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Steven Belanger Obituary

OLD SAYBROOK - Steven R. Belanger, 51 of Old Saybrook, died unexpectedly Saturday, Feb. 13, 2010, while visiting with his father in Zephyrhills, Fla.

He was born in Meriden, Jan. 23, 1959, the son of Joseph P. Belanger and the late Wendy A. (Clarke) Belanger formerly of South Meriden.

Steven was an outstanding athlete. He was nominated as the distinguished athlete of the year for Babe Ruth International in 1974. He continued his athletic career at Platt High School in Meriden, where he played varsity baseball and football. Upon graduation from Platt High in 1977, he went on to serve his country by joining the U.S. Marine Corps and serving nearly seven years. He worked ground radio repair and went on to become a Cryptologistics Specialist. Following that he became a Marine Water Safety Survival Instructor and participated with the Multi-National Peacekeeping Force and the 22nd Marine Amphibious Force in Beirut, Lebanon. After receiving his honorable discharge from the Marines, he worked for Belanger Tree Removal and Walbro Manufacturing.

In addition to his father, Steven, he is survived by a son, Eric S. Belanger, of Meriden; brother, Wayne Belanger, of Berlin; sister, Lisa Gradzewicz, of Old Saybrook; sister, Renee Gentile and her husband, David, of Wolcott. He is the uncle to Wendy Bowden, Megan and Joseph Gradzewicz, of Old Saybrook; Matthew and Sara Fahey, of Wolcott, Mary and Joshua Belanger,of Berlin; and stepfather to Bradford and Brittney Bateman, of Florida. He also left many cousins and friends. He was preceded in death by his mother, Wendy A (Clarke) Belanger; his brother, Keven Phillip Belanger; and his sister, Bonni Ann Belanger.

A memorial service will be held at The First Assembly of God at 601 Paddock Ave., Meriden, on Saturday, Feb. 27, at 10 a.m., immediately followed by a military burial at Sacred Heart Cemetery, 250 Gypsy Lane in Meriden. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the building fund of Valley Shore Assembly of God, 36 Great Hammock Road, Old Saybrook, 06475.

His heart was with the Lord. He was a gentle soul, loving father, brother, and uncle, and will be missed by all.

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Published by The Record-Journal on Feb. 25, 2010.

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Kim White

February 19, 2020

Steven was by far the best friend I ever had and still miss him just as much even after 10 years. I loved Steven like a brother and I was actually closer to him than my own siblings. He was a big strong guy but as good, kind and gentle a person as you'll ever find who was always there for his friends. The world was a better place with Steve in it. God bless you my friend. Hopefully we'll be together again someday.

Kim White

February 14, 2019

Steven was the best friend anyone could ever have. To say I still think about him is an understatement. He was the kind of friend that only comes along once in a lifetime, not just to me, but most people who got to know him. I miss you buddy.

Sue DiNino-Moreschi

March 3, 2010

My thoughts and prayers to the Belanger family. Steven rest in peace..........Holy Angels classmate. Sue DiNino-Moreschi

Steve O.

March 2, 2010

Semper Fi Steven. May the Lord be with you.

February 27, 2010

To the Belanger family, our thoughts and prayers are with you.Good times from cutting wood to the baseball diamond are priceless.Mr.Belanger thank you very much for treating us like one of your own whenever we were around. Deep Sympathy Mike Powers [two sixes]

R & A Nunez

February 26, 2010

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Wayne Little

February 26, 2010

Steven was someone i consindered a life long friend since we met in high school.WE had way to many good times to mention but the memories will always bring a smile to my face.Steven would always be there for you and to lend a hand and count on him to be there , always with tha Belanger laugh and smile.I got to see steven recently and spent time with him and Joe B and had some laughs for a while.It was GREAT,little did i know it i would be the last time i would see him.I have known the Belangers 36 years and consider THEM family.MY thoughts are with them and unfortunately my flight in was cancelled.Steven was a great guy and anyone that met him would agree.I know for sure they will remember that Belanger laugh.Steven is gone but our good times and memories will LIVE FOREVER.THANKS BUDDY

Lisa Gradzewicz

February 26, 2010

Steven, You were a rock as a brother.You held me up when it was needed. You stood by my side through the trials that god puts us through. I say you were one of his vessels that spreads the( WORD) LOVE Thanks for the last few years of love that you have broght into our home.
Your Sis Lisa

Karen (Femia) Zeiser

February 24, 2010

To the Belanger Family,
My deepest sympathy for your loss. I knew Steven from Holy Angels days and all through our school years. He was always a gentleman and I am saddened to hear of his passing.

John Shean

February 21, 2010

In the many years working with Steve he always found away to make you laugh. A big gentle giant with a heart of gold,I don't remember him ever talking bad about anyone,just an easy going guy.I will miss and always remember him as one of the bright spots in life.

KAREN ELROD WILLIAMS lutzpatriots.com

February 21, 2010

THE LUTZ PATRIOTS OF LUTZ, FLORIDA SEND OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHIES IN THE LOSS OF STEVEN BELANGER. EVERY FRIDAY IN OUR HOMETOWN, WE WAVE AMERICAN FLAGS TO HONOR SUCH HEROES. HIS SERVICE TO OUR COUNTRY WILL BE APPRECIATED FOREVER.

Kim White

February 20, 2010

Steven was the best friend anyone could ever wish for and I feel so lucky to be able to say he was and always will be my best friend.

We were always there for each other, no matter what.

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