1934
2020
Jack King
July 20, 1934-August 16, 2020
DAVENPORT-Like any confident fisherman, Jack King (July 20, 1934- August 16, 2020)longtime resident of Davenport, Iowa, approached every outing on the water expecting to catch his limit. It did not matter to him if anybody else was reeling anything in, or if the conditions were optimal for a banner day. He just knew that he could always get the best of what the pond, stream, creek, lake, or river had to offer, even if he had nothing in the live well at dusk other than memories of a perfect breeze, sandwich, or companion.
This attitude did not only emerge when Jack had a trusty fishing pole in his hand, either. Whether Mr. King, legendary Davenport band director, marched beside young performers in a stadium or parade, stood in front of budding musicians on a podium or gym floor, or sat beside budding artists for a lesson in a classroom, boiler room or basement office, he expected to get the best out of each student, whether that learner prepared for an important audition at a prestigious institutionor a traumatic situation in a struggling household.
When Jack King was surrounded by family around a table at Riefe's, a blazing fire on the patio, a screen showcasing the Hawkeye's or Cubs, a pile of fish freshly fried by his son, or a pile of Christmas presents freshly wrapped by his wife of 64 years, Jack expected to get the best out of each gathering.He loved leftovers from holidays more than the feasts themselves, nibbling on cold turkey, stuffing, pie, and new memories for days as he rehashed and remembered details of the latest family lore.
And, when Jack King, beloved husband, dad, grandpa, great grandpa, brother, friend, patient, customer, and educator battled Parkinson's Disease, it was no surprise to any of us that he continued to haul in whatever chance he possibly could to live fully. He fished, even though his instincts were more masterful than his fingers. He taught, even though his knowledge was easier to access than his technique. And of course he led our family, even though we had to live and gather in smaller places that were easier to navigate and fill with stories as he guided us with the strength of both his grip and his character.
Jack was famous for saying to Vonnie, the most fiercely loyal wife in history, "I'll fish until dark," before he set out to catch his limit. If it became clear that the anticipated deadline was not reached, Vonnie would pace back and forth by the front window on West Dover Court until Jack returned home safely.
In the last few weeks, Jack King has had a lot of people waiting for him to get home safely, including his father and mother, Gertrude and Chester King, brother Robert King, and brother-in-law Jack Harden, who preceded him in death. He was also guided expertly and lovingly around the clock by the selfless hands of the angels of Grand Living at Indian Creek.
However, the rest of us who survived him; particularly his wife Vonnie King, son Steve King (Rhonda), daughter Stacey Medd (Rich), granddaughter Allison Sylvester (Eric), grandson Gabriel Medd (Veronica), grandson Tanner King (Alicia), great granddaughters Ivy and River Sylvester, sister Carol Harden, and brother Thomas King will still look hopefully for signs of Jack King through our front windows as we see a dark summer sky paint a canvas for stardust, or the crisp leaves of October wave goodbye to us all. We will also search for Jack's presence through the acts of service, generosity, gratitude, and importance that seem to following his footsteps, and strive to make our own imprints on the paths Jack knows we have yet to travel on our own.
On the night of August 16, when the world around him seemed to be suffocating in hatred, destruction, and sickness, Jack King realized that instead of fishing until dark, he needed to take one more powerful breath and fish until the light. When it is safe to do so, we will have a Celebration of Life that bursts with illumination. In the meantime, you may pay tribute to Jack's special light by sending memorials to either the Jack King Music Scholarship (Established in 2013 via a sustaining donation and the Davenport Schools Foundation), an award given annually to an outstanding musician who will continue performing in college, or the Davenport Central Band Parents Organization, with all memorials in Jack King's name being used to directly impact students in the program that Jack nourished through his excellence. Both worthy destinations for memorials will create limitless possibilities for a future fortified by one extraordinary man's past.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Ben Grove
August 25, 2020
Mr. King was one of the very best teachers I ever had. It’s been 35 years since I went to Sudlow. But I vividly remember how much he cared about every student, and every note. He used to whistle as he walked down the hallway, which makes me smile even now. He had infinite patience most of us can never understand. We feared disappointing him. He leaves a legacy of countless students who will never forget him.
Greg Fugate
August 25, 2020
Mr. King provided life long inspiration for me from his dedication and even demeanor while I learned to play the trombone at Sudlow many years ago.
Jean Roth Marinelli
August 25, 2020
I remember him starting me on french horn in 6th grade at Washington Elementary. That was about 1971. I still play it today, professionally, in Los Angeles. He was encouraging from the very beginning, and was a legend in my family and in the community. I will never forget the surprise reunion concert that filled the stage downtown Davenport to honor the Legendary Jack King. It was fun to be with such a huge fan base and to see him again. I do remember he loved fishing, he talked a lot about the "Wapsi", which was a word I had never heard come from anyone's mouth except for his. I also remember we collected money for our annual band gift to him, which I believe were fishing waders. Reading his beautifully written eulogy makes me think he must have loved them. He taught all four of the Roth kids, and we all continued to enjoy music and performing our entire lives. He was an excellent oboe teacher to my sister, Julie Roth. I think his secret was he saw the gifts in everyone and made everyone feel special. Truly an amazing man and he certainly left his mark on musicians far and wide.
John Klopp
August 25, 2020
Mr. King was one of the people who was most influential in my musical upbringing. His quiet insistence of excellence, his drive to bring the best out in the music we performed, his tireless pursuit of musical and personal development, left an indelible mark on so many, including myself.
Mr. King was truly an inspirational leader and a mentor. I thank him for all the many years he devoted to his students, for the musical path he led me and so many others toward, and for being a truly quality individual.
Mr. King, you will never be forgotten.
Martha Keenan Anderson
August 24, 2020
He had a huge influence on me and on my siblings. I chose Onoe because I loved the sound but I got a great bonus by having Mr king as my teacher and band leader at Sudlow.
Martha Keenan Anderson
Steve Wilson
August 24, 2020
What a wonderful, inspiring music teacher. Band at Sudlow was fun. We got to play with music. Lessons at his house were the same. I'm amazed that Vonnie could stand to listen to the two of us playing a duet with my tuba and his french horn! It hurts to lose caring people like this at a time when we need more of them.
Glenda Kay Wingler
August 24, 2020
He was a great teacher! Very kind soul. Definitely will be missed. He touched so many lives.
Micah Arbisser
August 24, 2020
Mr. King’s high expectations and his subtle humor coaxed excellence and respect out of his students. He somehow persuaded this would-be percussionist to become a tuba player, and I never looked back.
Most of us didn’t go on to become professional musicians, but all of our lives are better because of Mr. King’s influence.
He was responsible for SO much music in SO many lives.
If only there could be a Jack King in every school, the world would be a much better place. Thank you, Mr. King!
Kathi Atha
August 24, 2020
A privilege to be his student. He always encouraged and applauded excellence. A terrific mentor. He was a bright spot at Sudlow! Kathi Zim, Frisco, TX
Kent ackerman
August 24, 2020
A great band director!
I’ll always remember my band days
Jay Nelson
August 23, 2020
Mr. King was a phenomenal teacher and part of his teaching live in my teaching to this day! His legacy will live on for many generations as he left such a lasting impact on so many. May you Rest In Peace, Mr. King. Thanks for being such an amazing educator!
Dan England
August 23, 2020
Mr. King was able to corral the challenges of junior high students and help them rise to create wonderful music. He was a big influence in my life and am forever in his debt. Dan England, Punta Gorda, FL
Jami Thomson
August 23, 2020
Mr. King was my oboe instructor through middle and high school. We also enjoyed visiting and playing together during the summers, when I came home from college. Every memory of him brings me a rush of joy and gratitude for the teacher, and the man that he was. Some of my favorite memories include him going out of his way to get me my own fresh bowl of water to soak my reeds in, because I thought the community water bowl was “gross”, having him surprise me by coming to my all-state auditions-we shared a walk around the building while he shared encouraging words, cheered me on, and waited all day to get my results, and the bashful way he would flash a half smile and look away if I thanked him, hugged him, or gave him any sort of compliment. My all time favorite memory, however, was my senior year of high school. I auditioned for and was selected as a winner for our our schools in-house concerto competition. It was held at the Masonic temple in downtown Davenport. I remember feeling very nervous until I saw him in the audience, sitting by my parents. The performance began and my nerves calmed as I settled into what Mr. King and I had practiced over and over again. I got to the end of the concerto and before anyone in the audience could applaud, he literally jumped out of his chair onto his feet and began applauding emphatically. I remember him telling me how proud he was of me. Mr. King made a huge and lasting impact in my life, for which I am incredibly grateful. He will be very missed, but forever remembered!
Allen and Sue Fields
August 23, 2020
We are saddened to hear of Jack’s passing. Our condolences to his family.
Sincerely, Allen and Sue Fields, Melanie (Fields) Neuendorf and Melissa Fields.
Terry Schlabach
August 23, 2020
Vonnie, I am very sorry for your loss.
Debra Fraker
August 23, 2020
What an extraordinary man! He was a teacher and mentor to me and when I became a band instructor, he always had a word of encouragement for me. The last time I saw Jack I sold my oboe to another student of his. I needed the money and rarely played the horn, instead playing flute and clarinet with my students often. Jack's words to me were, "you're going to regret selling this". He was right. I did. And still do. My deepest condolences to Jack's family and those close to him. He will be there with you in your sweet memories and the joy you shared together. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
EW
August 23, 2020
Mr. King was an institution. With a calm demeanor and love of teaching marching formations, he led so many of us through the discipline of music. His smooth relaxed posture gave us permission to improvise and swing through early morning jazz band practice. We all looked forward to the end of the year, when he would invite any brave soul to his podium and allow them to conduct. In our minds we knew we could do it, but in practice we paled in comparison to him. As and adult, I now know there is no patience like that of a Junior High band instructor.
Stand, young one, for a legend is marching by.
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