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Thomas Kane Obituary

Thomas (Tom)
Joseph Kane III
HARLINGEN, TX. -
Thomas (Tom) Joseph Kane III, 82, passed away Monday, March 24, 2014 at his residence in Harlingen.
A Chicago native and grandson of Irish and Polish immigrants, Tom followed his high school sweetheart to Harlingen where he and Ann would raise five children while co-owning and managing Richard's Restaurant. He worked for over 30 years in the family business at Richard's. Kids will remember him for the "knots" in their straws and adults will remember him for his quick wit, quick jokes and quickly shuffling across the restaurant to refill drinks.
Tom is survived by his daughters, Colleen (Stanley) Albury and Kelly (Henry) Roberts; son, Terry Kane; grandchildren, Lee Ann Albury, Joseph (Tiffany) Albury, Tracy Roberts Erin, Hilary Kane and Philip Roberts; great granddaughters, Gwendolyn Ann Kinzler and Kathryn Colleen Albury; sister, Janice Albury, and step-daughter, Vicki (Dennis) Kinzler.
He was preceded in death by his beloved wife of 47 years, Ann, in 1999, three sons, Timothy Kane, Tracy Kane, Thomas (Tommy) Kane and second wife, Nancy Shofner Kane.
Those fortunate enough to know him will remember one of the funniest people they ever met. Those blessed enough to love him will recall a loving father, grandpa and "Great Papa". He was a lifetime golfer with 8 holes-in-one and a huge fan of Notre Dame Football. His love of family, rum, golf, all things Irish, and sharp dressing will be fondly remembered. While the family would love a "Mulligan" with him, they are also happy he reunited with those he loved and lost. Save us a seat, Dad, we will join you at the "19th Hole" for happy hour with you, Mom and the gang.
In lieu of flowers the family request that you please buy Certs and liver sausage for fat pugs or a bottle of Rum for yourself! "Go-n-eiri an bothar leat" Irish for "May the road rise up to meet you."
In lieu of flowers on a serious note, memorial donations can be made to Make-A-Wish Foundation, 4742 N. 24th Street, Suite 400, Phoenix, AZ 85016-4862.
To celebrate Tom's life, there will be a gathering of family and friends on Sunday, March 30, 2014 at Tom's residence in Harlingen from 2 pm to 4 pm. A private family service will be held at a later date.
You are invited to sign the guestbook at www.buckashcraft.com
Arrangements are with Buck Ashcraft Funeral Home.

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Published by The Providence Journal on Mar. 27, 2014.

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Paul Morales

April 10, 2020

My name is Paul Morales. All my condolences to the Kane family. I did not know Mr. Kane, but I did know his son. All I can say is that you should be proud of an incredible human being, he always stood tall, respected people and was respected. He was hard-working, Determined to be successful in life. Mr Kane, you did such an incredible job on your son. Only one could ask him to come home at an early age. You are now reunited with you son, Tracy, once again. I know first hand how Courageous he was because we boxed each other when we were at Texas (fight-night). Even though he lost that night against me, he came up to me the following year and said lets do it again. I knew it would be different and that I would have to work out even harder because I could see the terminations in his eyes. We never did have that second fight, but I can say it wouldve been tough to Defeat him for second time. That was 40 years ago, and I still think about him; I just want to say, you have all my condolences and my blessings for your entire family. I will see Tracy again; I cant wait for our next conversation. God Bless, Paul Morales

Glen and Candy Divin

April 9, 2014

Tom Kane's presence at Richard's Restuarant will always be remembered in our fondest memories. He was a very special man that led a very special family in Harlingen. I am sure he will be missed by all who knew him.

Mozelle & Lewis Barr

March 31, 2014

One of the first people we met when we moved to Harlingen, Tom was special. Always had a greeting & a joke. Lots of happy memories. He will be missed by so many.

Paul Williams

March 31, 2014

They say a man could be measured by the quality of family he supported and raised. This qualifies Tom as a giant. We send you our heartfelt condolences, and hope the knowledge your Dad was so loved and respected will help assauge your grief. Hang in there. Love, Paul

March 29, 2014

My sincere sympathy to the family for the loss of your dear loved one. May you find peace and comfort in Psalms 65:2. Again my deepest sympathy.

Alicia A.

March 28, 2014

Tom, I will miss seeing and talking to you and "Fello" at Pendleton Park about Sports, Football, Golf and Daily Events. "Certs to Fello" Alicia

Sheryl Labar Norman

March 28, 2014

Tom was a great man and will be missed by many! My childhood memories are filled with so many perfectly executed pranks and jokes delivered by Tom. When he had that twinkle in his eye, you knew something was about to happen. My thoughts and prayers are with the Kane family. Thank you for shaing your mom and dad for so many years.

Sheryl Labar Norman

March 28, 2014

Tom was a great man and will be missed! My childhood is riddled with so many pranks and perfectly executed jokes. His smile and laugh were contagious. My thoughts and prayers are with the Kane family.

Judi DeHart

March 28, 2014

My love and prayers are with you. Our loved ones may be gone, but our memories are never lost. May you be comforted by God's love at this time.

Tom Cave

March 27, 2014

Tom was Richards Restaurant-prayers to you Colleen and the family

March 27, 2014

Kane Klan,
Too many memories to write about. Will miss Tom and Ann forever. They and the kids will always be in our prayers.
Love ys all,
marshall and Coletta

Sharon Uhlaender

March 27, 2014

My love and prayers to all of you.

Sandie Moore

March 27, 2014

Rest in Peace Tom you will be missed by all, family and friends. Always remember the good ole days of Richard's and the ALLEY!!! Thoughts and Prayers to the family....

Bob Ramert

March 27, 2014

Dear Tom rest in peace. I fondly remember when I used to put your children's Christmas Toys together way back when.

Susan Tichenor

March 27, 2014

Richard's restaurant and Tom and Anne are part of my memories growing up. I can still remember Tom singing "The Old Gray Mare" to my Mom as he refilled her coffee cup. I can remember my Dad taking my children for breakfast on Saturday mornings and what a fuss the whole Kane family made over the kids. Tom, "Thanks for the memories"

LeeAnn Kane Albury

March 27, 2014

Love you Grandpa.....may the road rise up to meet you and the wind always be upon your back xoxo

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