Ryan was the widower of Tamara (Shelton) Matlack.
He was born in Reading on May 16, 1969, a son of Ronald N. Matlack and the late Helen E. (Dickenson) Matlack.
Ryan is survived by his two brothers, Ronald M. Matlack and Randolph C. Matlack, both of Mohnton; his sister, Rhonda C. Matlack of MA; two nieces and two nephews.
A memorial service will be held Saturday August 31, 2013 at 11 a.m. in Mt. Zion AME Church, 404 Zion Hill Rd. P.O. Box 218, Atglen, PA 19310. Inurnment to follow in the church cemetery. Family gathering will be 10-11 a.m. at the church.
Theo C. Auman Funeral Home, Reading, is entrusted with his services. www.theocauman.com.
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Bridget Cooper
November 16, 2013
Matlack family... I'm the best friend to his late wife Tammy. I knew Ryan and Tammy both for most of my life. And threw Tammy I got to know Ryan. And he was a great person. A loving person. Last I spoke with him, he expressed how much he missed Tammy. I tried encouraging him but I could never feel his pain or even understand because. Tammy was my friend but that was his lifelong partner and wife and friend. I just found out of his passing because I ironically was going to check on him. I'm deeply saddened by this because Ryan was such a good man. I know he had his struggles but he was an awesome person and he will be surely missed.
Lori Townsend
September 9, 2013
I am deeply saddened to hear of Ryan's passing. He was such a gentle, caring soul with a big smile and hearty laugh... Always quick to share a story or express compassion for others in need of a friend.
Cynthia (Ebersole) Mahon
September 9, 2013
My heavy heart has just heard of the passing of this fine man that I knew since our young days at Brecknock Elementary School and then later at summers at the pool. My condolences to the family. I keep you in my thoughts.
Dee Morse
September 8, 2013
I only knew Ryan a little as he often sat behind me in church. I saw him as a gentle, kind, soft spoken man.
May the Lord's peace and presence be your deepest comfort and your certain hope. My sympathy and prayers are with you all.
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Cathy Young
September 6, 2013
To you Rhonda and your brothers Randy and Ron - keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers, hoping that your cherished memories of Ryan will bring comfort as the days go forward.
Luann Cottrell
September 6, 2013
Ron,Randy and Rhonda, I was so sorry to hear of Ryan's passing. I will always remember one visit at Aunt Gail and Uncle Johns. The room was full of family, laughter and food. Now Ryan is with his mother. He has no pain, no stress. He is surrounded by his mother Helen and our heavenly Father. Ryan is at peace. My hope and prayer is for you the living to find peace in remembering the good times.
Love you all cousins.

September 5, 2013
"Perhaps they are not stars, but rather openings in heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy"
To lose a sibling seems so out of place in the circle of life. We are so very sad for your loss and are thinking of all of you. Fondly, Stacy & Tim Lamson
Joan MacPherson
September 5, 2013
I only got to know Ryan for a few years while he was living in Amesbury - but in those few years I got to know a man of deep compassion, care and faith. My heart was heavy for the grief he carried and my heart was light for his gentle presence, smiles and hugs. While I miss Ryan a lot I give thanks that he is whole, free, at peace, surrounded in God's eternal love.
My prayers surround all who are aching
Rick Allen
September 3, 2013
Randy,
Just got back in town, heard about Ryan.
I am sorry, & saddened for your loss. My very best to you.
Linda Grenier
September 2, 2013
Rhonda, Randy, and Ron,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You Matlacks all were wonderful to be with to witness a family full of love, kindness, laughter, great holiday celebratory feasts, and support you shared for one another.
I have wonderful memories of us all together in Mohnton, the closeness that you all shared as a family and the fun times we all had.
I shall always remember his smiling face, the Windmill Restaurant, where he so cheerfully was chef, serving me a delicious "special" at the counter that he made and the joyful time we had at the north shore beach.
It was a sunny day at the beach with Rhonda, Darina, Robin, Danaja and Nyesha. He had the biggest smile on his face as we were swimming and running into the waves, and Ryan said "this is the best day of my life"....we all laughed together with the love in our hearts, the joy of a perfect day, togetherness, and food, (of course). A day would not be complete without a Matlack feast. I will miss him dearly....My love and with a prayer that faith will help you see Ryan's passing beyond your sight to live eternally. If there is anything at all I can do, please let me know.
All My Love Linda
Tim Coyle
September 1, 2013
Rhonda,
Very sorry for your loss,I think the last time I saw Ryan he was just a bubbly young lad at the Grove, still think about you and the gang from the Good Ole Days in the late 70's, some of the best Summers I ever spent,my heartfelt wishes go out to you and your brothers.
September 1, 2013
Love ya,Ryan. R.I.P. SHAWN OWENS
Lisa Mademann
August 31, 2013
Randy and Ron,
I mourn with you and humbly pray that God and loving friends will comfort your hearts during these dark hours. My heartfelt sympathies to your family. May Ryan Rest in Paradise. May God help us all to Carry On until we can meet with him again.
Brenda (Weinhold) Hess
August 31, 2013
I am SO very sorry to hear about the loss of your brother, Ryan. He always had a larger than life presence in the group of Maple Grove friends, and will forever be cemented in all of my fondest teen memories. His memory will linger :). Here is a poem that was shared with me after I experienced the loss of someone close....I hope it brings you comfort--
"Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there; I did not die."
Devyn Damore
August 31, 2013
You we're always a great guy and so fun to hang out, and party with. Sorry we haven't seen each other in probably 20 years or more, but I'll never forget the fun, crazy times we had in our youth. Rest in peace, you are forever young.
Cherie Boyer
August 31, 2013
God Bless you all on this very day heartfelt prayers go out to the family Ron, Randy, Rhonda...GOD BLESS
Catherine Kelly
August 31, 2013
Sorry to hear your brother passed away.
Kind regards from the Kelly family Ireland.
Scott Yeager
August 31, 2013
To the matlack family, so sorry for your loss. RIP Ryan, will always remember the good times at maple grove.

Tina Brendle
August 31, 2013
Ron, Randy and Rhonda, I am so sorry for your loss. Ryan was someone I always held near and dear to my heart. I loved him and considered him family and am just heartbroken and devastated by his passing. I feel blessed because I recently reconnected with him, but I'm saddened because our time together was cut short. Ryan touched many lives and was loved by many more. I know that I am a better person for having known him. My you find peace in knowing he is in a better place. Sending love, light and peace to you all.
Kim Magee
August 30, 2013
Ron, Randy & Rhonda we are so sorry for your loss. Ryan will be greatly missed by many. We will always cherish the memories of him when we were growing up. God Bless. Love Rusty & Kim Magee
ALLEN Freeman
August 30, 2013
RIP Ryan. We all know we have one more angel looking down upon us. Sorry For your lose.
Bobby Slusser
August 30, 2013
Going to miss you my little brother Rip
August 30, 2013
DEAR RANDY
so very sorry for your loss thinking of you. haller family
Tom & Sandy Russo
August 30, 2013
Dear Ron,Rhonda&Randy
We were so sorry to here of the tragic loss of your brother Ryan. We know that there is no pain greater than that of a loved one. If there is anything we can do to help you threw the tough times give us a call. We will keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers
August 30, 2013
Dear Rhonda
I send my heartfelt sympathy to you and all your family at this sad time.All of us in Ireland have you in our thoughts and prayers.
With much love
Maire
August 30, 2013
To dear Rhonda and family
So sorry to hear of Ryans passing.
I send you my condolences with heartfelt sympathy. Thinking of you with love.
Rosemary
The Lynch Family
August 30, 2013
Rhonda, Ron and Randy,
You are all in our thoughts at this extremely painful time. Ryan is at peace now with Tamara and his beloved mother. Rest in Peace, Ryan .
Shellie Rutolo
August 30, 2013
So very sorry for your loss Randy...just letting you and your family know you are all in my thoughts and heart... There are no words I know to convey comfort to you...try to be strong and know many of us who grew up with your family are thinking of all of you and wishing we could take away your pain for such a tragic loss.....love Shellie
Richele Clifford Entzminger
August 29, 2013
To the Matlack Family,
May God Bless you & keep you in this time of need. I'm so sorry for your loss. R.I.P. Ryan
Bobby Goldsborough jr
August 29, 2013
Ron,Randy and Rhonda, I'm so sorry to here about the loss of your brother ryan, Your family will be in my prayers, our families go way back and I will always have them memories to go back to, I know ryan will be missed so very much, He now will be with his wife and your mom. love you guys, rest in peace ryan. Bobby G.
Tina Boyer
August 29, 2013
Rest in peace Ryan . You will be missed . You are at home now. Love Todd ,Tina, Tyler and Ttanner
Arica Campbell
August 29, 2013
Uncle Ryan, thank you for welcoming me into the family with open arms. I will never forgot your smile and those big hugs I received everytime I walked into the house, some days I didn't think you were going to let me go. I wish I could feel the warmth of your arms one more time. I know you are keeping the family strong. We truly love and miss you
August 29, 2013
Ron, Randy and Rhonda, No words can take away your heartache. May the memories of Ryan ease your pain. We were all very Blessed to have known Ryan. Love and Peace to all of you.
Wendy Weisman
August 29, 2013
Randy, Rhonda & Ron,
My deepest sympathy for your pain and loss. I will always remember your sweet little brother doing cannonballs at the pool. You are all a part of my fondest memories of growing up together at Maple Grove, and I count you all as some of my oldest and greatest friends. Love to you ~ Sandy
Sandy Applegate
August 29, 2013
Dear Ryan ~ May you be free of all Earthly pain, and wrapped in angel's wings, feel the full love of God, your family and friends.
Lynn & Jan
August 29, 2013
So sorry for your loss Randy and family....
Kris (Eager) Fry
August 29, 2013
I will always remember Ryan when I think of growing up in Maple Grove, riding the bus to Jr/Sr High and learning about Rock n Roll through his influence. RIP friend. To Ron, Randy and Rhonda, may you find comfort in each other, your family and friends during this time. Your little brother left quite and impression on many people.
Julie Fuzer
August 29, 2013
My deepest condolences to the Matlack Family for the loss of a special man. My prayers and thoughts are with you, I love you Ryan and may you Rest In Peace, you will be sadly missed!!
Frank Gable
August 29, 2013
With deepest sympathy.
Melissah (Adams) Jablonski
August 29, 2013
Rhonda, my deepest sympathies go out to you and your family. I will keep you all in my prayers.
Michele GOLIN
August 29, 2013
May you find peace on your new journey.
Michele GOLIN
August 29, 2013
I would also like to extend my deepest condolences to the Matlack family, may Gods presence hold your sorrows at bay and give you comfort in knowing that Ryans soul has gone home.

Michele GOLIN
August 29, 2013
Ryan you were and awesome guy to hang out with even though you were younger. You had a great sense of humor and always knew how to lighten the air. RIP my friend. You may be gone but you will never be forgotten.
sheree
August 29, 2013
My heart goes out to the family, may you rest in peace Ryan, you will be missed!
Heather Skipper (Young)
August 29, 2013
Rhonda, Ron, & Randy...so very sorry for your loss. Ryan's smile and laughter will be missed. Maple Grove would not have been the same without the Matlack's.
Holly ROHRBACH
August 29, 2013
I am so very sorry for your loss,my prayers and thoughts are with you Randy and your entire family.
Dr. Carl & Charlotte Griffin
August 29, 2013
With our deepest sympathy to the family, I am reminded of the words of Helen Keller:"With the death of every friend I love ... a part of me has been buried ... but their contribution to my being of happiness, strength and understanding remains to sustain me in an altered world."
Dr.Carl & Charlotte Griffin
JOYCE JOHNSON(EAGER)
August 29, 2013
WE WILL MISS YOU RYAN WE ALL HAVE FOND MEMORIES OF YOU GROWING UP IN MAPLE GROVE NOW YOU MAY REST IN PEACE MAY GOD WATCH OVER YOU.MY DEEPEST SYMPATY TO THE FAMILY JOYCE JOHNSON(EAGER)
Diane Heck-Furillo
August 29, 2013
My heart goes out to your family, may Ryan rest in peace, prayers and hugs are sent to you all. Ryan was a great guy and will be sadly missed!
Schweitzer's
August 29, 2013
You will always live in our hearts and prayers.
Ron, Randy, Rhonda
August 29, 2013
To our Ryan Charles, little brother you are now in heaven with mom. We will miss you dearly.
-a neighbor from E. Mohn St.
August 29, 2013
Sorry for the loss of Ryan. He was such a friendly guy. Always had a smile and a "Hello" in passing him on his front porch. May he rest in peace.

Robin Field
August 29, 2013
My heart is broken for all those that love Ryan as I did and have always wanted the very best for him. His smile, his big hugs, his laughter will be so very missed. I know how Ryan's sister and my life long friend Rhonda gave her all to support and love Ryan in his life. We must find comfort and strength now that he is reunited with his Mom and his wife in the loving arms of God and his struggles here are now over. With all my love and all the support I can offer. Robin
Bev Clemens
August 29, 2013
Matlack family: I'm so sorry for your loss. Things like this are just so hard to imagine. My thoughts are with your whole family.
David Weisman
August 29, 2013
Rest in peace my friend.
gary brendle
August 29, 2013
RIP little brother,you will be missed
Wayne Swisher
August 29, 2013
Ryan Rest in Peace
Cherie
August 29, 2013
Prayers to the matlack family, life is just a test of time then we are allowed to move on.....
Kelly (Weisman) Harris
August 29, 2013
May you rest in peace Ryan...
August 29, 2013
God Bless,R.I.P. Shawn Owens
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