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1996
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Isabelle Fincher Obituary
January 10, 1996 - December 22, 2024
Isabelle Renee Fincher, our beautiful daughter, sister, friend, and child of God, passed into eternity on Sunday, December 22nd in Iowa City, Iowa. Isabelle was born in Davenport on January 10th, 1996, the third of Gary and Elizabeth Fincher's five children. She was homeschooled, graduating in 2014. She loved music (making and listening) playing percussion from a very young age, at first through her church and then in multiple local bands. She could sure make a great playlist! Isabelle worked in many different jobs, from painting, making kombucha and sourdough for the farmers market, tree cutting, to working on an organic farm, but loved working with coffee most of all. As a barista in several different QC coffee shops she greeted customers with a huge smile and bright blue eyes, and shared the love of her craft with heart-shaped lattes. She always noticed the downtrodden person and tried to reach out to them. Most recently she learned coffee roasting and quickly became the head coffee roaster at a shop in Iowa City. She also loved nature, especially native prairies in Iowa, and Catalpa trees. Isabelle was an intelligent, articulate, fun, creative, kind-hearted, loving, hard working person with much potential. Many people tried to help Isabelle with her struggles, for which we are eternally grateful. We especially appreciate everyone's prayers for Isabelle and our family.
Isabelle, Belle, Abel, you will be sorely missed. The Fincher family is incomplete without you. We cherish you and our fond memories until we are joined with you in Jesus on that day. Many signs and wonders point to your return to our Heavenly Father--for this we are comforted and grateful.
Isabelle is survived by her parents, Gary and Elizabeth Fincher, her siblings, Ian, Margeaux Templeton (William), Lillian, and Lauren, her grandparents, Bill and Evelyn Fincher, and many loving aunts, uncles, cousins, and a nephew. She was preceded in death by her grandparents, Jon and Barbara Curtis.
Visitation--all are welcome-.
Friday, January 10th (Isabelle's birthday) from 4:00-6:00 p.m.
River of Life Church.
4855 Forest Grove Dr.
Bettendorf, Iowa.
This will be followed by a more intimate gathering of family and close friends at 6:30 to share a meal, memories, tears, and to celebrate Isabelle's life. If you would like to attend this part, please RSVP to Gary or Liz by text or phone, or respond by email to [email protected]. Condolences may also be sent to this email address. Any donations will be given to One Eighty, a local faith-based program helping people recover from addiction.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Isabelle Fincher
B
January 10, 2025
Abel was a friend and roommate to me.
They had the bluest eyes and a charismatic ability to make anyone they spoke to feel understood, with such ease it was difficult not to like them.
They were unconventional (with some unhealthy habits mixed in) but this authenticity within them was magnetizing nonetheless.
I wish I could have loved them more but love is not enough to keep death elsewhere.
Abel, wherever you are - I can only imagine you are dancing and enjoying those mint-flavored Korean cigarettes you coveted and being whomever it is you wish to become.
Happy birthday, you are loved~ <3
Sarah Wilcox
January 9, 2025
Dear Liz and Gary, our hearts grieve for you and your family with the loss of your precious daughter, Isabelle. I will always remember her energy, creativity and her beautiful smile. After our kids were no longer running into each other at homeschool events, I would frequently see Isabelle out and about, often at a resale shop, and she would come up to me, with her beautiful smile, and say, "Hi, Mrs. Wilcox, how are you?" We would then shoot the breeze and catch up for a few minutes. I always parted feeling liked and affirmed by her, I truly hope she felt the same. I am sad that I will never hear her voice, or see her smile this side of heaven, but am looking forward to meeting up with her again in that blessed place. You have been in my prayers at all hours ever since I heard the news five days ago, may you know the nearness and comfort of Jesus' presence.
Karen Brinson
January 7, 2025
Isabella will always hold a special
place in our hearts. She approached life with passion. She was always kind and thoughtful. I so enjoyed the joy she found in music, nature, coffee and friendship!
Connie and Mark Misfeldt
January 5, 2025
Gary and family, we are so sorry to hear of your heartbreaking loss. Sending hugs and continued prayers to you all.
Maddie Graham
January 3, 2025
I ran into Abel after not having seen them in years. They were always full of kindness and compassion. Abel gave the best hugs. I had children since the last time we saw eachother and we talked about what a blessing it is to be part of a child´s life and the pureness in which they experience the world. Rest in peace beautiful soul.
Gary Fincher
January 2, 2025
Dear Friends
We awake early to converse, pray and find words of encouragement from the Bible, favorite authors, and now the obituary updates. Your heartfelt words of compassion, sharing thoughts and prayers is very meaningful and healing to my family. This season seems like a hurricane of emotions, thoughts, confusion, etc. and then we collect valuable memories like digging through the aftermath. The Lord is near and our faith is strong and we are very much aware of the impact of your care. Thank you, Gary, Liz and family.
Sarah Gallant
January 2, 2025
Gary,
My heart breaks for you and your family with such an unimaginable loss. Praying you find solace and tranquility in the days ahead. My deepest sympathies.
Lawrence (Lorenzo) Popa
January 2, 2025
Gary and Family,
Words cannot express the sadness and shock that you must be feeling. Your dear Isabelle appears to have been truly "one of a kind".
Sincere condolences from the Popa family.
Lorenzo
Michelle Talluto
January 2, 2025
Gary, my heartfelt condolences to you and your family. May you know that she is now at peace in the arms of Lord. Those we love will always remain in our hearts.
Adrea Huffman
January 2, 2025
I'm so deeply sorry to hear of the loss of Abel. Growing up, I have many great memories of homeschooling adventures together. They were funny and kind, and I knew that anytime Abel was there it was going to be a good time. I particularly remember their ability to include everyone, and also their razor sharp wit. Their kindness will always stick with me.
Thinking of the whole Fincher family during this time, and praying for the comfort of Jesus to surround you all.
CB
January 1, 2025
Abel had a great sheepish smile and such kind eyes. In the time I knew them almost a decade ago, their laugh and excitement was palpable. Watching their commitment to being their authentic self was a beautiful unfolding and a living lesson for others. I am sorry to hear their struggle won over their shine. Rest in power.
Ian Fincher
January 1, 2025
I appreciate all of the kind and understanding comments. This is a very hard time for our family, and Abel will be missed forever by all of us.
MC
January 1, 2025
Abel was authentically themself and I consider myself fortunate to have known them. The time I knew them was brief, but I could not have imagined that time finite. Truly, it is devastating to hear of their passing. I hope those who knew them will remember them as the person they showed the world that they were.
Gary Fincher
January 1, 2025
All, thank you for your kind words, prayers, thoughts and encouragement. We are really uplifted by the great outpouring of love. Gary (Isabelle´s Dad)
Gary
January 1, 2025
To all, reading through the beautiful posts, encouragement, thoughts and prayers. We are so appreciative of this outpouring of love and kindness during this time of grief and loss. Thank you and feel free to keep sharing. Gary (Dad)
Gary Fincher
January 1, 2025
Sharing a photo and fresh bloom from the Rose of Sharon that blooms in the desert from the spring rains. So like our sweet Belle.
Dad
Ryan
January 1, 2025
May the love and peace of God surround you during this time of grief. We are here to support you, lifting your family in prayer. Rest in peace Abel, as you dwell in eternal light.
Isabella Cooper
January 1, 2025
I´ve been waiting for you to call me for weeks I feel like I should have never left you in Iowa city I love you Abel I´m sorry I couldn´t be there for you I miss you and I know I won´t ever stop missing you my world feels so much smaller with you gone the cooper family´s sends their condolences and much love to the Fincher family Abel is a dear friend that will be greatly missed
Nancy and Randy Kuhl
December 31, 2024
So sorry for your loss. Cherish your wonderful memories. Hugs and prayers surround your family at this difficult time.
Jay Sanders
December 31, 2024
Abel, you are/were/will always be a part of our family! You are/were/always have been loved. I´m sorry that your struggles were so difficult. Your love and smile shined brighter than any darkness you were dealing with. You are always on our hearts. You will always be family.
Until we meet again, rest in love
Lydia Francis
December 31, 2024
So many wonderful memories from the homeschool days of making fires in the woods or dressing up. Praying God comforts your family and that you can feel His arms around you
Maddie Sharp
December 31, 2024
Able was so much more than a friend-they were family to me, in every sense of the word. From the moment my mother introduced us, I felt an instant connection. I had no idea then how much they would come to mean to me, or how deeply they would impact my life. Who would have thought that something as simple as selling kombucha and sauerkraut would lead to a bond so profound and unbreakable?
Able had a way of making every moment brighter. They were there for me during some of the most important milestones of my life-my high school and college graduations, and even the day I got engaged to my fiancé. They cheered for me, cried with me, and celebrated every victory as if it were their own. Their love and unwavering support made me feel like I could take on the world.
But it wasn´t just the big moments that mattered; it was the countless little ones too. The late-night talks, the laughter over silly jokes, and the way they always knew exactly what to say to lift my spirits. Able had a heart so full of love, and they shared it freely with everyone lucky enough to know them.
I can´t imagine a world without them, but I know their spirit will live on in every memory we made together. I´ll carry their kindness, their laughter, and their love with me always.
I love you so much, Able. Thank you for everything. You will always be in my heart.
Scott & Kim
December 31, 2024
We are so sorry for your loss! What a beautiful words & tribute to Isabelle. May God bless you and your family during this difficult time.
Sam Callaway
December 31, 2024
I had the pleasure of knowing Abel through work and coffee a few years ago. Their laugh was contagious. Their passion for coffee was unmatched. But most of all their heart for people is what impacted me. Abel was capable of showing a level of care for any person that I haven´t quite experienced prior to meeting them. Being exposed to that changed a certain part of me that I may carry for the rest of my life. Although contact with Abel fell off after they had moved on from the coffee shop, I will miss them. Abel was a good friend, and a good person. May they rest in peace.
Chuck McClurg
December 31, 2024
Bella was a drum student of mine and one of the most joyful, enthusiastic, natural talents I have worked with. Andrea and I send the Fincher family our deepest sympathy.
Karen
December 31, 2024
Isabelle had many wonderful qualities but what I will remember most is her beautiful smile. She will be missed.
Genny
December 31, 2024
Abel was such a wonderful person. They had a great sense of humor and their kindness and warm smile will be deeply missed. Ian, I am so sorry for your loss.
Carla
December 31, 2024
Ian, I am sending many thoughts and prayers to you and your family. My deepest condolences.
James & Tonia Britcher
December 31, 2024
We are so saddened to hear about this great loss. Our hearts are aching for your family. Belle/Abel, you are such a special person who I believe touched many lives. You are one of those people who stand out, who everyone wants to be around. You are so talented, creative, accepting, fun, BRAVE, safe & kind. We didn´t stay in touch except through social media after I left, but you have always remained one of my favorite people. I always look back to our first meaningful conversation being on the golf course of all places. It was then that I realized how much cooler you are than me. I love you & I´ll miss you. Tonia
Kenzie Milner
December 31, 2024
I'm so sad to hear about Abel's passing. I always admired their love of learning and their ability to dive into their interests so deeply. They had a great sense of design and I loved talking with them about interiors, architecture and music, among other things. I wish they could've shown the world their full potential, I truly believe it would be so impressive. I always rooted for them despite the tough times we had. I hope you have endless love and peace in the afterlife, and I will remember all the good memories we made over the last 10 years.
Ned and Valerie Fite
December 31, 2024
Gary Fincher and Family,
I know words cannot express the heavy heart we have learning of her passing.. Her grandparents, Bill & Evelyn are good friends.. We are comforted to know Jesus the Christ was part of her life on earth. Gary, I only knew you as a small boy in Clinton, Ok. when I played softball for your dad´s team.. Try to allow Jesus to comfort you, for comfort comes through the Savior.. Ned and Valerie Fite
Alba Doblado -
December 31, 2024
Gary, My deepest and most heartfelt condolences to you and your family on the loss of Isabele. I pray the love of God may surround you and the peace of God that surpasses all understanding will be with you during this very difficult time.
Jeremy Lukovich
December 31, 2024
Sharing my deepest condolences. It was said "What we once enjoyed and deeply loved we can never lose, for all that we love deeply becomes a part of us." I´m so very sorry for your loss.
Gary Fincher
December 31, 2024
Dear Isabelle, we love you and sorely miss you. We look forward to see you in Heaven with Jesus. Dad & Mom
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