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Darlene Lamer Obituary

Darlene Mae "Pork" Lamer (nee Bender), 77, of Fredericksburg, Virginia, passed away peacefully in her home on Tuesday, Sept. 10, 2019.
Darlene was a 1960 graduate of Punxsutawney High School and later received her cosmetology license from the Johnstown Beauty Academy. Darlene owned and operated DJ's With Style salon in Indiana, Pa. for several years. After selling her salon, she worked for the Federal Bureau of Investigation in Columbia, South Carolina, and then in Jacksonville, Florida. Upon retirement in 2008, she permanently relocated to Fredericksburg, Virginia, to be closer to her family.
Darlene was a Christian and member of the Pine Flats Baptist Church. She also served on the Purchase Line School Board for almost 10 years. Darlene was an amazing cook and baker. She was famous for her made-from-scratch meals, Sunday night pizzas and delicious cookies, cakes and pies. Darlene also loved watching the Pittsburgh Steelers, knitting blankets, doing crosswords, dancing to Motown and country music, reading books and taking your money in Friday night poker games. Her greatest love and source of pride was her seven children, 16 grandchildren and one great-grandson.
Survivors include her children, Carla Hindle, Lesa Marcolini (Frank), Robert Berringer (Susan), Denise Draganza (Ernie), Mary Frampton (Richard), Jeannine Yanez (Patrick) and Brian Lamer; grandchildren Alex, Alanna, Dominic, Carri, Kyle, Samantha, Kasey, Lino, Genevieve, Lucy, Cooper, Josey, Emily, Michael, Gabe and Joe; great-grandson Hudson; sister Shirley Mears; and several loving nieces and nephews.
She was preceded in death by her parents, Guy and Belva O. Yohe Bender; brothers Herman and Guy "Tinker" Bender (Norma); and sister Eleanor Pennington (Frank).
Darlene's family will celebrate her life in a private memorial.
An online guestbook is available at covenantfuneralservice.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Punxsutawney Spirit from Sep. 13 to Sep. 14, 2019.

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September 27, 2019

Sending sincere expressions of sympathy to the Bender-Lamer family. Darlene was a delightful 1960 PHS classmate who always had a smile for everyone.
Blessings, Marilyn Stein Underhill, PHS 1960

September 26, 2019

I love you Mom and miss you so very much. You were -and are- a beautiful soul!
Lesa

Sandra Neutz

September 18, 2019

Darlene and I were classmates at PHS and I am sorry to hear of her passing. My sincere sympathy to her family. May God bless you during this difficult time.

September 14, 2019

I love you Darlene and will miss you and our conversations.rip

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