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BORN
1965
DIED
2010
Duane Day Obituary
Services honoring his memory will be held on Saturday at 11 a.m. at Jones & Lewis Mortuary in Lower Lake. In lieu of flowers, donations in his memory may be made to New Beginnings (a safe house for homeless teens), POB 6470, Clearlake, CA 95422.
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Memories and Condolences
for Duane Day
28 Entries
Melissa Day
March 27, 2023
I still think about you every single day I´ll never forget you
maria zendejas (kemp)
September 26, 2010
Wow i am shocked to have just now found out about my friend Duane my heart goes out to all his family he was definately quite the character he will forever be thought of in my heart and missed . Im so sad:(((
August 17, 2010
Miss you little brother.... Sis Stacy
Stacy Muir
June 4, 2010
Little brother having a very sad moment so i thought I would send a little something your way
If roses grow in Heaven, Lord
Please pick a bunch for me.
Place them in my brothers Duane's arms
And tell him they're from me.
Tell him I love him and miss him,
And when he turns to smile,
Place a kiss upon his cheek
And hold him for a while.
Because remembering him is easy,
I do it everyday,
But there is an ache within my heart
That will never go away.
June 1, 2010
Hey, my cousin, Duane,
i often think of you. You came to visit me at Aunt Betty's house. I was so proud of you. You were following your daughter in her training bicycle, smiling with joy. It isn't fair to loose you and my brother-in-law, John, my sister, Sharon's husband passed away on May 1st. My heart goes out to you and your family. May the Lord Jesus be you. We will meet in heaven/paradise someday. I alway love you in my heart. Kelly Venegas(Fresno, CA)
Sharon Carberry
May 27, 2010
Two memories of Duane resonate in my heart. The first is when Duane was a baby. I was visiting (my cousin) Terrie, and I remember Duane lying down with little Duane, so he would fall asleep. The other sweet memory is during Aunt Bette's funeral reception when I had a long talk with Duane. He was so open, and genuine, and we talked on a level that was deep, and real. I think his sweet soul grew strong, strengthened by his struggles, and his loving heart.
Please know that you are in my prayers. I especially think of you during these tender times, while I,too, grieve the loss of my husband, John, who died May 1, 2010, after a long struggle with his health.
With love,
Sharon Carberry (Sharon Richardson)
Raul,Darlene & Jr Hernandez
May 26, 2010
We only knew Duane for a short time, and he was such a loving kind hearted young man who always had a smile on his face. It was a pleasure to have known him. We are so sorry for you're loss.
Mary Benson
May 24, 2010
I am so sorry for your loss. The funeral service was very, very nice. The picture of Duane that emerged from the comments was of a man who was very loving, warm, and he obviously added much to the lives of the people around him. I will miss him. I will never forget him.
Maria Ioli (Jallen)
May 24, 2010
I remember Duane from high school. He is gone from this place way too soon. I am so sorry for his family.
Sue Garcia
May 23, 2010
After meeting and hearing from so many of Dwayne's family the last couple of days, we are not left to wonder that he loved you so, and how it was that he himself was such a loving man. Sal and I can't thank you enough, those of you with whom we were able to share some laughter and tears over Dwayne. Meeting you after having heard about you over the years was very precious to us in our own grief.
Knowing how you'll be there for Melissa, always, is comforting too. Even tho' she was too young when so much a part of our life that her memories of us are vague at best, we care so much still for her and that she have a happy life. It's comforting to know she has her mother's constant loving care and all the support from the vast extended Day Family to help her through.
May you all continue to find comfort in your wonderful memories and in knowing how this dear man loved you so.
Sincerely and with warmest regards,
May 22, 2010
I'm so sad
May 21, 2010
I am so saddened to here of my cousin Duane passing but know that he is in a better place now he was a great cousin and will be missed.
Cousin Christine(bobs step daughter)
May 21, 2010
Aloha Duane: Dear Terry and Duane: Many years ago before my first son was born you brought Duane Jr. into this world. As kids the three of us had some great times together. Becoming parents has many great moments and times when we just don't know why they happen. Parents are not ment to bury thier children. You both are going through the worst part of parenthood. My hart goes out to you both. Having lost a son, I can assure you that your memories of Duane Jr. will soon become the best memories. Soon you will only remember those moments when you experienced pleasure in his company. If either of you would like to talk to someone who has lived with this kind of loss, please call me. I can always make a special trip back to Lake County. Michael Richardson
Frank Toney
May 21, 2010
From our days in Little baseball, till just two weeks ago, Duane and I would talk sports for hours. Many years of friendship, I will miss you my friend...
May 21, 2010
DUANE:
I've always loved the Day family and I am so saddened about your loss. You were so good to me and taught me alot in our younger years and my heart goes out to you.
sincerely,
Ed Sampson
Bill Partin
May 21, 2010
I had the pleasure of geting to know Duane when he lived in Petaluma for a while.
No parent should have to out live thier children. Im so sorry for your loss.
May 21, 2010
Little Duane was very special to his Uncle Hank and Auntie Rose and I've always been very proud of him-He never gave up trying to better himself. Condolences to Melissa and all.
In Christian Love,
2nd Cousin Darlene
May 21, 2010
It is with my deepest regret that Duane is no longer with us in body-he was one of the friendliest, giving people I knew. Everytime I had the pleasure of speaking with him he was always willing to give a smile and a hug-He will be greatly missed and will always be in my heart. All his family will be in my prayers at this difficult time.
Love,
Cousin Deanna
Sofia
May 20, 2010
I feel so lucky to have known Duane. He always had a smile on his face and could always make me laugh. My thoughts and prayers are with him and his family.
Paula Melo
May 20, 2010
I work for Troy and Andy at Andy's Market in San Rafael, We're so sorry for your loss, I never had a chance to meet him, but I have heard so many good things about him from his sitter Troy that loves him so much...she can't stop talking about him...Now ,Duane is in a better place... take care...love... Paula Melo
michelle & rocky martin
May 20, 2010
we were saddened and surprised to hear of duanes passing, he was a good man and our heart felt condolences go out to his family and loved ones during this sad and trying time. michelle & rocky
Ed Riggins
May 20, 2010
Rest in peace Duane. I went to school with your parents but had not seen you since you were a little boy. My heart goes out to them and to your whole family.
May 20, 2010
I knew Duane years ago, We went to school with the days. We're so sorry for your loss, our deepest condolences...Nick, Tracey Carman
Tamara Newby
May 20, 2010
I am so sorry for your loss. I did not have the pleasure of knowing Duane, but I am a friend of his sister, Troy and I will keep the family in my thoughts and prayers in this difficult time.
May 20, 2010
In the short time I knew Duane he was always a good friend to me.
He had a great enthusiam for everything he did. Duane will always be remembered by me. His friend Adam Clein
May 20, 2010
I will truly miss my favorite cousin but you will live on in my heart forever. He was taken from us way to early.
Love, Cousin Shawna
May 20, 2010
I feel so blessed to have had Duane as my brother. I will miss him.
Loving memories, his big sister Troy.
Theresa Brady Showen
May 20, 2010
I'm so sorry to hear of Duane's passing. From kindergarten through high school, he was a good friend to me and he will be missed.
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