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Paul Joseph Vumbaco

1961 - 2015

Paul Joseph Vumbaco obituary, 1961-2015, Meriden, CT

BORN

1961

DIED

2015

FUNERAL HOME

Biega Funeral Home - Middletown

3 Silver Street

Middletown, Connecticut

Paul Vumbaco Obituary

MERIDEN - Paul Joseph Vumbaco, 53, of Meriden, beloved husband of Sharon (Kogut) Vumbaco, died Sunday, May 10, 2015 at Hartford Hospital following a tragic accident at his home.

He was born on July 29, 1961 in Meriden, the son of the late Joseph and Ann (Ventrella) Vumbaco. Paul was owner of Vumbaco's Quality Lawn Care, Inc., Quality Garden and Equipment Sales, and Quality Time Food and Spirits.

Besides his wife, Sharon, Paul is survived by his daughter, Alyssa Ann Vumbaco and son, Joseph Ronald Vumbaco; he is also survived by his sister, Joanne Tenney and her husband, Rick and niece, Shannon, of Cheshire; sister, Rosanne Longo and her husband Stephen, of Clinton; his mother and father-in-law, Ronnie and Robin Kogut; in-laws, Stephen and Leslie Kogut, Dana and Billy Wright, Robyn and Eoin McClure; nieces and nephews, Stephen, Kaylee, R.J., Bailey, Nick, Marley, and Abbey, all of Meriden and, of course, his faithful dog, Dash.

Funeral services will be held Friday, May 15, at 10 a.m. at Biega Funeral Home, 3 Silver St., Middletown. Burial will be at Walnut Grove Cemetery, Meriden. Family and friends may call on Thursday from 4 to 8 p.m. at Biega Funeral Home. Paul preferred casual attire, so please follow his lead and dress comfortably. As Paul had such a generous heart, please keep that spirit alive by donating to a charity of your choice. To share memories or express condolences online, please visit www.biegafuneralhome.com.

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Published by The Record-Journal on May 12, 2015.

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Jay Wanczyk

May 6, 2025

You´re Always On My Mind Buddy!

Lary Levitts

May 5, 2025

Paul
Miss you buddy

Jay Wanczyk

May 6, 2024

Your Always On My Mine Buddy
Jay

Book

May 6, 2024

Always...Quality Time ...
Rest in eternal peace
Thanks for the Memories Paul

Lary Levitts

May 5, 2024

Gone but not forgotten

BookerT

May 6, 2022

Wish you were here!
We all miss you , You were Quality Time to All !
Book

John Z

May 6, 2021

Miss you and your friendship. Think of you often. Keep watching over us!

Jay Wanczyk

May 6, 2021

Really Miss You Buddy!!!

May 5, 2021

Rest in Eternal Peace ...
Your Life is well remembered. Thank you for all the memories at Quality Time!

Amanda Cappuccetti

May 5, 2021

We miss you everyday uncle Pauly

Lary Levitts

May 5, 2021

Missing you Paulie

Lori Mancano

May 7, 2020

I remember Paulie coming into Athenian diner after his bar closed. He was so funny.

Lary Levitts

May 5, 2020

Paul
Think of you as we pass by your home on the way to Hammonaset,! You share the same birthday as my Dad, another time to think of you! I go out of my way to have my equipment repaired at Quality and see Sharon and a Kevin
Miss you

May 6, 2019

Wish you were here!
Your friend from QT! Rock the Heavens....

Janice Thomas

May 5, 2019

Hard to believe it's been 4 years since you passed. You were one of the "good guys," and we shared the same birthday lol. I can still remember the funny laughs and talks visiting your house and at Quality Time.

Mike Cappuccetti

May 22, 2015

12 Days not being able to talk to you.
Missing you Brother!

Carol Clay

May 21, 2015

We just learned the news and send our heartfelt condolences to the Family, Paul grew up at our house, just up the hill. He loved Jean's cookies. We all have such fond memories, although they were a long time ago. We pray for God's comfort for you Sharon and your children, JoAnn and Roseann. God Bless, Jean Dellinger, Carol Dellinger Clay and MerryJo Dellinger Sweat

MaryBeth Moore Zocco

May 18, 2015

Shazy
My deepest sympathy in the loss of your husband. Condolences to you and your family. Such a tragedy.

Skip & Lou Ann Brannan

May 16, 2015

Pauly, May you Rest In Peace. Our sincere condolences to Sharon, kids, Vumbaco and Kogut families and all your friends. YOU WILL BE SO MISSED! I (L A) haven't seen you in years but seems like yesterday...How very loved you were by so very many! Definitely one of a kind! God Bless you and may He heal the hearts of all who feel your loss.

Janice Vecchitto Thomas

May 16, 2015

To the Vumbaco family: I came to your house while I was going to school at MxCC with Rosanne. Had many fond memories joking with Paul. Went to Quality Time a few times, and Paul had the same great personality as he did many years ago. So so sorry to all of you.

David Meacham

May 15, 2015

To a long time friend deepest sympathy to your family and friends, will keep you all in my prayers Dave's Lawn Service

Tony Paguni

May 15, 2015

So very sorry for your loss. Paul is certainly well remembered for all the wonderful things he did for his friends and family. I have fond memories of Paul and I know those memories will sustain you in this time of grief. I am praying for healing grace to comfort you and your family.

Mike Scholar

May 15, 2015

Sharon, You probably don't remember me, but I bought a mini zoom from you a few years ago and you always took good care of me. I stopped in Friday only to learn of Paul's passing. I was so sorry to hear of your loss. God Bless.

ROGER DE ZINNO

May 15, 2015

MY CONDOLENCES
ROGER DE ZINNO
MERIDEN

Amanda Cappuccetti

May 15, 2015

I am lucky enough my parents chose you to be my Godfather, which meant my dad not only saw you as a good friend but as a brother and apart of our family. You lived past your expectations and was always there for the family. You brought life to my dad and made him laugh and smile the way no other person could. The stories of you guys as kids growing up will never get old and I know the great memories will still live on. You will forever be in my heart. I love you always Uncle Paulie.

My deepest condolences to Sharon, Joey, Alyssa, the Vumbaco family, friends and all the lives that this great man had impacted and touched. Your in my thoughts and prayers ❤

Anna Luna/Tisera

May 15, 2015

Sharon, my sympathy to all the Vumbaco family. You may not know me, I knew Paul from way back from my cousin Liz and Cappuccetti racing, to parties at Carol's house in Meriden. He was such a fun person, always happy and rowdy! He will be missed.

May 15, 2015

So sorry for your loss my deepest sympathy to the vumbaco family mom and robert trepanier

Robin Muro

May 15, 2015

I worked for Pauly when QT first opened. He was an incredibly sweet man. Always going out of his was for someone else. He will be missed immensely. My prayers go out to his family. RIP Pauly.

Chris and Barb

May 15, 2015

Our deepest sympathy to the Vumbaco family and Paulies QT family. Paulie helped us out of a few jams over the years. He was a great man and as it's been said again and again, he would do anything for you. He was just a great person with a huge heart and personality. We will forever miss our friend.

Sam,Ilio,Mario and Steve Cusano, USA Vending Corp.

May 14, 2015

Vumbaco Family, We are so sorry to get such sad news. We will keep Paul and his Family in our thoughts and prayers. Good guys are never forgotten.

Nancy Filipek

May 14, 2015

Sharon, my deepest sympathy to you and your family. Paul was a nice man, and we will certainly miss his jovial demeanor and kind heart who did many things for people.

BRIAN COMSTOCK

May 14, 2015

MY SYMPATHY TO ALL THE VUMBACO FAMILY. AFTER READING SO MANY WONDERFUL, KIND WORDS ABOUT PAUL, I'M SORRY I NEVER KNEW HIM. HE SOUNDED LIKE HE WOULD BE A HOOT TO HANG WITH. I DO KNOW SHARON AND HAVE DONE BUSINESS WITH HER FOR MANY YEARS. I WAS SO SHOCKED WHEN I HEARD OF PAUL'S PASSING. MAY YOUR FAMILY FIND PEACE AND HAVE HAPPY THOUGHTS IN THE COMING DAYS. WHAT'S SO AMAZING IS THAT SOMEDAY WE ALL WILL BE TOGETHER AGAIN AND CONTINUE WHERE WE LEFT OFF. RIP PAUL, UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN.

Maggie

May 14, 2015

My deepest condolences to the Vumbaco family

May 14, 2015

I saw Paul last week at Home Depot and he was asking for my Husband and I and hoped all was well. I told him we were great but we stopped going to bars. I told him I hopped his Biss was doing great. He asked us to stop in sometime and I told REB and he said WHY NOT. SOOO weird all this happened OUR condolences goes too all od you.. the VOMBACCO"S AND THE KOGUTS and everyone who knew him. RIP

Mildred Hernandez Verdejo

May 14, 2015

My condolences to the Vumbaco family. He was a wonderful man. He will be missed.

Maritza Torres

May 14, 2015

I am so sorry for your loss. I ran into Paul almost every week while out shopping at Restaurant Depot or Sam's. Can't believe that I will no longer see him there. May god bless your family on these difficult days.

John Zubretsky

May 14, 2015

My best road trip ever with Paulie and Jeff P to Londonderry, laughed so hard I almost made myself sick. One of the nicest, kindest people I've ever known. RIP Paulie, will never forget you!

Viola Carr

May 14, 2015

With deepest sympathy. I remember Paulie well as one of my landscaping customers. So sorry for your loss Sharon.
Viola (Sis)
Al's Power/All Seasons Power Equip.

Barbara

May 14, 2015

Condolences to Paul's family. I only knew him for a short time, but he was a very sweet man. I am so sorry for your loss!

Bobby Rowe

May 14, 2015

My sincere condolences to your family on this tragic loss. My "brother", my friend, you will be missed and forever in my thoughts!

Alex Robles

May 13, 2015

I am so sorry for your loss.
From Alex(A & L Family Oil)

May 13, 2015

To the Vumbaco Family I am very sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you during this difficult time.

Jim Crowley (Quality Draft Service)

JOE BENNETT

May 13, 2015

OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY PAULS FAMILY HE WAS A GREAT GUY NEVER A DULL MOMENT WHEN PAUL WAS AROUND HE WILL BE MISSED

Jose Texidor

May 13, 2015

WE ARE NEVER PREPARED FOR THE LOSS OF A FRIEND AND LOVED ONE, BUT GOD IS ALWAYS PREPARED TO HELP US. THROUGH THAT LOSS. MAY THIS PRESENCE BEGIN THE HEALING IN YOUR HEART AND SOUL, AND MAY HIS LOVE SURROUND YOU WITH THE COMFORT ONLY HE CAN GIVE. WITH MY MOST SINCEREST AND DEEPEST CONDOLENCES FOR YOUR LOSS.

peggy LaLonde

May 13, 2015

My prayers are with all of you.

Kathy Piscitelli

May 13, 2015

Extending my deepest sympathy to the Vumbaco family. I remember Pauly when he was a young boy. We were next door neighbors on Parkview Avenue. I pray you're able to find comfort in the wonderful memories you cherish of him.

Gianna Mongillo

May 13, 2015

Paul brought so many smiles to all. I will remember the nights sitting around while Paul and all his high school boys worked on their cars. To Paul's family praying for peace to bring comfort and courage to face these days ahead.

Kumar Kalapatapu family

May 13, 2015

Sharon and Jo,Alyssa we are so sorry for your loss. May god bless you.

Tony Campione

May 13, 2015

To Paul's Family, extended family & friends: My heart goes out to all of you, I met Paul several years ago as business has brought me to Meriden many times a year. We met through QT and I just spent about two hours speaking with him about three weeks ago. I was shocked at the tragic news, Paul's heart was larger than his stature and I feel a better person for knowing him. Though I won't be able to pay respects in person, please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Mary Richardson

May 13, 2015

I am so very sorry to hear of Paul's Passing he was a great guy and will be missed by so many. God speed my friend till we meet again.

Brett Fournier

May 13, 2015

Paul always gave 100%. Will miss you Bro.

Gregg Atterberry

May 13, 2015

Sharon,
Our Heart and prayers go out to you and your family.
The Atterberry's

May 13, 2015

Pauly, I don't know you personally but have met you. I was intimidated by you at first but after listening to you talk to the group I was with, I wish I got to know you better. We lost a great man but gained a powerful angel. My sympathies to his family and friends. If every person had a soul like Paul the world would be a different place.

May 12, 2015

My deepest sympathy to the family. Paul was a great guy and will be missed by many.

Dawn Cerasale

Dawn Wright

May 12, 2015

Our thoughts and prayers go out to family and friends! We were lucky enough to be one of the many bands that got to play at Quality Time over the years! Paulie was always great to us and he will will be missed! From your friends Dawn, John, Dave & Hank, retired rock band "Ra$oM"

May 12, 2015

Very Very Sad to hear about the loss of my second cousin, Paul. The last several years I have been meaning to get in touch with Paul. Will have to meet up in Heaven some day. I wish the best to all his friends and family who will miss his Vumbacco charm ..Andrew Zigmund (Carmel Vumbacco's grandson)

May 12, 2015

So sorry to hear of the loss of Paul what a great guy!! you will be missed Gerard & Lyn

mila Pedace

May 12, 2015

A man that lived life the way he saw fit. A crazy rider that lived life at full throttle. Rest in peace big man. You will be missed.

Eileen Kopjanski

May 12, 2015

Met Pauly for the first time and only time a few weeks ago. We all spent hours talking about the 80's and sharing stories about what we shananagans we go away with back in High School. I told him he was a "Real kind Soul". I normally wouldn't say this to someone - but I really meant it. Told him my husband hunted and without batting an eye he said "I'll Give him a pass to hunt on my land". With the sincerest condolences and prayers to his Family and Friends. Eileen K - Wallingford, Ct

Lindsey Sears

May 12, 2015

With deepest sympathy. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. May you find peace in the memories.

A Martorelli

May 12, 2015

Our thoughts and prayers are with his family -

The Martorellis'

May 12, 2015

Our sincerest condolences from the Albrycht family. We were good neighbors from Parkview Ave. So sorry to hear about Pauly's passing. Mary Albrycht and Tom Hanchuruck.

Scott and Lori Henderson

May 12, 2015

My sincerest condolences to the Vumbaco family. Paul filled a room with laughter and smiles. He will surely be missed by so many.

M.E Szczygiel

May 12, 2015

Sharon,Joey ,Alissa wishing you strength to sustain you during this difficult time and healing that soothes both mind and spirit

Jacqueline Loving

May 12, 2015

Paulie you are missed.

Your personality, infectious laugh and honesty will live continuously in all of the people that you have touched and especially those closest to you. Your legacy is the memories of all of the great things you have done accompanied by fantastic stories that people will tell and retell. Sometimes the memories will be told with a smile but most stories will be accompanied by a roaring loud continuous laugh. Kind of like yours. All will remember fondly and think..that was Paulie.

With sincere condolences to the Vumbaco family, let the great memories of Paulie and all that he did and affected, comfort you through this very difficult time. Be comforted that he did everything that he wanted to do and lived life to the fullest.

Patty

May 12, 2015

A gem of a human being. You were always taken care of when you were with Pauly. Always laughing, too.

Donna (Baird) Cossette

May 12, 2015

I knew Paul as a teenager when he worked and hung out at Michalak's in Meriden. My sympathy goes out to his entire family. A loss much too soon...

Joe and Lori LaRosa

May 12, 2015

Our deepest sympathy to the family and friends of Paul. We are devastated by his passing.He lived his life to the fullest ,with a big heart and love for all those he cared for.

Joe Zimmitti

May 12, 2015

A lifelong true friend,,always a laugh & story,,We will miss him,,,a special guy... R. I. P.

May 12, 2015

Sharon, our deepest sympathy to you and your family. You're in our thoughts and prayers. Nancy & Ray Anderson

Linda Nachtigal

May 12, 2015

There are no words to say how much you will be missed and how much you touched everyone's life. You were bigger than life, and your energy and your smile can never be replaced. My sincere condolences to Pauly's family.

Jo-Ann Amantea

May 12, 2015

To Sharon and Children our deepest condolences, we were so shocked to hear about Paul's passing, you will be in our prayers.. with sympathy Bob, Jo-Ann and J.R. Amantea

Rose & Amanda Yuris - Pierce

May 12, 2015

we were like family and had many good times together! we could never control our laughter around Paul. Sharon,Alyssa and Joey - you have our heartfelt sympathy and our friendship always.

May 12, 2015

So sorry to hear of your loss. Our deepest sympathy
Neil & Pat Scala

Carmen Chaparro & Wallie Feliciano

May 12, 2015

Our deepest sympathy to the Vumbaco family for your unfortunate loss. Pauly was a great man with a heart of gold. A smile that lit up the room when he was in it. We will surely miss him, our conversation and his genuine ways.
Pauly, you impacted our hearts and lives so you will surely live on! It was an honor to know you.
Rev it up and keep on rocking.
RIP -

Mary Stevens

May 12, 2015

My condolences goes out to Paul's wife and his children and to the rest of the Vumbaco family . Paul was one of a kind truly gentlemen

Lauren Mastropietro

May 12, 2015

You were bigger than life Pauly! Amazing with a huge heart and loved by most. You will be sorely missed. Rest in peace.

Jay & Dianna Wanczyk

May 12, 2015

Please accept our sincere condolences. Paul was a good guy. Our prayers are with you.

NICK CIANCI

May 12, 2015

MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO PAUL'S FAMILY.
I WILL KEEP PAUL & HIS FAMILY IN MY PRAYERS.

NICK CIANCI

Jay Wanczyk

May 12, 2015

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Nancy,John & Joshua Marotta

May 12, 2015

Sharon we are so sorry for your loss. We send our deepest condolences to you and your whole family. May God watch over all of you. Our prayers are with you and your entire family

tina Rogers

May 12, 2015

Sharon I'm so sorry for the loss of ur wonderful husband .

Rozanne Gorley

May 12, 2015

Sharon,
I am so sorry for your tragic loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your extened family.

Laura Buonfiglio

May 12, 2015

Such a tragic loss of such a wonderful, caring, full of life man. Our sincerest and deepest sympathy. He will be deeply missed.

Eric & Laura Buonfiglio

May 12, 2015

My sincere sympathy to you and your family on the loss of Paul, always kind & helpful.

Barbara P. Olschefski

Sammi, Justin & Giovanna Messina

May 12, 2015

Paul was one hell of a man, one of a kind for sure! He will have one heck of a celebration of his life. Taken too youg. He's in good hands. Sending my absolute love and sympathy at this time of need to my Sharpay, Joe, Alyss and the rest of his family. Love you all SO MUCH!

Rob & Michelle Ventrello

May 12, 2015

To Paulie's family, Rob and I send our deepest condolences. Hugs to you all.

Laurie Chesik

May 12, 2015

What a tragic unexpected loss, Paulie had a heart of gold and was a good man to all..God bless as he only takes the best. My Condolences to his family he will be truly missed.

Bob & Doreen Cocchiola

May 12, 2015

Our Condolances to the Vumbaco family.

May 12, 2015

Good friends are hard to come by it was a privilege to have you as my friend
R.I.P Steve Brooks

Susan Rivers Natle

May 12, 2015

So sorry to here about Paul. May god bless you and the entire family.

Bill & Sue Orsine

May 12, 2015

Please accept our sincere condolences. Paul was a good guy. Our prayers are with you.

Dave & Shari Visconti

May 12, 2015

Shocked and saddened by the news of Paul's tragic passing. He had an infectious laugh and great personalty. Our sincere condolences to the entire Vumbaco family. He will truly be missed.

Tracy K

May 12, 2015

Keeping family and friends in prayer...

Peter & Linda Venuti

May 12, 2015

So sorry for your loss.

May 12, 2015

Sharon we are so sorry to hear about your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Rob, Alaine & Ashley Morin

May 12, 2015

Peace, Love, Blessings, BoJangles -
Our thoughts, prayers to the entire Family.
May you have the strength to carry on - channeled thru Paul -
He was Quality Time to all!
Cherish the memories -they are yours forever.
Meet you on the other side Paul!
From the Top of Schwink's Hill

lori mancano

May 12, 2015

My deepest sympathies to your family thanks for the good times at the Athenian diner

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