For 58 years, she was the loving wife of the late Harold C. Marbarger, who passed April 20, 2014. Born May 29, 1933, she was a lifelong resident of the Reading area; Betty Lou was an only child of the late Clarence V. and Esther (Ditzler) Meck.
Growing up, Betty Lou enjoyed spending weekends at her grandparents' farm in Lebanon. A graduate
of Muhlenberg High School, she was the Secretary of the class of 1951. Pursuing a nursing career, Betty Lou attended the Reading Hospital School of Nursing, where she earned her degree as a registered nurse in 1954. A year later, she married her soul mate and started a family.
Betty Lou found balance of career and family as a private duty nurse, where she could manage her own schedule at doctors' offices, nursing homes and private residences.
She was a lifelong member of Rosedale United Church of Christ and for a long time she enjoyed the company of her friends from various church groups, Sunday school and alumni functions.
After retiring from nursing, Betty Lou worked in her community; she completed local insurance physicals for Prudential and was the Muhlenberg Health Inspector.
Betty Lou and Harold enjoyed traveling together, they visited almost every state in the country, including Alaska and Hawaii, only missing the state of Oregon. Cape May was also a favorite get-away, spending time with her
grandchildren.
Betty Lou enjoyed music; locally she and Harold would attend concerts together. Fat-Tuesday will forever bring memories of Betty Lou's fasnachts, an annual baking
tradition she started long ago with her mother. She found great joy in simple visits from her children, particularly the daily check-in by her son and his dog, Axl.
Betty Lou is survived by three children: Debra Lynn Marbarger and her husband, John W. Kemmerling,
of Robeson Twp., Jody Marie Paolino and her husband,
Dr. Robert M. Paolino, of Malvern, and Craig Harold Marbarger of Maiden Creek Twp.
She is also survived by three grandchildren: Colette A. Kemmerling and her husband, Samuel F. Breckenridge,
Dr. Christopher R. Paolino and Rachael L. Paolino.
A funeral service will be held on Wednesday, May 17, 2017, at 12:00 p.m. in the Milkins Giles Funeral Home Inc., 4914 Kutztown Rd., Temple, PA, co-officiated by Reverend Dr. Robert G. Aregood and Pastor Kenneth J. McDowell of Rosedale United Church of Christ. The family will receive relatives and friends Tuesday, May 16, from 6:00 - 8:00 p.m. at the funeral home. Interment will immediately
follow the funeral service in Laureldale Cemetery,
Laureldale, Pa.
Memorial contributions may be made to Rosedale
United Church of Christ, 1301 E Bellevue Ave., Reading, PA 19605.
The Marbarger family is sincerely grateful for the for the compassionate care their mother received from Dr. Nick Leasure and the entire staff of the McGlinn Cancer
Institute.
Online condolences may be placed at www.milkinsgilesfuneralhome.com.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
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Sylvia Geras Bailey
May 16, 2017
Dearest Deb, Jody, and Craig; you are in my thoughts and in my heart. Some of my best childhood memories are from spending time at your house. Your mom was always wonderful. Sending you all love and prayers.
Sylvia
Muhlenberg Class of 1974
May 15, 2017
The Muhlenberg Class of 1974 sends our condolences to classmate Debra on the passing of your mom...Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Marcia Reinert
May 15, 2017
So sorry to hear of your mother's death. She will be missed at Rosedale UCC. I have a picture in my mind of your parents sitting in their favorite pew in church, always together.
Karen Houle
May 14, 2017
Thinking of everyone on this Mother's Day as you grieve the loss of Betty Lou. Keeping you close at heart and in my prayers. With love, Karen Houle
May 14, 2017
Craig&Family,
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Sincerely,
Fay&Mike Souders(neighbors)
May 14, 2017
Dear Craig&Family,
Thinking of you and your family,with Sincere Heartfelt Sympathy,we are so very sorry to hear of the loss of your mother.Craig,what a blessing you were to your mother and family,always being there as a loving son.Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
Sincerely,
Michelle(Souders)&Greg Alesin
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