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Dr. John "Jack" Heitner

1931 - 2022

Dr.  John "Jack" Heitner obituary, 1931-2022, Southington, CT

John Heitner Obituary

Dr. John "Jack" Heitner passed away on April 10, 2022. Jack was born in May of 1931 in Brooklyn, NY, the son of Samuel and Constance Heitner. He was the big brother to Elizabeth Heitner, Kathleen Rhind and the late Diane Jacobs.

Jack joined the Marines during the Korean War where he became a First Lieutenant and training company commander. After the military he attended Hofstra University and received his Bachelor's degree, went on to receive his Masters at Cornell University and finished his education at the University of Rochester by achieving his (PhD) Doctorate of Philosophy.

He went on to marry the late Susanne James, and had three children, Randall Heitner, Steven Heitner, and Wendie Nelson. His granddaughter, Dr. Susanne Nelson, came along in 1994.

He began his teaching career at Albany State University for 3 years and spanned his career at Central Connecticut State University for 48 years as an English professor where he taught American, World and English literature as well as Mysticism classes and many more. He revived and was advisor for Central's literary magazine "The Helix" for many years. Jack was the author of several books, including his most recent "Particles of Love (In complete poems)". As well as being an author, Jack lectured at Universities and seminars around the world. He also did many lectures, readings and musical performances at Borders books and Barnes and Noble.

Jack was an avid Democrat, and was very involved in supporting, discussing and campaigning for and with many democratic organizations. He was also very involved with literary societies and Vietnam peace movements. And was very dedicated to the teachings of Eckankar.

Jack loved music, singing and playing his guitar and has written many songs over the years. He was an avid hiker and rock climber, and traveled around the world, always in search of knowledge.

Jack was known as a professor, poet, wrestler, songwriter, author, policeman, activist and philanthropist etc...but most of all we remember him as a loving Son, Brother, Father, and Grandfather.

The Heitner family would like all family and friends to join them in a Celebration of his Life. It will take place at The Eckankar Temple, 1 Harvest Wood Road, Middlefield, CT, July 30th at 1:00 p.m.



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Published by The Record-Journal from Jul. 28 to Jul. 29, 2022.

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Anton Banks

June 1, 2025

I'm just hearing of Dr. Heitner's passing after randomly looking him up. I took his Mysticism course during my last semester at CCSU around 2000. We read 'The Case of Charles Dexter Ward" by H.P. Lovecraft. That book and his class exposed this engineer to the wonderful world of fantasy/supernatural works that I still enjoy 25 years on. My condolences to Dr. Heitner's family and friends, but know that he leaves behind former students like myself who have found a love of the subject matter that he taught.

Dale Reynolds

July 30, 2022

To all others who knew and appreciated Jack (Dr. Heitner):
I had a class in humanitarianism (I'd call it) with Jack in the 70s at then-called Central Connecticut State College. Jack was one of the most principled men I've known. He set the highest example for moral thinking. I have missed his classes, and our conversations out of class, for many years now. He was a friend as well as my professor. Kind regards to all who feel the loss of him. Dale Reynolds

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