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Louis Caliendo Obituary
Lou was born in New Haven on June 2, 1961, son of the late Jerry and Marie Balash Caliendo.
He is survived by sisters, Maria Fiorentino (Robert), Madeline Piasecki (Charles Jr.) and Kathleen Caliendo; son-in-law of Fred and Phyllis Gamache Kallert; brother-in-law of Susan Kallert Kerrigan (John) and Paul Kallert (Deborah Scarpellino). He was also a loving uncle to many nieces and nephews as well as their children. Lou obtained a bachelor's degree from Southern Connecticut State University and later obtained his plumbing license from Eli Whitney Technical School. He worked for his family business, Caliendo's Plumbing & Heating, Inc. for many years until his illness. He was a member of the Hamden Knights of Columbus and also a long time member of its golf league but most of all his life was dedicated to watching and supporting his son play hockey.
Family and friends were invited to St. Rita Church, 1620 Whitney Ave., Hamden on Thursday, Feb. 11, to attend a Mass of Christian burial and were also invited to attend the committal services at All Saints Cemetery. The North Haven Funeral Home, 36 Washington Ave., was entrusted with the
arrangements.
His family would like to thank all the wonderful people at St. Raphael's Hospital who were involved with his care for so many years. Should friends desire, memorial contributions may be made to: Cancer Research Institute, 1 Exchange Plaza, 55 Broadway – Suite 1802, New York, NY 10006 (cancerresearch.org).
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Memories and Condolences
for Louis Caliendo
Kristen Meinsen-Dorsey
February 15, 2016
Dear Kathy,
An enduring pair you and Lou are... remembering back to middle school, what a contented, smiling couple. As others have said, all these years later my snapshot of Lou is of a gentle, kind soul. And yet clearly, strong and courageous. I think of you both often, and hope your life moving forward is warmed by the many memories of your time together. Peace and Love from Kristen
Sarah HADDEN
February 13, 2016
Kathy,
I just read the beautiful letter your son wrote. It was on Facebook, I think it was posted by Andy Porto. I knew immediately you had to be Doug's mom.
I am so sorry for your loss. I am sending prayers and thoughts of strength your way at this difficult time. I am sure you are comforted with the knowledge that Lou is looking down on you and you family with love.
I now live in Vermont. My three children either graduated from college or currently in college. I remember you fondly from our years teaching at Hamden Middle School and High School.
Love,
Sarah Hadden
Timothy Bagley
February 12, 2016
You were like a big brother to me Lou. I always looked up to you. God bless you and your beautiful family. Love Timmy.
Timothy Bagley
February 12, 2016
God bless you Lou. I love you buddy. I will miss you.
Lucille Caliendo
February 11, 2016
Wish I had really known my cousin better, the outpouring of love from the community is overwhelming...a good, decent man
Love to his children and wife
February 11, 2016
I did not know Lou,but I play golf at Laurelview golf course.My friends new him well and I heard a lot about him.I know he will be missed.
Lee Gershman
Phyllis Caliendo
February 11, 2016
Our hearts are broken by Lou's death, who I watched grow up from infancy. I attended all his milestone celebrations, i.e. christening,Communion, Confirmation, birthdays, even his wedding. He was always right there helping us with his plumbing & heating expertise whenever the need arose. I could only describe Lou's mannerisms, character, etc. as that of a perfect gentleman at ALL times. The respect Lou possessed & always exhibited was unique, especially in today's generation. Never did I hear a derogatory remark about anyone come from his mouth. He was gentle, but masculine and so very SPECIAL. As Lou's cousin Gino said, he can't "imagine the future without Lou on this earth." Lou will be missed by ALL.
Buddy Robinson
February 9, 2016
One of the good guys......growing up in the Hill Street area , it felt good, just to be around Lou, whenever i ran into him a big handshake, a smile, and a story from when we were younger..they dont make em like this anymore. I will remember him fondly.
Rick Churchill
February 9, 2016
I have not seen Luke in over 35 years. What I do remember about Lou is that he always had great character and quality personal attributes. Rest in peace my Friend. Rick Churchill
Ernie Ehle
February 8, 2016
My condolences to Kathy,Carly,Doug and the rest of Lou's family.I can't tell you what a great guy he was.He was like a brother to me and I think about him every day.I will miss him a lot.
February 8, 2016
Our deepest condolences to The Caliendo Family.
-Tracy Dolceacqua & Daniel Falcioni
John & Holly Adamo
February 8, 2016
Sending sincere heartfelt sympathy and condolences to Lou's wife, children and family. We are very sorry for this great loss of such a wonderful, admirable man.
February 8, 2016
My heart goes out to every one of you. Although I didn't know Lou as well, I know Madeline and I cannot begin to say all the good she did for her brother (as well as her other sisters). May he now be at rest.
Andrea and boys
February 8, 2016
I met Lou while working in North Haven at The Granite Group formerly Arpino Supply. Lou was great guy to get to know and he always especially proud of his Family. We found out that we shared the same wedding anniversary.
May he Rest in Peace with Christ Our Lord and Saviour.
Alan Fecteau,
PGK Council 9358 Moodus, CT
Walpole,NH
February 8, 2016
My thoughts and prayers are with all the family during this time of sorrow. Respectfully, Carl DeLucia
Michael Barnett
February 8, 2016
What a wonderful man we have lost. I am both proud and lucky to have known him. He had an inner strength and quiet confidence that made him a role model for all of us. God bless Lou and his family.
February 8, 2016
Sorry for your loss. Lou was the best known the family for over 35 years.Larry Cuomo
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