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Michael LaClair Obituary

LACLAIR, MICHAEL P. Michael P. LaClair, age 49 of Ivoryton entered into eternal rest on June 19, 2013. Born in Milford, CT, Nov. 21, 1963. He was a very outgoing, joke telling life of the party person. He loved working and crafting things with his hands. He is survived by his wife Patricia Sepega LaClair, son Alan LaClair, daughters, Bambi Messina, Krista LaClair, 3 grandchildren Abriana, Jovie and Emilyn. His mother Jean Swan and stepfather Fred Swan, brother Richard LaClair, sisters Gloria Donowski and husband James, Jacqueline Gray and husband Gary, 3 stepdaughters, Carissa, Paige and Taylor Kerpin, several nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by son Michael P. LaClair Jr., father Francis LaClair, sisters Charlene Goding, Sandra Myers and brother Alan LaClair. Also survived by in-laws Tyrone and Linda Sepega and brother-in-law John Sepega Jr. No calling hours. Service to be held Wednesday at 11 am at Kings Highway Cemetery, 3 Gulf St.

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Published by The New Haven Register from Jun. 24 to Jun. 25, 2013.

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Jackie Gray

June 25, 2020

Thinking of you a lot bro I miss u a lot now sry to say our bro rick passed away hope you both meet each other up there love and miss u both sis jackie

trisha laclair

June 18, 2014

Not looking forward to tomorrow I love u baby always and forever 6297 xxoo

trisha laclair

June 16, 2014

I love and miss u always and forever 6297

trisha laclair

June 15, 2014

Michael Michael Michael. Baby I try my hardest to go forth w/ my life and try to pretend everythings fine but I'm dying inside i miss u and the love we had Im really how much I can take I'm trying to mix the cement to rebuilding my life but w/ all the tears the cement wont harden I love u baby always and Forever 6297

trisha laclair

June 13, 2014

Love u always and forever

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June 10, 2014

Love u baby always and forever 6297 xxoo

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June 9, 2014

Baby I love and miss u and not sure why my post my posts r not being published I love and miss u always and forever 6297 xxoo

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June 6, 2014

I love u baby always and forever 6297

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June 5, 2014

Love and miss u always and forever 6297 xxoo

trisha laclair

June 4, 2014

Michael why did u have to leave I miss u so much.. its so hard getting through this we've always hurled all our obsticles and now I can't pass the start line I love u always and forever 6297 xxoo

trisha laclair

June 3, 2014

I love u baby and miss u so much!

trisha laclair

June 2, 2014

Love ya baby always and forever

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June 1, 2014

Love and miss u always and forever 6297 xxoo

trisha laclair

May 30, 2014

I love u baby always and forever 6297 xxoo

trisha laclair

May 28, 2014

I love u!!!

trisha laclair

May 28, 2014

Good morning love I wrote to u yesterday but once again not published... I love and miss u baby always and forever 6297

trisha laclair

May 27, 2014

Hello my love went to cemetery today I love and miss u always and forever 6297 xxoo

trisha laclair

May 26, 2014

Happy memorial day my love
...love and miss u always and forever 6297.

Btw our # came out!!!

trisha laclair

May 25, 2014

Hello my love...another day has passed and getting closer to ur 1 yr... even though it seems as forever it feels like yesterday I miss u so much and love u always and forever 6297 xxoo

trisha laclair

May 24, 2014

Hello my love I miss u so much I love u sweets always and forever 6297 xxoo

trisha laclair

May 23, 2014

Hello my love...had a wonderful visit w/ ur mom today gave her mothers day cards yes taking after I was late... I truly amazes how much u rubbed off on ...I love and miss u so much... I'm on the train and heading back to Essex I love u baby always and forever 6297 xxoo

trisha laclair

May 22, 2014

Morning baby rainy day and would love nothing more than to b snuggled up w/ u and bubs..I love and miss u so much always and forever 6297

trisha laclair

May 21, 2014

I love u always and forever 6297 xxoo

trisha laclair

May 20, 2014

I love u baby always and forever 6297

trisha laclair

May 19, 2014

I love and miss u baby always and forever 6297 xxoo

trisha laclair

May 19, 2014

Hello my love canyon believe its already 11mo. And I'm loosing my mind I miss u and us so much. I opened ur raw the other day and it smell came blasting out at me I lobe u baby always and forever 6297

trisha laclair

May 18, 2014

I love u baby always and forever 6297 xxoo

trisha laclair

May 16, 2014

Hello my love I love and miss u like crazy always and forever 6297

trisha laclair

May 15, 2014

Hello my love well got taxes Paid yesterday now need to get parts and register and insurance everything needs to b done in steps any way love and miss u always and forever 6297 xxoo

trisha laclair

May 13, 2014

Hello my love weather is getting warmer and closer to ur 1 yr. I miss u so much when is the hurting going to stop.I am existing in life but not living. I love u so much.. always and forever 6297 xxoo

trisha laclair

May 12, 2014

Baby I love and miss u so much!!! Always and FOREVER 6296 xxoo

trisha laclair

May 9, 2014

Sorry baby for skipping yesterday I was in a car accident I'm so upset but still love and miss u always and forever 6297

trisha laclair

May 6, 2014

Hello my love I miss u so much always and forever 6297 xxoo

trisha laclair

May 5, 2014

Baby I have to believe u gave me the sign last night that it is time for me to start healing and move on o the next chapter I no it is not going b easy but seeing the double rainbow last night has to b u I talked to u all day long and prayed for peace and that's when u wind blew so hard that scared bubs and when I looked out there it was a beautiful rainbow so I ran outside and there was 2 the only time I ever seen that was with u... I love u baby always and forever 6297

trisha laclair

May 4, 2014

Hello my love I miss u sooo much always and forever 6297

trisha laclair

May 3, 2014

Hello my love I love and miss u so much always and forever 6297 xxoo

trisha laclair

April 30, 2014

Hello my Love I love and miss u so much always and forever 6297 xxoo

trisha laclair

April 29, 2014

Gooodmorning my love on my way to take place ment test I scrared pleas e give me peace I love u baby always and forever 6297

trisha laclair

April 26, 2014

Good morning my love... really trying to understand what god plan was to take u away I'm on a website for cancer survivors and caregivers and the suffering on both parts and just am so sad for both I'm going to look into a fundraiser for cancer. And if all works out it will b June 19 th... I love u and miss u so much always and forever 6297 xxoo

trisha laclair

April 25, 2014

I love u baby always and forever 6297 xxoo

trisha laclair

April 24, 2014

Hello my Love oh how I miss u soooo much.been down in the dumps again trying my hardest to enjoy life again but it tough I want to hold u and kiss u and listen to u calling me smooothy or kool-aide... my heart is so lost and empty but thankful for macho.. spending a lot of time w/ Carissa hopefully she will give me a grand baby! Someday .. anyway I love and miss u always and forever 6297 xxoo

trisha laclair

April 23, 2014

Hello my love well car is all set now I want to sell it and get car it cost too much for gas any way baby love and miss u always and forever 6297 xxoo

trisha laclair

April 21, 2014

Hello my love waiting on tow truck to have explorer worked on. Had a nice time yesterday girls gave me a guilt trip so I went I love and miss u so much baby still have tough times w/ accepting ur gone I love u always and forever 6297

trisha laclair

April 20, 2014

Happy Easter my love.. this was our last holiday together..I miss u so much.. I love u always and forever 6297 xxoo

trisha laclair

April 19, 2014

Hello my love... its a very rough day and tomorrow even more tough... I love and miss u so much always and forever 6297

trisha laclair

April 18, 2014

Hello my love!!! I love and miss u always and forever

trisha laclair

April 17, 2014

Thank u baby for such a beautiful day... it was a sad day especially u being close to us but presence was with all all .I love ya baby always and forever 6297

trisha laclair

April 16, 2014

I love u baby please watch over us tomorrow as we lay Fred to rest.. I love and miss u always and forever 6297

trisha laclair

April 15, 2014

Love ya baby and please don't give Fred a hard time... I love and miss u always and forever 6297

trisha laclair

April 14, 2014

I love u mr.... always and forever 6297 xxoo

trisha laclair

April 14, 2014

Hello my love spent time w/ your mom sat had real nice visit and felt so sad for her going to spend time w/ her..
Funeral is thurs . Its gonna a rough day... having Easter w Carissa and Paige... gonna make scallops wrapped in bacon.. shrimp cocktail.. and of course the deviled eggs... so proud of the girls anyway I love and miss u so much always and forever 6297 xxoo

trisha laclair

April 13, 2014

Hello my love I just post yesterday didn't get published so once again I have watch what I say so I'm better off just saying I love and miss u always and forever 6297 xxoo

trisha laclair

April 11, 2014

Hello My Love going to ur moms tomorrow to help her w/ cleaning. Trying to keep my mind busy as I've been very sad Fred has passed and will b joining u soon don't give a hard time...lol any way love and miss u soooo much always and forever

trisha laclair

April 10, 2014

Hello my love have a terrible headache today so bad that my vision is blury!! I no its just stress and worried. I need u so much I love u baby always and forever 6297

trisha laclair

April 8, 2014

Hello my love I will keep it short and sweet I love u baby so much I miss u and I miss our lil' family bubs misses u too! But he still knows who his daddy is I've got the portrait on the wall and he stares at it from time to time anyway at eye dr w/ mom so I gotta go I love u always and forever 6297

trisha laclair

April 7, 2014

Yes baby I'm blowing up ur obituary by texting u million times but I love and miss u so much.....always and forever 6297 xxoo

trisha laclair

April 7, 2014

Hello my love been a rough wknd missing u but made it through It I just c u one more time life is so unfair someday we meet again until then I will cherish our memories I love u baby always and forever

trisha laclair

April 6, 2014

I love u baby always and forever 6297

trisha laclair

April 4, 2014

My love having a hard day in a lot of pain from toothe getting pulled and sad cause of it passing oh baby I miss u so much and think bout u 24/7 I love and miss u always and forever 6297<3 xxoo

trisha laclair

April 3, 2014

Hello my love I miss u! Xxoo 6297

trisha laclair

April 2, 2014

Hey babe I had a bad night sleeping I have a toothe ache and let me tell ya it hurts bad I'm tired and can't get in to dentist till Monday oh baby I need arms wrapping around me squeezing me tight I love and miss u always and forever 6297 xxoo

trisha laclair

April 1, 2014

Hello my love a nice quite night home spent time w/ Paige moms at bible study having dinner w/ ur mom Thursday gonna order from stowes mmmm wish u here to join us but god had other plans getting so excited bout school hopefully everything as planned I love and miss u so much always and forever 6297 xxoo

trisha laclair

March 31, 2014

Good night my Love I miss ur snuggles still think I'm living in a nightmare but in a month I will b starting school so excited I love u baby and miss u always and forever 6297 xxoo

trisha laclair

March 31, 2014

Hello my love its a cold day actually snow in the am yuk... spending the night at ur mom Thursday I wanted to take her to dinner but rather order in either spending time will b a treat can't wait... lyns dad is doing great he got the new kidney and coming tomorrow finally some good news April 18 I'm signing up for GED yea FINALLY gonna do it and then taken a course at Middlesex community college I'm taking the right steps baby any way I love and miss u always and forever 6297 xxoo

trisha laclair

March 30, 2014

Oh baby baby baby I love u and miss u soooo much....

trisha laclair

March 29, 2014

Hello my love been texting u for days... but once again not being have to really watch what I say I love u baby always and forever 6297 xxoo

trisha laclair

March 26, 2014

I love u baby always and forever 6297

trisha laclair

March 24, 2014

Hello my love another day of loving and missing u always and forever 6297

trisha laclair

March 23, 2014

Good night my love... I love u always and forever 6297 xxoo

trisha laclair

March 23, 2014

Hello My Love been doing a lot of thinking and crying hate the fact that I no longer have my best friend and lover the days r getting longer and times is as well I miss u so much I love baby and only u always and forever 6297

trisha laclair

March 22, 2014

Good morning my love I just want u to no I love and miss u soon much always and forever 6297

trisha laclair

March 21, 2014

Goodmorningmy love today's a difficult day its marks Mikeys 2 yr mark love u always and forever 6297<3

trisha laclair

March 20, 2014

Hello lover good news I got the truck fixed yea work tomorrow yuk yuk then going to stop and c mom and Fred so far so good Lyns cuz billy passed yesterday I feel real bad cause her family is starting to go through what ours has mikeys 2 yr mark is tomorrow spoke to Alan today going to send him to norwalk a big load any way love and miss u always and forever 6297

trisha laclair

March 19, 2014

Michael my love it seems as though I can't write what I really feel so I sit at that rock where the butterfly is and talk to ya I miss u and can't believe u r gone why did god let this happen to us I love ya baby always and forever <3 6297

trisha laclair

March 18, 2014

Baby I love 2 nd time of writing to u I guess I wrote to much <3 6297 always and forever

trisha laclair

March 17, 2014

<3 6297 always and forever

trisha laclair

March 17, 2014

Good morning My Love...will u please stop w/the damn chimes they wouldn't stop all night long I've been awake since 1:14 am and I am tired.. ur making me crazy and I no u enjoy it cause that's name of mikeys horse a lot is going on.. baby I love and miss u so much and feel like a broken record please gives some peace so I can sleep and enjoy again me and u ..u and me that's the way it will always b.. <36297

trisha laclair

March 16, 2014

Well hello my love first I want to say ur doing this purpose so u don't have to hear it ur being 1 way mike...lol. today has been very sad today as 1 yr ago was basically the last time we went out we were w/ art and lyn and remember I tattooed my self I have the pics in the rm and immediatelyi remembered anyway I will stop before I drowned in tears its amazing I haven't already I love and miss so much always and forever <3. I will skip the bad news for now <3<3<3 u me and bubbys

trisha laclair

March 14, 2014

Hello lover still stuck in bed hopefully I will b able to work next wk need to get ball joints fixed johnny is doing for me and then need to pay phone bill it seems that every dime is spent before Iget it I love and miss u so much u have the portrait diane drew on the at the end of the bed and all pictures r throughout the rm it still very hard accepting ur passing any way I love and miss u always and forever <3

trisha laclair

March 13, 2014

Hello my love I love and miss u always and forever <3

trisha laclair

March 12, 2014

Hello my love Ricky texted me and 12 11 came out but he didn't play it I'm still stuck in bed Friday getting truck fixed any way I love and miss u always and forever <36297

trisha laclair

March 11, 2014

Woohoo 2 days in a row I was able to text u I pray that I have no more problems cause a want to renew another yr I love u so much baby the weathers getting warm can't wait..stuck in bed for the wk I sprained my back ouch it hurts and very uncomfortable I love u always and forever <3 6297

trisha laclair

March 11, 2014

Hello my love at the dr and she taking forever just wanted to let u no I love u so much<36297

trisha laclair

March 11, 2014

Hello my love at the dr and she taking forever just wanted to let u no I love u so much<36297

trisha laclair

March 10, 2014

Well hello my love I've been having problems with texting u and after seriously thinking I've decided not to renew another yr I write to u everyday but post don't show up I'm not sure why any way I love and moss u sooooomuch

trisha laclair

March 4, 2014

I love and miss u so much I love u always and forever <3

trisha laclair

March 3, 2014

Hello my love not much to say today except go easy on those chimes kept me up all night I love and miss you so much love u forever and ever <3

trisha laclair

March 2, 2014

On baby how I love and miss uso much bubbys wouldn't come into the bed room at first but he OK now we Dodge a big storm thank god any way love and miss u

JEAN SWAN

February 28, 2014

THINKING OF YOU EVERY DAY.LOVE MOM

trisha laclair

February 28, 2014

Hi baby love and miss u always and forever <36297

trisha laclair

February 27, 2014

Hello my love I'm having those problems again w/ postings I'm back at moms I love and miss u so much always and forever 6297<3

trisha laclair

February 22, 2014

Hello my love u r my sunshine I love and miss u so much always and forever 6297<3

trisha laclair

February 21, 2014

Hello my love I'm so excited to b moving back home yeh! Went to cemetery yesterday went to cemetery but so sad cause I couldn't find u I lost and miss u so much always and forever 6297

trisha laclair

February 20, 2014

Hello my love<3

trisha laclair

February 18, 2014

Hello My Love another snow storm yuk! Still trying to quit smoking but having a difficult time with that as well gosh I just miss u so much and can't believe tomorrow is already 8 months where the time gone I love u and have decided that I am not going to date nobody will fill ur shoes and wouldn't feel right bout it I love u always and forever 6297 <3

JEAN SWAN

February 17, 2014

HI MICHAEL,TRISH WAS HAVING TROUBLE WRITING TO YOU BUT I NOTICED SHE WROTE YOU TODAY AND IT WENT THRU.I MISS YOU SO MUCH,I HOPE ALL IS WELL IN HEAVEN AND YOU HAVE SEEN THE REST OF YOUR FAMILY.THE WEATHER HERE HAS BEEN TERRIBLE,ALOT OF SNOW BUT I WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT YOUR FRIEND ART IS TAKING CARE OF US AND SHOVELING EVERY TIME IT SNOWS.HE IS A GREAT GUY.LOVE YOU,MOM

trisha laclair

February 17, 2014

Hi baby...<3 finally I've been writing for days I love and miss u always and forever 6297

trisha laclair

February 17, 2014

Babe not sure what's going on but I'm writing to u and still not posting why? I love and miss u always and forever 6297@<3

trisha laclair

February 12, 2014

Hi baby I'm getting a little pissed off for the fact that I text u everyday sometimes more than twice and they r not posting them baby I love and miss u soooooo much 6297<3

trisha laclair

February 11, 2014

Really don't no whats going on when writing to u but hasn't been posted and I'm getting pissed anyway I love u and miss u always and forever 6297<3

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