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Ryan O'Connor Obituary

CHESHIRE - Ryan Joseph O'Connor, 27, beloved son of Dawn (Parker) O'Connor, of Cheshire, and Donald O'Connor, Jr., of Cheshire, passed away suddenly on Saturday, July 15, 2017, from a devastating drug addiction. Ryan was loved by all who knew him.

Ryan was born Aug. 23, 1989, at Yale New Haven Hospital. He was an adorable little boy who at age four was crowned Little Mister Cheshire. He was a boy who liked to dig in the dirt, play with trucks/bulldozers and later as a teenager ride dirt bikes, snowmobiles and motorcycles. Ryan attended Cheshire schools and played for Cheshire Youth Baseball. After school, he became a Cheshire Volunteer Firefighter. At CFD, Ryan was fortunate to meet Steve Casner who was like a big brother and provided years of support to Ryan and his family. He was currently employed by S & R Property Maintenance. Ryan was bright, energetic and did meticulous work. He loved lots of things in life but nothing more than digging in dirt with machines, his many cats (especially Toby and Buttons) and lobster, which he would often make at home to share with his Grammy.

Besides his parents, Ryan is lovingly remembered by his grandmother, Dorothy Parker, of Cheshire; his grandparents, Donald and Laurie O'Connor, of Meriden; his sister, Danielle Powers and brother-in-law, David Powers, of Terryville; his nieces, Zoe and Madison Powers; his aunt and uncle, Kelly and Jim Horton, of Cheshire; his aunt, Michele O'Connor, of Meriden; his uncle, Bruce O'Connor, of East Hampton; his cousins, Matthew O'Connor and Sean Horton; and his WV Family. He was predeceased by his grandfather, Donald Parker, of Cheshire. Ryan is also remembered by his many friends in the Cheshire community, whom always tried to help him.

His family wishes to extend heartfelt love, thanks, and gratitude to Frank, Sheila, Big Man, Mike and Joe Salvatore, Steve Casner, and Rich Pruitt who were all like his second family and meant the world to Ryan. In addition, his family would also like to thank the Cipully, Fabiani, Wallinger, and Walter families.

Ryan's family will receive friends on Thursday, (TODAY), from 4 to 7 p.m. at the Alderson-Ford Funeral Home of Cheshire, 615 S. Main St. with a service of remembrance at 7 p.m. For online condolences, to share a photo or a story, please visit www.fordfh.com. Ryan's family would like all who knew Ryan to remember him for the good-hearted and kind person that he was. Ryan would do anything to help a friend. If you are one of Ryan's friend's struggling with an addiction, please get the help you need now before it is too late.

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Published by The Record-Journal on Jul. 20, 2017.

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Joan Lennon

July 29, 2017

I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful son. I didn't know him but saw this on Facebook and I found your full obituary. He sounds like a great kid. I too lost my grandson Michael Lennon to this monster of addiction as well in nov 2015 He was 27 also. I know the pain you are going through. It's never ending. He was like my own son. He too fought so hard to beat addiction to no avail in the end. Please try to work to help beat this terrible disease.and help remove the stigma associated with it. I am doing that and it helps. I hope Your pain eases with time . He would want you to be happy again. God bless you and your family .

July 20, 2017

Dear family and friends,
Allow me to express my deepest sympathy for the loss of your loved one. God lovingly promises us at Isaiah 57:15 that He will reside with those who are "crushed and lowly in spirit" and revive them. May He comfort you and give you strength during this time of great sorrow.

Broken Hearted

July 19, 2017

To Ryan's Family, My heart is broken for all of you during this very difficult time.Drug addiction is not an easy thing and please accept my sincerest condolences for your loss. I have lost close friends so I do understand the disease & it is very difficult May Ryan Rest Peacefully in Paradise God Bless you All❤

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