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Raymond Jacob Messner

1930 - 2021

Raymond Jacob Messner obituary, 1930-2021, Laureldale, PA

BORN

1930

DIED

2021

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Stitzel Family Funeral Homes and Crematory, Inc - Reading

3300 Kutztown Road

Reading, Pennsylvania

Raymond Messner Obituary

Raymond Jacob Messner Raymond Jacob Messner, 91, of Muhlenberg Township and formerly of Birdsboro, died April 27, 2021 in Rittenhouse Village at Muhlenberg, where he had been a guest since April 19th. Born in Reading, PA on January 1, 1930, he was a son of the late Raymond E. and Elda C. (Quinter) Messner. He was a 1943 graduate of Birdsboro High School where he was on the Cross Country and Basketball teams. Raymond was a member of St. Catharine of Siena Roman Catholic Church, Exeter Township. He was a self-employed jewelry salesman almost his entire working career. As a teenager he took two trips to Poland and Germany, working as a seafaring cowboy with Heifer International, accompanying livestock to help establish the farming industry in those countries after WWII. He was a member of St. Marco Society, Temple; and had a lifelong love for music. Raymond was a people person and loved to engage with anyone at any time, usually while listening to some of his favorite music. He had an infectious laugh and was a friend to many people who share fond memories of him. He is survived by three children: Michael P., husband of Deborah (Donaldson) Messner of Clermont, FL; Lori J. Messner Bradley, widow of Thomas J. Bradley, of Temple, PA; and Mark M., husband of Nancy J. (Braim) Messner of Lancaster, PA. Raymond was the proud grandfather of five grandchildren: Lindsay Messner, Ashleigh Messner, Nicole Messner, Luke Messner, and Daniel Messner and three great grandchildren: Hollyce Sumner, Addison Boudet, and Emersyn Boudet. He was also predeceased by an aunt, Helen Quinter, who was a great influence on him. Prayer Services will be held Monday, May 3rd at 11:00 AM in Stitzel Family Funeral Homes & Crematory, Inc., 3300 Kutztown Road, Laureldale with a visitation beginning at 10:00 AM in the funeral home. Prayer Services will be Live Streamed from the funeral home website. Burial will be private. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to Heifer International, 1 World Avenue, Little Rock, AR 72202 or at www.Heifer.org. For online condolences or view the live stream, please visit www.StitzelFamilyFuneralHomes.com

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Published by Reading Eagle from Apr. 29 to May 1, 2021.

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Betty Defina

May 3, 2021

I’m so sorry for your loss Mike and Debi. My thoughts and prayers are with you. May your fond memories bring you comfort

Tammy Edwards

May 2, 2021

Ray it truly was an honor to know you. You had a captivating personality and I loved listening to your stories. It was a pleasure to have you as a customer at our bank. Your presence and smile will be missed. You always made me feel special and I will keep those memories close to my heart. Thank you Ray for being the amazing person you were. My condolences to your family.

Paul Harvey

May 2, 2021

Deepest Sympathy to Michael on the passing of your father. And, extended sympathies to Debbie and family. May your memories of his long life and times sustain you in your time of grief. We will keep you in our prayers. Paul and Cathy Harvey.

Paul Harvey

May 2, 2021

Deepest Sympathy to Michael on the passing of your father. And, extended sympathies to Debbie and family. May your memories of his long life and times sustain you in your time of grief. We will keep you in our prayers. Paul and Cathy Harvey.

Janet Scull

April 29, 2021

Lori,
I'm very sorry about your dad's passing. I hope your memories of him will get you through this difficult time.
Sincerely, Janet Scull

Florenta Popescu

April 29, 2021

Condolences to the family ! So sorry for the passing of your father ! Ray was a wonderful man and a dear friend of mine for so many years ! I will miss him dearly !

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