendant &

Family Archivist

Millicent Maynard

May 25, 2006

To Ann and family:

Thinking of you in your time of sorrow.

May God Bless you all.

Jeremy, Sarah, Alex (the Dudeks)

May 25, 2006

Thom, Ann, Ian & Dylan



Wish we could have been in person to give you our condolences but we are very sorry for your loss. You are in our hearts, thougths, and prayers.

Peter and Berenice Davis

May 25, 2006

Our deepest sympathy to all of you. You are in our thoughts and prayers. I have great memories of our office chats.Peter will always remember his great smile for all.We wish we could express our sympathy in person - but distance prevents it.

Rose Parente

May 25, 2006

Thom,Ann and Family,



My deepest sympathies to you all.

I can only imagine the loss you and your family are coping with at this time. Know that your Father was loved and will be missed by all who knew him.

Lori St. Jean

May 25, 2006

Thom, Ann & the boys



I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you at this time and always.

Bernie Augustine

May 24, 2006

My sincere condolences to the entire Cahir family on the death of a Husband and Father, my thoughts and prayers are with you all.God Bless

With Deepest Sympathy

Bernie Augustine and Family

<br>Sharon Lyons Montecalvo

May 24, 2006

Thom, Ann and family,



My thoughts and prayers are will you all at this difficult time. Peace be with you.

Susan (Midgley) Johnson

May 24, 2006

"TC" always a happy go lucky guy, working together for the City of Providence ... Planning& Urban Redevelopment... my thoughts are with the Cahir family at this sad time.

John O'Neill

May 24, 2006

My thoughts and prayers are with the Cahir Family...please accept my condolences.

Stephen Imondi

May 24, 2006

Thom, Ann and Family,

Lynn and I are sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.



Stephen & Lynn Imondi

Tom Mulvey

May 24, 2006

My sincere condolences to the Cahir family on the death of Tom. I have fond memories of serving with him as an usher at St. Pius. He was always friendly and helpful to others and I enjoyed talking with him about sports and politics. Tom did a lot for the parish and his friendly Irish nature will be missed by all who knew him.

Ernest Dube

May 24, 2006

Sorry for your loss.

Kevin Cahir

May 24, 2006

There was no one better than Tom, even though he was a cousin whenever he saw you he always had a smile on his face and a kind word to say.

God Bless

jimmie dwyer

May 24, 2006

my thoughts and prayers are with the cahir family having know tommy for many years there wasnt a finer gentleman

Ann Alves

May 24, 2006

Dear Lucy,

Our deepest sympathy to you and your family on the loss of your dear Tom. He leaves a wonderful legacy. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time.

Sincerely, Ann and Bud Alves

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