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Rev. Bette Poe

1938 - 2021

Rev. Bette Poe obituary, 1938-2021, Kingston, PA

BORN

1938

DIED

2021

Bette Poe Obituary

Rev. Bette Poe, Age 83, of Kingston, formerly of Scranton, Wilkes-Barre, and Endicott, passed away at Wilkes-Barre General Hospital on Dec. 17, 2021.

Bette was born Sept. 1, 1938, in Indianapolis, and graduated from Arsenal Technical High School. She attended Purdue University and SUNY-Geneseo before receiving her B.A. from SUNY-Binghamton in 1984 and her M.Div. from Colgate Rochester Crozer Divinity School in 1987.

She served as Senior Pastor at Campville UMC and St. Paul's UMC in the Binghamton area and at Firwood UMC in Wilkes-Barre, as well as Associate Pastor at Centenary UMC and Chenango St. UMC in Binghamton and St. Paul's UMC in Scranton. She served as the District Superintendent for the Scranton District from 2002 until her retirement in 2010. As a pastor, she was well-loved for her laid-back personal style, her dry wit, and her easy approachability.

Prior to her ordination, Bette had been active in the United Methodist Church as a church lay leader, UMYF leader, and adult Sunday School teacher, and had held various leadership roles at the church, district, and conference levels of the United Methodist Women. Prior to her pastoral career, Bette had worked as a secretary for various organizations and boasted a typing speed of 100 wpm on a manual.

She is survived by her children Andy (Diane) Poe of Marquette, Michigan, Maggie Poe (Neil Amos) of London, England, and Sarah Poe of Tulsa, Oklahoma; by her grandchildren Nat and Simone Amos of London and Adam and Sophie Hollingsworth of Tulsa; and by her sister Norma Jean Wright of Gainesville, Florida; as well as by many nieces, nephews, grandnieces, grandnephews, and cousins.

Bette's first memorial service will be held at Firwood United Methodist Church in Wilkes-Barre on Saturday, Jan. 8, 2022, at 2 p.m., preceded by calling hours at 1 p.m. There will be a second memorial service held at Sky Lake Camp in the summer, date to be determined. She has requested that congregants wear yellow rather than black to both services.

In lieu of flowers, the family would appreciate donations to Sky Lake Campership Funds, 501 William Law Road, Windsor, NY 13865, or online at skylakecenter.org, directing the donation to: "In memory of Bette Poe (Sky Lake Campership Fund)".

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Pittston Dispatch from Jan. 1 to Jan. 2, 2022.

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Holly M.

January 30, 2022

I am saddened to learn of Reverend Poe's passing. She has performed my wedding ceremony many moons ago, and she has also performed my daughter's baptism. She was a kind woman with a big heart. One of the many things I loved about her was how she would sit on the floor during mass and have the children gather round her. She made everyone feel welcome. She will be missed.

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