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Charles Crowley Obituary
Born in New Rochelle, N.Y. on April 9, 1932 the son of the late Charles E. and Aida (Perrit) Crowley. He grew up in Southington and prepared at Cheshire Academy, received his bachelor of arts from Yale University and his master's business of administration from the University of New Haven. He also attended the University of London, Harvard Law School, and Judge Advocate General School. Prior to his illness he resided in Chester, Vt. Charlie was President of Hemingway-Lewis Insurance Agency of Southington and Cheshire. A past member of Rotary, the CT Yankee Council of Boy Scouts, the Cheshire Academy Board of Trustees, and President of both the Connectiuct and National Professional Insurance Agents (PIA) Association. He was also a consultant and expert witness for the insurance industry. He was honored twice as "Professional Agent of the Year" by the National Association of Insurance Agents. He was an avid reader, a history and civil war buff. He loved animals, especially German Shepherds. He enjoyed the tranquility and beauty of Vermont, especially the Weston Priory.
He is survived by his two daughters, Tracy A. Crowley and Tara A. Knapp (William); his grandson, Christopher M. Knapp; as well as his first wife, Jane Daly Crowley. He was predeceased by his parents; a brother, Arthur S. Crowley; and his second wife, Patricia E. Peet.
His family would like to thank the staff on Milne 1 and Lyman 1 at Gaylord Hospital for the care and comfort they provided. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Gaylord Hospital, Development Office, P.O. Box 400, Wallingford, CT 06492.
Per Charlie's wishes, funeral services and internment will be private. Condolences and notes of remembrance may be sent to his daughters c/o The Wallingford Funeral Home, 809 North Main St. Ext., Wallingford, CT. 06492, or on his guest book at
www.wallingfordfh.com
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Memories and Condolences
for Charles Crowley
Patsy & Joan Papandrea
April 20, 2023
Charlie was a good friend and one of God's special
people. He will always be remembered for what he did
for others.
Charlie Crowley
May 26, 2013
Dear cousins,
While I haven't seen you since the summer of 1970, I was able to keep in touch with your dad over the years. Sharing the same name, Charlie, we most often referred to each other as "C2" and "C3" (C1 being Grandpa Crowley and C4 being my son...yet another Charles Edward). Your dad always made an effort to keep in touch with his brother's side of the family as one would expect from such a "people person." My first camera was a joyous Christmas gift from Uncle Charles and Aunt Jane in Connecticut. My phone call as a recent college graduate with a low draft number on a cross-country tour with two friends was answered with the offer of beds and meals when we got as far as the East Coast. (That was the 1970 visit) And when I needed to locate a lawyer in New York to help administer the estate of my intestate father, Uncle Charlie was (of course) ready willing, and more than able to provide support. I have taken great pleasure getting to know him a bit more through the words of others much closer to him than I. Those words also remind me of how much your cousins (Charlie, Steve, and Ann) missed by not being as close to him (and you) as we should have been. Your dad was always my positive connection to the family and he is greatly missed...by me and so many others.
Arleen & Bob Spalding
May 21, 2013
Dear Tracy and Tara:
Arleen and I apologize as we thought our entry was made when your father passed away. We became close friends of Pat & your father and believe we were among the first to know of Pat's illness. They were both mentors in life as well as P.I.A. Your father placed a great deal of confidence in me while President and I worked very hard to never disappoint him. A great man, friend to all, and as strong willed as anyone to brighten our lives these many years. He now is with his beloved Pat and may God and the angels enjoy their company as much as we did. Farewll my friend til later.
Ray Peretti
May 21, 2013
While never close, I knew Charlie for many years through the National PIA. He was was always a mentor to so many. I will always remember his "entrance" to his National PIA Induction in Hawaii.
November 13, 2012
rip mr. crowley you were an amazing man we loved you so much
Mary Crowley
July 24, 2012
So sorry to hear that 'Uncle' Charles has passed away. We have never met, but I talked to your father years ago. I am Mary K. Crowley and am married to Charles E. Crowley III, Uncle Charles nephew, son of Arthur and Dorothy Schmuhl Crowley. Our son is Charles E. Crowley IV. If you would like to get in touch with your cousin Charlie, please email us at [email protected] Again, so sorry for your loss. Mary C.
May 29, 2012
Dear Tracy and Tara,
I just learned of your Dad's passing and want you to know that he was very kind to me (and Jay) for many years. We spent lovely weekends as a family in VT and remember many laughs with Charlie. He was always quick to lend a book and to discuss interesting things in great depth. We remember him fondly.
Kathy and Jay Perkins
David LaManna
May 8, 2012
I was fortunate as a young insurance professional to have benefited from Charlie's wisdom, guidance and abundant knowledge of our complex industry. His pleasant demeanor and great work ethic stand as examples to everyone in our business.
David & Norma Creighton Sr
May 3, 2012
To The Crowley Family: Charlie was one of the best mentors a person could have. He show me the way in the PIA National for all the years I was involved. I could always call him to get his ideas and thought on things that we were dealing with inside the association. He made those memories that I have with PIA a laugh, a cry , and a joy. He will be missed.
Arleen & Bob Spalding
May 3, 2012
Tracy & Tara: Words cannot express our sadness to learn of the loss of your father and my greatest mentor. His knowledge, wit and toughness were admired by many. His quest for privacy was known, but he let us in somewhat, especially after losing his beloved, Pat. Savor the many memories for they are something no one can take from you. We will miss this great man and all he did for us during our years with National PIA. May God be with both you and the entire family in your loss.
Carol "CJ" Jesensky
May 3, 2012
Tracy, Tara and Jane - Please accept my heartfelt sympathies. I have so many great memories of Charlie (Mr. Crowley). He taught me so much while working at Hemingway-Lewis. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Bill and Ruth Farley
May 2, 2012
Charlie was a wonderful friend for many years. I recall in equal parts his great intelligence and his wonderful wit. He was certainly one of a kind - in the best sense.
Our condolences to the family. In Charlie's memory we have made a gift to the Weston Priory.
Kathy Stephens
May 2, 2012
To the Crowley Family
Charlie was a mentor to me in many, many ways. I will always be grateful to him for the advice and counsel he gave to me both as a member of NHAIW and of PIACT. He always took time to assist others and share his vast knowledge. He will be missed by many of us in the industry. He was truly a gentleman.
my sincere sympathies to you all.
HAIW c/o Michele Redman
May 1, 2012
From the Hartford Association of Insurance Women, as published in our May Issue by Michele Redman, Burlington, CT
The editor would also like to ask our many members, and especially the more “seasoned,� to remember Charles E. Crowley, Jr, who passed away on April 24. Charlie is well remembered by many of us as the first man to join HAIW – because he felt we offered a great value to the Insurance community and he wanted to be a part of it. As the President of Hemingway-Lewis (Cheshire & Southington), President of CT and National PIA, Charlie was a wonderful friend to HAIW. HAIW Past President's Regina Cianci Bogdan and Pat Peet graduated from Charlie's school of leadership and success in the agency business.
For many years, the HAIW Insurance Professional of the Year Silver Bowl Award was provided by Charlie and the Hemingway-Lewis Agency. Among my many memories of HAIW, receiving that silver bowl from Charlie, who called me “that nut from California,� is one of my fondest.
I am sure that Charlie and Pat would not want us to waste any tears, but would wish us to laugh often and enjoy every minute of life.
Ray Peretti
May 1, 2012
To the Crowley Family: Sorry for your loss. Charlie was certainly 'one of a kind'. Our paths crossed several years ago at the National PIA where he definitely made his mark. He will be missed.
April 30, 2012
Tracy, I am truly sorrow for your loss, my thoughts and prays are with you and your family.
Melissa Villa
Exec. Asst. to SVP-CIS
Fr. Paddy O'Reilly
April 30, 2012
To the Crowley family. Please accept my sincere condolences on Charlie's passing. I have many a wonderful memory of my visits to him in Vermont - we shared many a good laugh; spoke about books we had read, and talked about life and religion. He was a funloving and wonderful host. He will be in my prayers.
Michael Chavez
April 29, 2012
To the family of Charlie Crowley:
My wife and I had the great privilege of meeting and getting to know Charlie over several years of visiting the Weston, VT area. We shared several meals with Charlie, as well as afternoon visits from time to time. He was truly a joy to get to know, and we feel our lives were enriched by sharing a small piece of his. He will be missed.
Daniel Chasse
April 28, 2012
To The Crowley Family,
It is with great sadness my family and I learned of Charlie's passing. He befriended me many years ago after I suffered a devastating injury and became one of my 'Guardian Angels.' At a time when I had lost a sense of direction and purpose in life, he stressed the importance of a positive attitude and encouraged me to seek out a new path. Charlie's optimism, intelligence, and razor-sharp wit made him an excellent mentor as well as a great friend. Those traits also endeared him to every member of my family. It was always a pleasure to share his company. He will be truly missed.
Jerry and Blanche Fay
April 28, 2012
Tracy,
We are sorry to learn of your father's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Tracy Gray SPN
April 28, 2012
I am so sorry for your loss. I feel blessed that I was allowed to share in Charlie's care while at gaylord. Thank you. May he rest in peace and God bless.
Kyle Barry
April 28, 2012
To the Crowley Family,
I was so sorry to read of Mr. Crowley's passing. I remember him and you all so fondly. God Bless you at this difficult time.
April 28, 2012
To The Crowley family, I was very sorry to hear of Charlie's passing. He worked with me on many Insurance issues in past years. I will always consider him one of the special people I have met in my life.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Patsy Papandrea
Joanne Connolly
April 27, 2012
Tracy
I was so sorry to hear of the passing of your dad....
Remember... your memories will give you comfort,lean on your friends for support,and always remember how much you are cared about.
My thoughts and prayers are with you...
Joyce Gould
April 27, 2012
To the Crowley family--May grief pass gently for all of you. Charlie was a magnificent person in every respect. I feel priviledged that I received business guidance from him first many years ago, then when my endeavors changed and I began anew. He was sincerely interested, honest and forthright in all business matters. He wasn't fooled by surface gestures; I appreciated that and respected his input. He is clearly among angels and will be with each of you forever, I am sure.
April 27, 2012
Tracy and Family,
Parents are our angels on this earth.
I am so sorry to hear about your Dad. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
He will continue to be your angel.
Hugs
Ann Marie Jansen
Regina Cianci
April 27, 2012
Dear Jane, Tracy and Tara,
I'm so sorry for your loss. Charlie was a big part of my professional life for over 20 years. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
April 27, 2012
Charlie was a great friend and an assett to our industry. He gave many hours to his PIA family and those of us that served with him. Our prayers are with him and his family.
Jon Black
Holly Cameron
April 27, 2012
Tracy,
I was saddened to hear of your family's loss. You remain in my thoughts and prayers my friend. May God bless you with strength and healing peace at this difficult time.
April 27, 2012
Tracy, Tara & Jane,
I would like to extend my sincere sympathy to all of you and the rest of your family. Your Dad was a very special person to me and it was a privilege knowing him and being part of his life. May God give you strength during this difficult time and may you find comfort knowing others are thinking of him and all of you at this time. My thoughts and prayers to all of you. Toni Cardinale, Southingtn, CT.
Pam Nelson
April 27, 2012
Tracy, I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Chris Poulos
April 27, 2012
To the Crowley family. Please accept my sincere condolences regarding Charlie's recent passing. Throughout his insurance career, he touched many of us and had a profound influence on the direction of our professional careers.
Stephanie Monzon
April 27, 2012
Tracy, I am so sorry for your loss. May god bless and keep you and your family at this most difficult time.
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